I cried listening to this story. My husband took forever to get married. He was the only son. I didn’t meet him til our 30s and when we finally had our first child, she passed away shortly after. It broke my heart because I know she would had been a wonderful grandma and she would had loved our daughter so much. I’m glad your mother is still looking over you and blessing you.
Me tub koj yog ib tug tub muaj hmoos los ua koj niam tus me tub uas zoo tshaj plawg koj yog ib tug tub rau koj niam nploojsiab koj niam txoj kev ntshaws me tub hlubhlub koj tus pojniam thiab cov me nyuam rau koj niam txoj kev ntshaw ua lub neej ncajncee neej zoo koj cov kwvtij koj txiv lawv tsi hlub koj los koj thiaj tsi nyuaj siab tau thov lawv mog.
Little brother, thanks for sharing you and your mom's sad and touching story. Forget about these other negative commenters. They like to prejudge without knowing your situation. They think life is just easy that you can just quit your lucrative career to take care of your mom. Of course you'd rather take care of your mom but your job just wouldn't allow you to. You loved and cared for your mom the best that you could and that's what matters. I'm so happy that you both got to see each other before she took her last breath. Wishing you all the best. It's ok to not have anything to do with your 1/2 siblings. They were never there for you.
@cianavang233 sister, kuv xav li koj xav thiab tiag... vim tias, nws yeej paub tias nws niam muaj nws 1 leeg xwb es niam yau cov mas nim ua zoo2 yuav vaj tse rau lawv nyob kiag no es nws niam twb ntshaw2. Tiam sis nws tsuas yog tau qhov uas tso kiag nws qub txeeg qub teg rau thaub xwb no... tab sis 1 niag pog mam nim ho lod chewed my head of too. Lol
It's such a sad yet beautiful story of a mother's love. You are blessed, brother. Although you did not have too much time with your mother, I am sure having you is all she ever wished and wanted, and she left the world with no regrets by being a "mother".
A blind man leads a blind both will end up in the pit. The Bible is the words of God. Everything your mom said was mentioned in the Bible. The greatest fear is facing God the creator. Jesus christ, the savior.
Txoj kev tsis muaj tub ki mas tu siab kawg os..tabsis koj niam kuj muaj koj es koj los deev tau koj niam lub siab os..koj yog koj niam nplooj siab es sib hlub mog..koj niam mus lawm los koj niam yeej pab koj txhua lub caij os..
Good morning and so much that is important here. Full of very important life's journey and choices. Let's look at Elderly Housing. There are very important reasons for these facilities, however they are not for everyone. Please make sure that it is right before deciding. We need the ability to see and connect with each other. Loneliness is very hard to deal with.
Sorry for your loss. Sad story indeed. If I ever tell a story about my mom, I'd tell about how she lived her life despite all the obstacles/challenges she faced. You're a good son. Best of luck to you and your family.
Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story. It is so sad and heartbroken for your mom and you. May she rest in peace like my mom. Moms are the bestest!!!
Wow!!! So sad that his half siblings did not show up to the funeral. Especially the oldest child. Just childish... good luck to you brother. Any parent would be happy to have a thoughtful and hard working son or daughter like you.
I'm not sure what your point of sharing this story? Your mom deserves better during her last moments on earth. Unfortunately, she died at a senior/ nursing care facility without you by her side. I'm wondering what were the last thoughts she had before her last breath. Your mom did everything to have you. You didn't do everything to take care of her. 🤦♀️
He couldn't just quit his job to stay with her. It's easier said than done when we're not in their shoes, so don't be so quick to judge. At least he got the best care possible for her so just be glad about that.
Wished u had spent more time with her before she passed. Or took her with u for being away for 1 yr is a long time. Especially for your mother, she must've been so lonely 😢...
Ntuj aw koj niam muaj koj ib Leeg xwb es vim li cas koj ho mus ua hauj Lwm dev ua Luaj ma. Kuj Lam nrhiav nyob hauv zos ua es pab koj niam txog thaum koj niam tuag lawm koj mam mus kev deb los yeej tau na zoo li koj tsis hlub koj niam thiab vim koj cia li khiav mus ua thab ham lawm thiab na !
Peb cov laus tiam no txawm yuav muaj me tub me nyuam thiab tsis muaj los yuav tau mus nyob tsev laus vim tej me nyuam lawv muaj cuab yig muaj lawv hauj lwm ua txhob tu siab rau lawv yus laus lawm yuav tau tso txhua yam pov tseg yus thiaj li kaj siab.
