Is your man making you ugly? Boyfriend air & “relationship face”
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- Is your man making you ugly? Boyfriend air & “relationship face”
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I've noticed that women who let themselves go and started breaking in the face and body are the women in a bad relationship or marriage. I have some women in my family in abusive relationships or marriages look older than their real ages. The women in great marriages or relationships look even more beautiful. Their faces are extremely glowing on the real.🙂
Facts! 💯💯💯
Toxic men be sucking the life outta you. Its better to just be single and always remain the main character in your story if you decide to date or marry
YES
My man is not toxic but my glowup left 🥹😥
@@anavictoria7688 you can get back there you got this girlie
When you hate men so much you constantly make videos about relationships yet you aren’t even in one 😂
Stay single ladies we don’t want your bitter hateful energy
“Remain the main character” omg y’all are like children, the ego on you is embarrassing
💯 real talk girl 😅❤️
Is it that the women let themselves go since they have a man? I actually believe if a man is loving a woman right she will become more beautiful.
It definitely plays a role. We get very comfortable in relationships and start to let ourselves go. But for men, we tend to encourage them to groom themselves a little more and prioritize their health so they thrive in relationships. All the attention we give them can sometimes take away from the attention we need to give ourselves. Balance is key.
Yeees women glow differently when they’re adored
@@saltandpepperandmint reminds me of that line in that NSYNC song "Does he ease your mind? Or does he break your stride? Did you know that love could be a shield?"
And like so many of us (or maybe I should just speak for myself lol) don't have any idea or experience with love not actually sucking us dry
Yes, I can tell that many women think "whew, I finally got a man, I can just let myself go, make no effort in my appearance or health". This is the dumbest thing you could do because those same men will leave or cheat on you or teat you badly once they no longer find you attractive, and go looking for a single woman still taking care of herself. That's the irony!!
@@BlaecOleander I know there are so many cases like that. I have bad experience with female friendships like I don’t believe in friendship among women anymore because it is so rare
It's called energy vampirism.
This !!
I truly believe in this!
I had an ex when I was young... I felt and looked dead after spending a day with him and he wasn't abusive or anything like that.
I also knew an elderly lady that would have the same effect after having her over for dinner - everyone would end up with a migrane.
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I agree 😂
Bingo! Someone that gets it. There is a reason why men are the one's typically depicted as vampires
Literally it’s means that your body is rejecting the person you are in a relationship with . You shouldn’t be glowing down as a result of being with someone you should be upgrading and some of you are not ready for that conversation 😒
Wow, you know, I never considered that but I believe it! Jobs, home environments and living spaces can be hard on the body and immune system. Not just the physical location, but, and sometimes even moreso, the people in those environments. Great point!
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Yes it's this
mhmm. codependency can be deceptive when your body is telling you to get tf outtt
It’s trueeee ! I got into a committed relationship & all of a sudden I have acne at 31 and weird breakouts.., my glow has left 🥺
Oh no 😢 you definitely can reverse that 😭
I am babes ! I’m currently pulling back and laying strict boundaries, thank you for such informative wise content been watching you forever 💐💕
@@alonyamonigan3171yes 🙌🏽🙌🏽 cheers to getting your glow back 🥂🥂 and thank you for watching ❤❤
This was me married and post-divorce. I’m looking back at pics taken pre-marriage and children and it’s like I’m not the same person..weight gain, acne, etc. 😔
He may have given you parasites 🪱!!! Look into it. 🤔 You’ll be shocked 🤯
It’s the small jabs, the back handed compliments, the bad treatment, the treating everyone else better than how he treats you in private and the added stress of course.
I can relate entirely are you still with him?
Maybe you should pick your partner better
Man this is spot on!! Unfortunately 😫
Very true that affects your spirit even if you aren’t around too
Sounds like a relationship with a Narcissist
I’ve always been high maintenance and into fashion since I was a little girl no relationship will ever change that. If I’m looking meh and dusty it’s a sign that I’m not doing ok and need to run
Same! Only my mom and my sister know the signs
Girl me too
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EXACTLY
My friend started wearing pretty dresses on random occasions when she got into her current relationship. That’s low-key the only reason I knew this one was different and it’s so cute to see her tapping into her femininity after being a jean girl for so long.
