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    Story: I 37M told my wife 36F that our roles are far from equal in our relationship and that I'm not missing seeing my brother so she can go on a 2-week vacation with her friends. How do I get through to her? Been together for 17 years.
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Komentáře • 58

  • @boarder721
    @boarder721 Před 14 dny +32

    It’s very telling how the dogs don’t like her.

  • @kathychurray3694
    @kathychurray3694 Před 15 dny +66

    She is cheating on him. The phone calls and trips are a sign. He needs to go get a DNA test. I also think that she drugged him the night before he was due to go see his brother. I would also put the money in a different account without her name. He needs to check her phone and computer and have her watch. Put cameras around the house. Also needs to get a STD test and see a lawyer.

    • @ULTIMATZEKROM
      @ULTIMATZEKROM Před 14 dny +6

      It's even sadder when you realized he got a vasectomy. If those kids aren't his, he likely won't have any.

    • @nathengriffiths-holland7038
      @nathengriffiths-holland7038 Před 14 dny

      ⁠@@ULTIMATZEKROMit’s not impossible to have kids after a vasectomy however it’s unlikely and she’s definitely cheating

    • @daniellemitchell3118
      @daniellemitchell3118 Před 14 dny

      I thought the same thing, that she drugged him. Especially once he said he was 6'4. She had to put a lot in his drink to knock him out that long.

    • @potatoes8414
      @potatoes8414 Před 13 dny

      ​@@ULTIMATZEKROMits not foolproof method also he can reverse it

    • @justadummy8076
      @justadummy8076 Před 13 dny +3

      @@potatoes8414
      Not really, it depends on the duration of the vasectomy, if it’s recent it’s pretty likely he’ll regain function, if it’s been a while, pretty much impossible

  • @FrostLordOni
    @FrostLordOni Před 15 dny +55

    Man: “I do all the childcare, all the housework, all the pet care, am the sole provider for the house, and haven’t seen my brother in over 4 years. My partner, who does nothing but spend time with friends all day, wants me to cancel seeing my brother so she can spend more money on a 2 week long trip.”
    Reddit: “She needs this trip dude, don’t be so selfish!”
    Yeah, Reddit’s not misandrist at all

    • @cipher5150
      @cipher5150 Před 14 dny +13

      didn't you pay any attention??
      she gives the dogs water⁉️
      and even vacuums⁉️
      if that woman doesn't deserve a frikkin vacation then i don't kno who does🙏

    • @RoyceKincey-v4o
      @RoyceKincey-v4o Před 14 dny +3

      I really hope that's sarcasim

    • @cipher5150
      @cipher5150 Před 14 dny +2

      @@RoyceKincey-v4o
      my comment?

    • @NobodySpecsh
      @NobodySpecsh Před 14 dny

      200 comments saying NTA
      2 comments saying YTA
      frostlordoni: REDDIT SAYS YTA? UGH MISANDRY!

    • @manifest2203
      @manifest2203 Před 14 dny +1

      How is he doing all the child care and is also the sole provider? The reason that Reddit is like this is because he seems to be ly6ing. If such a man who actully does more than equal ch4ld care and also provides for the family exists, he needs to be studied in the labs. It’s rare for m4n to be like this, but very common to see w4m4n like this.

  • @justadummy8076
    @justadummy8076 Před 13 dny +10

    They always used condoms & she was on birth control, but they “failed” twice?
    Now, either this guy should go out & buy some scratch cards, or he should buy some paternity test kits, coz the maths aren’t mathing

  • @tothewonder6248
    @tothewonder6248 Před 15 dny +33

    The worst people always have the most audacity.

  • @hollyhal1254
    @hollyhal1254 Před 13 dny +9

    My mother was a stay at home mom and raised 5 kids. She cooked 3 meals a day and kept a spotless house. Us kids took on chores as we got older but she still did the majority. Also, we lived on a farm so there were farm duties as well. We had a huge garden that we all helped with and she canned and froze vegetables we ate all year. We had sheep and cows. Dad farmed and worked in the oil field. I’ve seen mom get up in the middle of the night to fry up chicken so it would be fresh for dad to take with him when he left for the rig at 4:00am. She always sent extra in case they had to work a double shift and so he would have some to share. She was always home when we got in from school. She made a million brownies for bake sales and such during our school years. She sewed our clothes for heavens sake. One February we had a bunch of early lambs and two litters of puppies in boxes under the kitchen table. I’ve seen her holding a premature lamb, wrapped in a blanket and rock it and give it a bottle. She did all of this and still managed to have tea parties with her daughters , a social life and paint lovely pictures. My dad was a man’s man and wouldn’t have thought to do housework but he worked hard all day and took time to build us a tree house and a tire swing and take us fossil hunting. My dad had a massive stroke when he was just 47 and mom had to go to work outside the house for the first time. Dad tried so hard to keep things tidy at home after all of us kids were gone and ALWAYS had a fresh glass of tea waiting for her when she got home. He figured out ways around his disability to take the burden off her. Dad is gone now and my 81 year old mom is still on the volunteer fire department, lol. She mans the radio, coordinates the teams and keeps them supplied with sandwiches and water. She even responds to accidents if she is close enough to get there before EMS. There was a motorcycle accident near her house and she responded. She did what she could for him even though she knew he wasn’t going to make it. She held his hand and talked to him and started CPR when his heart stopped. She kept it up until the ambulance came. She cried for two days after that. That is a good woman. The woman in this story is a lazy, cold hearted b***h and should be tossed out on her manipulative ass

