How to Get Out of a Rut

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  • čas přidán 4. 07. 2024
  • This video is about how to get out of a rut. I have been feeling extremely unmotivated and uninspired in the past couple of months and I wanted to share some practices that have helped me cope through this strange phase of my life. I hope you find this video helpful.
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Komentáře • 219

  • @MORCOPOLO0817
    @MORCOPOLO0817 Před 3 lety +146

    "No amount of social validation will ever compare to when we feel good in our own skin" That is powerful!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +15

      I think this is true for most of us. Instead of worrying about others, We should focus our energy on taking care ourselves 😊❤ thank you as always

    • @margaretconnolly1596
      @margaretconnolly1596 Před 3 lety

      @@MalamaLife where are you from?

    • @biancahardison
      @biancahardison Před 2 lety +1

      Learning this recently as a stay at home mom

  • @tammytarry3202
    @tammytarry3202 Před 2 lety +6

    I use CZcams videos to get motivated. I’m a chronically I’ll woman who was forced ten years ago to give up my successful real estate career, and retire on disability. My world is full of pain. The routine is so hard to change, to add variety to. I love watching your videos. They really me that it’s ok to lead a slow life. My previous life was at two hundred miles an hour. Balance in life has always evaded me. I told myself when I was working that if I didn’t have to work I would not own a cell phone. And for eight years I didn’t. The world doesn’t understand when you don’t have a cell phone. Even today my doctor gave me a blank stare when I told her I only have a landline. I guess the referring doctors like to text you. I’m rambling… but it’s an honor to meet you, and to sharing your life with you. Tammy

  • @ShubhamKumar-rb6ts
    @ShubhamKumar-rb6ts Před 3 lety +44

    Now on I gonna watch all videos of this channel.. it's feels like relaxing therapy
    Thank-you.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +2

      Aww thank you so much :) I really appreciate that!

    • @fayetabora9706
      @fayetabora9706 Před 3 lety +2

      Me too. I watch almost everyday. It really inspires me. Your vlog is a must watch. I will share it to my friends and relatives, all over here in Philippines. God Bless you

    • @lavender_smoothie
      @lavender_smoothie Před 3 lety +1

      I watch her videos every single day. After I'm done with my workouts and need to unwind for a few minutes, when I'm taking a shower I just listen to her calming voice and finally when I'm about to go to bed. I just love her so much 💙

  • @vaishpran1502
    @vaishpran1502 Před 2 lety +5

    Hey. I'm 24 y/o a doctor from India. I stumbled upon your videos last year when I was trying to change my life around and it helped me tremendously. I absolutely adore you and the fact that you're so humble and also keep your CZcams channel low key and lead such a minimal lifestyle, all so commendable. You help me so much with your videos whenever I'm down. Much love.

  • @BrandonFrias
    @BrandonFrias Před 3 lety +28

    I love when you said we’re always thinking about where we are going and not where we are currently! I needed to hear that . Im still new in this CZcams journey and I constantly get caught up with where i want to be and find myself unsatisfied with where I’m at..thus leading to lack of motivation. But ive found in my situation that gratefulness is the answer. I ground myself and remain grateful for the opportunity to go on this journey in the first place. Grateful that i have the creativity and the confidence to continue. 😌 and extremely grateful for the current supporters in my life

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +3

      Thanks for sharing with me your thoughts because that's exactly how I feel! I just didn't have the words to put my thoughts together like you. As they say, we are definitely our own worst critic, and I find this to be my case as well. From the videos I saw, I think you are so creative and incredibly talented. You are just starting out and your video quality, editing, narration was already amazing. When you find your motivation, I really hope you continue Brandon.

    • @BrandonFrias
      @BrandonFrias Před 3 lety

      Malama Life OMgoodness you’re great, thank you so much! I needed that encouragement 🤗 I so excited now and i can’t wait to start producing again

  • @jazzlayla
    @jazzlayla Před 3 lety +16

    I recently recreated my living space, painting and organizing, hanging the art in different places. It was a fun new exercise and got me out of a rut. Thanks for your videos and sharing your peace

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      I love being creative and rearranging my space too. A change in our environment is such a good idea.

