And she was going to leave him without a conversation but won't accept his reasons which are actually valid How does she get told that he is meeting his sister See messages from his sister And think he's cheating That's wild Like, did she just go "sure out with your sister Angela... then who the f*ck is angie?!"😂
Idk it’s called bpd when you’re afraid of people leaving you and self sabotage Edit: bpd isn’t an excuse. I’ve met plenty of people who don’t deal with their issues and bury them, so the least I can do is help people get the help they need, in the only way I know. Take care of yourselves guys, and sometimes growing pains are necessary.
@@dehydrated02yeah, no one has faults anymore. Everyone blames everything on some undiagnosed mental illnesses. Absolutely 0 accountability for women is not a meme anymore.
@@VRDejaVu smh. I take accountability and so do others. It’s just sad when I see people put people down without seeing both sides. Don’t generalize or you’re no better.
@@VRDejaVu just trying to educate. If I didn’t educate myself on my own faults I never would’ve gotten better. It’s not an excuse, it’s a reason for why they may be acting like that. Sounds like you might need therapy if you’re acting out online like this. It’s childish. I advocate for men all the time, you don’t know me, maybe you should learn to see both sides of everything before you act the same as people you don’t seem to like
@@dehydrated02 oh look, another terminally online "educator"... Touch some grass little dude and take accountability for your awful personality instead of blaming it on an undiagnosed illness.
Who is SO DUMB that they don't realise Angie is short for Angelina? I can't believe anyone that simple minded was even able to maintain a relationship as long as they did. The fiance must be a bit daft as well.
I came down to the comments just to point it out because it seems to be spelled correctly in text, but the TTS just keeps saying "giong". It's getting a little annoying that it's just the one word... lol
Story 1. Op done fucked up, it’s one of two things either cheaters are always the most distrustful and seek to find that behaviours in their partners or he’s going to be afraid you’ll always think he’s a cheater with the way you behaved and anything he does you’ll view him through that lense. Story two I was ready to call OP the arsehole but it’s more ESH. As op said never believe anyone will do it all for you especially when it gets hard. My wife (a doctor that did a major as in psychology in university but isn’t a psychologist) tells me that most kids out grow ODD eventually but I never did hence why she tells me that, my first instinct is always to do the opposite of what ever I’m told or is expected of me and it’s really hard to not strike out (not physically)and just cause mayhem. It has always been hard for me to work for other people because of that, but I’ve been able to thrive as a independent contractor once I finally got qualified but every now and then I still need to do something, it’s like a release valve to stop over pressure
You kind of were childish, but you should just move and find something better for you. I guess it was your fault and apologize to him and then cut contact
Story 1: yeah so you went behind his back, looked through his phone while locked in a bathroom, refused to talk to your Fiancé! Your Fiancé!!! And this clearly happened more than once! Story 2: Let me guess, they have "Strong Christian values" and kept pressuring you. That's an American family for you.
Story 1. I also think both are awful. Op does not try think other possibilities and after knowing instead of going to talk she wait for week. Ex instead of cleaning he was laughing and he did not try to explain to her. It took him two seconds, just have to say "she is my sister" after that he can laugh how much he want.
Story 1: Womp to the fucking womp. The wife is horrible but the husband is also kind of horrible too because he didn’t speak to the wife about the problem
Look at things from his perspective and you'll realize he did the right thing. Your Fiancé goes through your phone, sees messages from your sister and immediately jumps to you being a cheater, says vile things to you cause she believes you're a cheater, then when you tell her the truth refuses to come home and have a convo or admit she made a mistake. Instead hides at her sister's house and hopes the problems that she started will just blow over? No contact, ignoring his calls and text. That is the behavior of a child who broke a vase and hides in the closet. He made the right move to dump her for being immature and saying some hurtful things. Plus who knows what she did in that week. He had no idea if she was cheating on him or anything cause she was ignoring his calls and text. Also I highly doubt this is the first time she did something like this cause of her immaturity.
@@theexpertbc1175AND in the story he says he cant deal with her insecurities " Anymore" , implying that she has probably done this multiple timescabd some other stupid shit making him emotionally drained so yea shes definitely the A-hole
Story 1 why are you mad at him for leaving you you were being rude and selfish
thats what I am saying
And she was going to leave him without a conversation but won't accept his reasons which are actually valid
How does she get told that he is meeting his sister
See messages from his sister
And think he's cheating
That's wild
Like, did she just go "sure out with your sister Angela... then who the f*ck is angie?!"😂
You need trust in a marriage. You have no trust in your ex fiance.
Why are you acting like he did something wrong🤨
So... she spent a week mad at him, and CLEARLY explained himself, and she still ignored him for a week. That was definitely way too childish.
Story one: That man dodged a .50 caliber bullet.
Idk it’s called bpd when you’re afraid of people leaving you and self sabotage
Edit: bpd isn’t an excuse. I’ve met plenty of people who don’t deal with their issues and bury them, so the least I can do is help people get the help they need, in the only way I know.