  • @moomoozebra
    @moomoozebra Před 15 dny +22

    "yeah, well talk about it. Here's divorce papers"

  • @lindah3803
    @lindah3803 Před 14 dny +12

    Way past time for OP to hire an investigator. He should be finding out who all these "friends" are that she is on vacay with. If finds out that she's cheating he could send her stuff to the APs house. Also he should cancel all her cards. Report them as missing. If she has an ATM card, make sure there's only $20 in the account. Then block her. She can figure out how to get her azz back home. When MIL calls tell her everything.

  • @veontehightower
    @veontehightower Před 13 dny +5

    She was baby trapping so she wouldn’t have to work. She playing him bad smh.

  • @nickroetker4304
    @nickroetker4304 Před 15 dny +18

    DNA TEST!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Tamara_Middleton
    @Tamara_Middleton Před 15 dny +12

    Dude got played 😂

  • @kateryna-ostapenko
    @kateryna-ostapenko Před 10 dny

    Anyone who insults him after hearing this has no heart. Hope he finds a partner he deserves.

  • @rojax_thevoicetm2385
    @rojax_thevoicetm2385 Před 12 dny +1

    Those are absolutely not even your kids bro, _maybe_ the first one is. Essentially you’re not her partner, you’re her ATM. You already do all the cooking, housework, employ a cleaner weekly, and provide financially for a family of SIX! What does she need a vacation from exactly? She doesn’t have a job and doesn’t do shit around the house. All those kids are school aged, they can survive you getting a divorce.

  • @ULTIMATZEKROM
    @ULTIMATZEKROM Před 14 dny +12

    ...this dude wasn't just spineless, the dude had NEGATIVE spine to put up with this kind of shit from his wife for this long. She does not respect him and straight up sees him as an ATM. Glad he's finally growing a pair (metaphorically, he did stupidly get snipped), but this whole story's sad enough on his end that I genuinely hope the story is fake.

  • @codyjones8153
    @codyjones8153 Před 15 dny +9

    *If There's Any New Updates, Please Upload A Video With The New Updates!*

  • @natalieescoffier5398
    @natalieescoffier5398 Před 14 dny +1

    I picture that she looks like Ursula with all her greedy tentacles waving around. The husband sounds like a gem and is being taken advantage of. I hope he moves on and gets full custody of the kids.

  • @ace1gl
    @ace1gl Před 14 dny +1

    This poor clueless guy. He got played hard. The dogs even know, but not this guy. She probably drugged her and left for her trip. Get a lawyer

  • @anacheah8981
    @anacheah8981 Před 13 dny

    Put a/v cameras to record when confronting the wife.

  • @Joey15811
    @Joey15811 Před 14 dny +2

    So OP is her slave and she dones next to nothing. Divorce her. Throw her out and honestly gl for custody. She palms them on clubs.
    Need needs to get a job. OP needs a break not her.

  • @sivaphanindra4102
    @sivaphanindra4102 Před 14 dny +2

    The shocking factors
    Op: I always use condom but my wife get pregnant four times

  • @susanconroy7911
    @susanconroy7911 Před 14 dny +2

    Omg…another doormat

  • @AllHopeIsLost1134
    @AllHopeIsLost1134 Před 14 dny +19

    OP played himself by allowing her to be a good-for-nothing their entire marriage.

    • @daniellemitchell3118
      @daniellemitchell3118 Před 14 dny

      That sounds like victim blaming. What was he to do when his wife told him she was suffering through the pregnancies? He's a man he has no idea what it's like to have a uterus. When he tried to get advice from the doctor, she stopped him and kicked him out of the room.
      We have the luxury of hearing the events of his life the last 17 years, in one post where it's easy to connect the dots. He's just been living and taking care of his family. Plus, it seems like there were several times when she has drugged him so that she keeps him off kilter. It's not his fault.

    • @AllHopeIsLost1134
      @AllHopeIsLost1134 Před 14 dny

      @@daniellemitchell3118 He was weak, and it cost him dearly. Women look for weak men, because they're easier to control, and OP fits the definition, hence her ability to walk all over him. OP is a coward, and cowards die a thousand deaths, but those that stand up for themselves, only once.

    • @bjj1132
      @bjj1132 Před 13 dny

      @@daniellemitchell3118 Fault doesn't matter. Responsibility does. Nobody has the responsibility to fix your problems except you. This guy rejected that responsibility like the child he is. He should've grown a spine a long time ago and left when she started to show signs of being a worthless partner.

  • @Joey15811
    @Joey15811 Před 14 dny

    So OP is her slave and she dones next to nothing. Divorce her. Throw her out and honestly gl for custody. She palms them on clubs. Also sbe definetly a cheater.
    Need needs to get a job. OP needs a break not her.

  • @Mimi-rg2bh
    @Mimi-rg2bh Před 12 dny

    She cheated and eldest isn't his