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  • @emberurban
    @emberurban Před rokem +10011

    Bring them back a month or two after their babies are born please!

  • @andreaus.
    @andreaus. Před rokem +5600

    ‘Blue shirt’ wins for best answer. “Either one…as long as you’re my kid.” ANY nuance beyond that, is a private discussion for when that child is of-age and has the language to speak on it.

  • @sarahbi8811
    @sarahbi8811 Před rokem +3035

    The guy in the blue shirt that said you can't expect things from your kids that you yourself can't do as a parent, preach!! All the fellas seem like they'd be funny awesome dads

  • @EffinFatai
    @EffinFatai Před rokem +4683

    Can't believe they asked the "gay son vs thot daughter" question 😂😂😂

    • @bojuu
      @bojuu Před rokem +110

      its weird because theres a lot of questions on the internet that go viral once and then at one point most people reach a conclusion and it dies down. (e.g. the blue/white dress, is water wet? etc.) but this is the only question that i've never been able to personally answer to this day. even though it seems so dumb

    • @BonShula
      @BonShula Před rokem +84

      It is not weird since a lot of stigma still in society about these topics. Especially sex work since at least homosexuality has been increasing in approval rating

    • @poejavelski148
      @poejavelski148 Před rokem +86

      @@BonShulaSex work should be stigmatized.

    • @Sam-tb4im
      @Sam-tb4im Před rokem +97

      @@poejavelski148 moneys money better than working a 9-5 until you die

    • @poejavelski148
      @poejavelski148 Před rokem +110

      @@Sam-tb4im No, only the top tier creators make a lot of money from sex work. Most make less than a 9-5. Also, nearly every sex worker has mental health issues, not to mention their personal relationships are challenging. That’s gonna be a no from me dawg, you have to be in a pretty dark place to ever want to do that.

  • @1997mclarencongo
    @1997mclarencongo Před rokem +2548

    as a man, this 1000% warmed my heart to see these fathers-to-be get along so damn well and are all on the same page for the vast majority of things they’ll encounter as fathers. these are good role models, and if i’m even half as good as these guys are when i become a father, i think i’ll be alright 🙏🏾

    • @UnBesoDeCristal
      @UnBesoDeCristal Před rokem +16

      misogyny is wo wholesome

    • @mymydigitaldiary
      @mymydigitaldiary Před rokem +14

      that’s a low bar

    • @KeatrithAmakiir
      @KeatrithAmakiir Před rokem +22

      Really? there was a lot of sexism and ignorance on display here. They almost all admitted their partner is doing all the work / prep for the baby's arrival and they're just chillin. Not cool, and not how to be a supportive partner at all

    • @1997mclarencongo
      @1997mclarencongo Před rokem +7

      @@KeatrithAmakiiroutside of blue shirt, did any of the other men say they weren’t doing shit around the house? and for the others, could you point out the specific instances of misogyny outside of the “thot daughter/gay son” question? since i’m evidently not seeing what y’all are seeing

    • @KeatrithAmakiir
      @KeatrithAmakiir Před rokem +7

      @@1997mclarencongo I never said that one question was sexist, that was a good question. Their answers are problematic because what's inherently the problem with a promiscuous daughter? That concern is more applied to young women than men. Additionally, several admitted their wives were doing all the prep for the arrival of the baby and they were just doing business as usual, which is a holdover of archaic societal gender roles where fathers don't help around the house / with kids equally. I could go on, but I feel that clarifies my point sufficiently, hope that helps

  • @sooploopz
    @sooploopz Před rokem +2747

    I hope they all stay friends and all their kids grow up and become friends with each other

  • @Vanessa-bl7cp
    @Vanessa-bl7cp Před rokem +1396

    It’s honestly so nice to see men wanting to be involved in their kids life, being a role model and just all around wanting to be there for them.

    • @sarahdemartin1183
      @sarahdemartin1183 Před rokem +76

      I agree. It is pretty nice to see the bare minimum

    • @ChrisBX89
      @ChrisBX89 Před rokem +7

      Can happen more often if women didn't have shitty taste in men. Stop going for the good looking, tall, popular, rich guy with a nice car and actually go for a man with good character & qualities

    • @yurinater6003
      @yurinater6003 Před rokem +115

      @@ChrisBX89 Blaming the women again instead of the deadbeat dads 😍

    • @ChrisBX89
      @ChrisBX89 Před rokem +7

      @@yurinater6003 I know women are allergic to accountability but can u please tell me who's choosing those deadbeats? & It's funny when men opt out of Parenthood we get called "deadbeats" but when women do it they're "responsible" FOH, at least when we leave the kid is still alive🤷

    • @sarahchoi2657
      @sarahchoi2657 Před rokem

      @@ChrisBX89 women are not choosing deadbeats. men are actively becoming deabeats after being chosen. "at least when we leave the kid is still alive" u sound dumb. so it's better to abandon a living kid and leave them in a shitty situation than to prevent that from happening in the first place?

  • @twiddle7125
    @twiddle7125 Před rokem +792

    I think it would have been interesting to see dads with adult children paired with these soon-to-be dads and see how time changes their answers.

