The Heartbreaking Truth: Shaadi Kai Baghair Bachai | Junaid Akram Documentary

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    Untold stories of those choosing to have children without marriage in Junaid Akram's latest documentary. This film delves into personal journeys, societal pressures, and the evolving definitions of family in today's world.

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  • @sktirmizi
    @sktirmizi Před 2 měsíci +982

    I always wanted to have a first daughter as my first child. Because I am the elder son and always used to miss the fact that I don't have elder sister.
    Alhamdulillah I am blessed with a baby girl as my first child

    • @azmatali8603
      @azmatali8603 Před 2 měsíci +16

      MashaAllah bro
      Allah apko khush rakhe ye Bachi Allah ki rehmat hai Alhamdulillah

    • @IAMAliIbrahim
      @IAMAliIbrahim Před 2 měsíci +12

      Respect for You Sir

    • @tabjaf9706
      @tabjaf9706 Před 2 měsíci +21

      I always saw my father to love and respect for my sister's, Alhamdolillah.
      I prayed Allah for two beautiful daughters.

    • @muhammadsaleh3925
      @muhammadsaleh3925 Před 2 měsíci +3

      same here bhai

    • @saraasif-vh6od
      @saraasif-vh6od Před 2 měsíci +8

      Take care of her brother. Love her when she is a teenager, adult as well.be her best friend. In today's society father's need to have a strong bond with their daughters.
      Don't make her a silent girl by your taunts and scoldings. Don't make her feel there is no one to understand her.
      I have seen many father's just saying but there actions speak something different. They love their daughters just untill they are kids and cute.
      When they grow they hate them for having their own personality, for growing.
      Stay blessed ❤️

  • @muneebrehman6288
    @muneebrehman6288 Před 2 měsíci +962

    "Qiyamat khud batai gi kay qiyamat kiyun zaroori thi"

    • @theenlightenedone1283
      @theenlightenedone1283 Před 2 měsíci +9

      اب سچ میں کچھ ٹھیک نہیں ہو سکے گا۔ خدا کی نافرمانی کی یہی سزا ہوتی ہے۔
      سوائے توبہ کے جس طرح قوم یونس نے کی تھی آخری وقت پہ بھی عذاب ٹل گیا تھا۔

    • @theenlightenedone1283
      @theenlightenedone1283 Před 2 měsíci +5

      علاج
      72 فرقوں سے نکل کر 1 جماعت بن جانے کا وقت آگیا ہے
      ملت/امت میں شامل ہو جاو
      خلیفہ وقت کی اطاعت میں ہی برکت ہے اور پاکستان/ اسلامی ممالک کی بقا ہے
      علماء سو سے بچیے/ نام نہاد لیڈروں سے بھی
      اسلام = امن و سلامتی
      فلاحی ریاست
      اللھم' لبیک
      پاکستان زندہ باد

    • @falahbaloch
      @falahbaloch Před 2 měsíci

      True Bro 👍

    • @MUDDASIRKHALID333
      @MUDDASIRKHALID333 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Palestine mai jo kuch ho raha hai wo dekh kr "Qiyamat" ko nhe lgta ke ab usse a jna chayeh??

    • @syedusman3982
      @syedusman3982 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Dialogue bazi nhi. Esi chezain zamano sy chlti ari hy. Ye government ki responsibility in sb ko rokna

  • @asifhasan8465
    @asifhasan8465 Před 2 měsíci +589

    Quran 81:8 - 81:9, And when the girl [who was] buried alive is asked [8] for what crime they were put to death [9]

    • @ziaullahikram5310
      @ziaullahikram5310 Před 2 měsíci +30

      i was about to put this verse , and happened to cross your comment

    • @varunm5498
      @varunm5498 Před měsícem

      Stop reading Quran, everything will be alright.

    • @postmanpatpat
      @postmanpatpat Před měsícem +1

      Aise logo kau English Mai samajh aata hoga kia aur Deen se tau door honge hi zahir hai

  • @faizanm4100
    @faizanm4100 Před 2 měsíci +436

    I have 2 boys and I prayed so hard for a girl . Alhamdullilah I have a beautiful princess . I can’t live without her.

    • @Itz_venomous
      @Itz_venomous Před měsícem +4

      MashaAllah Brother ❤

    • @user-uf5de7pn7o
      @user-uf5de7pn7o Před měsícem +2

      MashaAllah Allah bless your childs Ameen❤

    • @YasirAli-ks9vm
      @YasirAli-ks9vm Před měsícem +1

      Masha'Allah brother 💝 may Allah protect your children from the evils of that this world holds

    • @raniyaalam9209
      @raniyaalam9209 Před měsícem +2

      my mother prayed for me too

  • @shansin1703
    @shansin1703 Před 2 měsíci +522

    A girl in the family is a blessing.

    • @Moody-Avo
      @Moody-Avo Před 2 měsíci +21

      Maa khud ek aurat ho ke dusri aurat zaat ka abortion forcefully karwa rahi hy lanat bhejta hun esi maao py. humare barey chawwal hein dont get me wrong is liye Pakistan ki yeh halat hogai hy.

    • @huzaifamukhtar7137
      @huzaifamukhtar7137 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Not in Pakistan

    • @zaidkashif3170
      @zaidkashif3170 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I can tell you that these practices only happen in the not so fortunate areas..... I have two female baby cousins who are the first child of my uncle and another who is a first child of my aunt and they are so cherished in the family.....

