ODESZA - The Last Goodbye (feat. Bettye LaVette) -Dance Video by MystiqueL
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- čas přidán 24. 09. 2023
- I just want to be allowed to be sad, without being told there is something wrong with me that needs fixing or that something bad will happen.
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You are fantastic, you know that, right?! ... As I started on YT in 2008 or 09 YT was that way that you could found people showing what they like most, showing how they feel ... YT has changed, not its almost business only ... but sometimes one can find this pioneer spirit in the videos of people. Simply love to see you dancing.
Bonjour! Je découvre votre chaîne rafraichissante et vos danses entraînantes! Merci à vous^^ Sorry i dont speak english... But.. bravo and thanks^^
Cel mai frumos si cel mai reusit dans . ,Prin creativitate exprimata in orice fel , dans, pictura , scris , lucruri create manual ... aranjamente florale , ....orice ... ne echilibram emotional si ne umplem inima de bucurie ...Cam asta e si viata de artist .. astazi vesel , maine trist ...
Hi. I just found Marc Ronson's remix of Mina's Ancora Ancora and I thought it would make a great dance video from you!
Hi and thank you for this video. I loved your shoes. Can you tell me what they are?
Hi there, I'm wearing Reebok sneakers, classic. Not sure if you can find exact ones but I saw some that look similar when I googled them
Thank you. I will look for them. Enjoying all your other videos!@@MistiqueL
Aw... hey... you are allowed to be sad when you feel it. It is completely understandable and okay to me and I think it should be for everyone since we are all human. I'm sorry you're feeling sad though :c *hugs you and rubs your back* It will all be okay somehow, okay? I can tell just by your videos (that I have enjoyed for years now) that you are such a kind and gentle person and you are just too stinkin' adorable for words and bring joy to a lot of people here on CZcams and elsewhere I'm sure. The world is a better place with you in it that is for certain and I hope you know it. *lots and lots more hugs and gives you a bunch of ice cream too* If you ever need an understanding person to talk to you can reach out to me anytime if you'd like. 💖💖💖🫂🫂🫂
Thank you, I appreciate your kind words. I really do.🤗 I can tell you have pure intentions. But you see, your comment proves my point. Yes we are human and experience sadness sometimes, but why the eager need to do something to fix it? Talking to someone, being encouraged, physycal touch or something to eat may soothe it for the moment, but you are teaching yourself that sadness is not allowed and should be avoided. At some point those soothing teckniques fail to work and need more extreme or out of the ordinary things to make yourself feel better. And that fails to work too at some point. And then what? Just because we did not allow the sadness to just be there without judgement. Eventually it passes. It always does. Especially when we embrace it and don t feel shame for having it or try to find ways to fix it. I don t feel bad for being sad so please don t feel bad for me being sad. Thank you again and I am aware that what I m trying to say can trigger some people since we have been programed since childhood that only happy= good and sad= bad. If I close my eyes I can picture at least 3 cartoon characters I saw on TV saying "oh don t be sad"
@@MistiqueL You're welcome. I am not telling you to not be sad and not judging you for your sadness... Sadness is of course inevitable... I am also deeply depressed and cry daily to be honest. I have had a miserable life filled with bullies and trauma and my best friend killed himself September of 2022. I tried to do the right things and to find the right words to convince him of his worth and that he was (and still is) so loved and deeply cared for. No matter what, he was still miserable because he was so incredibly intelligent as well as sensitive and had a lot of negative realizations about this place and humans that I couldn't argue with because they were true. But, when you care for someone you do what all you know to do and can do. I know none of us *chose* to be here but we *are* here, so I figure if I don't know my purpose and I am here anyway and suffering just like every other living thing does, the least I could do with my time is try to ease the suffering of other living things. You say that you need more than just those soothing techniques that I included in my previous comment, but that is all that I personally can try to offer/convey to you. You once responded to a comment of mine under one of TakeSomeCrime's collaboration videos where I had defended you (because some of the commenters compared you to a "literal female" version of him and were rude with how they went about it... it may have been on my Bo0pbo0pmo0p CZcams account since it was some years back) you were thankful toward me and said you'd like to treat me to some ice cream. I am well aware that not everything will be okay, but it helps me personally to hear that sometimes when I am sad while someone hugs me (if I am lucky enough to receive a hug from anyone) so that is why I said that to you. We can only go off of what experiences we have individually. I am a temporary thing and you are a temporary thing and all we can offer each other is temporary things like attention, affection (hugs), kind words, and ice cream. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with me and I apologize if I managed to upset you. :/
Thank you for sharing your story, I am not upset with you, as I said I did appreciate your comment not only for the kind words but also for the opportunity to explain further more what my message was.
The message of embracing what we feel instead of avoiding it even if it s sadness.
It is something programed by society but also a survival mechanism ..we do whatever it takes to avoid pain. The more sensitive someone is, the greater the pain. But also the greater the happiness! Everything is felt deeply. So it is a gift but also can be a curse. The ultimate escape from pain is giving up on life but it is not your responsability to take the burden of your friend's decision. Or to take on the suffering of humanity. Sometimes you lend a hand to save someone and they end up pulling you into the darkness with them. It gets to a point where there is nothing you can do anymore.
What I find best is to navigate life the best as you can and lead by example. Trying to save others just backfires. A lot of people don t want or need to be saved.
But also pain is subjective. What may look a tragedy for you is a small thing for another or viceversa. Not to mention we don t have access to the great plan of things. What may feel bad in the moment, can work out in a good way in the long term.
So my final thoughts are..lets embrace life even with the negative feelings..and we can alway enjoy a hug or an ice cream as a form of grattitude, celebration or friendship. 🍻