  • @keshams3665
    @keshams3665 Před 3 lety +7

    You deserve 100K followers. Spread the word! Your videos are amazing. We need more calmness in this loud world!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +3

      I agree we need more calm in this fast paced world! Aww thank you so much. Such a kind comment 😊❤

  • @Patricia-fi9zo
    @Patricia-fi9zo Před 3 lety +20

    It's really nice how you illuminated the topic from different angles offering so many tips. Being in a rut I guess is just part of the cycle of creativity. It's nice when we can allow ourselves the moment to be a bit slower as well as keep an open mind to recharge our energy.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +3

      Beautifully said Patricia! Yes I think it's a necessary part of the creative process. I go through these moments quite often, but most times, come out of it feeling recharged 😊❤

    • @Patricia-fi9zo
      @Patricia-fi9zo Před 3 lety

      ❤️

  • @almamagee9518
    @almamagee9518 Před 3 lety +7

    I play my ukulele or guitar to get out of a rut and lately, watching your beautiful videos also gets me out of a rut, so thank you!

  • @alyssaarnold6271
    @alyssaarnold6271 Před měsícem

    writing a whole page in my journal starting with "I am thankful for..." or "I enjoy..." helps me get unstuck, switching to a grateful versus depleted mindset

  • @althealthworks
    @althealthworks Před 2 lety

    I decided to push my chips to the center of the table and write an ebook. And then another ebook. I realized I had a lot on my mind when I wrote a 3,000 word guide in 1 and a half hours and it turned out great. I have two websites and both have been doing so so. So I took up food delivery to clear my mind and try a new a side gig so I could clear my mind and find the urge to write again from more of a soul level instead of a have to do it level. Thanks for making these videos, they are a great reminder of how enjoyable the slow life can be. These grocery delivery gigs are giving me the inner patience to be calm and still and unfazed even in a less than ideal, hectic situation. I hope some day to live in a house like you near the ocean and or forest and to live a simple life like this. Thanks again!

  • @Dr.Wolfstar
    @Dr.Wolfstar Před 3 lety +4

    You inspired me to change my "cluttered...life" I can breath now...thank you

  • @irinakim9173
    @irinakim9173 Před rokem

    I was in a rut of motherhood. same routine everyday - cleaning, cooking, taking care of kids. didn't go out almost never without them. tried hobbies and fitness to make my life intresting, it was fine for sometime, but then I got bored again. kids finally grew up enough and I can have more time for myself and I work part time now that gives me sense of contribution and power over my life. thanks for this video, always find smth useful when I watch them, and you voice is so calming. watching your channel is my evening routine. pleasant one))

  • @JulieElvenMusic
    @JulieElvenMusic Před 3 lety +7

    I really needed to hear this today! Thank you for your beautiful, soothing and inspiring videos. So needed in these times!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      So sweet of you Julie. So happy you liked the video 😊 thank you!

  • @banthony8545
    @banthony8545 Před 3 lety +11

    Hi Sophie, thanks again for another comforting video. My husband and I are older and we live where masks are not used as much and social distancing is not practiced as much as we are comfortable with, so we stay home for days on end without leaving the house. So to keep cabin fever at bay we have days where we dress up more at home. If I'm not doing heavy cleaning and my husband is not home improving we wear nice outfits. We don't get dressed as though we are going to a wedding but we use our good things. (True all my pretty shoes and purses feel neglected. And as an aside, I realize I don't ever need to buy another purse again!) On the dinner table we have candles, real napkins, our good china and like you we don't have a TV, so at meals we play nice music. Since we haven't eaten out since March, I feel okay with spending more on groceries, we treat ourselves to more expensive cheeses or bougie ice cream and other faves. Ruts are inner calls for some change I think: try a new coffee, wear something a different way. One little change can creat a paradigm shift and it might trigger us to notice something different and cause us to realize what we could do differently that could creat an improvement or some excitement.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +3

      You said it so beautifully. Also, you gave me so many great ideas! I think playing music and having the candles lit during dinner will make the whole experience feel like dining out 😊, but even better because it's in the comfort of our homes. Also, I am trying out a new coffee creamer and it is definitely brining new excitement back into my mornings. I loved hearing how you and your husband enjoying life at the moment 😊 thank you so much for sharing.

  • @shekharjog8618
    @shekharjog8618 Před 3 lety +4

    Hey Sophie, u r just very gentle and inspiring

  • @user-kj4yi8zf2v
    @user-kj4yi8zf2v Před 3 lety +3

    I love this calmness

  • @elansings
    @elansings Před 3 lety +15

    If only, if only, words speak no reply; then, songs become our words
    Reflecting the soul's truth and all that's gone by in beautiful melodies
    thank you, my lovely friend. You write your truths boldly.
    Your expression gives you wings, and you become love,
    You feel the ease in your heart, and the inspiration in your soul.
    What more does a human need?
    Thank you for inspiring folks like me

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +2

      I find myself looking forward to your comments after I post my videos :) You deliver your words so beautifully and I hope you know I appreciate them.