Es koj tsis hmoog kom tas zaj story los nws twb hais tias nws yuav tau mus ua hauj lwm kev deb no ne. Nws ib leeg xwb es nej yuav kom nws ua li cas no? Nej yuav kom nws tawm hauj lwm .🤭🤭
This story makes me very sad for your mom. Your mom only had you to inherit her wealth NOT to love her. You knew she had a bad back and old but you chose your work and leave her alone at the old age home. You knew what your niam yau children were capable to do for them and your mom were sad but you didn't kept your promise to her. Don't be too proud of yourself that someone els were taking great care of your mom cuz, all she wants was to spend time with you. If I were her, I wouldn't even wait for you to see my last breath. Now that you inherited all her wealth, she's no where and you can never get that time back anymore. 😢
Why are you so harsh on him? He didn't know she had less than a year to live because his mom CHOSE not to tell him and make him worry. If he had known, it sounds like he's the type of son that would have taken those months off to stay with her. If he had chosen to quit his job to care for her, not knowing how long she had, who would pay his and her bills indefinitely?! You?! I think not!!! Let's be realistic here and admit that he was placed in a difficult situation since he didn't have anyone else to help him so he made the best decision he could to ensure his mother got the best care in a PRIVATE nursing facility! Do you know how expensive that is? I do since my in-laws have been looking into it. In 2024, a private nursing home will run you around $10,000/month! Depending on when and where his mom was placed in a nursing home, his cost may be a little less, but still, HE paid for it because he wanted his mom to have the best private care while he was gone long distance! Have a heart and realize that the only person who can judge his decision was his mother and she was good with his decision since her placement in the nursing home was only meant to be temporary----only for the one year or so that he was away for a work project!
@PM-oe5mk Hey... you have your own opinions and I have mine. When you love someone, especially your mom and you know she's that old already. You spend as much time as you can with her. You don't need to know how much time she only has. Also, if it was that expensive to place his mom there then it should be less for him to find a local job even if it pays less so he can still comes home to be with her after work. You are the one that should be realistic here. One more thing, when an individual is willing to put their story on social media, then you should be open to all comments too.
@@pataoxiong Yes, everyone has the right to their opinion, you to yours and me to mine. Again, a difficult call which his mom was okay with since it (nursing home stay) was only a TEMPORARY situation. His job WAS a local job; he happened to just be sent off to manage this particular project for about a year. By the way, there's no guarantee that a different, lesser paying job would necessarily work out the way you are describing because his mother would still need full-time help during the day when he's at work and I can guarantee you it is NOT cheap! When it happens to you, you can choose to handle the situation how you see fit for you and your family----hopefully you will have others to help you, unlike this guy. Being realistic is doing what one thinks is best for their situation, regardless of others' opinions!
Wow! You make it look like you can do a lot better if you were in his shoes. Don’t worry everyone will have their chance to prove that they are better if not worse. People are always better than others when they are behind the keyboard. I want to see if actions speak louder than words. In his case, no one is flawless but he did the best he can in that circumstances. And there’s no stopping, there will be people criticizing you no matter what you do.
Peb ua neeg nyob ua zoo ces tau zoo ທໍາ ດີ ໃດ້ດີ ces yog tej no tiag leej niam los yog Niam zoo to taub txoj kev ua neej niaj nhub no zoo hos tus tub los yog ib tug me tub tsim txiaj esc tus me niam tais koj nyob saum ntuj yuav saib xyuas koj tus me tub lub neej kom lawv noj qab nyob zoo mog.
I cried listening to this story. My husband took forever to get married. He was the only son. I didn’t meet him til our 30s and when we finally had our first child, she passed away shortly after. It broke my heart because I know she would had been a wonderful grandma and she would had loved our daughter so much.
I’m glad your mother is still looking over you and blessing you.
Such a sad and heart warming story. You're very lucky son.
Me tub koj yog ib tug tub muaj hmoos los ua koj niam tus me tub uas zoo tshaj plawg koj yog ib tug tub rau koj niam nploojsiab koj niam txoj kev ntshaws me tub hlubhlub koj tus pojniam thiab cov me nyuam rau koj niam txoj kev ntshaw ua lub neej ncajncee neej zoo koj cov kwvtij koj txiv lawv tsi hlub koj los koj thiaj tsi nyuaj siab tau thov lawv mog.
Little brother, thanks for sharing you and your mom's sad and touching story. Forget about these other negative commenters. They like to prejudge without knowing your situation. They think life is just easy that you can just quit your lucrative career to take care of your mom. Of course you'd rather take care of your mom but your job just wouldn't allow you to. You loved and cared for your mom the best that you could and that's what matters. I'm so happy that you both got to see each other before she took her last breath. Wishing you all the best. It's ok to not have anything to do with your 1/2 siblings. They were never there for you.