  • @Kyle-vp2dk
    @Kyle-vp2dk Před rokem +853

    The CUT team member who thought to make “gay son or thot daughter” the thumbnail is INSANE

  • @birdie_.
    @birdie_. Před rokem +977

    I absolutely have 0 interest in having kids but seeing people who want kids so excited about having kids I absolutely love🥹

    • @ztarr
      @ztarr Před rokem +38

      Aww that's nice. The desire to have children does bewilder me a little. It just seems like one of the scariest journey's to embark on in life and people are just out here jumping on the wagon everyday 😂

    • @birdie_.
      @birdie_. Před rokem +22

      @@ztarr yeah I’m like why does anyone wanna deal with that??😂 nah I am not built for parenthood but for those who are, I get so excited for. Just keep that poopy crying thing away from me🫣

    • @babibrii
      @babibrii Před rokem +8

      I thought the same before I had my surprise son ! I was SO upset at first when I first found out but now i can’t imagine life without having him ! He’ll be 5 in September and now I want one more lol !

    • @birdie_.
      @birdie_. Před rokem +4

      @@babibrii Aw congrats 🥰

    • @ztarr
      @ztarr Před rokem +4

      @@babibrii lmaoo I'm so glad that worked out for you. I've always felt called to adopt. I never want to endure pregnancy and I personally don't feel the need to bring more children into the world, but I do know that I have a compassionate heart that would make some kids in need of a mom happy. So yeah, one day when I've done all my running around the world, I'll hopefully adopt some older kiddos 🤞🏽

  • @hazelmiller2217
    @hazelmiller2217 Před rokem +146

    “MY GIRLS DOING HER WHOLE NESTING THING AND IM JUST GOING ABOUT MY DAY”

  • @RaiyaSaleem-vn6jw
    @RaiyaSaleem-vn6jw Před rokem +186

    I need the white man and the man with the blue snapback to meet up every few months and re do this - they seem like they could develop a good friendship

  • @rebeccadavidson6416
    @rebeccadavidson6416 Před rokem +189

    The guy sooo excited to be a dad warmed my heart, he couldn't stop smiling

  • @alunoodalmheiri7028
    @alunoodalmheiri7028 Před rokem +164

    The black guy with the blue cap seems like the sweetest person ever!!

    • @WadeIsInsane
      @WadeIsInsane Před rokem +3

      Which one? There were two with the long braids/locs

    • @oooladip
      @oooladip Před rokem +1

      @@WadeIsInsane i bet they are talking about the light-skin father. he has an exuberant personality

    • @alunoodalmheiri7028
      @alunoodalmheiri7028 Před rokem +2

      @@WadeIsInsane
      Right 😆 the guy in the blue cap

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Před rokem

      Besides him wanting to mutilate his child's genitals unnecessarily.

    • @WadeIsInsane
      @WadeIsInsane Před rokem

      @@alunoodalmheiri7028 i gotcha, ya i agree 😄

  • @tantanjafin
    @tantanjafin Před rokem +366

    All these guys seem like they could be friends after this. Hope for safe delivery for all

  • @1rkhachatryan
    @1rkhachatryan Před rokem +986

    So sad to see how normalized circumcision is in America, I'm so glad my parents never did that to me. It's the fact that they don't even question it that is so weird and I will never understand.

    • @Superbatmanbro
      @Superbatmanbro Před rokem +101

      I never even knew that people did that until a while ago and just grateful for having my foreskin on me still.

    • @trevorpeterson8528
      @trevorpeterson8528 Před rokem +38

      I’m glad my parents did it too me and my son will also be glad I will get it done for him

    • @1rkhachatryan
      @1rkhachatryan Před rokem +183

      @@trevorpeterson8528 real great mind reader there aren't you lol.

    • @boredguy5805
      @boredguy5805 Před rokem +96

      I really don't get it, even as a Canadian, it's alot more uncommon here compared to in America. Idk what it is there across the border that makes them so comfortable doing it

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Před rokem +199

      @@trevorpeterson8528: Why would you want to permanently destroy a part of your child's body for absolutely no medical necessity? Leave them alone until they are adults and can decide for themselves whether or not they want to mutilate their body.

  • @kristen7938
    @kristen7938 Před 10 měsíci +67

    I appreciate Ben so much for doing research and keeping his son(s) whole

  • @platinum4187
    @platinum4187 Před rokem +202

    Touching to see men talk so deeply and personally about their feelings and such an important topic. Disclosure builds intimacy and literally saw them connecting and liking the other man. Love to see it. And its hopeful to see men with values shared here will be putting kids into the world. ❤

    • @starlittered
      @starlittered Před 5 měsíci

      What an eloquent answer!! Wow ❤

  • @polinabckff
    @polinabckff Před rokem +29

    the blue shirt guy is so funny and kind :) i think he's gonna be the jokester kind of dad

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 Před rokem +760

    These are fairly entertaining to watch. Happy Fathers' Day to all deserving good dads out there.

  • @stuts527
    @stuts527 Před rokem +245

    I didn't expect this episode to be THIS WHOLESOME, I WAS SMILING THE WHOLE TIME ❤

  • @liljordlord
    @liljordlord Před rokem +125

    i like that the “gay son or is thot daughter” question was asked because even though it started off as a trendy meme joke, it does say a lot about society and how patriarchy sees things such as sexuality outside of the status quo (cisgender males). i think most of the answers were very real and came from genuine places. although they weren’t the best answers to hear i’m sure these guys grew up with men saying stuff like “i want neither” or “GAY??”. a lot of progress in terms of parenting and fathering off a question like that.