Take care of yourselves guys, and sometimes growing pains are necessary.
@@dehydrated02yeah, no one has faults anymore. Everyone blames everything on some undiagnosed mental illnesses.
Absolutely 0 accountability for women is not a meme anymore.
@@VRDejaVu smh. I take accountability and so do others. It’s just sad when I see people put people down without seeing both sides. Don’t generalize or you’re no better.
@@VRDejaVu just trying to educate. If I didn’t educate myself on my own faults I never would’ve gotten better. It’s not an excuse, it’s a reason for why they may be acting like that. Sounds like you might need therapy if you’re acting out online like this. It’s childish. I advocate for men all the time, you don’t know me, maybe you should learn to see both sides of everything before you act the same as people you don’t seem to like
@@dehydrated02 oh look, another terminally online "educator"...
Touch some grass little dude and take accountability for your awful personality instead of blaming it on an undiagnosed illness.
Who is SO DUMB that they don't realise Angie is short for Angelina?
I can't believe anyone that simple minded was even able to maintain a relationship as long as they did.
The fiance must be a bit daft as well.
For shorts watchers 0:53
Is no one gonna talk about the pronunciation of going
I came down to the comments just to point it out because it seems to be spelled correctly in text, but the TTS just keeps saying "giong". It's getting a little annoying that it's just the one word... lol
Story 1. Op done fucked up, it’s one of two things either cheaters are always the most distrustful and seek to find that behaviours in their partners or he’s going to be afraid you’ll always think he’s a cheater with the way you behaved and anything he does you’ll view him through that lense.
Story two I was ready to call OP the arsehole but it’s more ESH. As op said never believe anyone will do it all for you especially when it gets hard.
My wife (a doctor that did a major as in psychology in university but isn’t a psychologist) tells me that most kids out grow ODD eventually but I never did hence why she tells me that, my first instinct is always to do the opposite of what ever I’m told or is expected of me and it’s really hard to not strike out (not physically)and just cause mayhem. It has always been hard for me to work for other people because of that, but I’ve been able to thrive as a independent contractor once I finally got qualified but every now and then I still need to do something, it’s like a release valve to stop over pressure
You kind of were childish, but you should just move and find something better for you. I guess it was your fault and apologize to him and then cut contact
You guess it was her fault? You guess?
Bro why the hell story 2 like???? Why i tought there was more :l
Bro there was nothing sexual in the chats..
Story 1: why did she why it was so unfair like he did something wrong when she was in the wrong
Story 1: yeah so you went behind his back, looked through his phone while locked in a bathroom, refused to talk to your Fiancé! Your Fiancé!!! And this clearly happened more than once!
Story 2: Let me guess, they have "Strong Christian values" and kept pressuring you. That's an American family for you.
she should get a cat.
Story 1 you said there was nothing flirt like in the chats and why would you even go through his phone?
Womp womp for story 1
You're for the streets you don't deserve him
Stopping kids from saying first
First
Guess your comment wasn’t very effective 😊
@@behzshorts2270"🤓👆"
Frist
Story 1) Both ex and OP sound awful.
Story 2) If your family has abandoned you it's time to look into foster care.
Only op in story1 is awful, she played judge, jury, and executioner in a halfcocked split second of stupidity, and it cost her everything.
Ex did nothing wrong in story 1
Story 1. I also think both are awful. Op does not try think other possibilities and after knowing instead of going to talk she wait for week. Ex instead of cleaning he was laughing and he did not try to explain to her. It took him two seconds, just have to say "she is my sister" after that he can laugh how much he want.
Story 1: Womp to the fucking womp. The wife is horrible but the husband is also kind of horrible too because he didn’t speak to the wife about the problem
bo She didn’t let him explain
He tried at first, but she shooed him away and ran to her sister's house.
The fact you call them wife and husband shows you didn't hear the story. You just typed random BS as bait.
Honestly I think 1st guy was way overeacting, You gonna break up with a person you were with for 6 years for something that stupid.
Look at things from his perspective and you'll realize he did the right thing.
Your Fiancé goes through your phone, sees messages from your sister and immediately jumps to you being a cheater, says vile things to you cause she believes you're a cheater, then when you tell her the truth refuses to come home and have a convo or admit she made a mistake. Instead hides at her sister's house and hopes the problems that she started will just blow over? No contact, ignoring his calls and text. That is the behavior of a child who broke a vase and hides in the closet.
He made the right move to dump her for being immature and saying some hurtful things. Plus who knows what she did in that week. He had no idea if she was cheating on him or anything cause she was ignoring his calls and text.
Also I highly doubt this is the first time she did something like this cause of her immaturity.
@@theexpertbc1175AND in the story he says he cant deal with her insecurities " Anymore" , implying that she has probably done this multiple timescabd some other stupid shit making him emotionally drained so yea shes definitely the A-hole
She did stuff like this all the time
@@CalmEditss Exactly
Dw yall, they reunite in a later update