How to find Right GIRL/BOY for Marriage? | Sahil Adeem

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Komentáře • 477

  • @sadafali245
    @sadafali245 Před 3 lety +511

    I am 29 but still bachelor I don't want to involve myself in any haram relationship.but it is a biggest truth in our community that people are always judge a girl by her beauty and colour.may Allah subhan tala bless me with righteous man. Please pray for me guys 🇮🇳🧕🤲😭

  • @MohammadSulemanQadri
    @MohammadSulemanQadri Před 3 lety +109

    This 🔥
    A man can sacrifice everything but not the limits of Allah no matter what 👍🏻

  • @sadiaamir9057
    @sadiaamir9057 Před 2 lety +50

    Namaz is compulsory to be a Muslim but only namaz is not a complete Deen, the way u spend ur time or life tells how u value ur Deen

  • @bumblebee9912
    @bumblebee9912 Před 3 lety +38

    As per Mufti Rasheed Ahmed Ludhianwi marhoom (of Jamia tur Rasheed Karachi) to check deendari of a man you check the presence of hubb e maal and hubb e Jaa.. which means desire for money and fame I suppose. Because any person who has these desires strongly can’t be a deendaar person. The detailed beyan is on CZcams. But my own little analysis found this parameter very helpful and appropriate for checking deendari. Jazakallah

  • @learnwithhafizyounis9977
    @learnwithhafizyounis9977 Před 2 lety +37

    I'm 26 years old.i have done my master education.i have no relation in whole life.i want to do nikkah with positive and educated girl.please pray for me...

  • @zainch7051
    @zainch7051 Před 2 lety +31

    Thats so true...i use to think that atleast men and specialy women studying in madrasaas and offering namaz,doing hijab in public must be deendar and true muslims...but no, even such people are not neccesarily Deendar and in many cases they can be worst than other fasiq people..... i've learned as what someone said that "Never Judge A Book By Its Cover" ....
    On the other hand we should also look upoun ourselves, who knows we can be one of them..May Allah guid us the right path ameen

  • @kawan5851
    @kawan5851 Před 3 lety +51

    Reality is that most people look for money while doing marriages. You can be truthful, honest and hardworking but if you don't have money then nothing matters in our society. 99 percent of families will reject any Rishta based on financial reasons.

    • @FatimaKhan-fq9ho
      @FatimaKhan-fq9ho Před 2 lety +1

      Not everyone .. .. i think thruthful honest and hardworking people can have more money .. cuz earning money more noney does need these qualities only . Hardwork honesty .. skills .. intelligence .. .. be strong ..

    • @kawan5851
      @kawan5851 Před 2 lety +5

      @@FatimaKhan-fq9ho Maybe you statement is true for West but not for Pakistan. My father was a hardworking, very honest and truthful man. People took advantage of him throughout his life. He died even without building his house. His crime was that he was a non-government civilian and he just believed on uprightness and truthfulness. He used to work 16-18 hours a day. So the question is that whether Pakistani society rewarded him and the answer is No.

    • @aszak8654
      @aszak8654 Před 2 lety

      @@kawan5851 not Pakistan but every where . Here in Canada we experienced the same

    • @kawan5851
      @kawan5851 Před 2 lety +3

      @@aszak8654 my experience is that it is the not the boys but the girls families that typically rejects based on finances. Anyway if you live in Canada then there is no obligation to marry within Pakistanis only.

    • @aszak8654
      @aszak8654 Před 2 lety +2

      @@kawan5851 I m going to marry a person actually, my fiancé has not a big job and I m from a very well family . My mom is so against it but my belief is rizq is in hand of Allah . I want to be with a person who has moral and respect for me and number one is loyalty. Pray for us that my mom agrees to it . Otherwise what ever happens it is for best . Allah Kareem

  • @hyderali3790
    @hyderali3790 Před 2 lety +18

    bhaijan!!
    Thank you for your thoughts, i am struggling right now but inshallah i"ll be on the right track.
    Love and Peace from Hindustan!!
    Pray for Peace

  • @anmolkhan9705
    @anmolkhan9705 Před 3 lety +3

    True👍 bilkul Sahi kaha apne sirf 5wqt nmaz pdh lene se kisi ke deen ya achhayi ka pta nahi krskte..maine ekse ek munafiqon ko b namaz pdhte dekha hai ..dhokhebaz orr jhute logo ko b nmaz pdhte dekha hai ...nmaz frz cheez hai ,we have to offer nmz ..but munafiqat orr jhut sbse zada bura hai

  • @tabinda460
    @tabinda460 Před 3 lety +10

    So true NAK makes understand islam in practical way..