This! I've seen women, myself included glow more than they do at their baseline when loved properly and by the right man. The wrong man really is *poison* for us
Cant relate im the opposite. GUys are always telling me dont wewr lipstick, make up, or dress sexier for them and i hate it. I dress nice already.
@@BlaecOleanderyess I can relate . When you are loved properly & there’s no toxicity sometimes you look better in love
Makes us ugly low self esteem this true I’m single healthy and fine and std free!!
Right! STD free lol a healthy monogamous relationship though will boost your self esteem and keep you cleared of STDs.
We’re not meant to be alone
@@saltandpepperandmintunless you are a man. If you are a woman, there's no such thing. Even God can't back your statement. Sometimes you're forcing things sis... that's what He'll say.
@@saltandpepperandmint people can be single if they want to stop pushing your views on people and worry about your self.
@@SR77736I think they mean in a general sense, how humans crave connection and interaction. But if they’re just talking about romantic relationships, then yeah of course it’s okay to alone, people need to learn that. Alone doesn’t mean lonely.
I got prettier after getting in a relationship. I feel like if you love your boyfriend and investing in good looks pays off by his reaction to it, you will keep trying. But if he goes like 'who you dressing up for?' or 'we are just going out, you don't have to look like a model' and shit like that make you lose interest in trying.
Keep self care a priority! I’m a mother & still workout, do my self care & rest. Keep it a priority in the relationship.
I’ve definitely had that “relationship face” after a toxic relationship, and when I got out of it I was looking at myself sideways in the camera 😂
Now I’m back 💅🏿🌸✨
you're gorgeous!
it's a net zero situation. men have more to gain in relationships. the happiest demographic is single women without a partner and children 🤷🏽♀️
Stop to spread this, marriages are not made to up lift only men, it's to make women better too. But we are living in such obscure age that evil men are using internet to teach young ones to mistreat women and see they as object. If marriage was only good for one gender God would never made up it.
How? Find a healthy patner that pours into you the way you pour into her.
@@followGreatnessf00l 😅 If it was that easy everybody would be in happy healthy relationships duh
Lol fake news
@@followGreatnessNo?
They also mess up your ph balance
Use condoms and have a conversation with him about how women bodies are more fragile and ginechologists are expensive. Never let a man pass the limits during sex, some women are so pushover that they let men go "from ass to vagina", this can cause serious contaminations and even infertility.
Use condoms, have a conversation with him about how women's body work and that go to gynecologists are expensive.
Yeah, not worth it
It's this. The hormones
Hmm yeah he needs to take a shower cuz ew
The issue is being in a relationship with an insecure controlling, abusive man. Toxic relationships of any kind have a devastating affect on your self esteem and self worth, which affects your outer appearance, such as skin, hair health and weight.
very accurate, but the good news = you can ALWAYS bounce back , even when you don't think its possible. even if it's been years. trust
Dated a man for almost 5 years. We had fights almost everyday. I just couldn’t do it anymore. One day, I was looking at my before him pictures and compared them to my recent ones… I looked like 10 years had passed and I had given birth to 5 kids…I was so miserable in the relationship.
same........ I gained 30 lbs, was stressing so I cut off all my hair, started breaking out on my face, having boils on me, stopped showering and keeping up my appearance during the relationship, and afterwards when I found out I was pregnant and it came out that he was on the DL and abused HEAVY drugs. I love my son, but I'm afraid that I'm resenting my son because of his deadbeat daddy. I don't know how to shake this feeling, I pray about it, but it seems to get worse everyday. I'm miserable and nobody cares, not my family, friends, NOBODY. 😢
@@user-wz3zg6vy3c I do care. How can I help you?
I care. We care that's why we are all here on this channel. There's a army that cares. But are you willing to make the change for you? And only you! Your son is a blessing 🙏🏼. You are a blessing.🙏🏼
Girl 5 years in a relationship 😮
@@biancasoares66747 yup! 5 painful years.