Wow...what a beautiful memory story. Thanks for sharing, brother. God bless you to stay healthy
Tsis tsim nyog koj niam ntshaw koj thiab yug koj li lau cas tsis tau leej twg txoj kev hlub li
@cianavang233 sister, kuv xav li koj xav thiab tiag... vim tias, nws yeej paub tias nws niam muaj nws 1 leeg xwb es niam yau cov mas nim ua zoo2 yuav vaj tse rau lawv nyob kiag no es nws niam twb ntshaw2. Tiam sis nws tsuas yog tau qhov uas tso kiag nws qub txeeg qub teg rau thaub xwb no... tab sis 1 niag pog mam nim ho lod chewed my head of too. Lol
Beautiful story. I wish my son understood just how much I love him too. Right now he’s 27 and being selfish.
It's such a sad yet beautiful story of a mother's love. You are blessed, brother. Although you did not have too much time with your mother, I am sure having you is all she ever wished and wanted, and she left the world with no regrets by being a "mother".
Tus kwv tij, nrog koj tu siab thiab ho nrog koj zoo siab thiab os
Infertility hits the hardest when it happens to you. My husband and I have the hardest time conceiving. Our children are 8 to 4-5 years apart.
Cov me phooj ywg viv ncaus hmoob aw ua cas kuv mloog zaj no mas tu tu siab thiab los los kua muag li os lawv aw...
Me tub koj niam zaj neej neeg tu siab tshaj plaws li os me tub txoj kev ntsuag yeej tsis muaj yeej twg xav ua li mog. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Tu siab kawg zaj no. Hais tau zoo kawg thiab.
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A blind man leads a blind both will end up in the pit. The Bible is the words of God. Everything your mom said was mentioned in the Bible. The greatest fear is facing God the creator. Jesus christ, the savior.
Yog! Tsis tsim nyog koj niam yug koj tiag tiag
Txoj kev tsis muaj tub ki mas tu siab kawg os..tabsis koj niam kuj muaj koj es koj los deev tau koj niam lub siab os..koj yog koj niam nplooj siab es sib hlub mog..koj niam mus lawm los koj niam yeej pab koj txhua lub caij os..
Txaus tu siab heev li os
Good morning and so much that is important here. Full of very important life's journey and choices. Let's look at Elderly Housing. There are very important reasons for these facilities, however they are not for everyone. Please make sure that it is right before deciding. We need the ability to see and connect with each other. Loneliness is very hard to deal with.
Sorry for your loss. Sad story indeed. If I ever tell a story about my mom, I'd tell about how she lived her life despite all the obstacles/challenges she faced. You're a good son. Best of luck to you and your family.
Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story. It is so sad and heartbroken for your mom and you. May she rest in peace like my mom. Moms are the bestest!!!
zaj no tu siab dhau lawm mloog tsis taus li os...
Sister Jenny, you look so beautiful on this picture. You look like you're 18 years old❤.
Thank you sister muab kho xwb os
Wow!!! So sad that his half siblings did not show up to the funeral. Especially the oldest child. Just childish... good luck to you brother. Any parent would be happy to have a thoughtful and hard working son or daughter like you.
I'm not sure what your point of sharing this story? Your mom deserves better during her last moments on earth. Unfortunately, she died at a senior/ nursing care facility without you by her side. I'm wondering what were the last thoughts she had before her last breath. Your mom did everything to have you. You didn't do everything to take care of her. 🤦♀️
Tej niag tub cov li no tsis yog ib tug neeg zoo, rau qhov a ib niag neeg sis paub nco txiaj nco ntsig ua neeg yeej tsis vam meej pes tsawg os mog
Me tub aw…,.yog koj hlub hlub koj niam ces no matter what koj yeej tsis coj koj niam mus nyob tsev laus
He couldn't just quit his job to stay with her. It's easier said than done when we're not in their shoes, so don't be so quick to judge. At least he got the best care possible for her so just be glad about that.
First one!! 😊
Very sad story. It got me tearing.😢
Wished u had spent more time with her before she passed. Or took her with u for being away for 1 yr is a long time. Especially for your mother, she must've been so lonely 😢...
Ntuj aw koj niam muaj koj ib Leeg xwb es vim li cas koj ho mus ua hauj Lwm dev ua Luaj ma. Kuj Lam nrhiav nyob hauv zos ua es pab koj niam txog thaum koj niam tuag lawm koj mam mus kev deb los yeej tau na zoo li koj tsis hlub koj niam thiab vim koj cia li khiav mus ua thab ham lawm thiab na !
Kuv yog koj niam ces kuv twb muab 2 niag niam txiv siab phem nkawv ncaws tawm puag ntxov lawm os tseem yuav cia yus ua2 qhev txog hnub yus mob es lawv tsis xav yuav yus lawm tiam sis kav liam os niag niam yau siab phem nws xav tias nws thiaj li txawj xya me nyuam es nws ua phem rau koj niam es nyaj nws cov niag me nyuam yuav hlub2 no muaj 1 hnub twg nws yeej yuav tau txais nws txoj kev phem uas los yuav yus tus txiv es saib tsis taus koj niam tsis fwm koj niam os hos koj txiv lub siab lim hiam los yeej yuav rov qab los rau koj txiv nawb txoj kev ntshaw2 2-3 tug los coj tsis ncaj ces nws yeej yuav npam
Peb cov laus tiam no txawm yuav muaj me tub me nyuam thiab tsis muaj los yuav tau mus nyob tsev laus vim tej me nyuam lawv muaj cuab yig muaj lawv hauj lwm ua txhob tu siab rau lawv yus laus lawm yuav tau tso txhua yam pov tseg yus thiaj li kaj siab.
