Understanding Twin Flame Union: Part 1
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In this video, I have tried to set a background of understanding Union, from my own personal understanding.
Twin Flame Union is a process, not an event. It happens on 5 levels.
Twin flame reunion is NOT about romantically staying together as a couple under one roof. It is way much more than that and it would happen when both twin flames go through a certain inner transformation and get aligned with each other on four other levels apart from physical.
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This is the best explanation I've heard in almost 10 years. I wanted to give these feelings a 'form' to help me deal with them, to know how to think about them. There was a deep desire to put the emotions in context. In some form of template so I could understand and relate to it, to learn how to live with the emotions in normal life. My experience with love was always to have 'relationship'. I felt crazy because I am 38 years older. I thought I should be ashamed but I was not. I loved him fiercely and unapologetically, although the age gap caused me a great deal of self-torture and much grieving. For several years I was in denial that this was the connection. I met him in person 4 years after finding him, when I held his hand, it felt like I was holding my own hand. Looking in his eyes, I felt drawn inside of him. I went out of body and experienced flying down a white corridor. I could not move or hear or speak.
I've always felt intensely, but this love was so powerful I thought I was losing my sanity. I never felt or thought I would be with him. I always thought it was impossible. I did not hope to have him physically, or in any way, other than spiritually/energetically - but the longing, the yearning was overpowering. I have felt him next to me, even experiencing the physical sensation of his touch. But I needed to understand what to do with this intense love since I could not give it to him. It does not fit a standard 'relationship paradigm'. I always questioned, "Why him?" "Why me?" "Why now?" I really liked your video "What a Twin Flame is NOT".
Even now I continue to learn. Thank you for making this particular issue so very clear and concise. I have subscribed and watched many of the TF videos. I am rewatching a few that resonate deeply - like this one.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience an understanding!!!
You are an amazing coach!💐 extremely aware, credible and trustworthy.❤
At the beginning of my journey, I was only focused on my twin coming back and I listened to a guy on YT who had a lot of followers and "found a way" to Union in 3D. I watched him because I wanted it to happen to me too. After a few weeks, however, it started to bother me. I was developing spiritually and discovering new things about myself, and he was talking about spiritual work "new agy magic bulls**t" and in general he was very arrogant and spoke in a bad way about spiritual teachers. I am very glad that I found you so early in my journey. Although I must admit that at the very beginning, when I heard from you that it was not the return of that person that was important, but your own development, I put your channel aside.😅 Like all the rest to be honest, because I needed this time for myself. Detox let's say. You've come an amazing journey and I'm glad you were guided to start this channel.❤❤
Thanks for sharing your experience! I was married when I met my twin, however; I'd been contemplating divorce for a long time so obviously I was sorely unhappy as my spouse was verbally, psychologically and emotionally abusive. I'd put up with his behavior for 3 decades. Then one day after about 16 or 17 years on my job this person appeared and turned my life upside down and it was in a good way. Our connection was spiritual and very emotional initially but a bit later I had very intense physical tendencies towards him and viceversa. I couldn't seem to control it. We were in the bubble seemingly for a few months then for about 2 years we were in the cat & mouse mode aka runner/chaser dynamic. He married someone else while all of this was happening without my knowledge!!! Well, I couldn't wrap my head around it because I knew and felt we had immense love for each other. I'm now divorced because this is what my soul lead me to do. I simply couldn't stay with my karmic for much longer as my soul was awaken to unconditional love for my twin. Sorry for the long response but I felt the need to share a little of what happened in my connection. It may resonate with others here as well. We've been physically apart now for 2 years.
Hi Lovely, yes I understand what you say!! And you are absolutely right. One does not need to start in the toxic or abusive marriage, irrespective of you have net someone else in your life or not.
It takes great courage to take a step and lit your foot down to stand by your own. Good you took that step.