    • @theenlightenedone1283
      @theenlightenedone1283 Před 2 měsíci +1

      اب سچ میں کچھ ٹھیک نہیں ہو سکے گا۔ خدا کی نافرمانی کی یہی سزا ہوتی ہے۔
      سوائے توبہ کے جس طرح قوم یونس نے کی تھی آخری وقت پہ بھی عذاب ٹل گیا تھا۔

    • @theenlightenedone1283
      @theenlightenedone1283 Před 2 měsíci +1

      علاج
      72 فرقوں سے نکل کر 1 جماعت بن جانے کا وقت آگیا ہے
      ملت/امت میں شامل ہو جاو
      خلیفہ وقت کی اطاعت میں ہی برکت ہے اور پاکستان/ اسلامی ممالک کی بقا ہے
      علماء سو سے بچیے/ نام نہاد لیڈروں سے بھی
      اسلام = امن و سلامتی
      فلاحی ریاست
      اللھم' لبیک
      پاکستان زندہ باد

  • @ahsanahmad1
    @ahsanahmad1 Před 2 měsíci +473

    Man, I cried watching this documentary. I still don't believe that these kinds of cruel people lives in Pakistan. In my family, all of my relatives including my father, chacho, Mamo, phupha, etc...loves and looks after their daughters more than their sons.

    • @tabjaf9706
      @tabjaf9706 Před 2 měsíci +7

      Same here

    • @hirajawad1078
      @hirajawad1078 Před 2 měsíci +12

      Pakistan needs more and more men like you.. the solution is to be a good influence on society, by talking about these issues and make people in your surrounding understand how grotesque this thing is. Being a good person is not enough, influencing others is how society can only be better.

    • @abrukhan288
      @abrukhan288 Před 2 měsíci +2

      MaShaAllah... real humans 🤞

    • @HammadKhan-iz5hz
      @HammadKhan-iz5hz Před 2 měsíci +5

      yes I myself could not understand that he is talking of pakistan because I have never seen anything like this or any story from my city or nearby towns it is not common in normal cities I think it's common in karachi, lahore, islamabad,rawalpindi, multan type big cities that has some cruel western ideology followers

    • @Emarkita
      @Emarkita Před 2 měsíci +2

      Yes same here . Mere husband ne mithai banti thi jab beti hoi or mujhy apni beti apny bety se bhi pyari he

  • @Abeer-zf6fo
    @Abeer-zf6fo Před 2 měsíci +227

    A big round of applause for Junaid Akram and team for presenting such a bold topic which is a taboo in our society with auch grace. Remarkable work!

  • @basimhashmi2155
    @basimhashmi2155 Před 2 měsíci +804

    Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet ﷺ said, "Whoever supports two girls till they attain maturity, he and I will come on the Day of Resurrection like this". Messenger of Allah ﷺ joined his fingers illustrating this. Muslim.

    • @captainamerica008
      @captainamerica008 Před 2 měsíci

      Teri baji ki documentary chal rahi hai??​@@Rockyrockslost

    • @-BADAR-
      @-BADAR- Před 2 měsíci +18

      @@Rockyrockslost what does his comment has to do with masjid?

    • @Rockyrockslost
      @Rockyrockslost Před 2 měsíci +15

      @@-BADAR- quoting religious script and verse doesn't require to be stated anywhere everywhere.

    • @lanoklom9697
      @lanoklom9697 Před 2 měsíci +22

      @@Rockyrockslost He is trying to connect with people at a level they will understand. For example, if it was a video in India you would have several bakhts quoting tanatani scripture also and how the current reality can be allegorically defined by past events.

    • @Rockyrockslost
      @Rockyrockslost Před 2 měsíci +7

      @@lanoklom9697 for people to understand, there is a logic and context to be used, here in India there are all sorts of religion and not just sanatanis,
      There is no need to put verses-religion to make people understand what is just a human virtute.

  • @micro23279
    @micro23279 Před 2 měsíci +182

    We are six sisters and no brother and I am proud of my parents despite wanting or trying for a certain wish they raised us no less than the sons and educated us. We do more than most boys would do for their families. Alhamdulillah

    • @cricedits1772
      @cricedits1772 Před 2 měsíci +32

      Its good that youre making them proud but sad reality is that they had those six daughters bcs they tried again and again for a son... thats a sad reality

    • @Taha_Khubaib
      @Taha_Khubaib Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@cricedits1772 😅truee

    • @zainpirzada2589
      @zainpirzada2589 Před měsícem +5

      ​@@cricedits1772Atleast at the end they understood that it's something which is already planned by Allah even way before our existence. Most of the men blame women for giving birth to a daughter or they refuse to accept the child. Atleast, they gave their daughters basic education, raised them well and made them independent so that they never need a man to feed themselves.

    • @MrKing-zv2eu
      @MrKing-zv2eu Před měsícem +4

      ​@@cricedits1772what's so sad about it? They wanted it? Yes. Were they stuck with it and let that affect their children? No.
      They didn't let their children suffer because of their wish so there's nothing "sad" here.

    • @robberz9154
      @robberz9154 Před měsícem

      your father is a real gem of a man!