I swear it is so TRUE. In my job I met a woman. She was 24 ans I am 28. Every body said they thought she was 30 … (and me 22)… she showed me her wedding photos… I was so SHOKED of the before AND it was only 1 year she was married (only 1 so think the future years coming). I was so sad when I saw this before and real Life after … she was so beautiful. Don’t get me wrong she still is but she just glow down (weight gain, puffy face, acne hajr thinning…) May God save women
I would advice her to go on gd strikes!!! He needs to help out too. Imagine if kids come into play what will happen to her then?! Can't pour from an empty cup 😞
I got into a relationship consciously after waiting for some two years after my last bf left me heartbroken for another woman. In that time I worked on myself, my looks, my business ,my work and didn't talk to no man in any way shape or form not even a chat. Two years later when I finally thought I m ready to maybe start dating, I came across this wonderful gorgeous man who was my wish fulfillment. I was so happy because we organically got to know each other slowly. But two months into getting to know each other, I did the stupid mistake of sleeping with him. Which I still regret I should have waited long enough before he earned that physical validation. He changed 360 degree after that. All the heartbreak I came out of, he put me back right there. He wanted to know evey detail of my past life with my ex- by every I mean every single detail. Where we went, what songs we listened to, what movies we watched together, when and where we had sex and how many times we had sex and in what positions we had sex. He weighed our relationship entirely on the amount of sex we got to have . Funny thing is I and my ex never were much physically together it was a long distance relationship and sex was very little in it and I'm really not that into physical intimacy as long as my emotional needs are met. My current man traumatised me to a level that I aged within 5 months of our relationship. I got my first wrinkle line on my forehead. I walked on eggshells. I did everything in my power to keep the relationship going. Because I really thought I was giving my last shot at a relationship and a chance of happily ever after. He broke me. He completely broke me. And finally when I decided I have had enough, I went silent. We are also long distant. He never visited me quoting work issues while I took leave from my work every month or so to go meet him and be with him and do everything a dutiful wife would do. But of course I was never his wife. He made new associations there with different females all bureaucractic officers like him. And they hang out, party almost every day there in my absence. As well as a few times during my absence. It's been two months I have stayed silence since. I blocked him everywhere. And it's been a tough two months tryin to heal. I loved my ex bf before him but he left me for another woman he met at work and I had to deal with it for two years before I pursued another relationship. For what's it's worth, my now latest man completely broke me traumatising me forever. I know I will never be in a relationship again. Nor be with any man. Thanks to him, I have become even more hyper independent and now finally I have begun to start taking care of my health and looks. Some of us aren't meant meant for this generation. I'm extremely loyal and committed and honest and I never got that same level of loyalty and trust back in any of my relationship. So rest in peace to that one. I have accepted the fact that there is no one for me in this generation.
Toxic is toxic so when toxicity leaves your life you will glow up, there's nothing revenge about it. I literally had more energy the day after I broke up with my ex. It's not about letting yourself go (that's patriarchy vocabulary). Instead if you choose a provider man who makes your life easier instead of harder you glow. Unless you've been in toxic situations it's hard to understand. For this reason at 52 years old I am not looking for a relationship. My health and piece of mind is more important
This!! Only people who have been in toxic relationships or personally know people who have been in toxic relationships will understand how draining those dynamics are and can easily see why people glow up once they get out of those relationships.
I think for me I feel like I lost my beauty from my dad passing away in 2021 and then having to teach my mom how to be independent the next three years after. Life circumstances can make you change too. I struggled with depression and stopped caring for myself around that time. Then going back to caring was difficult.
Find yourself. You got this! Sorry for your loss and your new responsibility. You deserve the world. Take care of yourself.
This is so true. I went through the same thing. Now I have good days and bad days. But we all do. Be patient with yourself. 💜
I feel this. I lost my mom in 2019 and my dad in 2021. I had a phase of deep depression. It really took me pulling myself out of it to get better.
Definitely. I believe relationships can take a toll on your looks. Verbal abuse, cheating, gaslighting, arguing, incompatibility, accepting anyone just because yes takes a toll on your looks.
If you are happy you will have a certain glow in my opinion just don’t get too comfortable.
Always look marketable because you will resent your man if you have a glow down and that’s when you start looking back and say to him look! I gave you all my youth! That youth wasn’t just youth it was your beauty so never let a man take that away from you. Your beauty as a woman is your value.
Wow so narcissist. Its called aging. You're blaming the sun for getting wrinkles now? The stupidity... My goodness...
Women are worth so much more than just their beauty..