Much love to you, keep up with your journey and God bless you. ❤️
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa yes it does take GREAT courage! and thank you!😘
Omg! Your situation sounds very similar to my experience. Before I met my twin (8 years ago) I use to not be able to sleep so I would go into the livingroom to be alone and just cry eyes out and pray. Begging God to help me! 🙏🏾 I was so miserable in my marriage of only 3 years! (Together 10 years) at the time. I was crushed that already, it felt like it was over and I had no idea how I would get out of it. I was feeling hopeless, I had severe anxiety attacks every day and I gained like 100 pounds after getting married. I hated my life! And I thought I was going to be stuck in that slop of a life for way longer than I wanted, which is an eternity. Then I met my twin flame and he was the most beautiful thing I'd ever come across ever (internally) . Our bubble faze was the best experience of my life and of course it was popped by.....you know who 😟 in less than a week. 😥😣 It's been an uphill battle between me my twin ever since. We did have a beautiful reunion January of 2020 before pandemic for a little while, our last conversation was April 2020 just shy of the 5 year anniversary of our meeting and I don't know what happened but we haven't spoken since. I'll admit it hurts but I've learned to keep myself calm, balanced and happy throughout it all 🧘🏾♀️ lol. Good luck to you, I hope you hear from you twin soon ❤
Thank you. Every TF path is unique and different and we need to respect that.
Yes, slowly I m also coming out the thoughts of 3 d union, now a days my DM is chasing me and I m running from him bcoz I don't want to disturb our marriages. Thanks didi..I m only in wait when he would recognize me. Not only feeling love or any kind of addiction towards me is enough.
What you shared about the early stages of your connection resonated very closely with my experience. The only difference is that my DM broke away from her previous relationship before we met and my loving wife passed over some months before I experienced the “soul shock”. I agree that every twin flame union has its own purpose and destiny. All as pre-agreed and divinely orchestrated. 😇💕
Hearing you speak on union from 15:05 brought goosebumps in me. Yes union is certainly not just marriage. Thanks for your work Pradnyaa! ❤
I was waiting for this! Thank you very much.
I love you and your message. Thank you so much!
This is a confirmation of what I have been thinking for quite a while now! Thank you!
As usual, great source of guidance 👍
Great video. Thank you. This is a spirtual experience for God and elevating the earth through ourselves. This is not a race or a competition. Joy, growth and love is personal. ❤❤❤❤
Bang on!!!!! Loved this one😘😘😘. Thank you so much Pradnya!!!!! Love and cheers ❤️❤️
Hi Love. Alwaya looking forward to your videos. Thank you. 🙏💕
I am clicking like to all which videos I'm watching in this channel.. each and every video gives great knowledge.. so blessed to find ur channel
Amazing explanation! I can relate to it, especially when you talk about new types of templates, I feel like I have been onto it myself just could not grasp what was all about and you explained it so beautifully. Thank you for clarifying it, it makes so much sense. I feel like we are creating these new templates (or evolving into new templates), in a new reality there will be so much more freedom between people, each will stand in its own integrity and truth. Relationships will be based on complete transparency and mutual respect. There will not be codependency and each will stand completely balanced in its own being. This will be so amazing, we will be able to completely enjoy sharing energy, creating together in mutual respect and harmony. Thank you again!
So agree, Pradnyaa . Also, focusing on just physical union blocks you from life experiences and karmic experiences. Thanks 💕
Thanks for this beautiful explanation...
Thank you so much Pradnyaa! Your explanations are the most helpful to me that I have found so far.
Believe it or not as I am watching this video my phone keeps turning its volume all the way up repeatedly, I think I really needed to hear this message! Haha.
You are a brilliant soul pradnya better words to say is enlightened...u are helping out so many of us u have all the blessings of the twin souls who are watching..your knowledge and power is only going to grow and u will keep showing us the way ...thank you ...lots and lots of love
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Excellent videos. Very detailed & precise. I'm super impressed with Pradnyaa's wisdom that she is sharing with us.
Thank you Victoria for your warm words! It means a lot to me. Thank you. 🥰
I love your videos. I think where I am stuck is that I have tried to let go of being in some sort of 3D union with my twin as the last he told me was he was working things out with his wife, who he was separated from when we met. I have tried to meet other people, both before and after meeting my twin, and it seems impossible. He was the only one where all the barriers disappeared.
PhD student trying to get into kindergarden....made me smile
thank you pradnya.... thank you very much.... for this very positive twinflame union concept..........
some times i feel to be with my TF .....so intensely...... but most consciously.......i feel no we are fine as we are ....i should not disturb his life........
but now with this video i found a preciesely positive mindset or thought towards my union...... because we are neither in complete no contact zone nor we have any fights or anger ..... yet we respect each others thoughts......