  • @Saeedkhan-og5dg
    @Saeedkhan-og5dg Před 2 měsíci +103

    junaid bhai this is the thing that pakistan needs the most thank for making this, hope tp see more of these type of meaning videos jisse society me waqai kch farq parega. dont listen to naysers you are such a great man with golden heart Allah apko iska ajar zrur dega.. thank you

  • @Lemsnlimes
    @Lemsnlimes Před 2 měsíci +74

    Quran
    16:58 Whenever one of them is given the good news of a baby girl, his face grows gloomy, as he suppresses his rage.
    16:59 He hides himself from the people because of the bad news he has received. Should he keep her in disgrace, or bury her ˹alive˺ in the ground? Evil indeed is their judgment!
    16:60 To those who disbelieve in the Hereafter belong all evil qualities, whereas to Allah belong the finest attributes. And He is the Almighty, All-Wise.
    16:61 If Allah were to punish people ˹immediately˺ for their wrongdoing, He would not have left a single living being on earth. But He delays them for an appointed term. And when their time arrives, they cannot delay it for a moment, nor could they advance it.

  • @waqasssweb
    @waqasssweb Před měsícem +22

    I have 2 daughters, and I can't imagine my life without them they are apple of my eyes. My world is meaningless without them. They make me happy when ever I see them.

  • @sidrakhan3338
    @sidrakhan3338 Před měsícem +21

    Allah ny mjy pahli beti sy nawaza tb many aysy halaat face kiay lakin many saturation ko bhaduri sy handle kia or moun tor jwab dia husband or sas ko....aj meri 2 betian hain or apny baba ki ladlian hain MashaaAllah

  • @hussainraza7298
    @hussainraza7298 Před 2 měsíci +57

    Junaid bhai I'm listening to this while working in my office in Melbourne and trust me when I'm saying this. I have been crying throughout this video and have to hide it since have people around me who won't understand what happens in Pakistan. Mate more power to you kindly keep making videos on these issues. We need to educate our masses. We can't have insani jan going in the BIN this way.
    Love you Junaid bhai see you in Melbourne someday inshallah
    Hussain

    • @taskeenzahra1211
      @taskeenzahra1211 Před měsícem +2

      A man which that much emotions not to be seen in Pakistan so often

    • @hshakeel0
      @hshakeel0 Před měsícem

      believe me there are many but most of them are introverts or are not very expressive

    • @ehsanhaseeb
      @ehsanhaseeb Před měsícem

      same i felt... its so unfortunate

  • @s28rra
    @s28rra Před 2 měsíci +56

    Huh? This male-dominated society needs to get a grip! Ugh... My parents have five girls and we're thriving..These old-school attitudes need to go... Time to wake up!Seriously, this has to change! How can someone be so cruel?

    • @MuhammadAliQureshi-ds3tw
      @MuhammadAliQureshi-ds3tw Před měsícem +6

      male dominated society is needed in this era.

    • @mbilal429
      @mbilal429 Před měsícem +1

      Jahez jaise lanat ki zaroorat nhi, islamic shaadi hogi inshallah, govt job + business. Literate girl with good English proposal required. Age 27 RWP

    • @ComedicReliefUK
      @ComedicReliefUK Před měsícem +2

      ​@@MuhammadAliQureshi-ds3tw exactly, kheir yeh Junaid Akram ko abbu man'ne wali larkiyon aur larkon mein aqal thori hai

    • @s28rra
      @s28rra Před měsícem +6

      @@ComedicReliefUK Haha, still in the Stone Age? You clearly haven't kept up. Bet you can't even spell 'girls' rights'. A home is made with love, not just walls

    • @ComedicReliefUK
      @ComedicReliefUK Před měsícem

      @@s28rra Haha, what can be expected from Schrodinger's Feminist i.e Victim and empowered at the same time. Cry out loud Zaniya, Zina karo and rant about it

  • @taimoor1062
    @taimoor1062 Před měsícem +6

    Junaid Akram. This is the content Pakistan needs right now which can spread a little education and awareness. Thank you.

  • @muhammadjaved3256
    @muhammadjaved3256 Před 2 měsíci +68

    غلاظت سے بھرا پاکستانی معاشرہ ۔۔۔۔
    اللہ پاک رحم کرے

  • @greygrey4699
    @greygrey4699 Před měsícem +10

    Just in verge of crying badly while watching this documentary. May Allah protect those little souls Ameen

  • @TKamal
    @TKamal Před 2 měsíci +211

    Revealing a child's sex via ultrasound before birth is completely banned in India. They should do the same in Pakistan. But who follows laws there anyways lol.

    • @sab-ali
      @sab-ali Před 2 měsíci +30

      Actually it kind of banned here too specially in govt hospitals. When i tried to ask my private doctor about my 3rd child when i was expecting her, she kept avoiding telling me. Idk how doctors are not responsible enough to maintain transparency.

    • @Visionvitalizetv
      @Visionvitalizetv Před 2 měsíci

      Pakistan has become lawless country. Trying my best to leave it asap

    • @AA-uu5ep
      @AA-uu5ep Před 2 měsíci

      N even in India, there r so many cases of female foeticides....so many gynae n midwifes do it for money

    • @violet4481
      @violet4481 Před 2 měsíci +34

      Banning ultrasound is not the solution, educating everyone is the solution.

    • @meechanyo7909
      @meechanyo7909 Před 2 měsíci +9

      It's not allowed either but money speaks and when it exchanges hands doctors talk.

  • @DatIsTheReason
    @DatIsTheReason Před měsícem +9

    Hats off Junaid ji for highlighting this issues...
    You are one of the few CZcamsrs in Pakistan who have the guts to show the reality...
    Keep up the good work

  • @bismahmariyam9624
    @bismahmariyam9624 Před 2 měsíci +60

    So what if it's a girl!!! A daughter brings many blessings to the family. It's frightening to realize that this mentality still persists

    • @muhammadmaxharrix4998
      @muhammadmaxharrix4998 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I mean hello it's Pakistan what else can you expect from a nation of this caliber 😂😂

    • @tocabestes1221
      @tocabestes1221 Před měsícem

      Yes you are 100% right but this is Pakistani mashra abh bhi zmany jahleat may jerha h

  • @flazy6928
    @flazy6928 Před 2 měsíci +39

    This is so unfortunate to see that this is still happening, all the way from the times of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). No wonder we are failing as a country.