    • @jesusbarrera6916
      @jesusbarrera6916 Před rokem

      here's a little secret.... women can get pregnant and the guy could just bail leaving her with the issue by herself and it becomes a family issue if the daughter does not wish to abort but cannot take care of it by herself
      mindblowing I know..... damn that patriarchy for basic biological functions

    • @jedinight235
      @jedinight235 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Please don't use cisgender, a lot of people don't like when they are referred to as a term someone else made up for them.
      An analogy could be how LGBT don't like it when we misgender them. Similar thing applies.

    • @Savannah-
      @Savannah- Před 10 měsíci

      @@jedinight235 All terms are "made up" for people. Cis is just a latin prefix that means "on this side of", it's simply a way to refer to non-transgender people. It's a neutral term, there's nothing offensive about it. An extreme minority have decided to take offense because of their own wacky views on gender and transgender people. The vast majority are fine w it, stop telling people what they can and can't say based on a handful of weirdo opinions.
      Also, the LG and B have nothing to do with gender. You can't compare being misgendered with being called cis. Misgendering is calling someone something they're not. Cisgender people DO identify as people who agree with their assigned sex at birth which is all cis means. Should we stop saying straight because a couple fuckhead straight people get mad that we're implying there's something other than straight that's valid so it offends them? Go away.

    • @DrunkenEros
      @DrunkenEros Před 7 měsíci +20

      ​@@jedinight235do you get mad being called heterosexual

    • @jedinight235
      @jedinight235 Před 7 měsíci

      @@DrunkenEros No because thats the scientific, and in my opinion sounding better, term.

  • @kernox835
    @kernox835 Před rokem +339

    Expecting parents expecting the approval from other expecting parents. Pure cinema

  • @bntin
    @bntin Před rokem +629

    Watching this from the UK, being cut down there isn’t the norm- it’s sad to see parents deciding bodily autonomy for a baby… they get no say & I’ve been with cut men and they feel it far far less than un-cut.
    I think it should be the kids decision once they’re old enough

    • @christineg6123
      @christineg6123 Před rokem +73

      Canadian here. 100% agreed

    • @MrJungle123
      @MrJungle123 Před rokem

      Exactly.
      'Hey look, our perfect little baby boy. Let's go and mutilate his cock' is basically how I view circumcision.

    • @mimu6700
      @mimu6700 Před rokem +64

      German here, agree as well

    • @Ed95366
      @Ed95366 Před rokem +97

      American here, felt weird about it as well when almost all of them agreed. Forgot how normalized it was here.

    • @sk-nb5tl
      @sk-nb5tl Před rokem +29

      Getting circumcised as a grown man instead of child im guessing would be more painful/ difficult

  • @pleasedtomeetyou1284
    @pleasedtomeetyou1284 Před rokem +688

    Of course no one wants their kid to be promiscuous but when you ask it in the way of "gay son or thot daughter" its ignorant because those two things are not interchangeable. Ask them the real question "thot son or thot daughter" or "gay son or gay daughter". THAT is what we need to hear. If your daughter chooses to sleep around safely, just be there for them and let them know what's up. Be open with them. You can change their mind about sleeping around. Lol it's not the end of the world.
    EVERYONE! Please read the idiotic things @jesusbarrera6916 is writing in this comment section about how he prefers to have a thot son and how he won’t make his son take responsibility of a child he helped create. It’s a goooood laugh!

    • @doobie245
      @doobie245 Před rokem +37

      thank you❤ you’ve put into words what I felt for so long

    • @blessingn8571
      @blessingn8571 Před rokem +13

      Very well said 👏🏾

    • @APhizzle
      @APhizzle Před rokem +63

      I came here to comment this. During Pride Month too? And from Cut? Like what?

    • @whitwhit1043
      @whitwhit1043 Před rokem +64

      yes even “would you rather have a gay child or promiscuous child” instead of forcing the gender aspect would be an improvement

    • @ritamarie3652
      @ritamarie3652 Před rokem +4

      agreeeeeeeed!!!!!!!!

  • @robert7567
    @robert7567 Před rokem +160

    As an uncircumcised American, Americans can be so backwards in their understanding of circumcision. Having a foreskin isn’t so uncommon as y’all would think - South and Central America, Europe, Asia - there are loads of men walking around with their willies intact.

    • @nintendo1709
      @nintendo1709 Před rokem +4

      Why do you care about that either way? If that’s what the culture or religion normally does then do it. If you don’t want to do it on your child that’s your choice.

    • @robert7567
      @robert7567 Před rokem +25

      @@nintendo1709 if the culture does it because of misinformation, then it’s a problem. Go do your research and quiet down. Pfft.

    • @nintendo1709
      @nintendo1709 Před rokem +1

      @@robert7567 well for instance in my culture, I come from Polynesia, we have been performing circumcision for thousands of years and now we have white Europeans telling us how to do things and it’s quite irritating. I wish non-indigenous people would stay out of our affairs. If you want to do something in your community or your home that’s fine, don’t force us to go along with you.

    • @faugina8843
      @faugina8843 Před rokem

      @@nintendo1709 It shouldnt be the parents choice to mutilate a part of their childs penis, when the kid grows up they can choose to cut it and eat it with some bbq sauce if they want to.

    • @ariagonzalez1326
      @ariagonzalez1326 Před 11 měsíci +11

      as a mom who chose not to cut my son’s, theres so many reasons not to do it and aesthetics seem to be the only reason to do it outside of religion.