    • @elansings
      @elansings Před 3 lety +1

      Malama Life 💕 thank you for your kindness

  • @ikrambelghrras1006
    @ikrambelghrras1006 Před 3 lety +3

    i commented to one of your videos ones at night and woke up in the mourning to find that you have already replied which made my day honestly this is the kind of productivity i want in my life so i would love to see a video about time organization especially now a days that time "flies so fast"

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      I try my best to respond to all the comments here because I really appreciate you taking the time to watch my videos and write a comment. It really means a lot to me :) I would love to make a video about this in the future since I feel like I finally have a system that works. Thanks again!

  • @shaiofthehighlands5792
    @shaiofthehighlands5792 Před 3 lety +4

    It's already 1am and I can't seem to sleep and this is exactly what I needed to calm my mind from the constant thought of the future that makes me anxious. Thank you so much! Love from the Philippines 💚

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +2

      Yay! I am so glad that the timing worked out :) Thank you for watching. It makes me so happy that you found value in it. Sending love back from Maui

    • @shaiofthehighlands5792
      @shaiofthehighlands5792 Před 3 lety

      @@MalamaLife So much value it gives. Thanks again for such kind words. All the best!^^

  • @user-lx7ul5ft7y
    @user-lx7ul5ft7y Před 3 lety +6

    Hi Sophie, I feel many people
    everywhere in our world, are
    in a rut at present. Think the
    Covid pandemic has put a damper
    on ones spirits. Especially those
    that have lost jobs, family that have
    been infected or... But Sophie you
    are a beautiful person and will
    remain so. Thanks for making
    such interesting videos. Bless
    you.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      I feel for those who were deeply affected by the pandemic. Thinking about it, it makes my situation absolutely minuscule compared to those who are currently dealing with actual tragedies...lost jobs, health issues, mental health issues etc.. I hope Switzerland is recovering well and you are staying safe. Thank you so much for your kind comment.

  • @lavender_smoothie
    @lavender_smoothie Před 3 lety +1

    This has got to be an epic achievement, 0 dislikes because everyone loves the video and agrees with Sophie💙

  • @yogamalayalamasha
    @yogamalayalamasha Před 3 lety +3

    On my journey of minimalism❤️

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thats so great 😊 I am glad you are joining me

  • @scribble_sribe
    @scribble_sribe Před 3 lety +4

    I think Sophie that people want security in their lives, meaning safety and comfort. To gain security people settle into routines. The trouble is there is a trade-off we have to pay for this and that is falling into a rut where we are not challenged. As humans, we also seek adventure and risk, and to gain that you generally have to break with your routines. Your topic is very relevant to today's social climate as the Governments (or A.I) are trying to negate people's health risks.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +2

      Such a interesting thought John! It sounded like you were describing my exact situation. Of course, I fell too deep into my routine which made it seem uninteresting and monotonous. I don't know what the healthy balance of routine and adventure looks like for me yet, but making videos have helped me to gain better insight. Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment

    • @scribble_sribe
      @scribble_sribe Před 3 lety

      @@MalamaLifeyour learning another language is certainly a positive step. Also walking and exploring new areas is another way. I think it is an impossible balance in today's world. I certainly don't know all the answers.

  • @robertashaffer3950
    @robertashaffer3950 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you for this video Sophie. I'm glad I fell upon it. I needed this today.
    🙏🙏

  • @ailsaburns
    @ailsaburns Před 3 lety +2

    Your videos have been giving me a much needed reset at various points on my lazy Sunday! Thank you! I feel like a perspective shift for me has been not waiting for things to go back to "normal" and simply trying to make the best of the lifestyle I have now. Xxx

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much Ailsa!! that is something that I am really working on too. It just puts me at ease to think of the situation that way.

  • @AllThingsAlexa
    @AllThingsAlexa Před 3 lety +15

    Yes I need this. So excited. I’ve been in a rut the last week or so. I feel like I’m just starting to get out of it✨

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      I always have to remind myself that it's just temporary and then we come back even more inspired 😁😍 thank you Alexa!

    • @AllThingsAlexa
      @AllThingsAlexa Před 3 lety

      Malama Life exactly!

  • @DeeSimpleSlowLife
    @DeeSimpleSlowLife Před 3 lety +2

    Every walk is a mini-adventure! Love this. ☺️💕 For me, creating contents in my channel, trying new things and being creative help me to break from my repetitive routines. 🌼

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      You are right Dee! Making youtube vidoes has been a fun challenge for me and it helps me break out of my routine :)

  • @user-od9xe5oy5s
    @user-od9xe5oy5s Před 3 lety +4

    I like you Sophie :) i like how the things you say come flowing out of you, and do not feel staged or pretentious. Also, we both have very long hair and mine has been in a bun for over a week (ive been feeling so low) you inspired me to give it a good washing and taking care of it. Please send good wishes my way, i really need the positive energy. Thank you 💗

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Aww such a sweet comment. thank you so much :) It always makes me feel good when I wash my hair and deep condition it! Sending you love and positivity your way too! I appreciate your comment.

