Finch & Violet - Before you go

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  • čas přidán 29. 02. 2020
  • Movie: All the bright places (Netflix movie 2020)
    Song: Lewis Capaldi - Before you go
    note:
    thanks for watching, im not a video editor but i felt the song matched the movie perfectly so i had to give it a try. Remember to say i love you to your loved ones (:
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  • @Puhdge
    @Puhdge  Před 2 lety +397

    We maxed out the first one, so let's make another one! Hope you are all doing good and had an amazing summer!

    • @khashie0531
      @khashie0531 Před 2 lety +20

      In last July. I lost my grandma and i broke up with my gf. Of course its the hardest time in my life. But the feeling is not bad. They gave me happiness and love. That's important thing. Thanks for reading. Wish you all good things❤

    • @syabbantv8294
      @syabbantv8294 Před 2 lety +4

      This movie so amazing

    • @DTAFIATAHIR
      @DTAFIATAHIR Před 2 lety +5

      i dont know , i'm confused.

    • @brandonhamusten
      @brandonhamusten Před 2 lety +4

      I'm in the same position as the song..

    • @syabbantv8294
      @syabbantv8294 Před 2 lety +1

      @@brandonhamusten bro..I hear u

  • @keyy1814
    @keyy1814 Před 4 lety +9421

    "He was busy fixing me that he forgot to fix himself" that pains me a lot.

    • @katiekenworthy548
      @katiekenworthy548 Před 4 lety +97

      This breaks my heart.

    • @lalvenhim4292
      @lalvenhim4292 Před 4 lety +22

      When did she said? I didn't find in the movie

    • @keyy1814
      @keyy1814 Před 4 lety +154

      It is not actually what voilet said. You won't find it in the movie. It's a quote that I found on pinterest before, "She was too busy fixing others to notice she was the one coming undone." and then I remembered violet saying, "He saved my life, why can't I save his" because it's obviously too late. When I saw this fmv I thought it applies, and the message is there generally, so I quoted it in violet's fov. Sorry to confuse ya'll.

    • @lalvenhim4292
      @lalvenhim4292 Před 4 lety +7

      @@keyy1814 thank you

    • @thanaarpaphabutla5556
      @thanaarpaphabutla5556 Před 4 lety +9

      @@lalvenhim4292 it's in the book

  • @malsawmtluangakh7444
    @malsawmtluangakh7444 Před 4 lety +4623

    " You don't have to climb a mountain to stand on top of the world ". A quote I really like from this Movie .

  • @am13007
    @am13007 Před 3 lety +883

    In the cover of the book, it says "The story of a girl who learns to live from a boy who wants to die". Reread the book again today. Breaks my heart every single time. Fitting song.

    • @chiraag237
      @chiraag237 Před 2 lety +4

      i know right, the book is so good, it always tears me up.

    • @slyther8824
      @slyther8824 Před 2 lety +1

      @@chiraag237 book name pls

    • @chiraag237
      @chiraag237 Před 2 lety

      @Slyther same as the movie "All the bright places".

    • @dayner3574
      @dayner3574 Před 2 lety

      Hey, I hope you are doing good, I don’t know you but I wanted to let you know that God loves you a lot and despite everything that’s going on he has a plan for your life, please look for him and follow the guidance of the Bible so you can be saved while there’s still time. God wants to save you so please don’t hesitate to trust him, if you do he will fight all of your battles with you and he will walk by your side all the days of your life, so please look for him and follow his word (the Bible) while there is still time❤️
      If possible please share with your family, friends, loved ones and others including the people on this video, it might not seem like it but some people feel alone and hopeless, God has a hope and a purpose for everyone, and he can save someone by you just sharing this with them, so please do me and that person a favor and share this with them. Thank you for reading and take care, God bless you and your loved ones always.

    • @fadwa6126
      @fadwa6126 Před 2 lety

      @sheez.here2

  • @_kubi_bubi_8912
    @_kubi_bubi_8912 Před 3 lety +410

    Thank you school, for
    -depression
    -anxiety
    -bullies
    -fake friends
    -heartbreaks
    -making my parents scream at me for my grades
    -making me feel like absolute trash when I get bad grades
    -absolutely ruining my life

    • @Puhdge
      @Puhdge  Před 3 lety +25

      It will get better ❤️

    • @gioramirez5839
      @gioramirez5839 Před 3 lety +6

      hey you got this dont give up. i believe in you

    • @karinasm51820
      @karinasm51820 Před 3 lety +3

      hey, there’s always something worth living for, you’ll find it eventually 🤍

    • @razciel7797
      @razciel7797 Před 3 lety +1

      also litteraly getting my life saving phone from me just to focus on school

    • @user-sn5cr9qv5t
      @user-sn5cr9qv5t Před 3 lety +9

      It's not the school 😔it's the people in the school 🥺

  • @amayahernandezzz752
    @amayahernandezzz752 Před 4 lety +6851

    Don’t u ever just listen to sad music because it makes u feel better?

    • @shashant8807
      @shashant8807 Před 4 lety +117

      Just b'coz songs bring back memories....& Memories bring back memories ❤️

    • @stevenvasquez326
      @stevenvasquez326 Před 4 lety +15

      Totally

    • @umiurmilah2362
      @umiurmilah2362 Před 4 lety +16

      Oh yeah sure

    • @nora-ro
      @nora-ro Před 4 lety +36

      yesssss, it makes me feel understood and less lonely

    • @allymoore8804
      @allymoore8804 Před 4 lety +78

      I listen to sad music to make myself more sad😌

  • @karlaesperanza8590
    @karlaesperanza8590 Před 4 lety +4134

    He made her a better and happier person, he healed all the pain she went through by losing someone she loved so much just to put her through that pain all over again

    • @Lex-qv5sv
      @Lex-qv5sv Před 4 lety +260

      Yeah but she was still a changed person at the end.