  • @MrJose72289
    @MrJose72289 Před rokem +282

    Man. I know so many guys who wished they were not circumcised. Tbh its,Barbaric. No way am I making that decisión for my son. He can when the time is right. I won't deprive him of something irreparable for my own satisfaction. That is a deeply, personal decision that should be made by the individual undergoing the process, not people standing idly by think they are making a decsion in the best interest of the child. There should be some formcof consent imo

    • @fey9915
      @fey9915 Před rokem +8

      he said it's part of religion so he's Muslim or Jewish.

    • @zorazen8684
      @zorazen8684 Před rokem

      @@fey9915 Religion is not a good reason for genital mutilation. In fact there is no good reason to mutilate children.

    • @revmaillet
      @revmaillet Před rokem +6

      @@fey9915 even christians do it sadly

    • @Theorimlig
      @Theorimlig Před rokem +73

      @@fey9915 Doesn't really change anything. That explains it, but doesn't justify it. Lots of bad things are done in the name of religion.

    • @rcc8347
      @rcc8347 Před rokem +8

      I’m glad my parents did mine when I was young. Now I look great and didn’t go through all the troubles

  • @rampagedingo
    @rampagedingo Před rokem +119

    This is refreshing seeing dad's share moments. Nice one CUT.

  • @amielynn8506
    @amielynn8506 Před rokem +56

    Didn't like the "gay son vs thot daughter" question. Gay is more like how you were born and thot can be more about others perception of a woman's promiscuity

  • @linnearose832
    @linnearose832 Před rokem +173

    Already having expectations before the baby is even born....calm down a bit. As someone with high expecting parents: it affects everything
    Children are not supposed to be a better version of yourself!

    • @og666
      @og666 Před rokem +14

      idk bro... that kids got D1 genetics

    • @Ray03595
      @Ray03595 Před 11 měsíci +4

      Maybe not a better version but you should want your kid to have a better quality of life. Which means better education, quality of living, and overall happiness. I understand what you mean to not put specific expectations on them, but the man was talking about his child reading a lot, that should be encouraged in every household.

    • @arianam6430
      @arianam6430 Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​@@Ray03595exactly. I would want that my children don't have to go through the same hardships that I did so they can focus on thriving and enjoying their lives. They would be happier, intelligent, kind, confident, etc living their best lives- that's what most people are saying when they want their kids to be "better versions of themselves".

  • @kidart1763
    @kidart1763 Před rokem +145

    This video affirmed that I made the right choice choosing my (female) partner. So many of these answers are BIG YIKES.

    • @kukaweber8301
      @kukaweber8301 Před rokem +14

      Facts

    • @chevysmith6723
      @chevysmith6723 Před rokem +39

      SO MUCH OF IT WAS cringe.
      It makes me sad that this is a lot of people's "normal". Giving birth will mature their partners. I pray, for the mothers' sake, that these dads keep up.

    • @Mole-Esther
      @Mole-Esther Před rokem +2

      No these were great answer wdym except the foreskin one lol

    • @MEpeopleannoy
      @MEpeopleannoy Před rokem

      @@Mole-Esther not wanting sex bc ur disgusted that ur partners organs have moved and that your kid might TOUCH ur penis? what kinda nonsense is that? ahhh lord have mercy americans and their iq

    • @rorey9074
      @rorey9074 Před rokem +21

      There is nothing wrong with these answers. Some of you just like to live in your own bubble of misunderstanding

  • @amandavierling6305
    @amandavierling6305 Před 7 měsíci +17

    I'd really love to see a follow up with these same pairings. I hope that the one dad (Ben?) who kept talking about money and working a lot realizes he needs a healthy work/life balance to be a good dad. Quality time is valuable, too.

  • @zorazen8684
    @zorazen8684 Před rokem +93

    Sad to hear most of them are getting their sons circumcised :( wish people would do more research before just making a snap decision based on tradition.

    • @jaydizzel105
      @jaydizzel105 Před rokem +8

      Agreed, it’s awful and the opposite of beneficial

    • @trevorpeterson8528
      @trevorpeterson8528 Před rokem +2

      Glad I got my ant eater cut off thank god

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Před rokem +16

      @@trevorpeterson8528: It's fine when you are an adult and decide it for yourself. However, it's not okay to mutilate a child's body like that without medical reasons. Like what insane parent is interested in how aesthetic they find their child's genitalia? Eww.

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Před rokem +7

      @@trevorpeterson8528 Bro, you're coping everywhere.

  • @wiebkestein8826
    @wiebkestein8826 Před rokem +360

    I cannot believe how normal it is for these guys to cut off a part of their kids bodys. and how is it legal anyway?!

    • @krisdaschwab912
      @krisdaschwab912 Před rokem

      Part religious propaganda, part lobbying from some pro-circumcision assholes.

    • @lucerocastaneda9497
      @lucerocastaneda9497 Před rokem +38

      To be fair, all of the guys in this video were white or black. If they had chosen a hispanic-american or asian-american for example, there would have been more of a variety

    • @NotYouAgain28
      @NotYouAgain28 Před rokem +41

      @@lucerocastaneda9497 I think in Europe it is not a thing as well.. I think it’s more of an American thing.

    • @user-ds8gf3ki2g
      @user-ds8gf3ki2g Před rokem +3

      @@NotYouAgain28it’s purely a religious thing and that how it started so in America 100yrs back most were white Christian Dyu get it

    • @kimberlyd9755
      @kimberlyd9755 Před rokem +13

      ​@@user-ds8gf3ki2g In North America, it's not though. So many decide to circumcise because either they themselves are circumcised, for cosmetic reason or because "it's the norm".

