Before & After Black Wife Effect Trend On TikTok/ Black Husband Effect too 😂

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Komentáře • 816

  • @user-xp6xw8zl6z
    @user-xp6xw8zl6z Před měsícem +780

    I'll just say this, when you ask a Black woman why she married her White man; she'll talk about the traits he has. When you ask a Black man when he dates a White woman, he'll talk about the traits she doesn't have. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @roseinharlem8152
      @roseinharlem8152 Před měsícem +1

      And the same with a white woman who marries a black man. Her reasons are all physical and attraction etc. Which is why their marriages are least likely to last. Cynthia G once said, a black man and a white woman share the same pathology. Basically both are narcissists that deserve each other. White men who marry black women have the most successful marriages. Their traits and desires align perfectly.

    • @ElisaSarah
      @ElisaSarah Před měsícem +17

      Spoken like a TRUE forever-alone single man.

    • @Michelle.1952
      @Michelle.1952 Před měsícem +139

      That's true. It just shows that even when they date out they're still thinking about us. They need to value for Becky for who she, is not for who she isn't.

    • @darncash2056
      @darncash2056 Před měsícem +1

      You forgot he'll talk about why he doesn't date black woman. We never hear why he values this white woman as a human being and woman. It's always to reinforce why they don't like themselves or black woman.

    • @user-xp6xw8zl6z
      @user-xp6xw8zl6z Před měsícem +61

      @@ElisaSarah 🤣🤣🤣 damn you think I'm a man and single. You need to fix your radar Hun 😘😘 keep walking 👋🏾👋🏾

  • @KiaraMarieeee
    @KiaraMarieeee Před měsícem +353

    Black women are soooo fire. I really love us 😫

    • @tree_the_kid
      @tree_the_kid Před měsícem +16

      Mhmmm me too love ❤️🙌🏾 and our beautiful black sisters are glowing and happy that’s all that matters to me frfr.

    • @summersultra
      @summersultra Před 17 dny +3

      We are The ONE.

  • @melsutubeification
    @melsutubeification Před měsícem +621

    This is exactly how black men became so popular... because black women were dusting them off and shining them up... now we're just taking our Godess given talents elsewhere!! 🎉🎉❤❤😂😂

  • @LoveK1
    @LoveK1 Před měsícem +587

    BM can’t even help themselves let alone help you.

    • @tsholanangphalatse998
      @tsholanangphalatse998 Před měsícem +35

      😂 wow I'm dead

    • @balancefound
      @balancefound Před měsícem +48

      It’s COLD 🥶 in the shade😂

    • @shygirlcomplex
      @shygirlcomplex Před měsícem +9

      😂😂😂👍🏽☝🏼

    • @user-zz4pm5ll9r
      @user-zz4pm5ll9r Před měsícem +32

      OMG This comment took me out. But it is so very true.

    • @Melanated483
      @Melanated483 Před měsícem +43

      This is why I REFUSE to have ANY children (#Happily Childfree) especially with my husband. I just need to stay moisturized, keep up my skincare routine, moisturize, get a chemical peel, stay hydrated with WATER 💦 and keep my edges growing consistently at my Hair Salon. I am too beautiful to ALLOW a BM run me down and DRAIN my beautiful essence like my Dad did to my Momma, and we grew up in the quiet suburbs 😂 Having kids/children will AGE YOU FASTER with a BM. If you don’t believe me, just look at the project/hood areas…💯🎯

  • @HHCF713
    @HHCF713 Před měsícem +328

    All the white guys went from nerds to Jon B swag. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @Michael22352
      @Michael22352 Před 26 dny

      what puzzles me is y'all will do this to a wyte nerd and not a black one, y'all are hypocrites, at this point, stop talking about black men, y'all culturally appropriating black swag and just hand it off to the damn cave dwellers like have y'all not learned yet?

    • @thebrownblossom8683
      @thebrownblossom8683 Před 25 dny +3

      That part. You nailed that one in the head. I can’t unsee it now😂.

    • @theartistmind7028
      @theartistmind7028 Před 23 dny +3

      This 😂 and I’m sure Jon sees these comments like “now how I get in it?”😂

  • @SunseedStarchild
    @SunseedStarchild Před měsícem +462

    BW can literally make anyone and anything better!! ❤❤❤

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 Před měsícem +23

      Exactly

    • @digimonalvatrax2738
      @digimonalvatrax2738 Před měsícem +38

      I just hope they don’t forget about themselves AND other Bw/black girls

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 Před měsícem

      @@digimonalvatrax2738 true

    • @jrobinson39
      @jrobinson39 Před měsícem

      Except black men. There is no hope for them 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Melanated483
      @Melanated483 Před měsícem +9

      @@digimonalvatrax2738The issue is that are other BW ready to Date and Marry outside 👨🧔🏼🧔🏻??? Are BW teaching their daughters to exclusively level up in class and date, court and marry Middle Upper Class Foreign 🧔🏼👨🧔🏻 Men?? Are BW ready to Leave BM behind in the community and explore, experience, and expose themselves to other communities’ cultures??? If the answer is No, then BW will have to leave them behind and let them find out on their own, hopefully it won’t be too late 😢and cost them their life.

  • @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds
    @KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds Před měsícem +291

    You ever notice how so many Black men, when asked why they chose the wyt woman they're with, don't talk about her *at all,* and instead will start talking negatively about their experiences with Black women? Like, it won't be "I met *her,* and I fell in love with *her,* because *she* is A, B, C, D, E, and our principles and ethics aligned, and her being wyt never entered into it." So often, it's "Black girls weren't checking for me, they called me corny, they're this or that." It's really rare to find one who fell in love with a woman and she just happened to be wyt. Alot of them went *looking* for a wyt woman to be with, and that's the weird part.