  • @syedfaizan7897
    @syedfaizan7897 Před 2 měsíci +22

    as a Young i learned so much from this documentry Alhamdullilah and thanks to @Junaid Akram and team

  • @hamzasshakeel5887
    @hamzasshakeel5887 Před 2 měsíci +72

    Sirf or sirf deen hi bacha sakta ha is nahoosat se hmain. Deen se duri ki vja ha ye sab

    • @lanoklom9697
      @lanoklom9697 Před měsícem +6

      Deen ko ghar aur masjid mein rakho, to teekh rahega. Usko har galli, maholley, shehr ki sadak pe laogey to yehi haalat hogi. Deen ki koi kammi nahi hai, magar deen ko istimal karney waley logon ki bhi koi kammi nai hai.

    • @zaroonaz
      @zaroonaz Před měsícem +2

      Bs yehi kehtay reho

    • @zaroonaz
      @zaroonaz Před měsícem +2

      Humay pata hai Deen k thekadaron ne Eidi sb ki namaz e janaza parhanay se inkaar kia tha

    • @gamerbeast1727
      @gamerbeast1727 Před měsícem +17

      ​@@lanoklom9697 tumhari jahalat ka andaza isi lafzon se pata lagta hai. Deen mukamal zindagi ka tareeqa hai individual faith nahi hai. Ye haalat logon ki apni jahalat kiwajah se howi hain na ke deen ki wajah se.

    • @muzamilahmed3127
      @muzamilahmed3127 Před měsícem

      @@lanoklom9697 Saudia mai jab beti paida hoti thi to us ko zinda dafan kr dia jata tha.. Jb Islam aya to Aurat ko un k haqooq milay.
      Meray khial sy aap ko kuch deen parhna chahye.
      Ye kuch hadith hain. Shyd aap ka dimagh thora khul jaye..
      - The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Whoever has three daughters, and he remains patient with them and provides for them and clothes them from his wealth, they will be a shield for him from the Fire on the Day of Resurrection." (Ibn Majah, Book 33, Hadith 3669)
      - The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Whoever has three daughters or three sisters, or two daughters or two sisters, and he keeps good company with them and fears Allah in their treatment, then Paradise is for him." (Tirmidhi, Book 27, Hadith 1912)
      - The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the importance of treating daughters equally and kindly. He said, "Whosoever has a daughter and he does not bury her alive, does not insult her, and does not favor his son over her, Allah will enter him into Paradise." (Ahmad)
      - It is narrated that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Daughters are a mercy and sons are a bounty. Mercy will be rewarded, and bounty will be questioned." (Al-Bazzar)

  • @HomelessAnimalsCare
    @HomelessAnimalsCare Před měsícem +13

    Astagfirullah Astagfirullah Astagfirullah Allah pak maaf fermaye or sab ko hidayat dy Ameen summ Ameen

  • @malaikawaqas8872
    @malaikawaqas8872 Před 2 měsíci +47

    And we are dying to have a baby wether its a girl or a boy. Baby is blessing of no matter what.. Allah please bless me with your rehmat or naimat❤

    • @jamaldin8003
      @jamaldin8003 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Ameen

    • @s.saleem9936
      @s.saleem9936 Před měsícem +4

      May Allah Pak blesses you with a healthy child and give you strength to raise it well. Ameen

    • @danishkalim3904
      @danishkalim3904 Před měsícem

      your prayers will be answered soon.

    • @muhammadTalha2014
      @muhammadTalha2014 Před měsícem

      Inshallah sister you will be blessed with both. Ameen

    • @inspiredliving9953
      @inspiredliving9953 Před měsícem

      Stay strong and dont lose hope, i was blessed with baby girl after 9 years of my marriage

  • @abnfalcon3901
    @abnfalcon3901 Před 2 měsíci +90

    It's Crazy to think that this documentary was only for Karachi. Imagine how is it in the whole country.

    • @ForexTradingMillionaire
      @ForexTradingMillionaire Před měsícem +2

      May be it is worst in Lahore and Islamabad because of their open culture in such relationships.

    • @anonamous6278
      @anonamous6278 Před měsícem +6

      @@ForexTradingMillionaire what proof do you have that it's worse in Lahore and Islamabad? I'm not from those cities but have lived as well as Karachi and can honestly state this is a Karachi issue due to high amount of Indian muhajir living there who not only hate having female child but ate usually very irreligious and engage more in open relationship than any one else in pakistan.

    • @saadahmed688
      @saadahmed688 Před měsícem +4

      This is the one thing that the video gets wrong. Most of it is not due to haram relationships, it's because of the stupid shadi culture and jahalat in our country. Most of these babies are coming from married couples. Karachi is a slum and there's more poverty that's why it's the hub of this act.