  • @ctyesixteen5162
    @ctyesixteen5162 Před rokem +222

    it is still so WEIRD how americans view circumcision

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Před rokem +59

      Precisely, and it's also horrifying considering that it's permanent, unconsentual mutilation. At least pierced ear lobes can grow back together - the foreskin cannot.

    • @kendobc
      @kendobc Před rokem

      Yah, they just assume it's a normal thing and you MUST do it. I wish they would do some research and shit. It's scary the brainwashing.

    • @favouronwuchekwa
      @favouronwuchekwa Před 3 měsíci

      so you are not circumcised ? @@akumayoxiruma

    • @samantham7545
      @samantham7545 Před 3 měsíci

      As a female I hope that circumcision is one day illegal. It is genital mutilation. @@favouronwuchekwa

    • @Nersius
      @Nersius Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@akumayoxirumaYou actually can regrow the skin itself, but it will lack important parts and be less sensitive.

  • @bulo-.
    @bulo-. Před rokem +197

    Imagine they did this with expecting mothers 💀

    • @nasavibes
      @nasavibes Před rokem +210

      idk man taking shots while pregnant doesnt sound like the smartest of ideas 😭

    • @brookemcb
      @brookemcb Před rokem +17

      @@nasavibeslmfaooo

    • @samanthav1234
      @samanthav1234 Před rokem +27

      they did

    • @SLYKM
      @SLYKM Před rokem +25

      ​@@samanthav1234yea I Believe they took shots of water lol

    • @bulo-.
      @bulo-. Před rokem +1

      @@SLYKM Well that kinda gets rid of the point lol

  • @alexpalaciossantos4940
    @alexpalaciossantos4940 Před rokem +395

    its so weird how infant genital mutilation is so normalized in the us. entire groups of people up in arms bc "gay people are performing surgeries on children's genitals", but when it comes to messing with a baby's penis, its totally ok for parents to cut it up for their aesthetic pleasures

    • @kaimobley5324
      @kaimobley5324 Před rokem +9

      Exactly

    • @littlepumpkinseed
      @littlepumpkinseed Před rokem

      Yeah its so so weird and not oké.... as an European I can not imagen choosing to cut your baby's genitals..

    • @CM-bt5bq
      @CM-bt5bq Před 11 měsíci +1

      !!!!!!

    • @dollphobicc1947
      @dollphobicc1947 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Wake it up.

    • @truebornseeker9767
      @truebornseeker9767 Před 11 měsíci +41

      It’s soooooo weird, especially since a lot of them bring up the fact that they had it done to them so they want their child to be cut too, which is just strange? Wouldn’t you prefer to have that choice later in life rather than having it decided for you??

  • @heyLORDitsme
    @heyLORDitsme Před rokem +12

    The guy in the blue hat and the white hoodie seem like they’d be solid friends and the strongest parents

  • @letlotlosibanda
    @letlotlosibanda Před rokem +9

    Guy with the dreadlocks is so pretty. He has such a beautiful smile. 😭😭😭

  • @mariahp.6993
    @mariahp.6993 Před rokem +27

    👏 Ben is a real man! ❤ The respect you have for the role you’re coming into is so appreciated! You will be a great father! 💗

  • @Killbayne
    @Killbayne Před rokem +102

    circumcision doesnt have to be done at birth, the son can decide later on in life if they want the skin gone or not but i see way more people saying they want their skin back cuz that skin aint growing back

    • @lawinaabraham3073
      @lawinaabraham3073 Před rokem +9

      Yeah good luck with that, I read about one guy who, at his girlfriend's request, got circumcised cuz she didn't like that foreskin.
      Well he caved, went to surgery, it HURT LIKE ABSOLUTE HELL, idk what anesthesia they gave him but I doubt it worked.
      He then said it continued to hurt for weeks on end, and his sex drive took a huge hit because it just didn't feel as good.
      Dude got depression, they broke up, prolly still regrets that shit to this day.

    • @Killbayne
      @Killbayne Před rokem +16

      ​​@@lawinaabraham3073 then that's fault by the doctors and he could sue them for damages. If the story is true then im sorry for that guy, but a single story doesn't rule out every other time where it wasn't so bad. Atleast if you're uncut you still even have the chance to decide yourself whether or not you want it removed instead of just having to live without it.
      also, at his girlfriend's request? damn she should just like him how he is. Also what's there to dislike about the skin lol? It's not like it gets in the way when it literally retracts out the way.

    • @lawinaabraham3073
      @lawinaabraham3073 Před rokem

      @@Killbayne
      Exactly, I hate how fixated people in America are regarding the removal of foreskin. It's a unnecessary, barbaric, completely subjectively attractive practice that should be heavily discouraged.
      There is NO risk of infections nor poorer hygiene if you have foreskin, it's very easy to clean, the foreskin has MANY nerve endings and makes sex more pleasurable.
      "Oh but I was cut so my son should be too". WTF ????

    • @zorazen8684
      @zorazen8684 Před rokem +18

      @@lawinaabraham3073 Good thing he got to make that CONSCIOUS DECISION as an adult and not go through that same pain as an non consenting INFANT :D

    • @Elovho
      @Elovho Před rokem +6

      ​@@lawinaabraham3073you shouldnt circumcise for aestetic reasons cus you can just pull back the skin and it looks the same as uncircumcised just girthier

  • @dylanpierce
    @dylanpierce Před rokem +6

    Happy Father's Day to all the Dads out there and to the men who are father figures for many.

