Your DREAM Man DOESN'T Want A CAREER Woman!
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âiâm an artist, like I HAVE to sing and express myselfâ đ€ź
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Hahahaaa me me meeee
She needs to read these two words:
NOBODY CAAAARES.
Every young girl, especially black girl, thinks shes the next diva. And none of them are.
I'm sure her 'art" is just unbelievably amazing. Completely original, uncut genius.
She probably doesn't even sing. She's probably just embarrassed to admit that she does "Slam Poetry"
i'm no stranger to 60 hour work weeks, and i need my woman to be available at every chance i have to relax, if she is driven in her own career, its a dealbreaker
This deserves some Drizzle Drizzle. You need to hear men say it before you realize it is Entitlement.
Imagine if home invasion happens and your traditional man says I would go check but I have a headache
lol maybe leave a country that sucks ass?
đđđ ânot now, Iâm too tired.â
What is the difference between a pizza and an artist?
A pizza CAN feed a family of four.
How do you get an artist off your porch?
Pay them for the pizza.
Bro WTF happened to women. I grew up and majority of my friends had mothers that were SAHM. Their mothers picked them up from school, if they were sick was home with them or picked them up from school because they were sick. They cooked for them, when I would go over to their house to hang out or we played sports and went back to their house their moms would ask are you hungry and even if we were not they would still prepare something for us. 2 or 3 of them their moms worked part time but would still cook clean and take care of them. I was always jealous of them. SO MUCH! Not in a resentful way but more of in admiration.
"so if your man wanted to split the rent 50/50 would you be ok with that" proceeds to say a bunch of nothing all to confirm she wouldn't !! Gezz đ
Unless he earns the same as her, 50/50 ainât the answer, bro
sounds like she has one foot out the door as soon as the relationship begins
Like Kevin Samuels said multiple times; you women donât âdeserveâ a HVM you earn one,but like most them think they should be given something just for existing
all I hear from this women is "I want this! I want that. I want .... I want ... I want..."
True! Hearing I feel constantly also.
Exactly bro, that's all about women, I want I want I want I want
The more demanding they are, the less attractive they are.
You forgot "I feel like..." đ€Ł
Sounds a lot like blah, blah, blah.
Women don't know what they want until they want it
Yo, women don't know what they actually want even after they have had it.
Look at that pro soccer player - perfect life laid right at her feet... she still left him because, "it's too perfect." Ugh!
It seems like the only way to keep a woman is to keep her unsure of her future with you.
@@camronjosephcrooksthatâs the game of it. We know they are slaves to their emotions, and they know that as well. Thatâs where the man have to pour into himself. Mentally, physically and resourceful. That he is the man, it goes what does. Especially by keeping her on her toes⊠her emotions spiking up and down. Like itâs easy to have intimacy with her after scuffle, did activities or workout, or caught in rain but had to run to your car đđŸ
She's the "my money is my money, your money is our money" type. Women need to realize that only the mother and father should raise their children. The extended family is a LAST resort, nannies and maids, etc. are not an option. And if you want your career or choice to make money "in case you need to leave"? You're planning on leaving. That's literally the definition of planning
so that logic would preclude guys from getting a prenup sounds equally foolish.
â@eggos5074 no it wouldn't, a prenuptial is not a man planning on leaving . It's a man trying not to get destroyed by the courts and women
@@EjdbdbDhshxnfnfbro itâs the same thing⊠men do it bc theyâre scared to get fucked over women do it bc theyâre scared they wonât be able to leave both do it out of fear đ
Yeah could actually argue it's them planning for their partners not to leave them
20 year old women: you can have everything.
10 years later: why doesn't anyone want me?
I've met so many females...
That missed the train.
Now some of them are in silitude hell
40 years later: i want to get married
You forgot the part where she blames everyone else for being "insecure" because they don't want her.
If we have standards it means we're insecure, apparently. đ€·đ»ââïž
Then they dress in white on their wedding occasion ....why?
To match the fridge and stove.