Yeah not in this age u get treated how u look and how much money u have it’s a proven facts documentary shows u get pushed away by looking bad while the pretty one gets valued in this day it’s the truth insta showed it to men and when they see natural beauty u get treated good I’m going through the money thing they treat u like what in ur pocket o get dragged by workers about my pockets beauty is the power I lived long enough to see both sides being laughed at and looked down on by gaining weight to going back to me and getting treatment doors open a u have a beautiful day while the none good looking one get ignored it’s the truth value is money and value is beauty because I lived like no I’ll pick the broke guy I see his worth I’m humble I picked the poor girls they got jealous and try to hurt me I was humble to accept people but instead they all bashed me I didn’t want to be the kind of person that judged but they all did it to me from experience it was true all along your worth is how people treat u I been through it being humble to people ruined years of my life sharing to make then included while they dragged my name so now they were right judge them all it’s about money and looks no one is humble about that no more u get tossed I’m jumping in that wagon I do t want to be tossed no more let them be insecure don’t be scared to wear that cute dress or red lips
Sure a man could make you feel beautiful, but if you are doing something for yourself then nothing should change. Not the way you act dress or even look.
Yeah but that isn't always sustainable at times bc we are fallible humans who's motivations can change without us even realizing
@@catcat9582 You’re absolutely correct!! I never viewed things from that perspective.
The title of this alone made me laugh because I have always noticed that often times women I see out and about pushing a stroller with a husband next to her look depressed, gaunt and dull in the face, hair a Ness, no makeup or skincare, and wearing clothes that I wouldn't even wear at home. It's perplexing because I see it so often. Sometimes these women stare at me almost envuously because I always look my best when I leave my house even if I'm just jigging or cycling, taking a walk. It doesn't take much effort if self care is a part if your life but also don't tolerate toxic bullsh*t. Psychosomatics are real. Whatever is affecting g you mentally will show up in your body, either externally or internally.
Also, I have always found it ridiculous that women think that once they have a man, that they can just let themselves go, including getting fat. Only for the guy to start looking g elsewhere because he no longer finds her attractive.. Because she's let herself go, for Him!! Just dumb. Take care of yourself for yourself!
Im not sure how many people can relate to this, but personally speaking I believe I look better in a (healthy) relationship. When I’m single, I tend to have my guard up, I wear more relaxed clothing, I don’t want men to really look at me. But when I’m a relationship, I dress up, I’m more conscious on how I look, I wear prettier clothing. And it’s not necessarily because I only want to look good for my partner. But because I feel SAFE enough to be very feminine around them. But then again I have personal experiences that led me to dressing up masculine when I feel like I have to protect myself and my guard it very much up.
To be clear, I take care of my self (skincare, hair care, getting enough rest, etc) regardless of being in a relationship or not. But my aura changes and how I want to be perceived changes when depending how safe and secure I feel because the world is a dangerous place for us women
When I’m genuinely happy and feeling properly loved in a relationship, I glow so much. I’ve seen it in other women too.
Your body will warn you. If you’re having break outs, aches, pains then you probably need to exit stage left
I told my husband when he thought someone else's wife looked "surprisingly beautiful for her age" that it was no coincidence that her husband looked and acted amazing and deserved all the credit for his wife's beauty. And that he is a "surprisingly hot husband for his age".
That got my husband to think and act differently thereafter.
Not complaining;)
I gained HELLA stress weight, and I was in my ugly phase by not caring about my diet and what I was eating at the time. I was in a toxic relationship with family members and these so-called "relationships" with other men on the DL. Now, in the present time, at age 40, I'm happy single! I lost weight, I'm more on top of my skincare and body care routines/rituals.The men that I got involved with treated me like shit and I didn't deserve that nor asked for it in any way, shape, or form!
I had a glow down after getting with him. Bad skin, hyper pigmentation, less symmetrical face shape. Gave birth to our baby and had a glow up. The more common sense that started to come back into my system I just got better and better looking. Until I finally left and my whole face and body changed. But for the better. I think my baby helped bring fresh energy back to me and the breakup helped me to regain my beauty
same.
I was JUST looking through my IG after a breakup, and my skin was wrinkled and dehydrated and i was bloated and heavier when I was with my ex. Three months later, I dont crave sugar, and Im glowing💕👑
I agree with you, the boyfriend air affects you negatively if you start to prioritize the relationship over yourself. When you become obsessed with having a relationship period and burden your own heart by not standing up for yourself, taking care of yourself mentally and emotionally and physically, that’s when you become “ugly.” You literally have to stop caring 😂 that’s the key. and walk away when necessary
THE ECHO EFFECT IS SENDING ME ESPECIALLY ON THE DISNEY PRINCESS GIRL 😂😂😂😂😂
Also long phone calls into the night will throw tor sleep schedule off. Mfffph
men do that crap on purpose to drain the life out of you....Had a guy like this who always wanted to stay on the phone.