  • @freya-valiedo2640
    @freya-valiedo2640 Před rokem +44

    Why was having a gay son even a question like???

    • @pristinedecision1877
      @pristinedecision1877 Před rokem +14

      It’s kind of a meme question that’s been making the rounds on BPT for and real life for years.

    • @LaBorious69
      @LaBorious69 Před rokem +1

      Are you offended

  • @tunaballooney4713
    @tunaballooney4713 Před rokem +87

    I really don’t understand the stigma or judgements toward foreskin

    • @Killbayne
      @Killbayne Před rokem +34

      more than 60% of Americans are circumcised and mostly they just do it because they themselves were cut, as the guy said in the video "like a me 2.0"
      the other half does it for the religious reason, but why keep doing it for non religious reasons? Cut rate in Europe here is like less than 13% across countries and I myself am not cut. It's not like the skin is useless, it has a function. A lot of people complain about being unwillingly cut

    • @pristinedecision1877
      @pristinedecision1877 Před rokem +9

      Because it’s so common that most people don’t think about anything contrary to their own experiences.
      Those conversations aren’t common either.
      I wasn’t aware that I was even circumcised until I was a teen learning about anatomy and found out that foreskin was a thing.

    • @fatcatontario
      @fatcatontario Před rokem +1

      There is a good health reason for being circumcised and has to do with increased potential of infection even as a toddler. I think what is nature intended should remain and parents should clean the child properly and teach the little boy proper hygiene from an early age.

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Před rokem +4

      @@fatcatontario: That's not a good reason because you are also taking away something that has protective and stimulative functions. IF the toddler has an infection, only THEN you can consider the option to surgically remove it. Not as a prophylaxis but as an acute intervention.

    • @fatcatontario
      @fatcatontario Před rokem +1

      @@akumayoxiruma there is really no need to remove the foreskin unless it is a very severe infection. I am not advocating for it, but actually stating that our bodies should not be modified unless absolutely necessary.

  • @evennotodd
    @evennotodd Před rokem +41

    We need to see a follow-up on this. Like a Truth or Drink: Play Date edition. Shots have to be taken via sipping cup.

  • @sepiajoy2871
    @sepiajoy2871 Před rokem +208

    This was a great video and these guys seem wonderful but damn, I cannot get past how many of us Americans are so comfortable with circumcision. This is a part of a person's body. Taking that away is so stupid. I feel just the same about when people pierce their baby's ears. Bodily autonomy, man... gosh.

    • @trevorpeterson8528
      @trevorpeterson8528 Před rokem +2

      I’m glad my parents did it to me

    • @rumpelstilzchen4202
      @rumpelstilzchen4202 Před rokem +41

      Let the kid decide for themselves. You can always do it later but you can never reverse it.

    • @iveseenstrangerthings5694
      @iveseenstrangerthings5694 Před rokem +7

      Truthfully anyone is going to do as they please because it’s their kid. There’s pros and cons to both sides of circumcising I believe the main point was infections and cleanliness, at the end of the day it’s their decision. Can’t do much about it. A lot of the time it has to do with culture and religion, and we have to respect that as well.

    • @lindok
      @lindok Před rokem +4

      Americans doing it at birth is still a practise we are trying to adopt cause the way its done here is worse. At birth is 100% the better option

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Před rokem +23

      @@iveseenstrangerthings5694 There are only cons. At the end of the day, it shouldn't be their decision just like they should not have the option to remove a baby's limb when it is non medically necessary.

  • @PirateCaptainArthur
    @PirateCaptainArthur Před rokem +14

    they all seemed to vibe so well i hope they stay in contact

  • @neilrandolph9353
    @neilrandolph9353 Před rokem +8

    Omg what a great group of soon to be dads and their responses ❤ 😊

  • @noor9115
    @noor9115 Před rokem +4

    such a wholesome video and group of dads

  • @tantanjafin
    @tantanjafin Před rokem +61

    Chris & Michael is my fav duo here. Love to see more from them

  • @Aliciaavgt
    @Aliciaavgt Před 9 měsíci +5

    These men saying they aren’t prepared or ain’t doing shit around the house. That’s CRAZY

    • @Tessa_Gr
      @Tessa_Gr Před 2 měsíci +1

      It's so weird how no one in the comments talked about that part. All about how great these dads are, the bar is really in hell. They seem nice enough, but definitely not outstanding dads at all. Just average

    • @Aliciaavgt
      @Aliciaavgt Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@Tessa_Gr literally, I could NEVER

  • @Iloveme715
    @Iloveme715 Před rokem +2

    These kids are gonna be so lucky to have such good dads.

  • @nongcebomngomezulu
    @nongcebomngomezulu Před rokem +22

    This man is calling 6ft4 woman 'shorty'😂

  • @marcusgomez1372
    @marcusgomez1372 Před rokem +14

    i hope they are all great dads 😊

  • @caspercomments
    @caspercomments Před 3 měsíci +2

    i love all the pairs they’re all so funny and genuine

  • @ruffprophetproductions

    this is important content. shout out to all these fathers. i wish them all the best.