    • @alimuavia5005
      @alimuavia5005 Před měsícem

      Tu kabhi Lahore aaya hai Kia?Lahore itna Ganda NAHI jotna Karachi hai​@@ForexTradingMillionaire

    • @alimuavia5005
      @alimuavia5005 Před měsícem

      Yeh Sirf Karachi mein hota hai aur kasurwar srf muhajir hein

  • @Q-1424
    @Q-1424 Před měsícem +6

    Just met Faisal Edhi sahab on a thalassemia walk on May-12th, WHAT A HUMBLE & DOWN TO EARTH GUY! MAY ALLAH BLESS HIM IN ALL ASPECTS OF LIFE & VENTURES

  • @zaidahmed5618
    @zaidahmed5618 Před měsícem +9

    A huge round of applause for bringing this content, huge respect Junaid bhai!

  • @shakeelazad2806
    @shakeelazad2806 Před 2 měsíci +36

    Back to zamaney jahiliatt 😢

    • @hn_editx.
      @hn_editx. Před měsícem +10

      Zamana jahilat gaya kab tha pakistan se

  • @muhammadhamza8358
    @muhammadhamza8358 Před měsícem +8

    i always pray to God to bless me with so many daughters 🥹🥹🥹
    and here these guys are being so ungrateful. don't they know that daughters are a blessing of Allah SWT.

  • @MusicFORALL723
    @MusicFORALL723 Před 2 měsíci +80

    Women should investigate or talk with the man who is going to be his husband. The talk will describe his mindset. And Also the husband talk with the women. The conversation describe his mentality.

    • @darkforces490
      @darkforces490 Před 2 měsíci +4

      or dusra ghur walo ko bhi support kerna chaiya.

    • @yourworld64
      @yourworld64 Před 2 měsíci +7

      ​@@darkforces490humare yaha kaha support kerti hai families larkiyon ko ? Allah inko puchaay

    • @darkforces490
      @darkforces490 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@yourworld64 tabhi tu bol raha ho keh kerna chaiya.

    • @violet4481
      @violet4481 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Thats the problem, aadhay log toh shakal ni dekhnay detey honey wali miyan biwi ki, aap keh rahy ho baat karni chahiye.. Karni toh chahiye, lekin inko kaun samjhaye..

    • @theguidedone-hm6js
      @theguidedone-hm6js Před 27 dny

      @@violet4481 10 logon mein beth kr krni chahiye naa

  • @viral4Uclips
    @viral4Uclips Před 5 dny +3

    daughters are blessing of allah.

  • @zaraknawaz6337
    @zaraknawaz6337 Před 2 měsíci +13

    I always wanted to have a baby girl first. Alhamdullilah back then Allah blessed me with a girl and i love her more than anything in this world. She means the whole world to me.
    My comment is for all those people who are not blessed with a girl yet, you haven't yet experienced the love of girl yet. A girl gives you a sense of being a father.

  • @Peegham
    @Peegham Před měsícem +5

    MashahAllah In our families' daughters are considder blessings of Allah.

  • @mathsismyfavourite
    @mathsismyfavourite Před měsícem +12

    Alhumdulillah I have three daughters with no son but we are very happy ❤

  • @user-no4dh4ro8n
    @user-no4dh4ro8n Před 2 měsíci +9

    Hazrat Muhammad(SAW) na arshad frmaya beti rahmat ha

  • @Explorer-xe3de
    @Explorer-xe3de Před 2 měsíci +6

    Thank god to be born in a good family alhumdullilah

  • @shazo786
    @shazo786 Před měsícem +4

    Zulm ki inteha kar di is quom ne...Eye opening documentary Junaid bhai 😢

  • @itsabubaker4209
    @itsabubaker4209 Před 2 měsíci +27

    Allah Pak Ham Sab Ko Hidayat dy Ameen

    • @thefun8194
      @thefun8194 Před 2 měsíci +1

      ameen

    • @Munda-kashmiri
      @Munda-kashmiri Před 2 měsíci +3

      Hidayat se Acha likhte aap Allah pak aisay logo ko gharak kar dey phir Ameen likh ne bhi dil khush hota 🙏

  • @seemeesiddiqui6427
    @seemeesiddiqui6427 Před 2 měsíci +27

    That’s a dark side of Islamic Rebublic of Pakistan. But still nation of Pakistan is fixing that many problems. InshaAllah tala good human awareness with help of pure and intellectual nation of Pakistan will solve that many issues.
    InshaAllah tala.

    • @sabaabid5514
      @sabaabid5514 Před 2 měsíci

      Hahaha

    • @hasnainmemon464
      @hasnainmemon464 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Islamic Republic ,
      Not following islamic terms*
      Not Following science*
      Not following Quran and Hadees phir ess hee hoghaaa

    • @hassanahmed2441
      @hassanahmed2441 Před měsícem

      😂😂😂

    • @ishu2798
      @ishu2798 Před 13 dny +1

      Everything is dark here ... acha kya hai ?

  • @ArsalanFaiyaz
    @ArsalanFaiyaz Před 2 měsíci +18

    Alhamdulillah, my daughter was born on August 6, 2023, and i can't thank enough Allah for this blessing.

  • @syedwaqar1119
    @syedwaqar1119 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Parents ka role bht imp hota hai yahan jo shadi k baad apni betio k uper se hath utha lete hai or check and balance nahi rakhte, jo Parents apni betio k pche kharay hote hai unka koe kuch nahi bigar skta.

  • @mzerghamqureshi
    @mzerghamqureshi Před 2 měsíci +13

    I am blessed to have a daughter Alhamdulillah ❤ .Allah sub ko betiun say muhabbat karnay taufeeq day aameen

  • @aishasultan03
    @aishasultan03 Před 2 měsíci +18

    I'm the only child of my parents girl child.
    I face sometimes too much abuse and violence from my father. I literally hate him. He is not fulfilling any responsibility. Because of him I faced severe depression. I'm trying hard to study and be independent. Then I'll leave the house and will stay alone. Well I'm still alone. I hate men like this.
    Lucky women got good husbands and fathers.