    • @AleishaJones-ek1mi
      @AleishaJones-ek1mi Před měsícem +1

      It's so true. I've seen wyt women treated like garbage by bm. They cheat on them and the wife looks written down. And they have the nerve to complain about bw. They want someone that they can control.

    • @ap19sehkmet
      @ap19sehkmet Před měsícem +25

      Always

    • @loyaltyb71052
      @loyaltyb71052 Před měsícem +1

      Yes because black men would have to say, "because she's not black"🤷

    • @D13vest
      @D13vest Před měsícem

      BW do the same exact thing and the worst part, BW have have never dated ever in their life always come up with some elaborate lie as to why they "date" wm

    • @jessikajane4967
      @jessikajane4967 Před měsícem +17

      This is the comment!! 💯

  • @daebak_hana
    @daebak_hana Před měsícem +313

    😂😂😂 this is 100% accurate. I politely asked my hubby to replace some items in his wardrobe. I actually got rid of 95% of the items and he looks 1000% better!

    • @Spokentruths725
      @Spokentruths725 Před měsícem +32

      A black man would say you were in your masculine even though they never are 😂

  • @kennyav25
    @kennyav25 Před měsícem +512

    It should be called "WHEN YOU TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE THE AMAZING PARTNER THAT SHE IS "

    • @obatalaosun2222
      @obatalaosun2222 Před měsícem +13

      THIS

    • @MelanatednNature
      @MelanatednNature Před měsícem +6

      Bingo

    • @yolaaaaa120
      @yolaaaaa120 Před měsícem +2

      Right nothing to do with color

    • @spacebar9733
      @spacebar9733 Před měsícem +5

      @@yolaaaaa120 not exactly. In terms of race white male black female couples have the highest happiness rate and are the least likely to divorce.

    • @BlackJesus_888
      @BlackJesus_888 Před 29 dny

      Other way around to treat a hard working black man how they deserve to. Be treated to

  • @Jadaistyping
    @Jadaistyping Před měsícem +213

    I’m married to a Korean man and he has definitely changed for the better in the fashion department lol 😂❤

    • @zinhlekheswa5237
      @zinhlekheswa5237 Před měsícem +13

      I wish I can see pics
      Good for you ❤

    • @ReinaAfricana
      @ReinaAfricana Před měsícem +12

      Awww it's that black girl magic you have❤

    • @D13vest
      @D13vest Před měsícem

      Thats all that matters? Fashion

    • @readyornot27
      @readyornot27 Před měsícem +7

      @@D13vest It's not all that matters, but it's the most relevant in this context given the topic of the video.

    • @c16621
      @c16621 Před měsícem +4

      ..but Korean men are hot, so the potential is there.

  • @eliteluxurymeditations950
    @eliteluxurymeditations950 Před měsícem +121

    I see a bunch of well loved and well watered black women. Because she is treated well, she is able to pour back into him.
    What a beautiful circuitry. This is how it should be! 💐

  • @rebeccasmith1008
    @rebeccasmith1008 Před měsícem +160

    When you treat your woman good she will BLESS YOUR LIFE. There isn't a couple I know of where the men lack because they treat their women well.

  • @ambasd733
    @ambasd733 Před měsícem +284

    The blk dude at the end is CLEARLY the Stay at home mom ... in his relationship .. he has time for all the videos ... 😂😂😂

    • @miyangtangwan7046
      @miyangtangwan7046 Před měsícem

      All that time and not a lick of sense in ANY of his videos. This dumbbell said women hadn't watched enough animal documentaries to choose the bear over a man. We have watched enough true crime documentaries and seen the stats of black men unaliving black women and kids.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil Před měsícem +65

      He don't even wear a wedding ring. He's too bitter to be someone's husband 💅🏾

    • @Michelle.1952
      @Michelle.1952 Před měsícem +64

      Ok?! I thought I recognized him, didn't he do a video mad about the man vs bear scenario? I do wish BW would stop commenting about 🖤 xy marrying/dating out though. We all know how those relationships fare out but even if we didn't it's none of our business. We need to focus on giving the black wife affect on those men who value us.

    • @Jadaistyping
      @Jadaistyping Před měsícem +55

      He’s clearly bothered. They don’t want us to move on and up. Bw dating out is becoming more popular and it’s scaring them imo at least that’s what it looks like.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil Před měsícem +2

      @@Jadaistyping this guy is married to a whole White woman and he's STILL bothered 😭 All of his videos are him commenting on Black women. He misses the seasoning, clearly 💅🏾

  • @lolomora9056
    @lolomora9056 Před měsícem +277

    the ww in the black husband effect look HAGGARD af

    • @sukichann6739
      @sukichann6739 Před měsícem +68

      Haggard 😂 clock it LMFAO

    • @aaunyea4799
      @aaunyea4799 Před měsícem +67

      She went from looking 20 to 40 real fast

    • @kirawong4629
      @kirawong4629 Před měsícem +62

      Because they’re stressed out, overworked, under loved 😂

    • @The13thGoddessAries
      @The13thGoddessAries Před měsícem +35

      Honey that stress will age you like no other lol 🤡💀

    • @Dolphinboi
      @Dolphinboi Před měsícem +1

      You people hate white women but love white men. Terrible. Y’all must feel intimidated by white women. White men do date white women far more often than they date black women

  • @harajukugrl
    @harajukugrl Před měsícem +57

    The men are gaining weight from all that good, seasoned food. And they also look relaxed and at peace.😊

  • @maef7026
    @maef7026 Před měsícem +93

    All the men look sexier and healthier.