  • @coachch4785
    @coachch4785 Před 3 lety +41

    According to me, it's totally under the control of Allah s.w.t . We can try to judge at Islamic level but what is Islam in our minds in Pakistan is more something of culture than Islam itself.

  • @m.jibreelusman2596
    @m.jibreelusman2596 Před rokem +3

    My mother used to say that if you seek a woman inspect her mother and if you seek a man inspect his father.
    Company matters(saying of Prophet S.A.W). Also inspect
    his/her company.
    Also no one is perfect in this world, everyone has some flaws.
    You have to endure and ignore something's. Just look on the bright side and try to become a better person.
    "You can not be a true mumin unless you do for others what you do for yourself."
    (AL-Quran)
    Recite the Quran with its translation. So that you can understand.especially in fajar and pray Oh Allah open my heart for Islam.

  • @waliansari8148
    @waliansari8148 Před 2 lety +7

    اَلَّھُمَّ ارْزُقْنَا جَلِیْسًا صَالِحًا(اے اللہ! ہمیں نیک ساتھی عطا فرما) الہی آمین۔۔۔

  • @hashamtasneem3966
    @hashamtasneem3966 Před 3 lety +11

    You points are just too understandable.
    Bcz you create wisdom from knowledge somehow. 👍

  • @farihaakhtarali4827
    @farihaakhtarali4827 Před 4 měsíci +1

    May the infinite mercy and blessings of Allah be upon you Sahil. May Allah SWT accept all your efforts towards Deen. Aameen suma Aameen

  • @yasirayub1
    @yasirayub1 Před 3 lety +4

    Very Right ,,,,i Been looking for original lady since long,,,, Really hard to find the deen criteria & standards in current society,,,

  • @sammarsaghir8228
    @sammarsaghir8228 Před 3 lety +9

    We should always keep indulge ourselves in such Islamic thoughtful lectures.. Read Quran with Translation and keep in mind that we have to go back to him.. may ALLAH help all of us and bless us the right life partner Aameen

  • @sheikhfatima03
    @sheikhfatima03 Před 3 lety +24

    It's amazing as always 👌👌

  • @GamerSquad777
    @GamerSquad777 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Is video ne mujy seeda kr diya or mary sary concepts clear kr diye im done ✅

  • @kunwarnasir5007
    @kunwarnasir5007 Před 2 lety +5

    کسی کا بھی دینی ہونے کا مطلب ہے کہ وہ کتنا قرآن و حدیث کے اصولوں پر کاربند اور متمنی ہے۔ اور اس سے بھی آگے کہ، کوئی کسی جی بے اصولی پر جتنا دُکھی ہوتا ہے۔

  • @Motivational.bayans
    @Motivational.bayans Před 5 měsíci +1

    Great lecture i was confused about it. Now i know what to do. Humare dramas hume yehe criterias sikhate he love at first sight Bakra etc😂😂. I hope you all something out of it. I actually want to participate in some kind of activism can anyone give me idea or guide i am talking about Islamic activity. Actually i have very little time as i am studying as any help would be highly appreciated

  • @taibabajwa3481
    @taibabajwa3481 Před 3 lety +6

    Ap bilkul thk kah rhy sir mai khud bhtt qareeb se asy logo ko dekha jo dekhway k ly namz our bhttt hi galtia log

    • @np3247
      @np3247 Před 3 lety

      Kuch logo k sath shetani jinnat ya jadu k masle b hote h .. deendar namazi hote h pr zahiri taur pr logo ko bure ghatiya nazar ate h..may be koi azmaish ho unke sath ya saza ho ALLAH ki trf se..
      Shetan ka maqsad hota h namzi perhezgaro ko digana behkana unhe defame krna..may ALLAH bless us and guide us always.. jazakallah

  • @afsheengul4897
    @afsheengul4897 Před 3 lety +15

    Her chez ka waqt muqarar hy sab Allah pe chor do or bharosa rakho Allah bhtreen se nawaze gaa Allah se acha mango acha ghuman rakho bus

  • @worldofinformation5427
    @worldofinformation5427 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Good information 👍

  • @qisam2680
    @qisam2680 Před 2 lety +5

    In our society we check how much is the earning of a guy , how much educated he is , and for girl how beautiful is she ? How well she can cook ? 😊😁. and deen hum aysay check kartay hain Kay pardah karti hay ya nahi , nimazi hay ya nahi ….