    • @user-rf6tx1zv4c
      @user-rf6tx1zv4c Před 2 měsíci +2

      May Allah give you patience girll

    • @rhbmn
      @rhbmn Před 2 měsíci +2

      Wish you the best. stay patient. i hope things will get better for you.

    • @aishasultan03
      @aishasultan03 Před 2 měsíci

      @@rhbmn Thank you so much

    • @Nihan18
      @Nihan18 Před měsícem +4

      I have overcome similar circumstances and I'm 30 years old now with a good career and earning. I am taking care of my mom as well. So Take it from me. Build a good career for yourself. When you'll become independent, life will get so much better inshallah. You are not a helpless girl. You'll become a strong independent woman. Protect your peace of mind. Read good books and novels. And search about different career options for yourself and accordingly make your choices. Please not spend time ruminating about what all you have lost. Stay more focused on how you want your future to look like. And when you are finally independent and making your own money, work on yourself to undo all the past trauma. I wish you all the best. may Allah help you as I got his help and blessings.

    • @aishasultan03
      @aishasultan03 Před měsícem +1

      @@Nihan18 Thank you so much. Thanks for inspiring me

  • @shujaat1234
    @shujaat1234 Před 2 měsíci +3

    An eye-opening conversation
    اللہ عزوجل نوجوان نسل کو ہدایت دے

  • @MMahid-fp6ig
    @MMahid-fp6ig Před 2 měsíci +33

    That's why we need to work on the literacy rate in Pakistan.

    • @violet4481
      @violet4481 Před 2 měsíci +6

      Literacy rate is not a measure of maturity. Apnay dekha nahi? Jis shohar nay apni biwi ko dhakka diya, woh parha likha bhi tha aur uska apna business bhi tha. Literacy barhanay say tameez aur morals nahi paida hotay. Literacy rate kay saath saath social issues pay education dena, aur deeni talimaat ko include karna zaruri hai.

    • @btiiithug9585
      @btiiithug9585 Před měsícem +4

      @@violet4481literacy includes manners which our education system doesn’t

    • @violet4481
      @violet4481 Před měsícem +3

      @@btiiithug9585 the census bureau doesnt measure manners.. the literacy rate just measure those who can read and write. Please read and understand the comments properly next time.

    • @btiiithug9585
      @btiiithug9585 Před měsícem +2

      @@violet4481 I know and I am saying that our education system is faulty since it doesn’t include manners so please read b4 u say something

  • @user-fm4ih2lr9p
    @user-fm4ih2lr9p Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you for making this.
    Alhamdulillah proud and happy parent of my little angel. my first born daughter. Love and blessings fro India

  • @mahwash_karim
    @mahwash_karim Před 2 měsíci +10

    I can't believe this is happening in Pakistan, Astagfirullah Astagfirullah Astagfirullah 😢

  • @userbasim214
    @userbasim214 Před 2 měsíci +4

    "And when the girl [who was] buried alive is asked,For what sin she was killed" Surah Takwir 8-9. May Allah guide such people.

  • @iqraali2346
    @iqraali2346 Před 2 měsíci +6

    I cried while watching this video, and thanked Allah for giving me a supportive and loving father and mother. They always loved me even more than my brother and supported me until now, currently I'm studying abroad and my family is proud of me. And after watching this video I'm also proud of them.
    Alhamdullaih❤

    • @mbilal429
      @mbilal429 Před měsícem

      BTW I want to relocate, no dating, Islamic marriage, no jahez, nikkah in mosque, age 27, RWP PAK
      A Honorable Person, Humble and Fundamentalist Muslim

  • @muhammadtalmeez3276
    @muhammadtalmeez3276 Před měsícem +6

    We are living in 2024 and this is still an issue. What a backward society we are😢😢

  • @versaty65
    @versaty65 Před 2 měsíci +8

    i wish all islamic channels also pick this video and spread this msg along their following as well.

    • @sm9713
      @sm9713 Před měsícem +1

      Haha ye karein gey, ye sirf batein karein gey, kuch practical ya qadam ya, haq I mean dadhi sakht bat nahi kar sakte, ye apnon ke khilaf jo istarhah kar rahe hon unke khilaf bhi khare ho jaate hein

  • @hamzaharoon6495
    @hamzaharoon6495 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Literally i am emotional... My eyes are full of tears .... Only imagining what kind of pain that mothers and infants suffer ... How new born babies are treated even they have no sense initially 😢😭😭 .... My question is that to those husband who tortured their wife and girl that what question occur in their mind when the girls is born .... Unn logon ka kiya haal hoga duniya or akhirat mai ....

  • @MrsSAli
    @MrsSAli Před 16 dny +1

    Shokar Allhamdulillah I have 2 Daughters and 1 Son. Allah Ka Shokar hai Ke 3no salamat hai. Allah Ka lakh Shokar hai…..❤❤

  • @abidallani7930
    @abidallani7930 Před 2 měsíci

    Excellent work Junaid Bhai!!
    I am blessed with two daughters Alhamdulillah and I am really happy ❤

  • @AsfarkhanStudios
    @AsfarkhanStudios Před 2 měsíci +16

    i was blessed with a baby girl as a first child but she was delivered in the sixth month unfortunately we were shattered but now Allah has blessed us with a baby boy. we named her maryam. I still remember her as my first child she is always in my heart she will be In my heart always as my first child as my daughter.