  • @ilhuicatlamatini
    @ilhuicatlamatini Před rokem +10

    This one was fun! Great bunch of new to be dads❤
    Though gotta say, based on all the answers Ben had the responses I’d most look for and want from my partner re: coming home/working late check in, circumcising, pregnancy sex 😂

  • @zaichini
    @zaichini Před rokem +3

    what a wholesome video. Big up these daddies🙌

  • @hannahmarie3223
    @hannahmarie3223 Před rokem +1

    I really really liked this video!!! Would love to see them all back post baby❤

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 Před rokem +6

    Ponytail glasses is just an Au naturel type dude... I love these questions though.
    I love them talking about their future kids together.

  • @IEATOSI
    @IEATOSI Před rokem +173

    Circumcision should only be done for medical reasons. Period.

    • @Miss_Kisa94
      @Miss_Kisa94 Před rokem +4

      You can say that but it's not like they can make it a law or anything because it would go against the constitution

    • @aawillma
      @aawillma Před rokem +19

      @@Miss_Kisa94 What? What constitution are you reading? Circumcision for religious reasons is already against the law in America, but only for girls.

    • @Miss_Kisa94
      @Miss_Kisa94 Před rokem +2

      @@aawillma Uhhh I hate to tell you this but that's not actually true. A while ago like in 2018 or 2017 a federal judge declared that banning female genital mutilation is also unconstitutional. I'm pretty sure it's up to the states now if they want to create laws against it. But it's also allowed.

    • @jaydizzel105
      @jaydizzel105 Před rokem

      @@Miss_Kisa94okay?

    • @jaydizzel105
      @jaydizzel105 Před rokem +4

      @@Miss_Kisa94it’s barbaric be quiet ur just saying words

  • @sydneygeddes
    @sydneygeddes Před 9 měsíci +5

    6’6 and 6’4 imagine they babies max height in adult hood is 5’1 💀 I’d feel soooooooo robbed

  • @user-wt1hv4fw3o
    @user-wt1hv4fw3o Před 9 měsíci +1

    i LOVE LOVE LOVE how excited they are

  • @DYoung-vt8pq
    @DYoung-vt8pq Před rokem +1

    Awwww, I love all these guys! Hope everthing turns out well. ❤️

  • @NZKiwi87
    @NZKiwi87 Před rokem +29

    Oh wow, as a non USA person I was gobsmacked by the circumcision thing. Gobsmacked. It’s pretty rare here. Old fashioned even.

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Před rokem +10

      Indeed because it's cruel mutilation. But just like labour rights, healthcare, public transport and measurement standards, Americans are behind the times and stick to tradition rather than what is logical and ethical.

    • @jedinight235
      @jedinight235 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@akumayoxirumaCruel mutilation? That's not exactly it.

  • @gjcanada7454
    @gjcanada7454 Před rokem +8

    THE MISOGYNY LIIIIIVVVVEEEESS STRONG IN THIS VIDEO!

    • @AngelHoliday275
      @AngelHoliday275 Před rokem +3

      How? Genuine question. Im not trying to say it doesn't or be disrespectful. Just wanna know like where?

    • @gjcanada7454
      @gjcanada7454 Před rokem +1

      @@AngelHoliday275 the “thot daughter” comments.... So what if you have a young woman who’s in charge of her own sexuality? How does that affect her father in any way? It plays into the whole “fatherless behaviour” narrative.

    • @AngelHoliday275
      @AngelHoliday275 Před rokem +3

      @@gjcanada7454 Oh probably just because thot women are disgusting. If a woman can't have any respect for herself why should anyone else? U can disguise it as "being in charge of her sexuality" but it's legitimately nasty. These "in charge" women are broken, and carry these things with them for the rest of their lives. Promiscuity is unsavory on both ends, don't get me wrong. Men and women shouldn't just sleep with whoever, but if you think it's the same you've just got some growing up to do.

  • @GQkid13
    @GQkid13 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Love this video!! Also guy with the hair up and multi colored shirt has a great smile!!

  • @laruetodd
    @laruetodd Před 7 měsíci

    What a wholesome video, I love all their honesty and how good they got alone

  • @nopenope9118
    @nopenope9118 Před rokem +58

    All of these dads-to-be sound like they’re going to do an amazing job raising their kids. It’s great to see them all bond over fatherhood. My mom disappeared from my life when I was like 22 and hasn’t spoken to me in over 10 years, but my dad is my biggest supporter. I just got off the phone with him before watching this. I wish I could see him more often but we live in different states. Present fathers who try to be a good influence on their kids are so necessary.

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Před rokem

      Besides him wanting to mutilate his child's genitals unnecessarily.

  • @Thatsmrladytoyou
    @Thatsmrladytoyou Před rokem +4

    I got real excited thinking this was dads who were having kids TOGETHER 😅 This is cool too

  • @macarenahitos1148
    @macarenahitos1148 Před rokem +2

    I feel so calm after watching responsible men who are going to became parents being so excited about raising children

  • @cicelyodom
    @cicelyodom Před 6 měsíci

    Hands down one of the best episodes. I would love to see these men & their families again.

  • @cynthiavanteylingen7922
    @cynthiavanteylingen7922 Před rokem +15

    Can we get a video after their kids have been born and how they feel after?

  • @nataliep1528
    @nataliep1528 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Would be cool to do a part 2 when they have their babies

  • @AAIVE
    @AAIVE Před 11 měsíci +1

    awwww this was such a great one! seconding bringing them back after the babies come 🤗

  • @layla4703
    @layla4703 Před 9 měsíci

    I love the comrade from these guys it's really refreshing to see

  • @OpEditorial
    @OpEditorial Před rokem +6

    These are mostly innocuous and stupid questions but these guys are gearing up to have their lives changed forever

  • @the_real_anna_reed
    @the_real_anna_reed Před rokem +4

    It’s actually hilarious to see men’s pov of “expecting” 💀🤣 Definitely need them back in 6-12 months 😂

  • @isaacalfaro9815
    @isaacalfaro9815 Před rokem +2

    “i play a lot of video games” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Annikaymusic
    @Annikaymusic Před 6 měsíci

    How wonderful, I bet it was great to relate to another expected father.