    • @RishabBanotra
      @RishabBanotra Před 4 lety +95

      I tried this once
      Result: she took me for granted and cheated on me 😶

    • @johnnysood3997
      @johnnysood3997 Před 4 lety +32

      this is how life just keep going.

    • @nicu4765
      @nicu4765 Před 4 lety +18

      @@RishabBanotra result: lost feelings and decided to break up
      life is fantastic (not)

    • @rohitrathor5273
      @rohitrathor5273 Před 4 lety +4

      Morgan Lively in this movie?

  • @etcher-lf6972
    @etcher-lf6972 Před 2 lety +218

    We don’t remember days, we remember moments ✨
    Thank you Finch ❤️

  • @amaniamani4497
    @amaniamani4497 Před 3 lety +98

    "If you cannot say the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about others" this movie was just gorgeous

  • @yashartha
    @yashartha Před 4 lety +4055

    I don't know why people always define love as sex. Love is so many things but sex is not one of them... Love is a spiritual connection.

    • @cheerio4742
      @cheerio4742 Před 4 lety +62

      spiritual my ass

    • @mishqahdavids4123
      @mishqahdavids4123 Před 4 lety +20

      Yes it is

    • @eshaanasingh8757
      @eshaanasingh8757 Před 4 lety +23

      @@cheerio4742 ....

    • @rosegrant7897
      @rosegrant7897 Před 4 lety +32

      When you meet your Soulmate Making Love is so amazing & Love is a Spiritual Connection! 🙋‍♀️💏👫❤

    • @cheerio4742
      @cheerio4742 Před 4 lety +17

      @@rosegrant7897 awwee.. how innocent and young and...
      DUMB

  • @nene1951
    @nene1951 Před 4 lety +1148

    This song really fits them ...how finch helped her get out of her shell but no one realised he needed help until it was too late

    • @akitanoponta8421
      @akitanoponta8421 Před 3 lety +8

      Fix you by coldplay also fits them

    • @ronaldolzheim363
      @ronaldolzheim363 Před 2 lety +2

      @@akitanoponta8421 agree. i just watched some music from avicii and i just feel like we could use some more kindness.

  • @KeyboardMonstered
    @KeyboardMonstered Před 3 lety +302

    Fitch didn't really die, he just went to the other side of the river.

  • @readerscide
    @readerscide Před 2 lety +13

    "there are bright places, even in dark times, and if there isn't, *you can be that bright place* ."

  • @AlinuTZu_Decean
    @AlinuTZu_Decean Před 3 lety +2453

    *Lesson learned today* I'm a boy, and I went throught this, and this movie is the only movie I cried at, after Titanic, out of 100 movies.
    I rewatched this movie 3 times already and I just realise how many signs Finch showed that he was the real depressive, in this movie.
    "Because she smiled at me" - when he wrote on paper and puted it on wall, I wondered why did he wrote "Because". I realised now : "I'm not killing myself YET, because she smiled at me".
    That's heartbreaking. I just thought he just did some dramatic "scuba" in his bathroom. He tried to see how much can he resist underwater, then tried again in the lake. And how it really feels. When he scared Violet.
    At the end, his sister breaks his heart by calling his dad a shitty person who can't be changed and made him feel that he doesn't matter, cause Finch thought he was messy too, like his dad.
    He said to Violet "My sister is all I have". His sister breaking his heart was his awakeness..
    When Violet said "I was here", and Finch told ther he would steal this quote for him, that was a sign. A sign he wouldn't be there much time.
    In the group consiliation when Amanda said she wanted to kill herself twice you can see his face. He looked amazed, he was going through same thing.
    The saddest part is, his friends didn't know it. They thought it was only a dark mood. Finch always hesitated to be called "weird" (when he watched Violet at the table at school), cause it was heartbreaking for him. In reality, Finch didn't trust them and didn't take them as friends as they thought.
    And many more.
    Amanda asking him "Aren't you tired of people talking about you?". Like, that sounded so mean somehow. When you're depressed, you can understand this as a "Go do it already. Why are you even trying. Aren't you tired?".
    *Love the people around you, no matter what. You know your people. Act when something is going on there, don't stop when they tell you. Love. Love them even if you're homies, besties, stop the gay shit or shamy things etc. Be there for everyone. Make them really think they're not alone*

    • @bhanemmi
      @bhanemmi Před 3 lety +29

      AlinuTZu Decean this was rlllllyyy thoughtful❤️

    • @niamandadani7260
      @niamandadani7260 Před 3 lety +50

      I love what you have written it's so deep you know it is amazing to understand what ppl feel

    • @AlinuTZu_Decean
      @AlinuTZu_Decean Před 3 lety +10

      Thank you❤

    • @niamandadani7260
      @niamandadani7260 Před 3 lety +5

      @@AlinuTZu_Decean you welcome ❤

    • @jemish2101
      @jemish2101 Před 3 lety +65

      You know what happened to me after I watched this movie for the very first time. I felt some kind of vibration inside me. I turned off my laptop and started walking. I came out of my house and started cycling. And later, I ride and ride for a few miles. I smiled and cried at the moment. I felt so surreal that it is hard to put into words. And later, I called my friend who suggested me to watch this movie. I called her and asked if we could meet for a moment. She said yes, and I held my emotions for a few minutes inside me. I still remember very clearly, I was on a bicycle, outside of the cafe, waiting for her. She came, and we went inside the cafe, and I just burst out. I cried like an idiot. The only thing that affected me the most was Finch knew when Violet had her tough time, and he supported her and made her understood as well that things happen, and this is your time. I would help you and you gotta stand by me when I may be going through the same. He was going through all the time, and in the end, he didn't have one. I cried and cried over the last poem.
      How we find things so simple sometimes. All we need to do as humans is to love and support each other. And that work is not at all hard. You gotta listen to them, listen to everyone, and the ones who need to be heard, to be seen. We, as generations, are getting more mature and more lonely sometimes. As you said, you know your people, and you gotta be with them. I have found my people, and I am gonna stick to them in thin and thick.
      Love and Happiness!