"I feel, I feel, I feel, " while the actual men are telling her THIS IS WHAT MEN FIND ATTRACTIVE AND THIS THEY DONT and she keeps on with the "well, I feel thats wrong because I feel it is"
The more I listen to these type of women I realise they are of the world and limited to a materialistic and superficial existence
Well said
Who raises the children when the woman is focused on her career?
A career woman is a narcissist who puts her career over the happiness of her children
Yup. All about me, me, me etc.
will have affairs with men more powerful than her husband, deny him pssy at home and eventually initiate divorce and take half his stuff
"Who raises the children?"
Obviously, she would hire a nanny to watch the child, housekeepers to clean and maintain stability, Uber on standby. A career woman is ready to pay someone to do what she could be doing.
@@user-yg8jf1zk9e "A career woman is ready to pay someone to do what she could be doing."
Right, and those kids would see her as nothing more than a purse to buy them things.
Entitled, sniveling brats, ready to destroy people's lives later as adults.
None
I love how Red began her illogical rambling by saying that Chase canât make generalizations about women and in the same breath, goes on to say with certainty that most women were victims of domestic violence by their husbands. Sheâs incapable of producing a rational thought, let alone comprehend the difference between probability and possibility. The level of solipsism is off the charts.
If she reads your comment she will have to Google solipsism đ
Please stop using this rainbow term âpartnerâ it is husband or wife, period. Weâre not part of the rainbow mafia here
THANK YOU! Have had a WIFE for 36 YRS!
â@@t9190kpeven tho I'm racist af lol I'm glad yall have been married so long
Wears me tf out mate. That word is for the gays... not us. We didnt require a new word, Bf/Gf/Husband/Wife have been around for thousands of years.
Men give up on all kinds of dreams so they can sacrifice for their family...
It's a mother's love and father's sacrifice
Exactly.
If someone starts the conversation with i feel.....RUN!!!
Man said snap necks and cash checks
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The man modern woman want would never commit to them đ
What I understand from the first girl is that she wants a easy way out where she is the priority, not the kids or the relationship and her partner at last. When life gets hard she will leave you without hesitation, and that's fine everyone has the freedom to want/dream whatever they want, but how would she get the fabled "high value man" with that mindset?, specially being that transparent about it.
Your money is for us my money is for me!!! đđđđđ
News flash you donât choose the man he chooses you đ đ€ŠđŸââïž
5000 words of nothing.
that woman sat opposite brian is selfish wants everything both ways
I love staying home and taking care of my husband. We have a kid as well but i see my husband as also my responsibility since he takes finacial responsibility for me and gives me a stess free easy life i dont have to listen to a boss or shitty customers i get to be home with my son and take breaks whenever i want since im not on the clock.
Heâs so patient with her when sheâs totally not listening.
Give me what I want because I exist and deserve itâŠthatâs all I heard.
I can't wait for the 10 year reunion of some of these girls..
I, I, I, me, me, me...
Financially burdensome is what her concern is for having children. âMe, me, meâ
Good hell, this modern corporate queen is delusional.
So I'm gonna pay the bills , cook and clean ; I'm curious as to what she would deem "equal" in terms of what I the MAN will get in exchange.
Sloppy-top on demand , deleting her social medias and LISTENING to me when I make decisions sounds like what'd be "equal" in my example but id bet money the response would be synonymous with " no! Not fair! Her * existing near you * would be equal!" đđđđđđđđđ
I didnât realize a single income family was possible in this economy
@whatever I am a 40 year old who can disprove all of these little girlsâ âhopes and dreams.â I would be happy to come on.
Bottom line - you canât have everything.
2 adults talking to a bunch of children
I need a career woman because the cost of living is fucked up.
Im really curious about this "career artist" who claims to have an amazing career. I would love to know what she really does and what does she make?
He should have asked her, âAre you sure youâre gonna be still career driven at 30, 35?â They say that now in their early 20s.
indeed, I rarely see that women are REALLY driven after 30y. They rarely work 70hours a week. They always need vacations after 3 or 4 weeks because they exhausted!
