"Safest way to show others who you are" - me in the 6 months leading to the day in August 2008, that led to my separation and divorce, abandoning my true authentic self and listening to people (mostly BW) telling me that making decisions to make others happy, will make me a "worthy wife". That small window led me to going back and discovering exactly everything you said on this video from my childhood. I had thought that my childhood as a middle child in a dysfunctional family didn't affect me much and that I'd worked on these. My default position in the middle of chaos was to over function.
"Safest way to show others who you are" - me in the 6 months leading to the day in August 2008, that led to my separation and divorce, abandoning my true authentic self and listening to people (mostly BW) telling me that making decisions to make others happy, will make me a "worthy wife". That small window led me to going back and discovering exactly everything you said on this video from my childhood. I had thought that my childhood as a middle child in a dysfunctional family didn't affect me much and that I'd worked on these. My default position in the middle of chaos was to over function.
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