My God yes. I just broke it off with someone who wanted to stay up until 3 or 4 am telling me everything that was wrong with me and everything I needed to do better, OR alternatively he couldn't let the night end ever and wanted to be up having fun at all hours. Absolutely exhausting energy vampire.
Stress, idolatry, insecurity and chasing after people will age you and make you loose your purpose in life ❤
Slowly climbing out of the deep end. In the process of making the hardest comeback every. Amen
Verrrry interesting. I was married to the wrong person and I literally started to refer to him as a leech because I was letting him drain me physically emotionally and financially. The marriage was a come up for him and a severe downgrade for me. I got all my life and power back once I divorced him and learned to focus on myself and what I want versus making someone else happy all the time and putting myself on the back burner. Women who do this just don't have the love for themselves that they should have.
Why financial
I don't have a boyfriend air...i always look good and fashionable with or without my boyfriend and it shocks him, that i can actually look put together on my own
You are gorgeous 😍 💖!!!
Because you actually have self love 👏🏻
@@Alexander-xk2nb yea..I do
The echo is SENDINGGGGG MEEEE 😂 i needed this. My divorce is finalized tomorrow and i couldnt be happier.
Congrats ❤
@@priskruger314 Thank you ❤️ 🤗
You are who your surround yourself with. This doesn't just go with relationships, but also friendships.
Toxic people = toxic habits
Healthy people= healthy habits
The right partner would keep you in check, be healthy for you & your wellbeing !
No partner should change you to the point where you question yourself... not healthy at all. Shouldn't lose sleep for them, shouldn't be giving you headaches. You shouldn't be losing your value for anyone- you're supposed to keep growing together!
my friend, who is a girl, dated another woman and turned all the way ugly. it was sooo sad :((((
Some women hurt women just like men and gaslight them in the same manner or even more than men. Lesbo rshps are very dysfunctional.
Women can be dusties, too 🤷♀️
Hm. Had a classmate who started school then her gf would have mental breakdown be admitted and she would quit. She had 2 kids as well. Woman put your kids and yourself first. Her p ain't that big of a deal. Let it go. But ofc nobody could tell her this. We just watch her go through the motions.
This is what happens when you date a toxic man. Make sure you always look your best FOR YOURSELF, this way no one can take it away from you.
Girl, I’m just leaving a relationship and I feel so free now! constant stress, he drained my brain…..
I’ve been sexier since I left my ex
Its bc they shame you when you try to take the time to do your makeup and hair. Wake you up at night and force you to take on a ton of extra household labor
It happens to my best friend every time she let that tick back into her life, she's absolutely gorgeous when he isn't around.
So true, truth. My daughter married recently and had a child, I warned her about all of this. And will keep warning.
I think as well this can happen in a work environment when it come to envious people when they come across a good looking coworker it almost like they put on their ugly negative energy onto the other individual I can be wrong but it’s an observation
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Nope !! I tend to only date Pretty Boys or ugly old men. Therefore I’m encouraged to ALWAYS look
FLY 💃🏽💅🏽 Because with pretty boys it’s a competition and old men it’s about the “Chase” I love attracting other men while I’m in a relationship. Keeps the guy on his toes knowing he’s replaceable 😂😂
Ok sis 👀 lol I’m not mad at the game
Smart asf! 😁
@@grazielaalmeida8438 Can't it be both? 🤭😈
Ew
You sound toxic though girly
Seriously, I got a glow down not long after entering my long term relationship while my partner just gets more and more radiant! He's always been handsome, but my styling tips do help him too 😂
Comments have trickled down to me, recently actually, from women who, not to beat about the bush, believe I'm essentially not on my bfs level. But they don't know how I looked when he and I met, the health conditions I have and, YES, the toll birth control took on me. Also, I don't have anything to prove! I know my bf gets alot of female attention, but he knows (and i know 😏) what he's got right here. I truly wish EVERY woman the type of blissful partnership in which they feel comfortable and not insecure if and when their body's fluctuate. And i wish other women wouldn't get kicks out of trying to make women in partnerships feel insecure, because I've seen them try so hard and it says so much about their own hearts.