  • @nahmad9524
    @nahmad9524 Před 3 lety +7

    Bhai you are a gem mashaAllah

  • @mujtabakazmi992
    @mujtabakazmi992 Před 3 lety +8

    Apko recently sunna start kia h, kafi acha lag rha h

  • @np3247
    @np3247 Před 3 lety +7

    AsslamualAikum.. eye opener answer.. full lecture kha milega apka is questions se related??

  • @MuslimAli135
    @MuslimAli135 Před 11 měsíci +4

    سمپل بات سب سے پہلے یہ دیکھیں
    کہ۔اسکا وقت کن کاموں میں گزر ھوتا وہ کن جگہ پر اپنا وقت لگاتا ھے زیادہ تر
    اور پیسے کہا خرچ کرتا اور کہا سے کماتا
    کیونکہ یہی 2 چیزیں ھوتی ھے انسان کی زندگی جو زیادہ اھم
    اگر انکا مقصد صرف پیسے ہی بنانا ھے تو اپنی آخرت کو چھوڑ کر وہ سب کچھ قربان کردے گا پیسے کے پیچھے
    حلال چیز ھو چائے کم ہی ھو گزارہ ھو جائے گا
    اصل میں مرد تبھی حرام کی طرف جاتا ھے جب اسے باتیں سننی پڑتی ھے پھر وہ کچھ بھی کرتا
    اس لیے جیسے بھی ھو گزر جائے گئی حرام کی طرف نہیں جانا یہ چیز جب مرد کو گھر سے سپورٹ کرے تو وہ کبھی غلط نہیں کرتا نا کچھ چھپاتا ھے

  • @qisam2680
    @qisam2680 Před 2 lety +8

    You explained complex thing in a very simple way that no one pointed out !

  • @Missbakitch
    @Missbakitch Před rokem +2

    Good man good girl only Allah can gift for you just pray for it ❤

  • @noumantariq4517
    @noumantariq4517 Před 2 lety +5

    I am 22 and doing my bechelor's degree in islamabad, i got no financial problem , I've done towbah" from like every thing and i am trying to be a Momin within all whats in my force, and truly i want to get married ,but this society, our culture is just so messed and hard to find the Acttual "Allah ki bandi"
    And sir you criticise boys that they are like that....sir aurtain ajj kal ziada status conscious .... Mra to masla nhi financials ka.....lekin jin ka shadian ni ho rhi....reasons sb ko pata

  • @Afia6098
    @Afia6098 Před 3 lety +14

    The best place to find a good deendar man or woman is at volunteer places. When one volunteers , see their personalities for atleast one year there and see if they are the right person to get married . Unless you meet the person several times it is hard to see through their personalities. Find out what kind of work they do , how are they in their education.

  • @nailayasmeen9097
    @nailayasmeen9097 Před 3 lety +12

    Dear daughters and sweet sons as well, keep believe on Allah subhana ho wataal in sha Allah you will get best Husbands and wives, only pray pray and pray all girls please read surah Rehman daily 3 times and keep strong faith on Allah subhana ho wataal within few months you will see its results and boys please read Hazrat Musaa' s duaa. Allah Kareem bless you all my dear children.

  • @tanjilanur5260
    @tanjilanur5260 Před rokem +1

    Bilkul sahi baat... MashaAllah Alhamdulillah.

  • @shamimabegum2453
    @shamimabegum2453 Před 3 lety +5

    I am ur big fan Sahil Adeem sir 😍😍🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩

  • @al-zikrstudio1968
    @al-zikrstudio1968 Před 3 lety +9

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  • @freewill8626
    @freewill8626 Před 3 lety +35

    I am waiting for an Allah-lover person who has a good morality and sensibility. Pray for me so that I can have him.