  • @dxniel8829
    @dxniel8829 Před 4 lety +758

    "we do not remember days, we remember moments" 💔

  • @lily-eg5xg
    @lily-eg5xg Před 3 lety +139

    today, i found this unexpectedly
    5 years ago, i found all the bright places in a thrift bookstore, i bought it
    4 years ago, i met the guy who i never thought would change my life forever
    3 years ago, we became a couple
    2 years ago, he committed suicide and died.
    1 year ago, as i was decluttering my things, i saw this book and realized i never touched it after i bought it, so after weeks of thinking if i'm ready to read it, i finally did
    all the bright places is one of the story i would never forget. it will always have a place in my heart because I never related to a novel this much. It's like the book speaks our story-him and me. there's just so much similarities. here's some.
    1. Finch was really tall. He was.
    2. Finch had bipolar disorder. I have.
    3. Finch runs. I walk.
    4. They both like Virginia Woolf. I love Woolf.
    5. Finch was smart. He was also.
    6. Violet loves to write. I do too.
    7. Finch was called freak. I was called weird.
    8. Finch relax on bath tub. I- under shower.
    9. Finch always had facts and trivia. He had facts and trivia too.
    10. Finch painted his bedroom blue. I did too.
    11. Finch had a long scar in his abdomen. He had one in his arm.
    12. Finch had a safe place-in his closet. I-under my table.
    13. Violet gave Finch a book as a birthday present. I gave him one too.
    14. Finch almost always planned their trips. I did to.
    15. Before Finch died, he and Violet we're together to celebrate his birthday. We were too before he died.
    16. Finch went missing before he drowned himself in a lake. That's what i've been planning even before i knew this book.
    17. Like Violet, I learned to live from a boy who wants to die and died.

  • @onix2977
    @onix2977 Před 3 lety +37

    "you are all the colors in one, at full brightness"

  • @AbdulHadi-fd1uj
    @AbdulHadi-fd1uj Před 4 lety +446

    "Because she smiled at me"💛💛💛

  • @AmberKateD1995
    @AmberKateD1995 Před 4 lety +1139

    This movie hit me in the most emotional way. I lost a friend to suicide a few days after watching this, then found a bookmark he had signed while we were in high school that said he “was here”. Then last week, I lost another friend the same exact way, and we are still finding his “I was Here” marks. Whether it be in the video games he played with my husband and other friends, or messages he sent. Both of them left such a big mark on this world... I just wish they would’ve realized that before they decided to leave it.

  • @damoclesdpb1468
    @damoclesdpb1468 Před 2 lety +143

    Okay random stranger on the internet... My story time for whoever wants to listen.
    Back in 2018 I fell in love with a girl. She matched me evenly and I honestly thought we won't ever change or ever grew apart. ATBP was her favourite book of all time (Besides Harry Potter of course), and we both associated with a lot of characteristics from Violet and Finch. ATBP became our little secret. The part of us that made us unique. I still remember reading the book to her on the beach. She had already finished the book at that time, but the ending was still a mystery to me. I loved reading to her and she loved being read to. We wrote quotes on all the adventures we went on to having. It was our special place. With her being a lot like Violet at the time, and me being a lot like Finch and what he has to deal with throughout the story, we always feared that (Spoiler alert) we would end up like both of them at the end of the novel. That Violet will have her own sticky note without the Finch. Only thing is, in this story it was not Finch that decided to go. She did. Right before we broke up, I decided to take on a new challenge for her. To learn Before You Go on my guitar (Check out Gareth Evans' lessons for this one, trust me). I didn't finish the song in time though. After the breakup, it was the thing that kept me going. A reason to go on. I finished the song and sent it to her, with the hopes of it sparking something again, as she loved to listen to me play... It didn't
    A year and 3 months after she left me, I am still constantly reminded of her. Songs, quotes, notes she left on my computer. And then at very strange times I would get a CZcams recommendation like this one. One where two of the most significant pieces of my past that held the most pain would come together and pop up on my recommendation screen out of nowhere.
    Btw, she didn't want to watch the movie, as it would spoil the visuals she created in her mind from the book. I thought it was a solid watch, but nowhere near to what Jennifer Niven depicted in her novel
    Thanks for reading. Sometimes I just want to vent a little :)
    Enjoy your life, strange companion

  • @pranishacharya1310
    @pranishacharya1310 Před 3 lety +161

    Lyrics
    I fell by the wayside, like everyone else
    I hate you, I hate you, I hate you
    But I was just kidding myself
    Our every moment, I start to replace
    'Cause now that they're gone
    All I hear are the words that I needed to say
    When you hurt under the surface
    Like troubled water running cold
    Well, time can heal but this won't
    So, before you go
    Was there something I could've said
    To make your heart beat better?
    If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather
    So, before you go
    Was there something I could've said
    To make it all stop hurting?
    It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless
    So, before you go
    Was never the right time, whenever you called
    Went little, by little, by little until there was nothing at all
    Our every moment, I start to replay
    But all I can think about is seeing that look on your face
    When you hurt under the surface
    Like troubled water running cold
    Well, time can heal but this won't
    So, before you go
    Was there something I could've said
    To make your heart beat better?
    If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather
    So, before you go
    Was there something I could've said
    To make it all stop hurting?
    It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless
    So, before you go
    Would we be better off by now
    If I'd let my walls come down?
    Maybe I guess we'll never know
    You know, you know
    Before you go
    Was there something I could've said
    To make your heart beat better?
    If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather
    So, before you go
    Was there something I could've said
    To make it all stop hurting?
    It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless
    So, before you go