Es koj niam txoj kev ntshaw koj loj npaum li no, how com she ended up in the tsev laus? That's my question.
Es koj tsis hmoog kom tas zaj story los nws twb hais tias nws yuav tau mus ua hauj lwm kev deb no ne. Nws ib leeg xwb es nej yuav kom nws ua li cas no? Nej yuav kom nws tawm hauj lwm .🤭🤭
cas tss txawj txog kuv zaj li og
Nyob zoo os niam tais jenny .
This story makes me very sad for your mom. Your mom only had you to inherit her wealth NOT to love her. You knew she had a bad back and old but you chose your work and leave her alone at the old age home. You knew what your niam yau children were capable to do for them and your mom were sad but you didn't kept your promise to her. Don't be too proud of yourself that someone els were taking great care of your mom cuz, all she wants was to spend time with you. If I were her, I wouldn't even wait for you to see my last breath. Now that you inherited all her wealth, she's no where and you can never get that time back anymore. 😢
Why are you so harsh on him? He didn't know she had less than a year to live because his mom CHOSE not to tell him and make him worry. If he had known, it sounds like he's the type of son that would have taken those months off to stay with her. If he had chosen to quit his job to care for her, not knowing how long she had, who would pay his and her bills indefinitely?! You?! I think not!!! Let's be realistic here and admit that he was placed in a difficult situation since he didn't have anyone else to help him so he made the best decision he could to ensure his mother got the best care in a PRIVATE nursing facility! Do you know how expensive that is? I do since my in-laws have been looking into it. In 2024, a private nursing home will run you around $10,000/month! Depending on when and where his mom was placed in a nursing home, his cost may be a little less, but still, HE paid for it because he wanted his mom to have the best private care while he was gone long distance! Have a heart and realize that the only person who can judge his decision was his mother and she was good with his decision since her placement in the nursing home was only meant to be temporary----only for the one year or so that he was away for a work project!
@PM-oe5mk Hey... you have your own opinions and I have mine. When you love someone, especially your mom and you know she's that old already. You spend as much time as you can with her. You don't need to know how much time she only has. Also, if it was that expensive to place his mom there then it should be less for him to find a local job even if it pays less so he can still comes home to be with her after work. You are the one that should be realistic here.
One more thing, when an individual is willing to put their story on social media, then you should be open to all comments too.
@@pataoxiong Yes, everyone has the right to their opinion, you to yours and me to mine. Again, a difficult call which his mom was okay with since it (nursing home stay) was only a TEMPORARY situation. His job WAS a local job; he happened to just be sent off to manage this particular project for about a year. By the way, there's no guarantee that a different, lesser paying job would necessarily work out the way you are describing because his mother would still need full-time help during the day when he's at work and I can guarantee you it is NOT cheap! When it happens to you, you can choose to handle the situation how you see fit for you and your family----hopefully you will have others to help you, unlike this guy. Being realistic is doing what one thinks is best for their situation, regardless of others' opinions!
Wow! You make it look like you can do a lot better if you were in his shoes. Don’t worry everyone will have their chance to prove that they are better if not worse. People are always better than others when they are behind the keyboard. I want to see if actions speak louder than words. In his case, no one is flawless but he did the best he can in that circumstances. And there’s no stopping, there will be people criticizing you no matter what you do.
Peb ua neeg nyob ua zoo ces tau zoo ທໍາ ດີ ໃດ້ດີ ces yog tej no tiag leej niam los yog Niam zoo to taub txoj kev ua neej niaj nhub no zoo hos tus tub los yog ib tug me tub tsim txiaj esc tus me niam tais koj nyob saum ntuj yuav saib xyuas koj tus me tub lub neej kom lawv noj qab nyob zoo mog.
Ntuj aws cas koj ho tsis ua PCA zov nws mas koj tsis hlub nws heev pob
Tsis txhob ntshaw ntshaw me nyuam thiab os lawv
Nrog koj niam tu siab dhau lawm os koj niam muaj koj ib leeg xwb los cas koj tseem tsis nyob nrog koj niam thiab tseem muab koj niam coj mus nyob tsev laus ib leeg kho siab khuav txog hnub tuag thiab os. Tos koj niam tsis pub lawv hu qhia koj paub los ntshe koj niam yeej tu siab txaus txaus rau koj lawm. 😔
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