  • @sqqi
    @sqqi Před 2 měsíci +7

    Main sirf yhe kahoonga hum pakistani Musalman bhi rahay hain….?

  • @aqsaali2670
    @aqsaali2670 Před 2 měsíci +2

    First of all, thank you for making this documentary, I am really full of tears after watching it, my father and five brothers have supported me in all my educational and career goals they really kept me like a treasure..... I am thankful to Allah and for all the girls out there who are suffering..... we need to promote education and early marriages as an emergency in Pakistan..... time is really the worst!

  • @haroontahir8003
    @haroontahir8003 Před měsícem +1

    Alhamdulillah proud father of two girls. Always wanted to be a father of girls. May Allah protect them from devils running in our society. I would give my life for them.

  • @junaidzoraiz9249
    @junaidzoraiz9249 Před 2 měsíci +7

    “Whoever supports two girls till they attain maturity, he and I will come on the Day of Resurrection (close to each other) like this -The Messenger of Allah joined his fingers to illustrate closeness.” (Muslim)
    These are just examples of how Islam cared for girl children. The care mentioned in these hadiths and others is comprehensive. It covers the girls’ physical, emotional and mental needs.
    Such is the care and affection that our daughters deserve. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) commands us to be loving, patient and supportive parents.
    And once again, if you have daughters, you are greatly blessed and fortunate!

  • @tsjerseyplace
    @tsjerseyplace Před 2 měsíci +8

    ALHAMDULILLAH meri pehli beti hai or main is baat per bohot fakhar karta hoon k ALLAH ne mujhe rehmat se nawaza!

    • @gulandmum5554
      @gulandmum5554 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Allah sends an angel to the parents of a baby girl who are happy to have her as a first born. That angel brings blessings from Allah.

  • @unknownpara7
    @unknownpara7 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank You Junaid for such an important mini-doc! I really appreciate your efforts to educate this nation. I appreciate you man.

  • @bakhtawarnawaz7791
    @bakhtawarnawaz7791 Před 8 dny

    A good step making this video. Thankyiu for giving all of them a platform

  • @rukhsananisar1142
    @rukhsananisar1142 Před měsícem +5

    After my taya had 4 sons, my dadi and whole family prayed deliberately for a girl. My relatives used to say that how my father disturbed mithai to whole neighborhood. Even today, my dad and everyone loves me the same way and even more than my brothers. It is considered a blessing in our family to have first child as a daughter.

    • @ahsaniqbal5084
      @ahsaniqbal5084 Před měsícem

      Reverse sexism 😢

    • @xyz929
      @xyz929 Před 29 dny +1

      It is because they had 4 male children already. If the case was reversed, then it would be hard to believe.
      Your point is having a lack of extraordinary essence to mention here.

    • @jamshedkarai5524
      @jamshedkarai5524 Před 3 dny

      I've 5 elder sister's & all of them are educated...1st sister dentist..2nd sister zoology teacher 3rd sister : MTech engineering & 4 & 5th sister are working in a reputed MNC drawing good salary...on the other hand I'm a school dropout & studied till 8th standard & also when it came to property division I got 50% of the property being a boy according to shariah law 😊 & also my mom says she loves me more than all the daughters ..should I bless my fortune..jazakallah khair 🕋☪️.

  • @hammadahmed6332
    @hammadahmed6332 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Alhamdulillah hamare khandan mai beta beti dono mai equal khushi manate hain

  • @SaadAlam-vc1hc
    @SaadAlam-vc1hc Před 11 dny

    Truly Heartbreaking. The extreme dark side of society. There is special hell is ready for such people. You did a good job to highlight this critical issue for which no one is ready to talk about.

  • @ayazsaeed2633
    @ayazsaeed2633 Před 2 měsíci +1

    A daughter is the best gift a father can have. Alhamdulillah blessed with a baby girl. A daughter changes you as a father...

  • @jeroxama5877
    @jeroxama5877 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Bohat mushkil sey is video pr click kia hey thumbnail dekh kr himat nahi ho rahi thi ke kesiey log eisa kr letey hey inka pata lagey ga rolta howa dekhna passand krunga in logo ko me akhira me AMeen

  • @farwanqv
    @farwanqv Před 2 měsíci +5

    😢😢😢😢 I am so sad to hear this. I feel blessed to have first daughter. No one can dare to say anything to mu child just because she is a daughter. Listening to this in 2024 breaks my heart.

  • @hatimsaifuddin9856
    @hatimsaifuddin9856 Před 2 měsíci +1

    What a documentary. Needs to raise these types of issues.

  • @muhammadarqum7123
    @muhammadarqum7123 Před měsícem +2

    Ya Allah tera boht shukr tu ney humein huzoor SAW ki ummat mein paida kiya.. Jinhun ne hamari aurton bachion ko haqooq diye..

  • @MyselfJayprakash
    @MyselfJayprakash Před 2 měsíci +3

    Love from India bro Thankyou for giving voice to voiceless.....

  • @huzaifaali7027
    @huzaifaali7027 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Meri bhai ke phali aulad beti ha we are all happy when she came to world we love her

  • @ArslanIrshad1
    @ArslanIrshad1 Před 19 dny

    The nation needs more of this type of content.