  • @isaacbanfro4092
    @isaacbanfro4092 Před 4 lety +2116

    To all those hurting. There's always someone who cares. You just have to let them in. :)

    • @ilovepizzaimapotato8514
      @ilovepizzaimapotato8514 Před 4 lety +24

      Isaac Banfro what if when you let them in they leave because you’re “annoying” or “not good enough” or “ you’re stupid” and you actually have no one and will die alone

    • @isaacbanfro4092
      @isaacbanfro4092 Před 4 lety +23

      @@ilovepizzaimapotato8514 You are more than good enough. You were created a beautiful person with great ideas, a beautiful smile and unique features that come together to form the unique and amazing portrait of you. if you feel that there is something broken about you and you can't be fixed, i want you to think about this. Most people see a broken vase as ruined and having lost its beauty, but when fixed by a master craftsman that vase with all its cracks and maybe even missing pieces can be made into a completely new and unique one, it may take a different shape but becomes a beautiful masterpiece to be admired. I found my answer to this problem in Jesus through reading the bible, He will take away the pain and He will never leave you. He was the master craftsman i needed and He can do the same for you if you'll let Him.

    • @ilovepizzaimapotato8514
      @ilovepizzaimapotato8514 Před 4 lety +1

      Isaac Banfro thank you sm 😊 I hope you have a wonderful life ❤️

    • @isaacbanfro4092
      @isaacbanfro4092 Před 4 lety +3

      @@ilovepizzaimapotato8514 I hope you a wonderful life too😊

    • @Sara-lb9zh
      @Sara-lb9zh Před 4 lety +5

      When I tried to let them in, I realized there is no one there

  • @quynhtrangnguyen7448
    @quynhtrangnguyen7448 Před 4 lety +179

    there are bright places even in dark times. And if there isn't, you can be that bright place

    • @HauNguyen-ne6ey
      @HauNguyen-ne6ey Před 3 lety

      Trang là tất cả ánh sáng, và sáng nhất:)

    • @quynhtrangnguyen7448
      @quynhtrangnguyen7448 Před 3 lety

      @@HauNguyen-ne6ey giống như là cái bóng đèn ạ kkakaak 😂😂😂

    • @HauNguyen-ne6ey
      @HauNguyen-ne6ey Před 3 lety

      Bạn ko cần phải leo ngọn núi cao nhất để có thể đứng trên đỉnh thế giới, Trang ko cần là cái bóng đèn để sáng nhất đâu 😅

  • @chofi7777
    @chofi7777 Před rokem +5

    I can't stop crying over how beautiful life is. These movies have something special

  • @maddiestte
    @maddiestte Před 3 lety +19

    not even 1 second into this video and im already crying my eyes out. i didnt notice how good this movie fit with this song.

  • @TinTin-jg9ej
    @TinTin-jg9ej Před 4 lety +1213

    "You are the colors in one, at full brightness"
    "People don't like messy"
    "There are bright places, even in the darkest times"

  • @krizellemacatangay974
    @krizellemacatangay974 Před 4 lety +192

    The first time I watched this movie, I stayed up all night til dawn, crying and thinking of the pain they both went through. It really pains me to think that some of us (in reality) really go through those type of things. So if you know someone going through these hard times/pains, check on them, remind them of their importance in your life. Also, don't be too busy checking on others that you forgot to check on yourself, take care my dear, know that no matter what, someone somewhere loves you, and there's always a light at the end of the tunnel.
    To anyone who needs this: Hold on, continue to have faith and hope, life can get crazy but there's still a lot of amazing things out there for you 💚💚💚

  • @roshanverma9276
    @roshanverma9276 Před 3 lety +36

    I remember The day when I watched this masterpiece way back ... I can't explain in words though let me try .
    I shivered badly from head to toe... My body hardened due to that cold... I wanted to cry but didn't. Tears were not ready to stop falling from my eyes...😥😥😥He was dying from inside but taught her how to live the fullest. Aaaahhh.... The Pain , that pain pierced my heart like an iron nail . Still when I think about that , my heart start become heavy , my eyes squinted to prevent the tears again and again.
    Loved this movie seriously ❤️
    I would like to recommend to watch this atleast once . You will be introduced with the beauty of love.

  • @manasvisingh7305
    @manasvisingh7305 Před 3 lety +18

    "Lovely is a lovely word that should be used more often."
    Just finsihed the book and crying lime anything

  • @shree-kb9oc
    @shree-kb9oc Před 4 lety +112

    "The world breaks everyone, and afterward some are strong at the brighter places"

  • @fahimmahmoodkhan2940
    @fahimmahmoodkhan2940 Před 3 lety +69

    "You are all the colors in one, at full brightness"- this quote touched my heart :)

  • @808sdean
    @808sdean Před 3 lety +19

    honestly, no other movie has made me cry harder than this.