  • @gothhydran
    @gothhydran Před měsícem +196

    I guess this can be equated to that movie Napoleon Dynamite when the older brother met his black girlfriend online and left his boring hometown with her all changed.

  • @nothingbutme1150
    @nothingbutme1150 Před měsícem +218

    Of course it’s black girl magic because black woman are literally Magick in human form. IYKYK.

    • @Laquia
      @Laquia Před měsícem +14

      ✨🧍🏾‍♀️✨🧏🏾‍♀️✨💅🏾 ✨🧍🏾‍♀️

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 Před měsícem +24

      Exactly we got ppl out here paying for what we have naturally

    • @nothingbutme1150
      @nothingbutme1150 Před měsícem +20

      @@shaypope4732 Nothing is wrong with anyone paying to enhance their looks or get work done regardless of race or gender.
      What I meant was black women Magick is our essence, swag and the way we love and embody love.
      Now that’s something many have tried to replicate and it will never be the same sauce.

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 Před měsícem

      @@nothingbutme1150 never said it was all I said was we got ppl out here paying for what I got naturally ie big lips big booty

    • @kirawong4629
      @kirawong4629 Před měsícem +13

      We add sauce to everythang!

  • @helsinki-syd
    @helsinki-syd Před měsícem +97

    OMG this was so funny 😂😂😂😂. What I love is that it's the husbands themselves who created the trend because if it was the black women who did I'm sure black men would have twisted this somehow saying black women are haters or wanna be picked

  • @E.V.A.P.
    @E.V.A.P. Před měsícem +271

    I'm so happy to see black women being uplifting just sad that it's by other cultures and not our own culture of men.

    • @caramelmocha7680
      @caramelmocha7680 Před měsícem +2

      Black men are not “our men”.

    • @djlivvy46
      @djlivvy46 Před měsícem +95

      They're not our men, and they're proud to tell the whole world that fact every single day.

    • @NamasteInYourLane
      @NamasteInYourLane Před měsícem +59

      Didn't black women say, "we are the mothers of humanity"? That would mean ALL men are our men. Lol 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @caramelmocha7680
      @caramelmocha7680 Před měsícem +2

      Black men are not nor have they ever been “our” men !

    • @kirawong4629
      @kirawong4629 Před měsícem +9

      Love who loves you❤

  • @quianaj27
    @quianaj27 Před měsícem +59

    The black husband effect 😂😂😂😂😂😂 . The black wife effect is amazing. Black women better start dating out.

  • @miyangtangwan7046
    @miyangtangwan7046 Před měsícem +223

    We need this black wife effect trend with the Beyoncé song 'Upgrade You'.

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 Před měsícem +15

      Lol yup

    • @mora_007
      @mora_007 Před měsícem +5

      Yeeeees

    • @fasameijer794
      @fasameijer794 Před měsícem +4

      Yessss😂

    • @nikkirockznikkirockz8551
      @nikkirockznikkirockz8551 Před měsícem +15

      Nah, something better than that-Bey herself wasn't smart enough to dump her oWn Naker and get with a levelled up Brad! I vote for K Michelle and Justine Champagne's "Country Love Song" instead! 😍

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 Před měsícem

      @@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 true but most ppl know queen b song I tried to sing it in the comments lol

  • @barefootedbougie
    @barefootedbougie Před měsícem +255

    "Watergun Kelly" "Look like a little boy and old woman at the same time: 🤣 I see why she married him. That sense of humor sexxxxiii 😂

    • @DaughterofDiogenes
      @DaughterofDiogenes Před měsícem +22

      Right!

    • @MugethiGitau
      @MugethiGitau Před měsícem +30

      Exactly what I said! He's hilarious 🤣

    • @asoultress
      @asoultress Před měsícem +2

      I bet she glowed up his humor too. Em folks too bland by themselves. Eeks.

    • @valencia9981
      @valencia9981 Před měsícem +3

      😂 yes. He be outta pocket with some of these comments.

    • @barefootedbougie
      @barefootedbougie Před měsícem +6

      @@valencia9981 From that lil "enter the blk wife" quip I said booooy watch it with your crazy self 🤣

  • @__gemoftheeast
    @__gemoftheeast Před měsícem +38

    "Enter the black wife, which i do every chnace i get." "Call me a leaky ceiling bc i am dripping." 😂😂😂 he had me dying chile

  • @dantayhylton9938
    @dantayhylton9938 Před měsícem +46

    A true look at ciara husband, his style got better than when he was with his white wife.

    • @briana14333
      @briana14333 Před měsícem +8

      Right! And this trend is showing the beauty spectrum of Black women and I think the men that marry them know they’ll have to and actually want to elevate.

  • @victoriousspirit8955
    @victoriousspirit8955 Před měsícem +591

    The black husband effect has me crying laughing! LOL! LOL~ OMG!

    • @kia.203
      @kia.203 Před měsícem +92

      Crying. Okay 😂.
      I was looking like " when she glowing up"? 😂

    • @miyangtangwan7046
      @miyangtangwan7046 Před měsícem +116

      With the rates of divorce of black men, I need to see the baby mama effect on white and Hispanic women.😂

    • @FreeBirdee
      @FreeBirdee Před měsícem +51

      I hollered so loud😂😂😂

    • @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis
      @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis Před měsícem +34

      It’s worse than that and y’all know it! The world knows it😂eeew

    • @Melanated483
      @Melanated483 Před měsícem +50

      Ciara is the only glow up effect we can see on a BM and that’s probably because Russell Wilson accepted Ciara, and trust her with his Heart ❤️ Soul & Mind and Russell is not fully indulged into the Culture of BM. He is very much separated from BM. That’s why Russell Wilson had a Glow Up, when Ciara Leveled up.