    • @user-od9xe5oy5s
      @user-od9xe5oy5s Před 3 lety +1

      @@MalamaLife Enjoy your day Sophie , thank you so so much for your positivity

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @estrelabalane3396
    @estrelabalane3396 Před 3 lety +1

    Can relate on this. ❤️ The daily routine becomes a challenge. And I need to look again that “purpose” . Thanks for this video. So simple but content is full of love and authentic.👍

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      Thanks for watching and for your sweet comment 🥰 I fall into these ruts sometimes, but I guess it's just part of life transitions.

  • @delgermaadaram4476
    @delgermaadaram4476 Před 3 lety +2

    I like the main principle of the minimalism and slow living way,even i decided to change my lifestyle into these.But sometimes this kind of videos seem little bit boring and isolated from society. However,i'm still addicted to watch it over and over again maybe my inner soul really wants this kind of calm peaceful life.And i already started to following your tips how to declutter things accumulated over years...Result was wonderful,thank you Sophie!🥰

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      I am so happy to hear! I think it's great you are listening to your inner voice to seek a more peaceful life. Thank you for supporting my channel 🥰

  • @brittanylove222
    @brittanylove222 Před 3 lety +2

    I talk things out with my partner, having the space to talk about how I’m feeling is so important. From the conversation I usually discover what’s really making me feel in a rut so I can move forward ❤️

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      That is so special to have relationships like the one you have with your partner. I agree that it's so important to discuss and learn to move on. thanks so much for watching Brittany

  • @carolc2574
    @carolc2574 Před 3 lety +3

    I love your channel and your content. It is soothing and includes sound advice. Congratulations on learning Spanish! It is daunting but a beautiful language. I am from Spain so if you ever need help all you have to do is ask! 💜

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much Carol ❤ I am so excited to learn it because I love Spanish songs and music. Such a beautiful language 😍 I appreciate your offer

  • @freewillietoday
    @freewillietoday Před 3 lety +1

    This video is timely. Early March was the last time I saw my team or attended a major event. In my workflow, events routinely pepper my calendar; now there is nothing except Zoom meetings, which are pretty good---and will continue long after we emerge on the other side of the curve.. I have been systematically de-cluttering even before the pandemic---and that has been good, now could be a good time to add a nuance or two for a little variety. Thanks for posting this thoughtful and beautiful video. 🙏

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      I am also becoming very familiar with zoom meetings! I actually prefer them, but sometimes miss interacting with my coworkers. I am sure you miss seeing your team as well. I am always craving change, but realizing that adding variety can do the trick as well. Thank you so much Wilfred!

  • @elainejoyencarnacion7940

    This is my favorite video of yours! 🥺♥️

  • @user-qx1gq6zv5f
    @user-qx1gq6zv5f Před 3 lety +4

    I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND FEEL VERY CONNECTED TO YOUR WAY OF THINKING

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you so much :) I am really happy you enjoyed the video!

  • @koufax174
    @koufax174 Před rokem

    Do things you don’t think you can do every day and there will never be routine. It’s an exciting and growth oriented way to live ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @lauraneaves6912
    @lauraneaves6912 Před 3 lety +1

    Loved this beautiful calming video! If I was there it would be great to walk and talk with you 🥰 I've definitely felt like I've been in a rut...feeling frustrated by the lack of purpose and inspiration too. 💗

  • @tocandofondoconclaudia
    @tocandofondoconclaudia Před 2 lety +1

    It is interesting watching this video and your last one about the Beauty of a normal life, and watching your growth. You maybe were here one year ago tired of the same routine inside your home and now you learned the beauty of that routine, and starting to be even more grateful for that everyday routine. This transition is happening to me recently as well, and definitely I have realized my favorite joyful moments and more peaceful are inside my home lying on my balcony with my dogs or family watching the clouds or the sunset with a cup of tea. Thanks to your videos I got inspired to learn how edit videos, and I am working in my 2nd video thanks the motivation you give me. Hope your Spanish now is better lol. I would love you can watch and understand my Spanish videos and give me your feedback. Can’t wait for your next video! 🤗❤️

  • @kyla8555
    @kyla8555 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Sophie 💓

  • @SacredPlantTemple
    @SacredPlantTemple Před 3 lety +2

    This video was like medicine to my soul thx you 🌟

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      Makes me so happy to hear that ❤😊 thank you

  • @mczilla8628
    @mczilla8628 Před 3 lety +1

    Another good one Sophie when you said about changing the way you do something thats exactly what i do when i feel im starting to get into a rut i change the way i workout or change the way we eat like for example go meatless for a few days. Alot of the times its like getting a B12 shot and you get exciting about something new to try even though your doing what you always do. Nice video

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      You gave me some great ideas! I am going to try out a different workout and maybe switching up from our regular menu. I'm learning that it takes very little for me to get excited something, so I am trying to embrace all the little changes. Thank you so much!!