    • @Dantetheoneatpinnacle
      @Dantetheoneatpinnacle Před 3 lety +3

      Apko zaror milega ameen or mere liye bhi dua karein mujhe bohat achi biwi mile kyun ke haqeqat main bilkul sahi kaha ke namaz or ikhlaq hota hai lekin munafiq hoti hain

    • @jamiamasjidmisriwahan1202
      @jamiamasjidmisriwahan1202 Před 3 lety +3

      May Allah create unimaginable possibilities and make way for you to find a righteous , pious , Fearing , Straightforward person. I will pray for all of you. Don't be sad. Indeed Allah's help is near.💕💕💕✨✨✨✨

    • @freewill8626
      @freewill8626 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Dantetheoneatpinnacle JazaakAllah khair

    • @freewill8626
      @freewill8626 Před 3 lety +1

      @@jamiamasjidmisriwahan1202 JazaakAllah khair

    • @engrumarkhan
      @engrumarkhan Před 2 lety +3

      Allah Ko razi karo! Instead of searching for a person. Allah will open up the doors for you. May you get the rite match.
      Insan k feham or ilm bohat mehdood hai. Don’t be over smart by selecting and rejecting people. Submit your will to Allahs will.
      Sorry to say here if a man is well of to istekharay bhi Sahi atay hain. I been through this!

  • @irfankarim610
    @irfankarim610 Před 2 lety +2

    Me smjhti thi sahil sir koi star hn hahha mger em shocked 😲 he is scholar

  • @ranaraza5999
    @ranaraza5999 Před 3 lety +2

    Behtreen insan zindagi ka sathi aur saleeh naslain ALLAH SWT say Tahajud key namaz main dua mangain.

  • @asgharikhatoon4934
    @asgharikhatoon4934 Před 3 lety +11

    I dont think that boys are also facing such problem !!!! I always see that boys prefer girl's beauty job or demands list in our society .....ye problem hamare moashre me aise ghar kar gayi hai jaise koi problem hi nhi hai ....no one want to promote islamic nikah chahe wo aalimo k khandan se qu na belong karte ho .....aaj kal to grand shadiyo ka riwaj ho gaya hai.....ab to family wale v girls ko Job karne k liye force karte hai ....how can we resolve these problems

  • @arslanarshad7525
    @arslanarshad7525 Před 2 lety +1

    Ya Allah Meri Madad farmay.... Mujy Halal kaamon ki trf ly ja.Aameen

  • @kunwarnasir5007
    @kunwarnasir5007 Před 2 lety

    دین پر چلنے کے مقابل، دین کے اصولوں کو توڑنے والے کے معاملہ میں سختی بھی ایک مومن کی پہچان ہو سکتی ہے۔ نیز معاشرہ میں برائی پر دُکھی ہونا اور دین کے بیان پر مضبوط ہونا بھی

  • @mehrajbanu8327
    @mehrajbanu8327 Před 2 lety +3

    Adeem in our society only 2 types of girls they choose boys parents one if her father are rich,ofgously for Money and 2 if she is beautiful. What we should do like as girls the age of 30,34

    • @np3247
      @np3247 Před 2 lety +1

      Exactly..👍

  • @OMER3-1-3
    @OMER3-1-3 Před 3 lety +2

    Very straight forward thanks

  • @daanialahmed1030
    @daanialahmed1030 Před 2 lety +16

    I respect that but in reality n specially in Pakistan it's not possible for both genders to find righteous person. Parents are the biggest problem in our society, they have a different list to qualify a boy n a girl. Whenever i hear well settled from both sides, it triggers me so hard. I don't get what well settled is actually mean for those people. Anyways i hope n pray that everyone gets righteous people. JazakAllah hu khair

    • @ayeshaali9392
      @ayeshaali9392 Před 2 lety +1

      yes you are right...may ALLAH bless all of us with with hikmat and Hiddayet

    • @shahinkhan1118
      @shahinkhan1118 Před rokem

      Same here in India.

    • @sarah12232
      @sarah12232 Před rokem

      well settled is also important though meaning they aren't at poverty or financial loss and hence are capable of starting a new family

  • @womensclub5426
    @womensclub5426 Před 3 lety +6

    But I think people are double standard now a days girls finding rich man and boys beautiful girls may be that's why rising divorces than marriages
    Because of this There are lots of religious ladies are unmarried in Alhuda international and other madarssas also Marriage is became really a big task.

  • @nishadabanoo5228
    @nishadabanoo5228 Před 2 lety +1

    JazakAllah khair

  • @hudajamil3890
    @hudajamil3890 Před 10 měsíci

    Nice answer but the first step in finding the right person is believing it exists secondly believing that it is connected divinely to you thirdly you work on "yourself" so that your spouse will automatically feel the same if you are a true believer Allah will let you know who is your spouse and then you believe and move accordingly. That is what is meant by for believers there are believers and for non believers there are non believers.

  • @umarnazeer5301
    @umarnazeer5301 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I am 30 and still not involve in haram relationship .plz pray for me so that I can found my soul mate .