  • @OursCinema
    @OursCinema Před 3 lety +137

    This move is one of my absolute favourites. I see myself so much in Finch, wanting to help others and forgeting about taking care of myself. I watch this video from time to time to remind myself not to get lost in other peoples problems around me and to always look after myself aswell. This video summs up all the major feelings and memories i get from the film, and the music is also perfect. Incredible edit

    • @nanghh5437
      @nanghh5437 Před 2 lety

      Movie name please

    • @pea8690
      @pea8690 Před 2 lety

      @@nanghh5437 all the bright places

    • @Puhdge
      @Puhdge  Před 2 lety

      Thank you @OursCinema ! :)

  • @nataliebrania8831
    @nataliebrania8831 Před 4 lety +113

    he was busy fixing me that he forgot to fix himself

  • @gabrielberrocalm.5588
    @gabrielberrocalm.5588 Před 4 lety +36

    "I feel we can't go through another of those terrible times" -Finch ❤️

  • @fiona1826
    @fiona1826 Před 3 lety +57

    My friend once said that this movie was boring and I almost choked her sHE HAD A LAME COMPREHENSION. THIS MOVIE IS SOOO GOOD AND ALSO PAINFUL. THE PLOT TWIST NEVER FAILED TO MAKE ME CRY EVERYTIME I WATCH IT. FINCH😭😭😭😭

  • @pritikaranjan4039
    @pritikaranjan4039 Před 2 lety +11

    This is the most beautiful song I have ever heard. The words of this song exactly describes the pain which I feel everyday.

  • @toprak1016
    @toprak1016 Před 3 lety +189

    Roses are dead
    Violets are dying
    Outside I’m smiling
    Inside I’m crying

    • @otaku-lascadao666
      @otaku-lascadao666 Před 3 lety +2

      Rosas estão mortas
      Violetas estão sofrendo
      Por fora estou rindo
      Por dentro estou morrendo 😔😭

    • @giovanipavia8680
      @giovanipavia8680 Před 2 lety

      Las Rosas estan muertas
      Las Violetas su mueren
      Por fuera sonrio
      Por dentro estoy llorando

    • @ronaldolzheim363
      @ronaldolzheim363 Před 2 lety

      and still, there is light. we can light each other up.

  • @kurniarachmatramadhan
    @kurniarachmatramadhan Před 4 lety +188

    Exactly knew that he is going to be the next of his "father" behavior
    And then couldn't find any helpful method to heal himself
    Finally ended up himself drowned by the river
    I didn't say anything wrong of his choice, just remember that you all who going through the darkest times rn, there is always some people who truly care bout you and there is always ways of any problems, its okay to be not okay just dont give up
    Your life is precious, and you're meanful for people around you :)

    • @0neAmongBillions
      @0neAmongBillions Před 4 lety +4

      The sad thing is he kept asking everyone why his father was like that and the reply he got was there was no reason and his dad was just crazy. If someone had said his father chose to be abusive and chose not to ask for help thats why he became like that then perhaps he would have believed in therapy and tried harder. In the end he just didnt want to hurt anyone coz of his violent outbreaks and he chose not to be like his dad at any cost.

    • @kurniarachmatramadhan
      @kurniarachmatramadhan Před 4 lety +2

      @@0neAmongBillions agree :) even when he was asking to his sister, he got no reasonable answer and found hopeless about his sick
      Though if it was me, probably i could do the same

    • @adimaurya02
      @adimaurya02 Před 4 lety

      I just wish I hadn't read your comment man, now I just can't watch the movie reminding me every moment all the saving and happiness in the start would turn to nothing. :-( I just gotta have control over my eyes in such video's comments T.T

    • @kurniarachmatramadhan
      @kurniarachmatramadhan Před 4 lety

      @@adimaurya02 ouch I think im sorry to hear that, but I literally watch the movie after I read these comment section and maybe if I hadn't, I'd know and catch up the ending in 1/2 part of the movie
      Sometimes spoiler just make us "well known" about the plot and be clear about little details of the film

    • @yudistety2280
      @yudistety2280 Před 3 lety

      Wow such a good coment n so agree with you suicide is not a solution..
      Malahan g bisa tenang di alam sono..

  • @ayoubbelhimer
    @ayoubbelhimer Před rokem +11

    We don’t remember days, we remember moments ✨

  • @zeesaleh4683
    @zeesaleh4683 Před 3 lety +27

    I was heartbroken with what happened to Finch

  • @camileormond7308
    @camileormond7308 Před 3 lety +26

    "Was there something I could've said to make it all stop hurting?" It hurts

  • @khushichadha4111
    @khushichadha4111 Před 3 lety +20

    'If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather.' Makes me cry every time 😭😭❤️

  • @proudprince3354
    @proudprince3354 Před 3 lety +20

    Deep down we all need someone stubborn enough to break through all our walls, to make us feel whole again

  • @Destro_Enough
    @Destro_Enough Před 3 lety +5

    The song, Finch and Violet and the comments made my heart melt off again and over again.

  • @alliemv
    @alliemv Před 3 lety +38

    “there is beauty in the most unexpected of places, and that there are bright places; even in dark times. and that if there isn’t - you can be that bright place, with infinite capacities.” < personally my favourite quote from the movie. as well as: i feel a thousand capacities spring up in me. i am arch, gay, languid, melancholy by turns. i am rooted, but i flow. - virginia woolf (the waves)

  • @frost8863
    @frost8863 Před 4 lety +98

    Some day I ‘d love to sing along this song while driving.

  • @gassrini8344
    @gassrini8344 Před 2 lety +62

    Listening to this masterpiece makes my day better :)

  • @cinta9701
    @cinta9701 Před 3 lety +12

    i once felt the same like theodore. feeling so suffocated inside but because someone did something, as little as smiling at me, i decided to stay. i read the book after i had emotionally healed and it destroyed me. it made me realise that there are people out there that would feel like violet even if it seemed like there wouldn’t be any.

  • @haileygreenstone765
    @haileygreenstone765 Před 3 lety +123

    Smile.
    Is nothing but an expression. A tiny movement.
    Easily faked.
    Happy.
    Is something felt. A nonexistent shout to the void.
    Seen even with a frown.
    We may not see it,
    but sometimes,
    happiness is best found,
    in places you never thought it existed.