  • @ravenswoodwitch58
    @ravenswoodwitch58 Před 3 lety +2

    I am new to this channel but wow I love your videos so peaceful, honest and.... Inspiring. Groundhog Day is what I call it. X 🕊️

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you so much :) That makes me so happy to hear. Many more videos coming up soon

    • @ravenswoodwitch58
      @ravenswoodwitch58 Před 3 lety +1

      @@MalamaLife so welcome. I can't wait for them. I have been living a minimalist life for quite a while ,but I would say it's took about 10 years to properly transition. Don't get me wrong I do at times buy things for the sake of it. I have waisted 1000s over the years. I tend to buy something that has an emotional attachment to it and this kind of buying is not good for me. It's nice to see how you are living your life because it's so inspiring as you are honest, it's that that makes them so authentic 🕊️

  • @sydneykoontz6915
    @sydneykoontz6915 Před rokem

    Watching your videos gets me out of a rut. Makes me appreciate the mundane.

  • @lydiaderhake2532
    @lydiaderhake2532 Před 2 lety

    I felt the same way you did at the beginning of this video from the beginning of lockdown until only a month or so ago. My brother asking me to help coordinate his wedding kicked me out of it. I was scared I'd never feel energized or motivated again.

  • @Surfrz3
    @Surfrz3 Před 2 lety +1

    Thinking is creating. To get out of the rut mentality I work on my mindset. But life can still become tedious, repetitious, and boring so I watch You Tube channels like yours. Thanks 💕 Inspirational

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 2 lety

      ❤❤❤

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 2 lety

      It is so hard to get into the right mindset sometimes! But yes i also watch others creators to get inspired:)

  • @StefanJ80
    @StefanJ80 Před 3 lety +1

    Here in Germany it's raining pretty hard right now. But I just need to watch this video and the sun will shine. Great....🤗

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      I am sending warmth and lots of sunshine to you in Germany!! I'm glad I can at least share it through my videos. Thanks Stefan.

  • @meghabisht3392
    @meghabisht3392 Před 3 lety

    Going back to my YogaAsana practice is one things which keeps me going on daily basis 😇

  • @SteveSandersonArt
    @SteveSandersonArt Před 3 lety +1

    What a great channel this is.... just found it, and it makes me happy :)

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you so much Steve! Makes me incredibly happy to hear that 😊❤

  • @leonelgonzalez219
    @leonelgonzalez219 Před rokem

    we love you. Thank you

  • @katerinasofie6879
    @katerinasofie6879 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow, this is so relatable. This is exactly how I feel. On one hand I do quite like the routine, but on the other one it´s also pretty frustrating. My country isn´t dealing with Covid well, so we are in lockdown. Most of my days consist of on-line classes and working on my assignments. The weather is cold, so not much to do outside. I do believe I have to find some sort of adventure, something that makes our day different, however small it is...

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      It's been really tough. Just reading your comment, I realize that at least I have the good weather and outdoors. I hope that things start to loosen up soon where you are Katie. I've also been trying to find some adventure. Keeping my plants alive has been a challenge and excitement for me lately :)

    • @katerinasofie6879
      @katerinasofie6879 Před 3 lety

      @@MalamaLife Thank you very much! Hawaii does sound wonderful right now :-) ! And plants can definitely give you lots of new energy!

  • @anusadana8139
    @anusadana8139 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for your tips!