I work because if i sat at home my mental health would suffer and so would those around me. I dont mind part time work so long as i can do some work. (Fast food, custodial work, factory work just something simple) its not about money!
Nothing wrong with wanting something to keep busy with
Exactly
I think chase is not seeing the whole picture here. Maybe he is still too young.
Men don't want to come home and vent. Women want to come home and vent.
Men want to come home and relax.
Chaseâs last statement. Total mic drop moment.đđŒđđŒđđŒ
Men care about a woman's career the same way a woman cares about a man's nerd collection
Life is so expensive, you need 2 incomes to pay the bills. Iâm all about staying home to raise the kids but that wasnât possible in my situation.
This is such nonsense, I'm not American but I raised my child on just under $23k per annum for nearly 10 years a single mum, though we couldn't go on fancy holidays etc they were put through dance school on that for 5 years of their life, and weekend outings.
I see a lot of cats in the future.
It sounds like she wants to be Jada Pinket Smith. In that case I wish her an identical life path đđ
"I want to leave a relationship if it's not good." - And there's a big red flag.
The correct statement is "I want to be able to repair a relationship if it isn't good."
If you think relationships are transactional, then none of them will be good for you.
"I've met many high value men bla bla bla"
*Is still single.*
She's trying her hardest not to sound like she's putting all of the pressure on her man.
Grid1Motorsports sure pays a lot of money to hear himself speak
Okay, software girl just put them all to shame!
Software girl is an overpaid diversity hire, she's a pos like the rest
Relationship is not give and take. Its actually comprosing with each other. These women are delusional
I love that Brian was getting mad that the chats kept interrupting the conversation and I have been saying it for weeks now change the way donations happen so they don't just derail the conversation or say something that adds nothing to the conversation.
Grid1 is a lonely loser with too much money
These women want over committed roommates
I think rich women should marry people that are very handy and not worry about how much money they make. They make enough money to cover everything.
There's nothing wrong with a woman who wants employment.
Well, cats aren't free.
@@atomicwedgie8176 đđ
Young men out there, never let a pretty face fool you, go after the woman who wants you
In the best marriages, there is no "his" and "hers"; there is only "ours."
It isn't "his" career; it's "our" career.
High-quality & driven men want high-quality & driven women but *they want that high drive to be toward the relationship.* It isn't about the drive, it's about the direction.
What planet do some of this panel live on
I don't want to be a stay at home mum and yes I deserve a high value man. Oh boy đ€Šââïž
ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME
Some men want their wife to be a sahm but donât even realize the amount of horror they go through. I have a toddler right now and Iâm a sahm. Itâs absolutely a nightmare. Iâm in and out of sanity all day long. If i wake up in the psych ward again im just gonna stay there.
What you deem "value" might not be valuable to me, so how can there ever be equality in value?
I feel. I feel. I feel .. everything is about how they feel⊠1000 men can tell them what they really want and they will still argue with all 1000 of them that she knows what they want because she feels a certain wayâŠ.
She will it answer the question straight up
It's how i feel, she wants everything to be like a dream world. Good Luck!
They say I feel a lot. Feelings aren't facts
If youâre not going to be the woman in the relationship, what role do you want to play? Youâre not going to support me. Iâm going to have to work either way. If youâre working just so youâll have the money to leave me, just go now.
How do you fit that many Iâs into a conversation at all much yet one about the family you want . Just pure narcissistic delusion
Me, me, me, I, I, I....
Self-serving always.
So much I when asked about what kind of man she wants to have kids with . Every other word was I, itâs all about her lol
Perpetual teenagers!đ€Š ,"I will be the exception not the rule!!"đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€źđ€Šđ€Łđ€Ł
When a woman says 'we' and 'us', she literally only means 'me'.
Iâm going to record myself saying things like âIâm going to work hard so I can make a lot of money soâŠâŠI can leave my wife and family when I feel boredâ
Letâs see how people react to an evil statement like that coming from a man compared to a woman. No one flinched when she said that.