  • @kia.203
    @kia.203 Před měsícem +113

    Well, we know who didn't get the "glow up" 🤣🤣.

    • @Laquia
      @Laquia Před měsícem +8

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rtj2397
    @rtj2397 Před měsícem +70

    Paul Wall is another example of black wife effect

    • @Melanated483
      @Melanated483 Před měsícem +19

      Ciara is the only effect we can see on a BM and that’s probably because Russell Wilson accepted Ciara, and trust her with his Heart ❤️ Soul & Mind and Russell is not fully indulged into the Culture of BM. He is very much separated from BM. That’s why Russell Wilson had a Glow Up, when Ciara Leveled up.

    • @LeviThaBoi
      @LeviThaBoi Před měsícem +1

      Paul wall imitates black dudes. Why y’all like him if u don’t like black dudes?

    • @rtj2397
      @rtj2397 Před měsícem +8

      @@LeviThaBoi what black dude is he imitating?

    • @CoffeeMate-mu6ng
      @CoffeeMate-mu6ng Před měsícem

      @@LeviThaBoi I like black dudes. They don't like me though

    • @__gemoftheeast
      @__gemoftheeast Před měsícem +6

      ​@LeviThaBoi I disagree. He behaves like the white guys I grew up around. White but culturally black. Lol

  • @monkey.dchomsy9464
    @monkey.dchomsy9464 Před měsícem +73

    My favourite vers of the black wife affect is Patricia Bright's husband. Like it's crazy how much a moisturiser can make such a difference 😂😂😂😂

  • @Karla-op1gn
    @Karla-op1gn Před měsícem +25

    Told you seasoning makes everything better. 😂 😂 😂

  • @extra_small
    @extra_small Před měsícem +124

    Mark Zuckerberg missed out on his glow up and his goatee ❤

    • @Laquia
      @Laquia Před měsícem +34

      😂😂😂😂😂 SHADE!!!!!

    • @chronicfatiguehermithiker3022
      @chronicfatiguehermithiker3022 Před měsícem +28

      All men aren’t willing to go on the glow up program and we respect his choice, the point is that he’s happy, glow up or not. But we love nurturing people; its nice when they play along instead of calling us nags.

    • @allenkihunde6945
      @allenkihunde6945 Před měsícem +5

      😂

    • @Bobisworld
      @Bobisworld Před měsícem +9

      Can you please explain this? Mark zuckerberg?

    • @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis
      @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis Před měsícem +8

      He sure did.😂😂😂

  • @Neetabeeta1972
    @Neetabeeta1972 Před měsícem +89

    I have so much to say here but I won’t…i will only say this, black girl magic is real, don’t let anyone stifle your light.

  • @ericamena333
    @ericamena333 Před měsícem +54

    This brings to mind Travis Kelce and Kayla Nicole! He was looking real dapper after he starting dating her and now that he's with Taylor he has regressed.

    • @Michelle.1952
      @Michelle.1952 Před měsícem +22

      I mean, he's a kept man now he doesn't have to put in the work. Taylor will have an iron clad pre-nup though. He gives very much house husband. I can't believe he made that girl pay her way for vacations when HE was the football star. And she foolishly went for it 😔.

    • @ericamena333
      @ericamena333 Před měsícem +30

      @@Michelle.1952 - Right! How he fixed his mouth to suggest 50/50 when he makes WAY more than her and then still cheated, I think she dodged a bullet because I really don't believe Travis and Taylor will last and if it does there will be a lot of drama. I give it 5 years tops, then Taylor will make songs about all the shit he did.

    • @vonnii1013
      @vonnii1013 Před měsícem +5

      I noticed that too

    • @ITEEZ-
      @ITEEZ- Před měsícem +5

      White Dusty 😂

  • @PeachFitnessTV
    @PeachFitnessTV Před 29 dny +15

    when BW love, they loveeeee
    when WM love, they loveeee

  • @zanealexanderZA
    @zanealexanderZA Před měsícem +73

    How can something be so funny and so sad?
    That first black husband effect I kept waiting for change then it ended
    Those black wife effect glow ups were mind boggling
    Those men looked so different
    I couldn't even recognize them because they had a glooow up

    • @jezebelle57
      @jezebelle57 Před 24 dny

      I kept asking where is the After? If anything, poor white girl look like she been rode hard and put away wet.

  • @IAMGROOT4EVA
    @IAMGROOT4EVA Před měsícem +101

    Why do their skin complexions seem to darken over time 😂😂

    • @AramintaRossPistol
      @AramintaRossPistol Před měsícem +34

      Those pictures could have been taken during the summer.

    • @nightingale4786
      @nightingale4786 Před měsícem +67

      their pretty women be working the camera settings to somehow find lighting that suits both of them rather than just the default blasted white balance settings lmaooo

    • @michelleokafor1268
      @michelleokafor1268 Před měsícem +42

      They be outside

    • @blackbeaty1000
      @blackbeaty1000 Před měsícem +10

      You show up dark next to someone lighter complexion especially in a camera shot

  • @sarauniyaGH
    @sarauniyaGH Před měsícem +13

    "Enter the black wife... which I do every chance I get" OKAY CONNOR 🤣🔥

  • @DifferentDose
    @DifferentDose Před měsícem +102

    That Black Girl Magic, that Black Girl Magic! 🎶 😍 😁💜💋💖👑🤩

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 Před měsícem +6

      So true

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 Před měsícem

      ​​@@and93077you got that special touch no stylist needed

    • @DifferentDose
      @DifferentDose Před měsícem

      @@and93077 Dang, went from snowman to straight fire.⛄➡🔥👌You Go!!!