A great video…! I echo you that I have noticed the energy of some twin flame videos/ coaches online, emitting ego energy around being in physical union. I have been avoiding those because of this feeling. Last year I worked with one coach who was in physical union with her twin flame but was humble enough to admit many ups and downs during the physical union, and lack of harmony in their relationship. Eerily enough, I happened to be experiencing in parallel the exact same emotions and challenges she was going through, at the same time, even though I was in no contact separation with my twin. She would be experiencing the same thing in the physical with her twin. It reassured me that I was part of the same collective, and we were experiencing something collectively. I believe we write our stories ahead of time with our twin; and pre-decide how and when everything will happen, and like you said, it looks different for everyone. She felt she had chosen to work through these things being in physical couplehood with her twin, otherwise if she had done it on her own, she would not have trusted anyone after her healing (after her last relationship really destroyed her). For me, I believe I chose to work things out in separation because I would have been too sensitive to the problems and struggles of my twin, and I would have focused too much on helping him, as I had co-dependency issues to heal. Thank you for this great video that reminds us of what this journey is. I love your example that tf relationship to marriage is like a PhD going into kindergarten. 😂 You are a really blessing to this community!
This has been my struggle currently and I have been refusing & denying & shutting this thing (which i now know is twin flame) due to societal & religious norms. I felt that my heart was betraying me bcoz I felt & my heart is pointing me to what my mind refused. I've been so frustrated bcoz I had no idea of what I was going through then I came across your videos and am accepting the whole process now and am finding peace. Thank you so much.
Thats really great, I am glad it is helping you.
Again another bang on video by you Pradnya I am at a place where I am moving and struggling to go beyond putting the tf journey in any relationship template especially marriage but the age gap torture and the guilt and all the turmoil helps to slowly move away from those expectations, you have explained it so well ❤❤
Great explanation...resonate with you cent %. 👌👌👍👍
Awesome 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 union is so misunderstood
For me. The only match for you is the Twin. BUT, and this is a big BUT. The forces that split us in the first place will go to the end of the earth to keep us apart in some sense. It is so complex.
Many thanks for this video and even more for planning to take up Q&A. I have been thinking of asking you for your email for few weeks now and hence, was very delighted to hear about Q&A. You mentioned about sending you questions via email but I couldn't find your email ID in the description section.
Oh it's right in front in the screen when I am speaking about it! 😄 it is awakenwp@gmail.com
Oh sorry, I didnt see it, I usually listen to videos while going for a walk, so generally dont see them:).Got it now.
Btw, I loved your butterfly necklace in one of your other videos:).
Will send you my questions, thank you❤️
Was Part 2 ever made and posted? Great video, thank you. x
Fantastic
Hi Pradnyaa, wonderful video. I am struggling with the exact same thing, unable to break free of 3D expectations.
Waiting for your Part 2 video.
Thanks alot maam ,,ur videos are really very helpful🙏🙏
Ur right.. physical union is the last thing its a choice specialy when twins progress. I understand twin flame is like a religious love. The difference is twin flame has frequency vibration and knowing
Pradnyaa I respect your subjective perspective absolutely and I also believe that when we ascend the physical and the spiritual realm is one … there is no I should or I shouldn’t … I also feel that ego has two faces … I should be with my twin flame (because this is coming from control) and or I shouldn’t be with my twin flame in the physical (this is also control) and this is my subjective perspective!!! The same is for people in the spiritual path wanting money or not wanting …. Ego works both ways wanting to make us look important with an inflated ego and also a fake sense of humbleness … that I have also gone through, as I looked down upon any worldly and physical outcome … I believe the balance of both, is what we are all looking for … and if our ego makes choice of should or shouldn’t, well again it’s ego 😊
so true! well said.