  • @Al-NABIL-ISLAM.
    @Al-NABIL-ISLAM. Před 2 lety +5

    Start searching for girls, start searching for Allah.
    Our primary objective is to please Allah

  • @nazkhan9270
    @nazkhan9270 Před 3 lety +6

    End me thek keh rhy ap itni bareeki se dekhty hain khud ko sharam hi ajati h larki hony pe

  • @scarletlady3727
    @scarletlady3727 Před 2 lety +4

    You are giving advice to the wrong people…the boy’s mother is the criminal who says “ we want a fair skinned , “ gharelu” 20 year old girl”…they don’t care if she is islamically highly educated …if a girl is dark skinned, older, divorced, poor but has an excellent deen, nobody cares and no the will marry her..but if a girl
    Is white skinned , knows fashion, cooking and is 20 year old.all mother in laws want that…this is reality of Pakistan…

    • @np3247
      @np3247 Před 2 lety +1

      True..

    • @sarah12232
      @sarah12232 Před rokem

      actually, if a man isn't capable of choosing his life partner and is under such influence of his mother... such that he can't even talk her out of this, then how will he uphold his own family and protect his wife and defend her in front of everyone including his parents?

  • @aliyaaliya1114
    @aliyaaliya1114 Před 2 lety +3

    Hahahahaha 💯%true .... 5 tym nimaaz pard li oor janatt pa li hehehehehe meko iss say ziyada hilarious kuch bhi nei lagta

  • @moneebayousaf
    @moneebayousaf Před 11 měsíci

    Most difficult question for pakistani culture .
    Kya joray asmaan pa bantay hain ? Jo paksitani boltay hain
    Kya soulmates exist krty hai? To agr hr soulmate ki shadi hoti ha to divorces kyun ho jati hain logo ki after even love marriages?
    Kya insaan hud sa choose krty hain ya Allah na jo choose kya wohi insaan krta ha choose
    Qader ma insaan ki choices ka role kya hay?

  • @MuhammadKhan-uo3km
    @MuhammadKhan-uo3km Před 2 lety +5

    Sir, in your view, who is better:
    -a girl who give full attention to her family , protect herself from namahram eyes, fully comply with Deen commandments in regards to her duties towards her husband, do not leave home without a mahram and would seek husband permission
    Or , a girl who is religious, hijabi but prefer to be going out for anything even alone, just want to be involved in any social causes but neglect her home, family.
    Unfortunately,99.9 % of so-called religious girls fall in 2nd category.

    • @rmimalik
      @rmimalik Před 2 lety +2

      What is wrong with going out? Where does Islam say a woman cannot go out ?

    • @rmimalik
      @rmimalik Před 2 lety +2

      Looks like you think a wife job is just cooking, cleaning and looking after her husband need mayb it be at the cost of ignoring her own needs

    • @MuhammadKhan-uo3km
      @MuhammadKhan-uo3km Před 2 lety +2

      @@rmimalik that's again your assumption, I did not say it. As much as its wife duty to take care of her husband needs, a husband is equally or even more liable to fulfill the needs of his spouse.
      The teachings of our Deen are very clear on this topic but then it depends on level of Emaan of each person to follow.

    • @shaziaishtiaq3117
      @shaziaishtiaq3117 Před 2 lety

      You have raised a good point....

  • @asmasahfiq3486
    @asmasahfiq3486 Před 2 lety +6

    Our biggest problem is show off (dikhawa) .nama ka ,eman ka, .

  • @awwwwan
    @awwwwan Před 2 lety +5

    7:17 Allah waliya CZcams k comments mein nahi milain gayi 😜

  • @xtylishleo2221
    @xtylishleo2221 Před 3 lety +6

    100%sahi

    • @jamiamasjidmisriwahan1202
      @jamiamasjidmisriwahan1202 Před 3 lety +2

      May Allah create unimaginable possibilities and make way for you to find a righteous , pious , Fearing , Straightforward person. I will pray for all of you. Don't be sad. Indeed Allah's help is near.💕💕💕✨✨✨✨

  • @ubaidshaikh1837
    @ubaidshaikh1837 Před 3 lety +2

    But we should see that the man/women prays 5 times a day Or not....... It's very important....