  • @markblado4282
    @markblado4282 Před 3 lety +1

    Nice video Sophie!! Your comments really hit home! I think this year has been challenging to stay out of a rut for everyone!!
    Even though I am shy at times, like you, I’m trying to brush up on my Spanish for my Spanish speaking friends on IG. I’m also learning bits of Italian and German for the same reason! It’s going slowly but it feels good to make some progress.
    Another way to get out of a rut is to get involved and help other people
    My neighbors husband was in the hospital for about three weeks. When I found that out I organized a couple of other people in the neighborhood to help by mowing her lawn. She said I didn’t have to, but I knew she was busy at work and then going to and fro from the hospital.
    Another thing I did was I put a Biden/Harris sign on our front lawn. Being an ambivert, I normally don’t do this, but I thought it was especially important this year to state how we felt to my neighbors. Surprisingly, I met a lot of neighbors that I didn’t really even know that well, who felt the same way we did!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      That is incredibly sweet of you to help out your neighbor Mark! I definitely wish I had this relationship with my neighbors : ) maybe it's time for me to take the initiative. You are absolutely right! when we take the attention away from ourselves and focus on helping others, it will give us a sense of purpose while lending a hand. Such a great message! I always appreciate your comments.

    • @markblado4282
      @markblado4282 Před 3 lety

      Malama Life Thank you for nice comments Sophie! I appreciate it!! It definitely feels good to help others out when you can. :) I know it can take awhile to get to know neighbors. You can always help by donating food to your local food pantry or school supplies to needy kids. As rough as I think my life is going, when I talk with others, I realize they’re going through tough times too, often worse. So I look for ways to help. :))

  • @gw7615
    @gw7615 Před 3 lety +2

    I try to be aware of the present moment as much as possible 🙏 .

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      I love that! I definitely try to be more mindful as well :)

  • @arleneyamagata5542
    @arleneyamagata5542 Před 3 lety +2

    I, too, feel that this year has gone by rather quickly (speed of light rate) despite the pandemic slowing down our activities...hmm🤔 Take care, stay safe.🤗💕

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you Arlene❤ such a crazy year, but I'm counting all the great things that came out of this year! Take ❤

  • @layjustin1113
    @layjustin1113 Před rokem

    good motivation

  • @nitongpelingon8374
    @nitongpelingon8374 Před rokem

    great video-from the philippines

  • @alexperoff-investingessent8367

    I really like the 3 buckets. I think it's always important to re-evaluate and reflect when it comes to our contributions to the buckets. This also reminds me of the book, Essentialism by Greg McKeown. You can focus on a few essentials, but you've built in specific time "outside of routine" to do and try different things...explore. And that can help us get out of our...rut. Great video Sophie! I like your style of video. You must be using interesting filter settings or color grading to create that cinematic look!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +2

      I love that book and feel like I learn something new every single time I read it. Yes definitely exploring outside of my routine (my comfort zone) brought me a fresh new prespective! My husband just gifted me a ND filter for those very sunny outdoor shots :) It helps in making it look cinematic. I love that you noticed! thank you Alex.

    • @alexperoff-investingessent8367
      @alexperoff-investingessent8367 Před 3 lety +1

      @@MalamaLife Ah, an ND filter, that's awesome. Yes, I'm constantly trying to achieve the cinematic look, at least in some ways. Yeah, Essentialism is such a fast read, it's nice to revisit it frequently to remember the main points.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      @@alexperoff-investingessent8367 Your studio/set up is awesome btw. Very professional.

  • @li87A
    @li87A Před 3 lety +1

    Another amazing vlog❤

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      Aww so happy to hear that! Thank you so much :)

  • @bindasgirl350
    @bindasgirl350 Před 2 lety

    want more videos like this

  • @jordanunknown5128
    @jordanunknown5128 Před 3 lety +1

    Never seen a video with 1k likes and 0 dislikes wow props 👏🏽

  • @beckywhitfield4813
    @beckywhitfield4813 Před 8 měsíci +1

    This is me for the last 3 years. Especially, the last 2 years.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 8 měsíci

      ❤️ possible to get out of it!

  • @elainemah3907
    @elainemah3907 Před 3 lety +20

    Your hair just keeps distracting me! How gorgeous! Can you please do a hair care routine? I can never get my hair as healthy and long!

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +10

      Thank you so much Elaine! so sweet of you. I actually just wash twice a week with tea tree oil shampoo and use a bit of coconut oil and that's about it. I recently cut it and got rid of all the split ends too :) noticed that the less I touch it, the healthier it becomes.

    • @fariharahaman7996
      @fariharahaman7996 Před 3 lety

      Wow
      How sweet of you
      You are so authentic.

  • @baziljv9357
    @baziljv9357 Před 3 lety

    Super relaxing

  • @damnthisuser
    @damnthisuser Před rokem

    U look beautiful so if ur not maintaining then ur very lucky. I dont know why this popped up in feed but it's come at the right time. It's very relaxing.