Thank you. I accept you as my teacher 💖
Thank you so much for your thoughts my twin flame he’s much more spiritual and awakened than I am he is 5000 miles away from me he’s 73 and I’m 67 and I have been wondering the questions to what your video just showed. Can we be in union without being physically in touch with each other I can feel him spiritually because he does travel to me spiritually,
He is a spiritual teacher, I’ve been a spiritual seeker most of my life. He is Hindu, I was raised in Christianity but six months ago or so my thinking changed i believe what he believes. And I believe union with God with him came to me because I could feel my love for Shiva the same as for him , it’s hard to explain, my twin flame doesn’t get in conversations about emotions with me so when I pray Shiva tells me my own awareness tells me to be patient and that’s the hardest thing ever to find out what I am here to learn what I’m here to share spiritually.Is there anything I am missing, not knowing much about twin flames except what I feel and learning on the Internet Namaste my friend, thank you for your help that you have already been
Yes, thank you Pradnyaa this did help. I’m not sure if you made this video in response to a recent comment/question I made on another video if yours, but you addressed it here anyway, so thank you. There was something in particular you said that triggered me to realize I might have been assigning mentally something spiritual as earthly when it might not have been. It’s given me ‘food for thought’.
Furthermore, I just wanted to also say I agree with everything you have said here. I think part of the frustration is that I had been taught there are sacraments-tangible outlets for spiritual occurrences and the frustration that is coming from not knowing what to do with this TF connection. Marriage is a sacrament (outward show of a spiritual occurrence from within) and people are to get married when they believe God has put two together, though I do believe most marriages today are due to two people putting themselves together-either from sex and mostly lust bonds or from just finding someone materially suitable and someone one is able to love (or a combination of those things). According to my spiritual teaching that I grew up with, I assumed this was God that joined my TF and I. I have no other way of explaining it as it was a tangible spiritual experience when we first met. I had no other way of spiritually interpreting what occurred between TF and I other than those spiritual religious teachings I grew up with and I subsequently I had no idea of assigning what to do with that spiritual occurrence since TF had married. From this, I find it difficult to understand. What is one to DO with this connection?
I am not married and if this is truly a TF bond, I now will have to live the rest of my life alone-to which is extremely painful and devastating. I absolutely cannot be of divided heart and mind to marry another. It would be impossible for me to marry someone else and something I couldn’t do- to ‘lie’ to another like that. It won’t work. Given that, I would never ask or expect TF to leave family and spouse for me. I would not want them to. So where’s the compromise? I just find this to be extremely uncomfortable and torturous, even with the spiritual benefits, which I admit there are benefits. I feel it’s not fair, but I also know life is not fair and sufferings (when surrendered to God) often produce better spiritual gains than any life filled with continual pleasures. (Not that one should seek out suffering, but some do) I suspect I’m just choking on the unwillingness to surrender to those truths. But when I do, I don’t understand why I am still connected to TF. My only guess is that TF is learning off of my insights and life experiences spiritually as I did through theirs and that’s why it’s still there when I accept. After all, I believe it was God who joined us...And the divine must have its reasons. It’s just not finished it’s purpose yet. I have to keep in mind, all this may NOT continue despite the TF ideas that are out there that say this is ‘eternal’, etc., but that still makes me incredibly unhappy and wondering what’s the point?! What is this for?! Obviously I have more to learn.
Anyway, many apologies for bringing my frustrations to you. I do believe you know exactly what you are talking about. Thanks again.
Son of Hibbs, i hear you. i do not know how long you have been in your TF connection but doing the inner work, in my experience, gradually creates totally unexpected realizations as the process shifts and unfolds. standing in integrity and deepening self love in to Sovereignty, linking in to All and Everything, the Oneness of life can open up wondrous areas - totally unexpected!
trust the process, with flavours of openness and gratitude 🌈
bless you 💖 on your journey, as your life blesses us.
I have the same question literally. If my twin is also in position of other commitments (marriage and kids), if the physical union is not guranteed, the irony of not being able to have feelings towards someone else other than my twin flame becomes a curse eventually as an unmarried person.With all the due respect to the ascension process and the awakening guidance from universe,I wonder what is the divine purpose of showing one what true love is in physical and taking it away while noone else can surpass or replicate that romantic feeling which one has towards twin flame. Grateful for all the lessons!
Love & relate alot to the message. Thank u. I can't seem to find the part 2 of this. Can anyone please copy paste the link for me. Much appreciated 🙏
Thank you
Right you are. I too don't believe in physical union is the only goal of this journey
I really get your message about the TF connection being spiritual and not an ordinary 3d relationship. But what do you recommend when both TFs are in their early 50ies, divorced from their karmics and now in separation? I don't want to live alone for the rest of my life but I just can't imagine to date anyone else. Just impossible. I surrendered to God and let Him guide us.
