Let's Get It On // Romance + Relationships // Rated R // Bianca Olthoff

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  • čas přidán 6. 08. 2024
  • Are you single? Dating? Engaged? Do you want to win at relationships? In our series "Rated R" we're going there! Today Pastor B is back and starting a brand new series on love, dating, relationships, sex and marriage. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, married or divorced, this series is for you. Follow us through the book of Song of Songs as we learn the biblical out look on love!
    #TheFathersHouseOC #RatedR #biancaolthoff
    00:00 - Intro
    05:27 - Mathew Chapter 5 Verse 44 and 46
    09:48 - Let's Get It On
    11:59 - The World View of Sex, Dating and Marriage
    15:22 - The Religious View of Sex, Dating and Marriage
    34:39 Accurately Seeing and Understanding
    Scriptures Mentioned:
    Mathew Chapter 5 Verse 44 and 46
    John Chapter15 Verse13
    Mathew Chapter 22 Verse 39
    Song of Songs Chapter 1 Verse 2
    Song of Songs Chapter 1 Verse 9
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Komentáře • 39

  • @wywy4803
    @wywy4803 Před 2 lety +8

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. I didn't know I needed that sorry. I was raped when I was 5 till 17 but now in my 30s everyone tell me to get over it but no one has ever said, I'm sorry it wasn't your fault, or just a plain I'm sorry. Thank you for that I'm sorry!!

    • @sendijoana6965
      @sendijoana6965 Před 2 lety

      ❤I am really sorry you went through that, u didnt deserve it. But i know great women who went through the same. FORGIVE yourself ❤❤

  • @SamBWinning
    @SamBWinning Před 2 lety +8

    Honestly dating isn’t even talked about much in the Christian community it’s more marriage pastor thank u for shedding light on both these topics.

  • @hannahgibsonorganicallyyou4564

    I love her. 🤣🤣🤣
    She speaks such truth but is also hilarious.

  • @sarahrice9838
    @sarahrice9838 Před 2 lety +10

    That part about the purity culture! 🙌 whew chile do a deep dive into that!

  • @andrewlarragoitiy9592
    @andrewlarragoitiy9592 Před 2 lety +3

    This is how the world views marriage: they will “stay until it gets tough and there love shifts.” It no longer "'Til death do us part" really means "Until the feelings go away"

  • @mgl1262
    @mgl1262 Před 2 lety +2

    "It was just coffee."
    Wow, that really puts things into perspective. 🤭
    Have totally idolised the idea of marriage.
    I think for so many of us, what we want doesn't even exist.
    Thank you for sharing with reality and humour 😊
    Grateful to God for you

  • @jilllingenfelter4682
    @jilllingenfelter4682 Před 2 lety +6

    Yeah my mom and I had a wry big conversation today after I got out of church And I told her that I never ever thought that this is how my story was going to play out in the end :( I’ve been extremely extremely extremely single since my very public divorce that happened in 2016 I have applied for the champions club at my church recently. And I finished giving them the last of my personal info this morning And now I’m waiting to hear back from them:) And I love my church so so so much :) I’ll let you know what happens thank you for all your encouragement, love, and prayers I absolutely it love ya appreciate Pastor Bianca Olthoff :) And I also appreciate someone’s apology but just because I forgive someone. And his family it doesn’t mean that I will be reconciling with him and his family because It’s not a possibility at all because he’s married again to his new bride #2 And I hope that he’ll look into the celebrate recovery program And I hope that he’ll be able to get clean and sober. And stay clean and sober because because if he doesn’t go through the celebrate recovery program his new marriage won’t last very long I wish them good luck his new bride is definitely in my prayers!

  • @raphealajiboye9161
    @raphealajiboye9161 Před 2 lety +1

    That episode is really good

  • @simple_naildesigns
    @simple_naildesigns Před 2 lety +2

    I want to get better at relationships - yes! 😊🙏🏽

  • @adtase1489
    @adtase1489 Před rokem

    Yess!! Finally, SOMEone teaches on SoS!! It gets deeper than Atlantis!

  • @chananjahduncan519
    @chananjahduncan519 Před 2 lety +2

    Talk about it!!!💯

  • @abbiehovater22
    @abbiehovater22 Před 2 lety +2

    This is one of the best messages on this topic and even in general that I have heard a very long time. Powerful and full of truth.

  • @bajachica0911
    @bajachica0911 Před 2 lety +6

    So, so good! Thank you for shedding light on the more challenging topics. I look forward to the rest of the series, and I pray that this is shared and seen by so many - we all need to be reminded of God's truth, not the world's especially with relationships!

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 Před 2 lety

      If we don't follow God's truth, then what happens to us?🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione Před 2 lety +5

    YESSS.. the LOOOOVE book. S.O.S.

  • @hannahlee4861
    @hannahlee4861 Před 2 lety +4

    This is so so good !!! Needed this !

  • @claudettewatkins4237
    @claudettewatkins4237 Před 2 lety +2

    Amen. What I want to know is how do you date without sex its my first time an navigating through getting to know someone an temptation an all that goes into it.

  • @christinecasillas1308
    @christinecasillas1308 Před 2 lety +3

    Excited about this series‼️🙏🏽

  • @vanessaschower6425
    @vanessaschower6425 Před 2 lety +1

    I have been sharing your videos!! Thank you Pastora, you talk my language Thank you for being God's vessel. May God bless you, your family and your church ❤🙏

  • @mattdreed78
    @mattdreed78 Před 2 lety +2

    Such a great message

  • @heidicarrasco9265
    @heidicarrasco9265 Před 2 lety +3

    thank you for talking about these subjects, God bless you!

  • @juliegomez5050
    @juliegomez5050 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow! Thank you for this message.

  • @msolivialuv1
    @msolivialuv1 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you!!

  • @arelismargarito5283
    @arelismargarito5283 Před 2 lety +1

    You rock such a blessing to my life!!!! 🥰😇Thank you 🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @victoriavanderheyden3845
    @victoriavanderheyden3845 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for your ministering and magnificent delivering of Gods word, your beautiful inside and out

  • @JaelynnHopgood
    @JaelynnHopgood Před rokem

    This message was so powerful!! Thank you speaking on challenging topics like the effects of purity culture and enjoying sex in marriage

  • @alafiawellnessllc
    @alafiawellnessllc Před 2 lety +2

    RECIPROCITY 🙏🏿

  • @theselflovebae
    @theselflovebae Před 2 lety +4

    Yass Pastor B so glad to have you back! But did you really have to come for us like this today??? Lol

  • @raphealajiboye9161
    @raphealajiboye9161 Před 2 lety

    This is a good episode
    On CZcams

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione Před 2 lety +6

    YESS.. Guys don't have to cover their upper halves at all? the double standard.
    I just accepted it back then.. like what was I gonna do? I didn't want spaghetti straps or anything anyway, but I do remember thinking it was weird.

  • @arthan06
    @arthan06 Před 2 lety

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @wywy4803
    @wywy4803 Před 2 lety

    God is very intentional this church got recommended by CZcams lol 😆 even CZcams cooperating with God. So here is to me adding another online home church.

  • @karenowens9060
    @karenowens9060 Před 2 lety +2

    I was wondering where you got the Hebrew word for “kisses”. I looked it up in Concordance and it didn’t have the same meaning as you gave. Thanks