  • @reciprocalhealing
    @reciprocalhealing Před 3 lety +1

    Your hair is lovely! Giving yourself some love via gtn ready helps a lot. I'm not sure if it's as much how you actually look as it is how you feel through giving yourself that attention! Xox 😚

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Aww thank you :) and YES! I love that you mentioned the process of getting ready. I am just learning that I need to take better care of myself before I focus on anyone else. Physical appearance is not everything, but has a lot to do with what's going on in the inside. Thank you for your comment kelss :)

    • @reciprocalhealing
      @reciprocalhealing Před 3 lety

      @@MalamaLife looking good does make u feel good! I know I shud "get ready" even on those slug days but don't lol ❤❤❤ loving ur content as always

  • @annyb.5568
    @annyb.5568 Před rokem

    Hello Sophie,
    I love your calming voice and slow videos 🌺
    You talk about so many beautiful and amazing things, also the truth to.
    Little question: Where are your clothes from? There are beautiful and comfy
    Thank you for your Videos ☀️♥️
    Lots of Love

  • @karolinalul5020
    @karolinalul5020 Před 3 lety +3

    Please could you make a video about 10 vest books you ever read !🤩

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +2

      Yes I would love to share! I am writing this one down for a future video :)

  • @nehafabricworld2005
    @nehafabricworld2005 Před 2 lety

    Lots of love from India

  • @amalmohamednoor7261
    @amalmohamednoor7261 Před rokem

    Thanks for the inspiration. I love your Chanel.a lot. We as Muslims believe that we are created to worship God and worship includes everything you mentioned & more.however, the most important is to get to know our Creator first in order to be able worship Him out of love so we can live a purposeful life. I invite you to explore Islam and why is it the fast growing religion despite all of the misconceptions about it & why most of the converts to Islam are women. Hope you find some gems that will transform your life.

  • @rickyrulloda5528
    @rickyrulloda5528 Před 3 lety +1

    dogs and beaches...nice

  • @fariharahaman7996
    @fariharahaman7996 Před 3 lety +2

    Your surrounding is sooo refreshing ❤❤❤❤

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you so much ❤😊

    • @fariharahaman7996
      @fariharahaman7996 Před 3 lety +1

      you are most wlcm
      I never miss your videos.
      I just love your thoughts👌❤❤❤

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      @@fariharahaman7996 aw thank you Fariha! it really means a lot. I will try to have a regular upload schedule. next one on Tuesday ;)

    • @fariharahaman7996
      @fariharahaman7996 Před 3 lety

      Ok
      Hope good one will come soon
      Best of luck❤❤❤

  • @rickyrulloda5528
    @rickyrulloda5528 Před 3 lety

    love the camera work and editing... costco toothbrush, right?

  • @ashikachand6929
    @ashikachand6929 Před 3 lety +2

    Hello Sophie,
    What are some of your great book recommendations on minimalism and slow living?

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      Thanks for watching! I have some of my favorite minimalism books on my website www.malama-life.com 😊💕

  • @walaelyas9139
    @walaelyas9139 Před 3 lety +8

    Oh my God, that hair is 🤩, I bet you use fresh aloe Vera 🥰

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      Oh thank you ❤😁 so sweet of you. I haven't used aloe for my hair, but maybe I should try?

    • @walaelyas9139
      @walaelyas9139 Před 3 lety +3

      Give it a try it’s amazing and you already have it there, could you please make a video about minimal hair and skin care routine?

    • @reciprocalhealing
      @reciprocalhealing Před 3 lety

      The hair 😍😂

  • @octoberfirefly
    @octoberfirefly Před 3 lety +2

    Such a beautiful & appreciated reminder. Thank you. 🙏🏼☀️🌾 Also, where do you get your clothes from and/or what are your favorite shops? If you prefer not to share, that’s okay too. :) 🪴💛🍃

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you so much Cindy 😊 appreciate your kind words. I plan to do a closet tour/minimalist wardrobe in the future. I've been conscious about the brands I wear and will recommend in that video 😁 stay tuned ❤

    • @octoberfirefly
      @octoberfirefly Před 3 lety

      @@MalamaLife Yay! I’m looking forward to it. Thanks! 🪴🌾💛 :) Mahalo 🌺🍃

  • @extrinsicvaluegera610
    @extrinsicvaluegera610 Před 2 lety +1

    Hola Sophie como estas?
    I think I recognized the area where you walking your dogs is In Wailea by andaz resort.

  • @WILD-CAVEMAN-123
    @WILD-CAVEMAN-123 Před 3 lety +1

    I am new to your channel and just learning about you. It's very nice to make your acquaintance. 💕

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much for the comment 😊 and welcome to the channel! Hope you're liking the videos.

    • @WILD-CAVEMAN-123
      @WILD-CAVEMAN-123 Před 3 lety +1

      @@MalamaLife I am really enjoying listening to your soft voice. 😊 Unintentional ASMR?