    • @almondlondon372
      @almondlondon372 Před 3 lety

      Smile.
      Is nothing but an expression. A tiny movement, easily faked
      Happy
      Is something felt, A nonexistent shout to the void seen even with a frown
      We may not see it
      But sometimes
      Happiness is best found
      In places u never thought it existed

  • @dishanischal7194
    @dishanischal7194 Před 3 lety +19

    Whenever I hear this song I feel like this belongs to Finch and Violet and now here it is. The song where it actually belongs. This is a beautiful compilation. And it's sad but it makes me feel alive and contended every time I hear it...

  • @fannytiktok5501
    @fannytiktok5501 Před 3 lety +5

    I watch this movie again and again and still crying and not bored

  • @diamondnkomo7652
    @diamondnkomo7652 Před 2 lety +10

    I can relate to both characters especially Finch😢
    The girl who learns to live from the boy who wants to die
    I'm in tears😭😭😭😭

  • @azizah_sbrdn
    @azizah_sbrdn Před 4 lety +132

    The movie is sad but the novel is sadder. I just bawled my eyes out when I reached the chapter (you know which one). Made me depressed for a while.

  • @geotabios9422
    @geotabios9422 Před 4 lety +21

    This movie makes me really sad 😭😢 all day I realized that true love is hard to find. But happy especially when you already find it. And also hard to move on when it lost. 😢

  • @saddestplaylist6976
    @saddestplaylist6976 Před 2 lety +20

    Sorry to disturb your scroll, we don't know each other but i wish you all the best in life and may all things work out in your favor❤️

  • @hannahjones8115
    @hannahjones8115 Před 3 lety +35

    I opened Netflix and the trailer of this movie started played. I found it interesting and decided to watch it. It was late and I had school work the next day (At-home school). I decided that I would watch a bit and complete the rest the next day. When I started I couldn't stop. I finished the movie that night and went to bed. The next morning while I was showering I started crying. I couldn't stop crying. It was like Finch's death just sank in. I'm crying while typing this right now. He did not deserve to do that way. I kept on crying in t hj e shower, wondering how many people out there have gone like this and how many more are still out there struggling to STAY AWAKE. Finch just wanted to stay awake. I am planning to study Pediatric medicine and surgery, but after seeing this movie, I am thinking of studying psychiatry medicine. I just want to help someone. I want to be able to help someone stay awake and focus. I dont want people to die like this.

    • @annafontana1032
      @annafontana1032 Před 3 lety +1

      I hope you'll be able to help some people. I think you can already do a lot spreading awareness with your family and friends about mental health. Don't forget to let people in your life know you are there for them and won't let them down. Take care of yourself because you're planning a tough future and you must be strong. But take also care of yourself because your heart is pure. Thank you for this, I really appreciate it. I send you huge hugs and wish you a wonderful day/night

    • @hannahjones8115
      @hannahjones8115 Před 3 lety +1

      @@annafontana1032 Thank you very much for kind words. I will take everything you said to my heart. Thanks 🙏🏽

    • @zeyneparslan8342
      @zeyneparslan8342 Před 2 lety

      Help me...

    • @hannahjones8115
      @hannahjones8115 Před 2 lety +1

      @@zeyneparslan8342 hey, how can I help?

    • @zeyneparslan8342
      @zeyneparslan8342 Před rokem

      @@hannahjones8115 I just want to die now. I think I'm about to die

  • @daxhutson1973
    @daxhutson1973 Před 4 lety +31

    this is one of the best movies i ever waatched and it also broke me

    • @yahiayahia5571
      @yahiayahia5571 Před 4 lety

      Name of film?

    • @arandomgurl1510
      @arandomgurl1510 Před 4 lety +3

      Yahia Yahia all the bright places. You should go right ahead and watch this. I just finished this movie and it was so good. I cried a lot and this may be the only movie which made me cry this much.

    • @johncmoore416
      @johncmoore416 Před 3 lety

      It was a good film but I felt the ending was rushed. He cycled into that depression very quickly and that was not something fleshed out. Then the grieving was also done a rapid speed. Being married to a psychologist really skews my view on it though.

    • @arandomgurl1510
      @arandomgurl1510 Před 3 lety +1

      John Moore but they couldn’t show every sides in just a movie. yeah it was rushed but he was bipolar and suffering from depression way before violet did.

    • @johncmoore416
      @johncmoore416 Před 3 lety

      @@arandomgurl1510 His bipolar condition was never fleshed out. Without knowing what he is going through he seemed like a kid who was suffering depression related to childhood trauma. Add in bipolar and it explains a lot more.

  • @15ksubswithnovidschallenge9
    @15ksubswithnovidschallenge9 Před 3 lety +113

    "when she only felt pain one time, buti feel it everytime."
    you never know what people are going through.

  • @alisinanaseri701
    @alisinanaseri701 Před 3 lety +53

    Is there anyone else, who is also extremely in love with the way she dressed in all scenes.
    Those sweaters wow

    • @anettszoke9134
      @anettszoke9134 Před 3 lety +2

      meeee

    • @suhailkhan8473
      @suhailkhan8473 Před rokem

      Why did he commit suicide??

    • @AliaAlisah
      @AliaAlisah Před rokem

      ​@@suhailkhan8473this is based on a book. He had bipolar disorder and depression. The movie didn't mention it.

  • @double-a-kash8200
    @double-a-kash8200 Před 6 měsíci +14

    A message for those who are struggling.
    I will never know your struggles personally but I assure you, we all are in this together.
    To everyone who has been through unspoken tragedies,
    I believe you.
    To everyone who sits quietly in the back of a room while everyone else is enjoying themselves
    I see you.
    To everyone who cries when the world is asleep,
    I hear you.
    To everyone who is going through pain,
    I feel you.
    To everyone who is reading this,
    You are not alone.
    It isn't your fault.
    You are not weak for crying.
    You matter.
    You do deserve love and happiness.
    You can do it.
    You are beautiful inside and out just the way you are.
    I'm sending my love to you all. ❤
    P.S. :- if u ever need someone to talk to my dm is always open(Am a good listener)
    A stranger can become a friend just as easy as Friends become strangers.