    • @Summer_Sunset15
      @Summer_Sunset15 Před měsícem +5

      Right on!

  • @Nitra813
    @Nitra813 Před měsícem +16

    I’m not into trends but this effect is absolutely true. I’m crying at the black husband effect 😅

  • @ninaj.4885
    @ninaj.4885 Před měsícem +13

    I knew a couple like this. Saw an older picture of the husband before his blk wife gave him a makeover. He went from looking like a nerdy math teacher with ill fitting clothes to a silver fox. When I saw him in person he had a low salt and pepper beard, buzz cut with full wavy salt and pepper hair on top, and stylish clothes and different glasses. I couldn't believe he was the same person in the picture.

  • @lilpinkbubbles6592
    @lilpinkbubbles6592 Před měsícem +13

    I can’t speak for everyone’s BM effect but my experience was it caused weight gain, depression, and lost years.

  • @blaqwabbit
    @blaqwabbit Před měsícem +129

    Out here leveling me up like pokemon what's going on lol

    • @PaperMario64
      @PaperMario64 Před měsícem +11

      You made me crack up at work

    • @Laquia
      @Laquia Před měsícem +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kehonan
      @kehonan Před měsícem +3

      😂😂😂

    • @kirawong4629
      @kirawong4629 Před měsícem +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @db6881
      @db6881 Před 16 dny

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets Před měsícem +72

    Y'all. This is the first time I'm admitting it... So when I was young I dated black men and other races of men but never really had a relationship until I was with a huwight man for a couple of years and then I didn't date for many years... and then in 2022 the devil decided to show up at my doorstep and he was a 6'4 black man, muscle bound etc.
    I was looking better than ever at the time, I was a few glow ups in at the time, fitness was on point, business on point etc. Long story short, within 6 months I'd gained a bunch of weight, was depressed and miserable... Luckily I then found out about narcissists and got away so it wasn't long.
    I had a full on glow down my first relationship with a black man. I'm still trying to fix what he broke.
    Until this sister did the video about the glow down I hadn't admitted it to myself. I didn't want to. Even though I didn't have a relationship with a bm before, it was my fantasy. In fact I had put it on my ex that maybe our relationship would have worked out if he was black lol. But hell, I didn't get fucking traumatized and abused and degraded and shit! That abuse from the narc was the worst shit I've ever imagined! I've just accepted that black males and black women are different fucking groups, man. Because the mental torture black males can put on us is different. They know us inside and out and can gut us in ways that nobody else can

  • @DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables
    @DeannaJacksonDJsDelectables Před měsícem +17

    I'm looking through old pics of my husband before we got married and after, and this trend is accurate. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @chosen1afrique304
    @chosen1afrique304 Před měsícem +74

    Here come John Cannon with his hating azz 😒

  • @THErealOGse
    @THErealOGse Před měsícem +29

    Half Arab, half white here, cousin married a black woman, this is legitimate.
    Also, Arab women, we expect men to look good. At least those of us with self respect lol

  • @mhizummy2091
    @mhizummy2091 Před měsícem +14

    The last guy is jealous asf 😂😂😂

  • @deedee2730
    @deedee2730 Před měsícem +18

    So True. My mom husband of 40 years is white. This is so true 😂😂😂. We upgradem

  • @SPARTANN879
    @SPARTANN879 Před měsícem +28

    We do black wife effect with the kids too that's globally what we do...

  • @ntombifuthigumede
    @ntombifuthigumede Před měsícem +23

    I know when you start smiling, it's going to be good😂😂😂

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom4930 Před měsícem +24

    I want to see the wife of the last blk man who decided to make this about black men having white wives. I want to see if he leveled his wife up or did she get the same old blk man effect.

    • @briana14333
      @briana14333 Před měsícem +6

      His beard and speech aren’t telling enough?!

    • @peacefreedom4930
      @peacefreedom4930 Před měsícem +3

      @@briana14333 😂🤣Yes, but I just want to see for myself.

    • @briana14333
      @briana14333 Před 22 dny

      HA! Understood@@peacefreedom4930

  • @kimberly6243
    @kimberly6243 Před měsícem +47

    They also tend to fare better economically when paired with a blk woman as well. Educated Black women push their loved ones to challenge themselves toward achieving better.
    Bm dont appreciate that trait until they dogged you out and lost you. Then he's in your dms begging you to take him back. NEVER take them back.

    • @djlivvy46
      @djlivvy46 Před měsícem +13

      Yes, they really don't want to better themselves, their families or their communities.
      Thank god black women have realised this and have stopped trying to flog that dead horse. Our talents are too exceptional to be wasted, as this video shows.

    • @Michael22352
      @Michael22352 Před měsícem

      you really believe this, wyte women even more powerful than wyte man in society, black under everybody else with black men being lowest cause we are barred from cooperate structures.

    • @Michael22352
      @Michael22352 Před 26 dny

      you must be on the ZA or something, no way you believe this, bro wyte women alone is power!!!! wytness is power!!!! your bl@ckass ain't powerful in the system of wytness, the hell you on.

  • @ntombifuthigumede
    @ntombifuthigumede Před měsícem +30

    Black husband effect🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @IAMHERE486
    @IAMHERE486 Před měsícem +23

    Even Bill Burr is looking very handsome these days.Of course it’s because of his BWife.