I read somewhere that married women have a tendency to live shorter lives due to the stress of taking care of their husbands and this is compared to the life span of single women who tend to live longer. Married men on the other hand tend to live longer due to the support of their wives where as single men have shorter life spans.
This is true. I just never put it together. Whenever I would go to stay with guys, I’d drink more and I wouldn’t have any of my own hygiene products. My skin wouldn’t even be the same. I didn’t feel upbeat or free.
My ex bf literally told me “I will not let you sleep tonight (we lived together) he wanted to continue arguing with me all night, so I picked up the phone and called the police and put in on speaker, his face turned white and said ok ok I’ll leave you alone.
It’s not men all together it’s toxic men. I’m pregnant and even my son is helping my figure become more curvy it’s like he’s sucking the nutrients from my extra fat lol all jokes aside though you just can’t let yourself go no matter what. Self care does help you feel your best and if a man says “he like natural” that doesn’t mean you can’t give yourself space , spa days and go to the gym. It’s also about inner peace and health too. If he’s not giving you that feeling then it’s a sign you deserve better. I’m very grateful I have the man in my life that I have and I wish every woman the same - especially my fellow sweethearts who are “good women”. Men used to avoid me like the plague because I was overweight but my husband helped me lose weight and glow up and now they’re trying to take his place. I don’t give in to mainstream dating/relationship advice either , I do what’s right from my heart if that can help any of you ladies out ❣️ follow your heart and you won’t be disappointed no matter if it’s a man or what you want to do in life for yourself!
My ex bestie was a baddie before she got married. I’m talking body con to baggy real quick. But he was controlling what she wore. She still had baddie running through her veins.
Just got out of a relationship that last 1.5 yrs. I aged dramatically and gained 20lbs
I gained weight in my relationships. We ate and drank together a lot! I know I have to check my diet next time.
I've totally gone through this before (toxic relationship). But man, the glow up sure was worth it!💅
I have a good man but I’ve still let myself go, lol. It’s all my fault 😩
I got so emotional about this. I am on good terms with my ex, but he would get so mad about me wanting to dye my hair, wearing make up, etc. He thought it was a waste of time and not even cute and I shouldn't try to change myself ,etc, etc. But I should do whatever the fuck makes me feel good NOT what makes him feel good, it's MY body... He would actually get mad... I felt so frumpy..
No its when you sleep in the bed with them... They take energy from you.. thats why in the 50's they didnt sleep in the bed with each other
This is very true.
This is hilarious
So true! Your mindset in the relationship will literally make or break you! Speaking from experience!
I’m starting to think every non narcissist is attacked relentlessly by narcissists. Surrounded. All family, friends, gf/bf, they keep us separated and feed on our light.
Yup I forgot how to take care of myself.
Especially being a busy mom But… I’m snapping out of it.
That’s why I’m keeping my black wife effect protected until the right man deserves my magic. ❤😂❤
AMEN!!!! Ladies, listen to Karine and SAVE YOUR QUALITY OF LIFE!!!
And yes everyone around me in a relationship is looking not ok 😩
I think it depends on the man you’re with. But it has happened . The current relationship im in, I’ve been evolving into my best self.
With the wrong man (or woman) stressing you out yes you can let yourself go. In the other hand if they’re truly good to you I’ve heard it up levels you though, I’ve met women in good relationships (rarely, but it happens) who do look so pampered and adored so if your person makes you uglier maybe it’s a sign they’re bad for you you know? Even with the wrong woman friendships I’ve had I wouldn’t get uglier but I would get headaches and emotionally empty and sad
This is so true my first relationship had me down bad ! Now I come first.
I just lost all my hard work from my fitness journey and gained weight 😭 everything else on me was fine but i was mad for the longest and have been trying to get that time back for myself ever since i realized it. I love my boyfriend but i was h o t and now im just so bleH i HATE IT!
This such good sensible advice! I hate how people put their half baked thoughts all over Tik Tok and social medial and preach it like they’ve discovered something other than their allergy to accountability and self awareness, self respect and the list goes on. Ladies, let’s start taking proper care of ourselves fr and stop blaming men for every little inconvenience we go through
Gorgeous hair🎉❤❤woah that red suits you
Yeah so true. Especially the toxic stress bringing the body down. Seems a woman doesn’t give a hoot as much about her appearance as when she is single
A man loving you well will make you prettier. A man who is poor at being a boyfriend/husband will take the life out of you. Be with someone who actively loves, adores, and values you.