Thxs
Thank you❤🌹🙏 mam❤❤❤❤
I have twin flame and also soulmate.. They both are loving me unconditionally..What can I do, who can I choose ???
Hi Pradnya, thank you for this video. What do you exactly mean by spiritual union? I understand mental, emotional, energetic union but spiritual?
Part 2 please ?
Nice talk madam jee
Thankyou mam .how to deal with strong sexual attraction with tf..even we r not able to connect this way with any other person..(husband)..????
Hi Pradnya,do you have video for twin runner awakening?what the sign, how the chaser know when that shifting.thank you🙏
Not yet! will do soon! Thank you for your suggestion.
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Hi pradnya im into same situation,me n my twin flame both are married and i feels same about our reunion ❤
IMO, if people divorce to marry their twin flame, the marriage was broken to start with. Divorce rate is very high today. (And not necessarily because of a third party). I am a senior. In my parents' day, nobody got divorced. Today, I know of only a few couples among friends or relatives who are still in first marriages. Many younger people are not even getting married, even if they have kids. For better or worse, marriage is not what it used to be.
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If I cannot be with her then I wish I can forget her
We all wish that. But if it is a true twin flame connection then you won't. And there is a reason why. 😊
I love him unconditionally and not expecting anything return...I came to a point that I can surrender the connection to the universe...
I am single now... my parents are pushing me to marry someone... What can I do? I don't want more drama and complexity to my life... I love my twin... I completely accept spiritual nature of this connection and I accept the fact that spiritual partner maynot be reallife partner..Can I love someone while feeling my twin's energy.. I think it is a form of deceiting myself... Or will I wait for my twin to choose me...
Please help me.. Why am I feeling these things.....?
where is part 2?
Mam what is ur session fee I really want to talk to u ... Something .. once .. it's really heart breaking my twinflame trigger me on my depression issue .. which I was going through from 2006 .. from. That point we r not in talking terms also.. because .. it seems why he is so hard with mee .. I have agrophobia also .. how can I heal this .. bcoz this time twin trigger me on my most sensitive issues . I am not finding wayyout .. I have tried all drs medicines.. therapies.. I really want to remove this depression phobias and pains now . I want my normal happy life .. which I never live 😌😌
I understand. I am working on the session details. I will keep you posted.
Is it possible to have two twin flames on the same timelines?? Or maybe a soulmate and twin flame at the same time?? Cause I got two and I'm confused 🤔
Twin flame is only one.
Most twin flames also have soulmates in the same timeline. Soulmate and twin flame have different purpose and cannot replace each other in your life.
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Soo how can you tell one from another?
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Thank you for all your help by the way.. you ARE MOST APPRECIATED .. IM SOO GREATFUL 💜💓💜💓💜🧲🧲🧲🧲😁
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You can watch my Video - 6 Differences between Soulmates and Twin Flames.
czcams.com/video/-lC808tqDZE/video.html
Maam please tell about the various types of union in detail, how can we know how we are in union stage
I was planning to do the second part of this but then I couldn't due to certain things unfolding in last couple of months. I will soon do it.
why the age gup of 20 years is a problem if thy both accept the gap and feel equal, that just the 3 D template not accepts this. 20 years difference is meant nothing if both twins are accepting this
True. There are already so many soulmate couples who have that or even bigger age gap.
But in TF connection that does become one of the challenges. Of course one or both can not see it openly. So when a woman is like 42 and man is 20 - those cases where a woman already is married with kids.
Or a man is 60 widower with married kids and woman is 27 fresh and single. (These are actual tf cases I am mentioning).
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa ok thank you, i m 20 years older than my twin and i am divorced he is single and we accepting eachother soo far:)
Guide me
I find it hard to actually get any meat out of your videos Pradnya. You did a lot of talking, but actually said very little about twin flame union.
🙃 that's first part where I had to build some background. More in second part. Which is not yet done due to some reasons. I avoid making videos which are too long hence making shorter ones. I will update you once I upload the next part.
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa Ok, great! :)
If someone has no courage n is soooo attached dependant on their " matrix marriage " ....
Then physical union is far from reach .
INABILITY TO DETACH From 3D " Attachments " this is the " 3D NEED " .....
DESIRE TO MARRY N LOVE YOUR TWIN IS 5D TEMPLATE IS THE DIVINE DESIRE .... Even Paramhamsa Yogananda Agrees With Desiring To Marry Ones Twin .