  • @natoisnazi
    @natoisnazi Před 4 lety +14

    Palagi nilang sinasabi sakin na:
    "unahin mo muna sarili mo"
    "isipin mo muna sarili mo"
    "tulungan mo muna sarili mo"
    "ayusin mo muna sarili mo"
    At sumasama loob ko dahil hindi ang mga yan ang gusto ko... Kundi kabaliktaran ng gusto nilang mangyari..
    "uunahin ko muna yung iba"
    "Iisipin muna ang iba"
    "Tulungan muna ang iba"
    "Ayusin muna ang iba"
    Kahit wala ako ni katiting ginagawa ko ang lahat bagay na puwedeng gawin para lang sa ikabubuti ng iba.. hindi para sa ikabubuti ng sarili ko...
    At kung isa ka sa kanila.. hinding-hindi mo'ko maiintindihan. Dahil makasarili ka..
    I would rather die sacrificing myself for others... and I'll be glad doing it again and again and again and again...
    And again

  • @shivamchitlangia6532
    @shivamchitlangia6532 Před 4 lety +166

    I fell by the wayside like everyone else
    I hate you, I hate you, I hate you, but I was just kidding myself
    Our every moment, I start to replace
    'Cause now that they're gone, all I hear are the words that I needed to say
    When you hurt under the surface
    Like troubled water running cold
    Well, time can heal, but this won't
    So, before you go
    Was there something I could've said to make your heart beat better?
    If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather
    So, before you go
    Was there something I could've said to make it all stop hurting?
    It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless
    So, before you go
    Was never the right time, whenever you called
    Went little by little by little until there was nothing at all
    Our every moment, I start to replay
    But all I can think about is seeing that look on your face
    When you hurt under the surface
    Like troubled water running cold
    Well, some can heal, but this won't
    So, before you go
    Was there something I could've said to make your heart beat better?
    If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather
    So, before you go
    Was there something I could've said to make it all stop hurting?
    It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless
    So, before you go
    Would we be better off by now
    If I'd have let my walls come down?
    Maybe, I guess we'll never know
    You know, you know
    Before you go
    Was there something I could've said to make your heart beat better?
    If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather
    So, before you go
    Was there something I could've said to make it all stop hurting?
    It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless
    So, before you go

    • @patmebg3794
      @patmebg3794 Před 3 lety

      Isn't this intellectual property? Seems like I'm trespassing on someone's art. Who wrote this? Thanks.

    • @yogeshyadav8683
      @yogeshyadav8683 Před 3 lety

      Thankyou ❤️

  • @aestheticinthemaking8579
    @aestheticinthemaking8579 Před 3 lety +3

    How sad is this film… This video just made me cry, amazing song selection.

  • @Cloud-vv7zk
    @Cloud-vv7zk Před 3 lety +4

    All the bright place’s “ he save her from the pain and he lost he’s self so sad , cried so much on this movie for real , this song was perfect !

  • @fiona1826
    @fiona1826 Před 3 lety +10

    "You're all the colors in one, at full brightness." HELP IM CRYING👁️💧👄💧👁️

  • @carolinefdeacon17
    @carolinefdeacon17 Před 3 lety +3

    you can’t love the trauma out of someone... but you can help them deal with it... that scene at the lake always makes me cry

  • @norafure8667
    @norafure8667 Před 3 lety +33

    If you liked the movie you really should consider reading the book. It is amazing and you will cry your eyes out

  • @drlocoo451
    @drlocoo451 Před 3 lety +11

    I love this song! If you're feeling sad, angry music will help you get through anything! Because music talk to us in a way only if your feeling something you ll understand.

  • @arnssantiago2998
    @arnssantiago2998 Před 3 lety +168

    was i the only one who thought that Finch would rise above the water and say it was just a joke? :

    • @nanayaw4444
      @nanayaw4444 Před 3 lety +9

      That was what I was hoping for

    • @denispenise6457
      @denispenise6457 Před 3 lety +1

      I thought finc just practiced his breathing

    • @kaafivid
      @kaafivid Před 3 lety

      I knew he wouldn't but was obviously hoping for it to happen.

    • @user-dr2vn5uc8u
      @user-dr2vn5uc8u Před 3 lety

      Name the film please

    • @kaafivid
      @kaafivid Před 3 lety

      @@user-dr2vn5uc8u All the Bright Places

  • @jeanlevio7868
    @jeanlevio7868 Před 3 lety +14

    Hey is there someone like me who all along his life have being lonely, feel in its deep interior no one make you feel yourself at home who have never being loved by someone, have no friends. Then wants to try to suicide but just can't because is not strong enough so you continue to leave with all of this feelings and when someone talk you, you just can't trust him or her because all along your life you have been betrayed by the one person who ever loved you and made you feel at home.
    All times when you tried to sleep, work or doing something to get better, there is always something that makes you plunge back into these black feelings.

  • @thabangkekana3536
    @thabangkekana3536 Před 3 lety +1

    Ever time I feel like am losing control and everything that has to do with love ,such clips and the music behind makes me feel much better and come down

  • @abutaherchowdhury2032
    @abutaherchowdhury2032 Před 3 lety +9

    we do not remember days, we remember moments

  • @victorukpaka1153
    @victorukpaka1153 Před 3 lety +5

    At the end of the day we're all dealing with something that either kills us or makes us stronger, strange how something beautiful could hurt and kill slowly as times goes by and it was that one thing that ignited you and made you happy to everyone fighting a fight not seen with the naked eyes but a fight with yourself and memories stay strong and don't give up keep going you're stronger than you can ever imagine

  • @aniketdarvesh5190
    @aniketdarvesh5190 Před 4 lety +11

    just didnt stopped crying for hours after the end . I was here (:

  • @saakshiiii
    @saakshiiii Před 3 lety +18

    Guys stop I can't like all the beautiful comments...