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      Haha I am very soft spoken in general so it is definitely unintentional 😋

    • @WILD-CAVEMAN-123
      @WILD-CAVEMAN-123 Před 3 lety +1

      @@MalamaLife You might end up on someone's "best of" unintentional ASMR playlist. You never know! 😋

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      @@WILD-CAVEMAN-123 haha :) I would be honored!

  • @artsmajor7502
    @artsmajor7502 Před 2 lety

    Ur doggies 🐕 are super cute 😍

  • @Stephanie-py7st
    @Stephanie-py7st Před 9 měsíci

    ... on your question at the end: Watching your videos ;)

  • @nuggetsss2526
    @nuggetsss2526 Před 2 lety

    Predictable is good :)

  • @LaylaBeauty6
    @LaylaBeauty6 Před 3 lety +2

    🐘This watering can is so sweet! 🐘

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      It makes me so happy every time I water my plants 🥰

    • @LaylaBeauty6
      @LaylaBeauty6 Před 3 lety

      @@MalamaLife It looks like a real pleasure. I love elephants! When I was a child I used to have an elephant🐘 mascot, which was my favourite. You reminded me by this little sweet thing. 💓

  • @pushpamchadha2082
    @pushpamchadha2082 Před rokem

    🙏🏻

  • @abhishekbiswas9741
    @abhishekbiswas9741 Před 3 lety +3

    Soothing voice and simple but pleasant appearance makes u perfect one for the channel at least according to the content. If possible add travel blog, explore the place u live. Looking beautiful is good but that does not effect ur work as ur content is not about beauty tips. Remember physical beauty is temporary it passes with time but good deeds, perfection in work builds reputation that remains even after death. God give u a long and healthy life.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      Thank you for the suggestion 😊 I would love to add travel blog footage in the future since Hawaii is such a beau place. I would love to share. Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment.

  • @morgankayex
    @morgankayex Před 2 lety +1

    We have the same alarm clock

  • @MORCOPOLO0817
    @MORCOPOLO0817 Před 3 lety +1

    Change has alwyas been hard for me.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      In some aspects, it is for me as well. However, lately I've been craving change :) Maybe I need a challenge

  • @gentermixofficial6311
    @gentermixofficial6311 Před 3 lety +1

    Nice content

  • @pcmuana5520
    @pcmuana5520 Před rokem +1

    Goodmorning. Have a very nice day

  • @ajaythomas2009
    @ajaythomas2009 Před 3 lety +1

    AMazing

  • @deepikadiaries5306
    @deepikadiaries5306 Před 3 lety +2

    You are beautiful in and out😊💕

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you so much 😊❤🙏 so sweet of you

  • @ZikhonaN
    @ZikhonaN Před 3 lety +1

    ❤😍

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +1

      First comment again!!! 🥰😍❤

  • @michaeldemetriou3043
    @michaeldemetriou3043 Před 3 lety

    ❤❤

  • @margittakacsneszabo3490
    @margittakacsneszabo3490 Před 3 lety +1

    Hí,what is your favorite parfum?
    Thanks

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety +2

      I don't wear any perfumes anymore :) just deodorant and some Essential oil

    • @margittakacsneszabo3490
      @margittakacsneszabo3490 Před 3 lety

      @@MalamaLife And which Essentail oils do you prefere? And deos? Sorry, I don't speak English.

  • @luisd5098
    @luisd5098 Před 3 lety +1

    😌❤

  • @jeffshackelford539
    @jeffshackelford539 Před 3 lety +1

    Can you help me? Watching to many utube videos can turn into a rut. Seems like an OK rut though.

  • @SamplingPercussion
    @SamplingPercussion Před 10 měsíci

    Look at all that stuff!! lol. Minimalism, lol. Keep posing!

  • @kimgordon3695
    @kimgordon3695 Před 3 lety +1

    I think I want to play the mandolin

  • @sasidharansasidharan7332
    @sasidharansasidharan7332 Před 3 lety +1

    i really wnt to live a slow life...

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      I hope you can. It has it's benefits and rewards :)

  • @NelsonRodriguezOnlin
    @NelsonRodriguezOnlin Před 3 lety +2

    Seriously 9am? I’m up at 6. What am I doing wrong? 😄

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      but I sleep at 2 am :D we all have different cycles

  • @user-kj4yi8zf2v
    @user-kj4yi8zf2v Před 3 lety +1

    I wanna show it to my mom if there were Japanese subtitles

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  Před 3 lety

      Aw thank you. I wish I had a translator!!