  • @PettyIsMyMiddleName
    @PettyIsMyMiddleName Před měsícem +74

    This funny AF 😂🤣
    The guy had me rolling with “it might have been the BM because he saw no difference “ I was thinking the same thing.
    And to the last guy , it’s not double standards because BM always talk down on his own race of women . Heck , there was a song back in the late 1800s or early 1900s talking about “I don’t want no dark skinned woman “.
    The facts are in the data , BW and WM are successful at marriage. Meanwhile, dusty talked down on BW, went out and got Becky with the good hair ,Maria , and Ling Ling, and in 2024 they claim “modern women “ are the issues and now they want the impoverished exotic women lol🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Melanated483
      @Melanated483 Před měsícem +12

      I have heard that song. I heard that song on Cynthia G channel 😢😢 It was sad.

    • @PettyIsMyMiddleName
      @PettyIsMyMiddleName Před měsícem +4

      @@Melanated483
      It really is , short story.
      My mom is Louisiana creole , white passing.
      My skin tone is in line with Tina knowles, Tia and Tamera, etc.
      All of my aunties on mom side are varies shades of light skinned, some white passing , some Spanish passing, some just light skinned.
      However, the youngest aunt was my grandfather’s shade and she was the only aunt that was dark skinned. She’s identical to granddad.
      When I was a kid and would visit family in Louisiana, I ALWAYS used to say I wanted to look like her. I mean she is gorgeous even now she’s late 60s and not a blemish , wrinkle, NOTHING. Her hair was long down to her back and her back . Now it’s a pretty salt n pepper color.
      My point is I grew up in the burbs and light skinned at that, there was a period of time where I was TOTALLY oblivious to the struggles, ridicules of dark skinned.
      Plus , I’m a millennial, 40, and we simply didn’t have the exposure to hear others. I’m guilty of being oblivious to my dark skinned sisters out here.
      It’s a dam shame honestly. Babyyyy I’m at a stage of loving my creator created , but if I had to choose I’d be one of those beautiful azz dark skinned, flawless skinned , sister frfr lol.
      At the end of the day , I’m not sure whether you are a believer in the Bible the TRUTH and not watered down religion Christians, but the TRUTH.
      The Bible was created and is only speaking to the TRUE Israelites, not the “ish” people and not the gentiles.
      And black skinned is the color of our Creator, His Son, all the characters of the Bible , all the angels in heaven. Our melanin protects us from the sun . Even light skinned I don’t wear skin screen , I just get darker in summer.
      We are not even to date outside our tribes , yet BM love to date these hybrid people who are a result of fallen angels. Deuteronomy 7:3
      It’s ridiculous AF

    • @deebeepbop
      @deebeepbop Před měsícem

      ok.. now we're really talkin about something. you need your own show... air it out! not ling ling doe lol😂

  • @heneverforesakesme4038
    @heneverforesakesme4038 Před měsícem +62

    Ladies, there is no "savior" race of men that is going to be better than the last, in the end they all show themselves. Now, if a relationship is successful, I am all for it...congrats, but remember, ALWAYS remember, the young lady in Milwaukee. Evil is evil, don't get so caught up with stereotypes, that you lower your guard when it comes to danger, evil can come in the form or a smile and gentle nature upfront at anytime. I truly believe in my heart, that is what got that young lady, unalived. She trusted that man because he wasn't the typical...sigh...please be careful ladies, please.

    • @femmefatale71
      @femmefatale71 Před měsícem +2

      BW are deleted every 4.5 hours in the USA by BM and have the second highest deletion rate only second to native women. AT THE HANDS OF THIER OWN MEN. Nuance is needed but do NOT dismiss facts and our biggest predators, this INCLUDES ratio.

    • @Michelle.1952
      @Michelle.1952 Před měsícem +2

      🙄 here we go. I'm surprised it took you this long. No, there is no savior race but what you call stereotypes, are actually statistics, and the statistics are that every 5 hrs a BW is removed from the planet by an XY that looks like her. Yes, the same can be said for other women of other communities but the instances that it happens to us are the highest.

    • @khrisi9410
      @khrisi9410 Před měsícem +1

      Shut up.

    • @successfullym3
      @successfullym3 Před měsícem +2

      Gtfoh..... rest the stats and data..
      Blk men are difficult to date and make single mothers. Lowest educated and highest incarceration.... highest unemployment.....

    • @nikkirockznikkirockz8551
      @nikkirockznikkirockz8551 Před měsícem +3

      There are certainly dusty guys in every race, However the FACT remains that No One Unalives Blaq women more than Blaq males, and that is one of the MANYYY reasons why they are noT better than other men (collectively) though all races Should be vetted, but in no way are Blaq males "equal" in general to other Men and that's just the way it is!! 💥

  • @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis
    @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis Před měsícem +19

    Brad and them value BW. They have always treated me well. BW magic has been bestowed upon them.❤❤❤
    MD: you know why the world knows there’s no secrets.😂😂😂😂😂

  • @reformedgirlblogger
    @reformedgirlblogger Před měsícem +9

    This is a very distinctly Black American style/swag, especially the haircuts. It’s cute to see others appreciate the aesthetic

  • @theartistmind7028
    @theartistmind7028 Před 23 dny +2

    😂 it’s you trying to hold your laugh in for me😂😂😂😂

  • @LadyAstarionAncunin
    @LadyAstarionAncunin Před měsícem +13

    This is interesting, though, because a boyfriend (white guy) told me that I could dress him however I wanted. Like, I've always been stylish, so he wanted to be able to match my level of style. I told him that he didn't have to, but now as an older person, if I'm gonna date/marry, I want a man who's on my level, style-wise. I wanna stunt whenever we go out. I want to take editorial looking pics. I wanna be "that" couple who people know as local legends. I mean, if I'm gonna bother.