  • @huzaifarashid1999
    @huzaifarashid1999 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I wish I hadn't seen this movie, it is one of the movies that broke me again and again but also made me realize if I am gone than what would the few people in my life be?

  • @alessiabanu9271
    @alessiabanu9271 Před 4 lety +68

    i HAVE to cry it´s impossible not to.. great work i love it and the song fits in just perfectly

  • @Nina-ls9wj
    @Nina-ls9wj Před 4 lety +569

    I hope you find the Marco to your polo one day

    • @unsocialonsocialmediaimlon8167
      @unsocialonsocialmediaimlon8167 Před 4 lety +9

      peter kavinsky peter kavinky it’s a game one person is Marco And one or more people can be Polo. Marco has their eyes closed; (usually it’s a game played in the pool but you can also play and hide and seek ) and the other kids scream polo either by swimming around the Marco person and trying not to get tagged by Marco

    • @user-dr2vn5uc8u
      @user-dr2vn5uc8u Před 3 lety

      Name the film please

  • @BryanElith
    @BryanElith Před 8 měsíci +3

    This is yet another awesome song filled with emotion

  • @kyleseptember1338
    @kyleseptember1338 Před 3 lety +23

    Thank you to the person who created this video this is a true master piece

    • @Puhdge
      @Puhdge  Před 3 lety +3

      Thank you Kyle!

  • @Avatar1454
    @Avatar1454 Před 4 lety +21

    Haven't even watched the movie but it connects so well with the song that it hurts. Great video.

  • @trweiyllioghtg4226
    @trweiyllioghtg4226 Před 3 lety +7

    i love this. the song and this book/movie matches well❤️

  • @moshaironmarimmoshaironmar4845

    "Before I die.... I want to stay awake. " Got me get goosebumps

  • @lucasdelhove1568
    @lucasdelhove1568 Před 3 lety +16

    It's funny how I've been struggling with depression and lately, CZcams keeps recommending me TED talks and self-motivation speeches and now this. Is CZcams trying to save my life? If so, how does it know...

    • @jemicutch5232
      @jemicutch5232 Před 2 lety +3

      I don't even know you but - life is beautiful. I hope you're okay now.

    • @lucasdelhove1568
      @lucasdelhove1568 Před 2 lety +1

      @@jemicutch5232 Hey there, I'm hanging in there. Thanks for asking :).

    • @Puhdge
      @Puhdge  Před 2 lety

      Hey Lucas, hope things are going a bit better brother! The youtube algorithm is really tricky, but knows a lot of your habits etc. Hopefully some of it helps and makes it a bit easier for you! Wishing you a great week Lucas ;)

  • @housamnm7102
    @housamnm7102 Před 3 lety +3

    Because of this movie , I met the best family I could ever have , so thankful for it , الحمدلله :')

  • @liih06
    @liih06 Před 2 lety +42

    "Há beleza em lugares inesperados. É há lugares luminosos, mesmo em tempos sombrios."

    • @guepardochita10
      @guepardochita10 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Eso es tan profundo y real, pero solo pueden ver eso las personas que aman de verdad ...que tienen realmente idea que es amar❤

  • @chofi7777
    @chofi7777 Před rokem +4

    I swear I'm crying a river oh my gosh thank you for this wholesome edit .

    • @Puhdge
      @Puhdge  Před 8 měsíci

      Thank you for this comment - hope youre doing good

  • @Puhdge
    @Puhdge  Před 3 lety +832

    Tell me how you feel today! No matter if this comment is 1 day or 1 year old - tell me! :)

  • @oliviasmith1385
    @oliviasmith1385 Před 10 měsíci +5

    he saved her but deep down he knew he wouldn’t be able to save him from his self….

  • @breannakephart264
    @breannakephart264 Před 3 lety +4

    i can rewatch this movie for ever and ever and cry every time

  • @romeiou2366
    @romeiou2366 Před rokem +2

    Sad to think that many of us are always good at fixing others but can't fix their own battles in life. If you're not good right now and didn't even know what to do in your life, just remember that you're breathing, means you have purpose in life, you don't need to fight your monsters on your own. Stay safe and be safe y'all.

  • @enzocarezzano4509
    @enzocarezzano4509 Před 3 lety +12

    These are some of the best songs I heard and he said the same about the movie I recommend it

  • @haniyaarttt2542
    @haniyaarttt2542 Před 3 lety +3

    This song is so pure.♥️

  • @vikramrao9032
    @vikramrao9032 Před 3 lety +3

    I love how this song is so perfect for this movie

  • @sah8702
    @sah8702 Před 3 lety +8

    in each verse I see myself ... I see everything I went through, all the end points that I thought I would have in my life ...and now I see, I love to live I love to live because all this is so god ❤️

  • @autumn7861
    @autumn7861 Před 3 lety +6

    "Because she smiles back" - Finch

  • @arthanavasanthakumar6795
    @arthanavasanthakumar6795 Před 3 lety +7

    you can hide a thousand feelings just behind a smile.

  • @vargascaporaliarletteyedid2743

    I know very little English, but something tells me that this song is more than beautiful. 💕
    I love it. 💕

  • @DreamyVibezMusic
    @DreamyVibezMusic Před 6 měsíci +1

    This sound is so wonderful. The person who is reading this comment, I wish you great success, health, love and happiness!