Yeah⊠nothing as feminine as a young mother dumping her child to be taken care by someone else so she can do whatever. So feminine! (Sarcasm)
So basically you guys want a maid or a women who is easy to control.
Stick to what you know... a herd of cats.
Wow. Every guest you have ever had are super succesful
The narcissism of men is astounding.
And a high value man is not a career driven man. Not a rich man. But a kind man who loves his children and wife, who is loyal and respectful. And who is not a narcissist like these men in these podcasts.
Chase is savage! - đ
Funny that these women have more masculine ambition than most men.
The fundamental distinction lies in the differing motivations behind men's and women's respective professional pursuits. Men tend to prioritize their careers as a means to provide for their families, while women often view their careers as a means of personal fulfillment. Consequently, when faced with financial responsibilities, most women are unwilling to assume the financial burden of supporting a man, which can potentially undermine their respect for him as a man.
Redhead is completely missing the point. If we're both career-driven, focusing on building our financial futures, we're both in fairly equal amounts of stress. EXCEPT, the work a high-value man will do is going to stress him out differently than a career woman's stress.
If a man works for 12, 14, or 16 hours, and deals with physical and mental stress, exhaustion, injuries, etc, this man does NOT want to come home and deal with your anger, emotions, deflection, guilt trips, gaslighting, etc. A man wants to know that his home is his place of peace and the woman residing there provides that for him so he can go out and be a good, hardworking man day-after-day.
Having children is not a womans perpose
Playing PowerBall is not a financial plan... these women approach everything like they are expected to win the lottery of life. Lmao
Her: How was work today
Me: shit sucked I hate that place
Her: quit that shit
I swear relationships are just hard to much thought going into it. it's like you got a checklist
"Im looking for a vibe." These delusional women lol. I've been married for 14 years and id be terrified to be in todays dating pool. Out of this world.
These women are not connected to reality.
Bingo!
Stay at home mums have no fun
Society doesnât work like that and never will
You go gurl but youâll never get a traditional man
I want my side chick to have a job and pay for themselves. That way they don't expect commitment. I want my main girl to be available for me all the time.
Feelings and women...
...where logic, reason, and rationale goes to die.
Men, if the girl youâre talking to believes her purpose in life is to do everything her fleeting feelings tell her to do, move on. Someone whoâs only interested in fulfilling their temporary desires wonât think twice before leaving or screwing over their partner and children. Make sure the women who choose to marry wants to take care of you and your children and if it comes down to choosing her job/âhappinessâ or you and your kids that she will always choose you and your kids. Because someone with all their screws on right wonât be happy to sacrifice their marriage or relationship with their kids.
Addition: Red is right that either side does not speak for all women or men, BUT if you are looking for high value man, that is not general. That is very SMALL SMALL group of people. Like other discussion, women are chasing the same group of men. The "high value" man (especially income) is not that large of a pool. Since Chase and Brian are in that bracket, they are speaking from their experience and group. Plus, look at the high power/value men (CEO, CFO, artist etc) There are smaller pecentage that they have high power women with them. A lot usually have "trophy wives" type in the background, but I think it is rare to have a couple who are high powered CEO type and stay together (it is NOT impossible, but that is what Brian and Chase is trying to say. By wanting ONLY that, you are limiting yourself and put yourself in competition with other women who can give what they want.)
Whatever Podcast WW1 troops have come a long way
As a female growing up I was always asked what I wanted to be when I grew up.. I always wanted to be a wife and mother. But was told I was brain washed/stupid for wanting that. (I also wanted my own Bakery.. but if I had to choose I would go for family and home life) Feminists would tell me that. The pressure to have a career and be a "Boss Lady" (Which BTW women have always been Boss ladies.. just different areas) and wanting anything but a career was made fun of and looked down on. A line I LOVE from My Big Fat Greek Wedding.. " he man is the head, but the woman is the neck. And she can turn the head any way she wants." Lets remember that before we look down on how things were for women back in the day. (YES voting is good for us, being able to work is good also. But Both paths are valid. Traditional and Career)
These women learn nothing from these conversations.. they argue every point