  • @mmalik3587
    @mmalik3587 Před 7 dny +1

    Mujhy lgta tha k ye issue ab khatam ho gea hy. Astaghfirullah

  • @ShiaTalks
    @ShiaTalks Před 2 měsíci +3

    junaid bhai first of all i salute you for highlighting on this topic and capturing and making very superb video on this , may Allah curse on those people who don’t like there daughter , i love those people who really love to have there daughter

  • @ulluminati_xx
    @ulluminati_xx Před 2 měsíci +4

    I watched this and I am honestly out of words.
    I recently got married and I pray that I have a daughter as my firstborn. I can't even comprehend how on earth a father can kill/bury his own daughter with his own hands.. I'm literally shivering at the thought of it..

  • @nabilahassan8176
    @nabilahassan8176 Před 2 měsíci

    MashaAllah excellent work !

  • @Artimcay
    @Artimcay Před 5 dny

    Astaghfirullah. I couldn't finish the whole video.
    May Allah have mercy on us!!

  • @ZackRPSR
    @ZackRPSR Před 2 měsíci +6

    "Hum ne Western culture tou adopt kar liya lekin unki responsibilities adopt nahi kar paye" we failed our Prophet and Allah as muslims. Allah hum subko Hidayat naseeb farmaye.

  • @Muzamalhussain155
    @Muzamalhussain155 Před 2 měsíci +5

    What a content and effort ❣ I really appreciate Junaid Bhai Struggle

  • @SajjadALi-pk3ib
    @SajjadALi-pk3ib Před 2 měsíci +1

    بلکل صحیح یہی کچھ ھورہا ھے ہمارے معاشرے میں استغفراللہ

  • @ranafaisal879
    @ranafaisal879 Před 11 dny

    I am father A one beautiful daughter I thank too my God ye Allah Ka bohot payar gift hai pata hai os ny first word papa Bola hai zalimo dor e jahat KO mery Nabi nhe khatam Kar Diya tha

  • @BKOfficial
    @BKOfficial Před 2 měsíci +3

    Meri zindagi ka sab se haseen tareen din wo tha jab ALLAH ne mjhy beti di or wo bhi pehli olaad ❣

  • @junaidzoraiz9249
    @junaidzoraiz9249 Před 2 měsíci +4

    “Whoever has three daughters and is patient towards them, and feeds them, gives them to drink, and clothes them from his wealth; they will be a shield for him from the Fire on the Day of Resurrection.” (Authenticated by Al-Albani)

  • @Ahmad.11290
    @Ahmad.11290 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Keep it up Junaid Bhai. Keep bringing such content to spread more and more awareness among people 👍🏻

  • @Nature__Angel
    @Nature__Angel Před 29 dny +1

    حضرت محمد صلی اللّٰه علیــــه وآله وسلّم ❤️

  • @MrKhemnani
    @MrKhemnani Před 2 měsíci +8

    Watching this from London
    I have seen such documentaries coming from India - Glad to see it is now addressed on the other side of the border.
    Acknowledging the issue - is the first step to Solve it.
    Thanks for taking the First step.

  • @erumyaseen
    @erumyaseen Před 2 měsíci +3

    We lost our first baby girl, it was a premature baby. Allah tala sy bohat dua ki the ak beti kay leay magar shayad hamary naseeb me nahi the, mera dill en bacho kaa sun kar dard sy phaat raha hai kesy log hai jo apny khoon ko ghandagi mein phenk rahy hai, aur kitni he couples hai jo aulaad ko taras rahay hai

  • @Behramsubazwari
    @Behramsubazwari Před 2 měsíci

    This is a master piece. Allah bless you Junaid Sir.

  • @zarakhan5202
    @zarakhan5202 Před měsícem +1

    What a country! It's an Islamic country and this is the result we are seeing! May Allah guide them

  • @imransayyed2251
    @imransayyed2251 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Kuch hi din me hume bhi jaa ke haazir hona h maalik k saamne. Kya haal hoga bas Allah rahem kare

  • @rizwangamingofficial6270
    @rizwangamingofficial6270 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Love you so much junaid bhai. Rizwan Tahir ❤ from mirpur Azad Kashmir.

  • @jazlanfareed5122
    @jazlanfareed5122 Před 2 měsíci

    That is a topic that is pretty big and serious but is neglected in society. Kudos to you Junaid Akram and team for this wonderful work !

  • @robberz9154
    @robberz9154 Před měsícem

    props to the team for making documentary on such a sensitive topic, and communicating the message with extreme grace!

  • @aamir46renox
    @aamir46renox Před 2 měsíci +4

    Proud to be in Baloch Nation, hamare pas ye chiz nhi hoti naa hi Beti ko Bojj samjha jata hai

    • @ContentTV0
      @ContentTV0 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I'm a Baloch and I beg to differ, lmao, yahan Baloch khandanon me bohot beti bete ka pressure hota hai.

    • @btiiithug9585
      @btiiithug9585 Před měsícem +5

      Hahahah bhai joke bhi thora real rakha karo Baluchistan mai apple wadere or sardar mard ko nhi jeene dete tou aurato ko kia jeene denge

    • @btiiithug9585
      @btiiithug9585 Před 5 dny

      @@ContentTV0 hey I guess that's Pakistan for you that's why people say education is important

  • @obaid653
    @obaid653 Před 2 měsíci +6

    If two adults who come in a relation out of the wed lock and have a child should be first punished and then state must make sure that they raise that child and force both the parent's

  • @maheenbhatti4618
    @maheenbhatti4618 Před 2 měsíci +2

    This generation really need to understand these basic thing's!!!

  • @zehra366
    @zehra366 Před 2 měsíci

    Excellent documentary!! Great awareness initiative!