I definitely felt my fall off after having each child and took a while to get back on my routines. Losing the baby weight and whatever extra you gained also helps you get back to feeling normal.
Was dating my ex hairloss, alopecia, acne and what not
🆗, *_THIS_** is the vid that needs to be widespread/"viral".*
Yesss, so on point! Unforyunately society still has this tendency of believing that it’s up to the woman ALONE to ‘keep’ the relationship/marriage and if it seems to be a happy relationship/marriage, everyone will congratulate the woman but if it’s a bad relationship/marriage, eveeybody will blame the woman. And it’s the same with housekeepimg. If you have guests entering your home and everything is clean and put together and nicely decorated and the home atmosphere is warm and welcoming, again, everyone will say ‘the lady of the house is doing a great job’. But if the house is a mess etc, eveeyone will say ‘oh, his wife/girlfriend does a terrible job at running this house’🙃 And it’s the same with the way SHE, as a woman, looks. If she looks great, yeah, she’s keeping herself in good shape etc. If she looks bad, again: ‘she’s so unconsiderate, she dosen’t do a little effort in lookjng decent’ etc. It’s almost like the woman is ALONE in that marriage/relationship, like she married the air or a spirit since the man seems to be non-existent in this equation for a lot of people😅
Men don't get blamed for anything, they rarely get called out for any bad behaviour because society pushes women to forgive everything and parents treat sons with less criticism and pressure to be perfect. So they then benefit from that in a relationship too.
That’s because they be demons 😂😂 very few men maybe 2, I kept my beauty. The rest I was overweight and skin bad 😂😂 everytime
The best thumbnali ever !
This was very good 😌
Thumbnail is 🔥🔥🔥😂❤
Definitely experienced this, I'm back to who I was prior to relationships/marrying ‼️
Wow ❤ it was something on my mind and you made a video on it! 🙌🏼✨🙏🏼
Such an important video. Being head over heels over a man (chasing) will suck the beautiful life out of you and invariably leads to nowhere, except a hellish environment. Get out while you can and preserve your beauty. They need to be chasing you. It's the best way to keep a peaceful life.
Karine’s take is spot on. How you look has a lot more to do with how you feel about yourself than anything else. You deserve to feel good when you walk out the door whether there’s a man in your life or not.
Cortisol
Elaborate?
@@tiffanyapril5458 stress hormone. There's plenty of possible health effects of it, including weight gain. And you're more likely to get them the longer you're being stressed.
@@tiffanyapril5458it's the "stress" hormone. When cortisol levels have been elevated over a period of time it has bad health impacts: weight gain (particularly around the belly), hair thinning, skin changes, fatigue, muscle weakness, puffy face, and can cause brain fog and decreased sex drive.
Your femininity and sultriness exudes through this video! 😮💨
I always took pride in my appearance but the toxic relationship will have you stressed and not happy and how you feel on the inside shows outward. facts
😮😮😮 OMG! THIS IS TRUE! Ladies please keep yourself looking good for YOU NO MATTER WHAT! I'm going to do the same😮 this is mind-blowing 🤯
When I got out of a relationship with my child’s father I was whooped …my glow up started some time after I left him…. Now I’m courting with someone new and I just make it my business to continue to look good always. I don’t care if he thinks I’m doing too much to keep myself up cause now I have him. I’m going to continue to make myself better or maintain myself.
Depends on the man
I had no idea you had another channel! So glad I came across it. Subscribed 🥰💖
This is when you get yourself with the wrong men ,you’re so drawn to them that you forget to take care of yourself, because this isn’t about you anymore but about someone else that is killing your energy, and it will get worst if you’ll have kids with that person, find someone when you’ll care about them but also care about YOU.
Omg 😳😳😳
I need to hear some science on this. I swear i feel ugly around my man😂😂.
I needed this...!
So CZcams! recommended this Video to me. And I’m like wow, OK. After watching and reading the comment section, I finally realized I’m not alone on this one. Thank You! 😂🙏🏻
I swear this is true... I broke up 5 months ago and started to get prettier again...
I've only gained weight being in a relationship because my husband and I were eating out so often but we've been eating better and exercising.