  • @MoeSoNatural
    @MoeSoNatural Před 13 dny +3

    So many black women have dated and worked to help her man glo up (including me)- just as the man desired and Chile, no reciprocity came into the chat. There are so many black men that come to take and never give. I’m not mad at the black women who have chosen to love the man that loves them

  • @woodrowegordon1892
    @woodrowegordon1892 Před 13 dny +2

    CONTINUE TO GET YOUR PASSPORTS BROS👍🏾🤴🏿 YOUR EFFECT IS NULL & VOID BLACK, LOVE BLACK WOMEN TO THE CORE, BW HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THE DYNAMIC EFFECT✨✨✨✨🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @SISTAGURL
    @SISTAGURL Před měsícem +36

    😂😂😂😂this was funny af

  • @musiclove7375
    @musiclove7375 Před 27 dny +5

    Dude at the end could have saved his b.s. and then go read and understand the stats. His relationship with his preference has over a 70% chance of failure.

  • @JustAnEmptyCageGirl
    @JustAnEmptyCageGirl Před měsícem +14

    9:07
    I love how the wife proudly rests her elbow on her husband. Her face is like "yeah, I made this! I'm Michelangelo!"

  • @kirawong4629
    @kirawong4629 Před měsícem +14

    To the Black guy talking… let us see your wife before and after

    • @Blue-jq9wu
      @Blue-jq9wu Před dnem

      I don’t think that’s a nice question.

  • @MonochromaticBlues
    @MonochromaticBlues Před 26 dny +3

    lol they’re like that when they can’t bully you

  • @biancajful
    @biancajful Před měsícem +11

    Omg, this had me giggling so hard! I love to see it!❤

  • @TanyaBrightFuture
    @TanyaBrightFuture Před měsícem +6

    This video is hilarious 😂😂😂so true about black husband effect. ❤❤❤😂😂😂

  • @MugethiGitau
    @MugethiGitau Před měsícem +12

    😂😂😂 Maria you're killing me with your laughter

  • @PhomoloKhan
    @PhomoloKhan Před měsícem +8

    huuu... its so refreshing to hear positive things about us black women. Heeey black woman this video made me so happy lol.... now people are waking up to see the black man for who they are hahaha.

  • @kingbee44
    @kingbee44 Před měsícem +7

    These women got these men looking and smelling good AND they are in better shape! You can tell she got him hitting the GYM! A glow up all the way around, not just superficially.

  • @cocoace7587
    @cocoace7587 Před měsícem +20

    Is that the same BM at the end , the one who was upset & apologized to our bear comments ? I guess he doesn't work . He said he has a clear wife , yet he's ALWAYS in OUR faces / spaces . # boy bye # get a job 😅

    • @Melanated483
      @Melanated483 Před měsícem +8

      😂😂😂 His beard looks unkept. He didn’t have any special effects at all with his Becky wife. But at least he admitted that BW have always been nice to him in “real life” except maybe on the internet 🛜

    • @readyornot27
      @readyornot27 Před měsícem +3

      Right? It's a wonder why he never makes videos directed at the white community/white women.

    • @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
      @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 Před měsícem +1

      @@Melanated483 rite least he did admit the truth. BW are nice in person. The problem is alot of BM think BW are suppose to chase and wor$hip them. They want us to have so much energy for them but not vice versa.

  • @DaughterofDiogenes
    @DaughterofDiogenes Před měsícem +51

    This is what happened for my soon to be ex. He had no style at all and was too skinny. I built him up and got him looking good and then he forgot who made him this way so I had to get rid of him.

    • @Laquia
      @Laquia Před měsícem +21

      Bro fumbled you smh 😔

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 Před měsícem +11

      F him plus they always come back lol

    • @Michelle.1952
      @Michelle.1952 Před měsícem +41

      That's the downside of leveling up a man. Any man. They are always on the hunt for something better. We need to always make sure we're getting out more than we're putting in for situations just like this.

    • @MyWorld-xw6ic
      @MyWorld-xw6ic Před měsícem +11

      @@Michelle.1952teach Michelle!! Never level up a man.

  • @beautifulgirl1375
    @beautifulgirl1375 Před měsícem +8

    There might be something to this. When I married my husband one of the first things I did was upgrade his clothing and toiletries. Got him eating healthy and getting enough rest. We also laugh a lot.

  • @meforever4330
    @meforever4330 Před měsícem +8

    No. That second to last guy CANNOT be the same person. Talk about Black Girl Magic ✨✨✨

  • @BABYDOLL87LOVELY
    @BABYDOLL87LOVELY Před měsícem +6

    A LOT OF THE TIMES THEY TREAT US LIKE THE QUEENS BROTHA'S 4GET WE ARE!

  • @gertrudesmergenderge3590
    @gertrudesmergenderge3590 Před měsícem +6

    I hope these men appreciate all that their wives have given them. If you raise a man up he’ll look down on you.

  • @UseYourVoices
    @UseYourVoices Před 21 dnem +1

    He said, "That's all right." and "I was still waiting for the after". The Black Husband Effect and the Black Man effect are hysterical! 🤣

  • @TheLeslieMichelle
    @TheLeslieMichelle Před měsícem +7

    This gives the Beyoncé's song "Upgrade You" a whole new meaning. 😂

  • @ntombifuthigumede
    @ntombifuthigumede Před měsícem +14

    Maria, you know damn well why 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @CantHaveMyPeace
    @CantHaveMyPeace Před měsícem +8

    I’ve been 200% invested for 3 days. I can’t leave it alone!❤

  • @stevemeters3090
    @stevemeters3090 Před 22 dny +2

    These Black Wife Effect videos make me happy.