  • @sarahn.2296
    @sarahn.2296 Před rokem +119

    Kind of crazy that people justify infant genital mutilation because they want them to "look like me"

    • @jaydizzel105
      @jaydizzel105 Před rokem +28

      LITERALLY like how selfish can you be

    • @oooladip
      @oooladip Před rokem +9

      ikr! some fathers feel uncomfortable teaching their sons how to take care of an uncircumcised penis if the fathers are uncircumcised

    • @lynn-cm2hb
      @lynn-cm2hb Před rokem +7

      With all the praise for the dads, it seemed like everyone skipped over this.

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Před rokem +2

      You must understand, not only does their nonexistent god demand it, but it would also make them uncomfortable if the child had foreskin while they vividly imagine their children having sex. It's entirely normal to believe in the nonexistent and to vividly imagine children having sex. Yep, these people are *completely* normal.

    • @waylon9923
      @waylon9923 Před rokem

      If my kid a boy he's getting circumcised. Easy answer.

  • @talkingtochapri
    @talkingtochapri Před rokem +13

    So they are agreeing women do everything and they are existing.

  • @carriebarnes118
    @carriebarnes118 Před 6 měsíci

    Omg I loved all of these guys!!! Great group 🥹

  • @claudio68097
    @claudio68097 Před rokem

    Its so great to see these soon to be dads so excited for their babies to hit the earth lol

  • @dotslashdotslahsdotslash

    And that was another totally wholesome Cut video! 😭

  • @agnesedaughter8808
    @agnesedaughter8808 Před rokem +38

    whats up with americans and circumsition??

    • @trevorpeterson8528
      @trevorpeterson8528 Před rokem

      Because we are better at everything

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Před rokem +5

      @@trevorpeterson8528: Delusion.

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Před rokem

      @@trevorpeterson8528 Bro, how many comments is this? It's starting to get sad.

    • @Niki72662
      @Niki72662 Před rokem

      ​@@trevorpeterson8528 the best nation in drugs abuse, shooting🦅🦅🦅lets goo

  • @VishisTV
    @VishisTV Před rokem +1

    All these dudes seem like they would be good friends with the person they are playing with

  • @CptCupcake5
    @CptCupcake5 Před rokem +1

    This was wholesome af

  • @EgaTehPro
    @EgaTehPro Před rokem +5

    Loved all these guys. They're gonna be great dads.

  • @GalaxyPotato17
    @GalaxyPotato17 Před rokem +5

    I think everyone is taking the gay son/thot daughter question wrong (based on Cut's intention -- the wording is still poor and suggests comparison). Rather than equating being gay to being promiscuous, and this is where the son/daughter difference is important and not just insensitive, but they are traditionally EQUALLY scary or uncomfortable for a FATHER -- a stereotypical male parental figure.
    ~ The standard manly man relationship between father and son
    ~ The standard protection and view of innocence from father to "daddy's little girl"
    It isn't intended to push the idea that only a son can be gay or that only a gay son would pose an issue and not a gay daughter
    (visa versa: only a daughter can be promiscuous or that only a promiscuous daughter would pose an issue and not a promiscuous son)

  • @VONNDREY
    @VONNDREY Před rokem +1

    This was wholesome Asf🤞🏾🔥🔥

  • @cassandragunkel6101
    @cassandragunkel6101 Před 3 měsíci

    My favorite cut so far! I clicked like before watching. Captivating fathers!

  • @superman8310
    @superman8310 Před rokem +3

    Can we get some beer pong videos. I just saw one. I forgot how funny they were.

  • @christineg6123
    @christineg6123 Před rokem +20

    The fact that most Americans circumsize their sons blows my mind.

    • @trevorpeterson8528
      @trevorpeterson8528 Před rokem

      Why it’s better

    • @tophat7735
      @tophat7735 Před rokem

      @@trevorpeterson8528 ⁠lol no it ain’t. You lose nerve endings. And for what purpose? You were born with foreskin for a reason.

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Před rokem +5

      @@trevorpeterson8528: No, it's unnecessary mutilation: You are permanently taking away a part of the child's anatomy for absolutely no valid reason. That isn't okay - especially since the person cannot consent.

  • @traumabondsx7930
    @traumabondsx7930 Před rokem +1

    The guy wearing the Momentum shirt is dope

  • @maeganwacker315
    @maeganwacker315 Před rokem +1

    a good amount of these responses made my jaw drop

  • @carlweeeeeks
    @carlweeeeeks Před rokem +24

    Imagine espectant dads casually joking about mutilating their daughters' genitals. 🙄

  • @TreavorUnion
    @TreavorUnion Před rokem +31

    If the guys are reading this comment, it's good to have a crew to lean on. Moms have mommy circles. Dads should too.

  • @juniorroberts13
    @juniorroberts13 Před rokem +2

    What a good bunch of dudes

  • @MrFrankhdgs
    @MrFrankhdgs Před rokem +2

    These fathers-to-be are going to be fantastic dads!Dad's!! Best wishes and congratulations to them all.