FEAR TO DETACH FROM 3D ATTACHMENTS IS THE CODEPENDENCY N KARMIC NEED .
I guess some people just lack passion .... Imagine Goddess Parvati Agreeing With This Video ..... She Would Never Be In Kailash .
Lets Not Project Ones Weaknesses 😁 n Distort Divine Truth !
People Teach About Such Great Mysteries Like Twinflames WITHOUT ACTIVATING THEIR LIGHTBODY 😂 .... Ya right .
If you are in any way laughing and making fun of anything here...you are far from basic spiritual lessons. Learn to respect others and their journey. Stop judging others. Come out of fixed opinions and open your heart to infinite ways to learn about the truth. God bless.
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa 😂 You Are Just Looking To Take ANYTHING You Can Find And Turn It Against Me 😁
Yes I Am Laughing 😂😂 People Have Made A Joke Out Of This Sacred Journey ! Thats One Reason .
Second Reason Why I Am Laughing Is Because People Instead Of ADMITTING THEIR WEAKNESSES ARE INSTEAD ... DISTORTING TWIN FLAME TEACHINGS 😂😂😂
Third Reason I Am Laughing Is Because ... They Think They Are Fooling Everyone And Can Get Away With It ..... NOT AT THIS TIME ON EARTH .
Lights & Darks Are Clearly Visible ... I Would Not Say God Bless ... I Am A Truther 😂
Don't you think it's quite awkward for an elder feminine to chase her masculine?!, UNCONTROLLABLY...& Feeling this intense bond just by virtual interactions, not meeting him physically!!?..
WHAT if she admits all & he goes into a totally silent zone?.. without admitting/denying anything!!!...
IF they both are single, & she really want to get settle down with him only.?. how long is reasonable for her to keep on hoping & waiting for his return/giving some clarity... what if she spent her 5-10 golden year's just in waiting for him,& what if one day he says that who asked you to wait for me,i don't even bother you,u mean nothing,i never said anything,it all was just in your head!!.. you are some psycho etc!!...
[Don't you think it's quite awkward for an elder feminine to chase her masculine?]------------ Thats your social conditioning blocking your feeling. The age factor. What is appropriate and what is not appropriate - your *ego* tells you according o your conditioning you picked so far in life.
[ Feeling this intense bond]------
Thats your soul.
[not meeting him physically!!?]----------
Our physicality is less than 10% of our total existence.
[WHAT if she admits all & he goes into a totally silent zone?.. without admitting/denying anything!!!...]------------
Is that your FEAR or EXPECTATION that he should reciprocate? Yes I understand we all want them to reciprocate, but not confronting your feeling out of the FEAR of not being reciprocated is not the right way to look at it.
I confronted my TF twice. First time when I was single, he was single. I cofnronted because i wanted to express my feelings. Period. I did not want to land up in regret later. He did not reply me for 2 years. Did not even acknowledge it.
But that confrontation of me became a major milestone in our journey!
Make sure you watch this video - where I have shared in detailed - HOW and WHY I confronted to my twin flame my feeling. It may help.
How did I confront my love for my twin flame for the first time?:
czcams.com/video/qIwOOo92Ouk/video.html
And after that please watch the following video - as I walk about some major points related to confrontation -
Have you taken that basic step towards union?
czcams.com/video/N4IDP60KIdg/video.html
[IF they both are single, & she really want to get settle down with him only.?]
------ Thats getting stuck with a specific "expected outcome". Which blocks you from progressing on your path. You can believe in what you want, but you need to release the stubborn grip on it.
[what if she spent her 5-10 golden year's ]------
-------------- I did. No regrets.
I leaned some valuable lessons, there is nothing you lose here. He came back in my life, but not the way i was expecting. We both accepted and acknowledged our connection and the love, and it has been so beautiful, but we had to let of our egos and stubborn expectations.
[waiting for him,& what if one day he says that who asked you to wait for me, i don't even bother you]--------------
Yes he might say that.
MY TF had clearly told me he is dating someone else, i still waited for him. Because I WANTED TO.
However, I learned - the soul lessons in this journey and some junctures in this journey do not arrive unless you let go.
I think - you are revolving around - what HE will say and do - IF and But.
Come out of that thinking and pay attention to what YOU truly feel and have courage to stand by it!