  • @beianli4620
    @beianli4620 Před měsícem +5

    Ok, so i knew there would be nothing but pettiness coming out of this video...But i'm still here for it 😂😂😂

  • @TerriJoe4638
    @TerriJoe4638 Před 29 dny +6

    Black husband effect: no pot to piss in, nor a window 🪟 to throw it out.

  • @MyriadLove
    @MyriadLove Před měsícem +20

    1:35, his wife 'Shemar'ed' him. 😂 Yezz.

  • @jarricadavis2635
    @jarricadavis2635 Před 3 dny +1

    I ✨️ love ✨️ ❤️ it! Black women are amazing 👏 and black men....they tried it!

  • @Sherrell_S
    @Sherrell_S Před měsícem +62

    The black husband looked worse

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 Před měsícem +31

      Yup cause they stressing everyone out

    • @laquettaowens6120
      @laquettaowens6120 Před měsícem +2

      @@shaypope4732 😂, I like your pop and it says be respectful I wasn't ready for that 😂.

    • @shaypope4732
      @shaypope4732 Před měsícem

      @@laquettaowens6120 lol

    • @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
      @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 Před měsícem +1

      Yep notice most BM when they got with WW and Non BW they start looking old and losing their attractiveness.

  • @kellymaresha
    @kellymaresha Před měsícem +21

    I’m READY to change a white man’s LIFE!!!!✨🙌🏾✨

    • @ia7072
      @ia7072 Před měsícem +5

      Same here, let's go girl, reclaim what you deserve and mutual love ✨ 🙌
      (Btw I'm not even black 😂)

    • @kellymaresha
      @kellymaresha Před měsícem +1

      @@ia7072 😂❤️❤️❤️

    • @mhizummy2091
      @mhizummy2091 Před měsícem +2

      Same here 😂❤

  • @TheArtPaige
    @TheArtPaige Před měsícem +17

    I get but I still don't want to be Barb the builder.

    • @nikkirockznikkirockz8551
      @nikkirockznikkirockz8551 Před měsícem +1

      Barbara The Builder is a tired, used and abused woman who cooks, cleans and PAYS $$$ for EVERYTHING to keep a Naker happy, these women are NOT that!

    • @NovaPrincess
      @NovaPrincess Před měsícem +7

      Exactly!! This is not the flex black women think it is. I'm leveling ME up, not no male. Period. I own my house and my car.

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 Před měsícem +4

      Something i learn real fast is that men don't value that, one dude i help to recoger his self love and selfesteem the first he did was cheat on me one he look better 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @nikkirockznikkirockz8551
      @nikkirockznikkirockz8551 Před měsícem +2

      @@NovaPrincess You're Missing the point anD definition of what These Queens husbands mean by "levelling UP", not 1 time did they mention their Wives mulling, caping, etc. for them Or buying them Anything, they simply said their wives made their lives Better with their Love and Presence, Stop comparing this awesome Ode of Blaq Gyal Magic to that of Tyrones who Do use, abuse anD manipulate Sistahs and get yo'self a Naker if that's what yoU truly want!!! ✴️

    • @nikkirockznikkirockz8551
      @nikkirockznikkirockz8551 Před měsícem +2

      @@AyAReI00 Then, You either got involved with a Naker or a Wigger, because Real Men (keyword) Don't mistreat Blaq Queens this way at alL!

  • @readyornot27
    @readyornot27 Před měsícem +7

    Why do BM care about BW's supposed hypocrisy when they themselves are not with BW? If they would focus on their wives and families instead of social media comments, they would be better off. Also, a lot of the negative commentary about their dating choices during the draft came from other men. 🤷🏾‍♀

  • @taleasmith543
    @taleasmith543 Před měsícem +9

    We’re just a ray of sunshine ☀️

  • @taradaniels6157
    @taradaniels6157 Před 24 dny +4

    And all the negative people who will come on here complaining, you know who you are, this is absolutely true, they level up, and for white men who do date, and marry black women, still want disrespect white woman, but black men will............

  • @robertlmckenzie1606
    @robertlmckenzie1606 Před 29 dny +4

    This is more than new clothes and some grooming. These women are literally taking years off these guys!

  • @Igbobabexoxo
    @Igbobabexoxo Před 27 dny +2

    “Miss lady I don’t think this was a promotion” 😂 sir please!

  • @brownandbeautiful35
    @brownandbeautiful35 Před měsícem +6

    Perfect example when Travis Kelce was with Kayla Nicole he was cute now that he is with Taylor he looks like he goes deer hunting. Kanye dressed horrible when he was with Kim K and she looked bad too.

    • @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
      @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 Před měsícem +2

      Facts. I remember when Kanye was with his ex fiancee back in the day he was on point. Handsome, slim and fashion was 🔥. It went all downhill once he got with Kim K.

  • @dominiquepate292
    @dominiquepate292 Před 13 dny +2

    You got to match our fly!😂😍

  • @mizzmolly7649
    @mizzmolly7649 Před měsícem +8

    This is a SCREAM! 😆😆😆

  • @taleasmith543
    @taleasmith543 Před měsícem +7

    Let’s not forget the black gf effect either lol

  • @whileflower5543
    @whileflower5543 Před 21 dnem

    Love it coming from a black queen lady....EVERYBODY LOOKS LIKE KINGS AND QUEENS but ONKY ON THE BLACK QUEEN AND THE WHITE KINGS❤❤❤❤❤