  • @ammaraali8204
    @ammaraali8204 Před 2 lety +2

    Please pray for me Allah pk mujhy naik or acha life partner Ata kry

  • @trusttalklovetarot
    @trusttalklovetarot Před 4 měsíci

    For right spouse
    ALLAHUMA YASIRLI JALEESAN SALIHAN اللهم يسرلى جليسا صا لحا

  • @user-rm1wx9cn7e
    @user-rm1wx9cn7e Před 2 lety +2

    i think even for marriage, you can choose a person who is not very religious, it will be more reward to bring him or her on the righteous path if you are a determined Muslim yourself! bacho ki maa see ziada important hai k as biwi nibhy gi k nahi, agr biwi achi hogi to maa b achi bany gi, but aisa ni ho skta k biwi achi an bany but maa achi ban jaye aur ghar ma skoon ho! so I disagree with your opinion here. jitna b koshish kr lo insan ka sahi pta tb chlat hai jb saath rehty hain, so is fikr ma nahi prna chahye k ye apke ikhtiar ma hai sahi insan choose krna!

  • @phyromax2402
    @phyromax2402 Před 2 lety +1

    Alhamdulillah im reading Islam and hope ill get a islamic wife inshallah

  • @Islamwisehappy
    @Islamwisehappy Před 2 lety +1

    Sahil Sahab, 5 times prayer/Namaz are prescribed by Allah SWT.
    Please explain yourself properly. We can't say we might be munafiq/hypocrite too. Hazrat Umar RA use to fear that his name might be on hypocrite list
    Definitely you create awareness about not to be arrogant about being namazi but if the person is praying 5 daily prayers at least he is obeying and bowing down to his CREATOR and slowly namaz stops you from all bad stuff. So you never know. But we can't criticize the person who do 5 daily prayers and doubt him/her. I personally met two non-praying people who criticise the people who pray and they say the same thing that 5 times namazi are majority bad people. So please explain yourself/Islamic concepts properly. Its a great responsibility you are having. Thanks I like your passion and like you I am also a student of Maulana Maududi.

  • @shehzadasif7177
    @shehzadasif7177 Před 2 lety +1

    Salaam, can any one provide the reference for the hadith, where Sahid Adeem quots "Allah will be surprised" naozibillah. ???

  • @Abdul_kk7
    @Abdul_kk7 Před 4 měsíci

    I have been thinking a lot about this (Really so much) I think this is very important for a muslim boy to know @Sahil Adeem We can ask questions from a girl about Deen. Like we can do a psychological game, We can ask her questions to trigger and and check the level of Deen she has. If she is a deendar khatoon she will respond with strong arguments and aggression (probably) otherwise she will agree with us in everything like the liberal scholars do with the west.
    e.g. Ask her point of view about parda. Why is she doing it? it is actually an old tradition and mostly the women of time of Prophet SAW and khulfa e rashidoon does this, in this modern era where we have to engage with the society so much in so many ways, I don't think a women should have a strong parda from non mahram. she can just do hijab and do everything like normal girls do.
    Then see her response.
    (Sahil bhai if there is way I can share one or two other ways with you as well that we can do this without violating the boundaries of Allah swt.)

  • @user-rm1wx9cn7e
    @user-rm1wx9cn7e Před 2 lety +15

    JUST BE ON THE RIGHT PATH YOURSELF! nothing else matters, FOR MOMIN EVERY SITUATION IS WIN WIN SITUATION, YOU DONT HAVE TO OVERCONCERNED ABOUT MARRIAGE ETC SINCE, RATHER HAVE FAITH AND BE THANKFUL IN EVERY SITUATION. IT WILL REWARD YOU MORE THAN A NAIK WIFE OR NAIK HUSBAND. WE HAVE EXAMPLES OF PROPHET LOOT (A.S), PROPHET NOAH ( A.S ), HAZRAT ASIA (RAZIALLAHANHU).

    • @MohammadAli-rf4kn
      @MohammadAli-rf4kn Před rokem

      Yes i think brain can't solve these issues only Allah can make a path for us if we are obedient to Him

  • @farihaakhtarali4827
    @farihaakhtarali4827 Před 4 měsíci

    May Allah SWT always bless you Sahil.

  • @AyeshaKhan-mq9ev
    @AyeshaKhan-mq9ev Před 5 měsíci

    Absolutely right sir thank you 🌚👏

  • @waqarrumis7316
    @waqarrumis7316 Před 3 lety +5

    Aj k time me aurt b lalchi h or mard b,apki baty sun ly gy wa wa b krdy gy but money he haqeqt h unk mind me .

  • @mistrjatoi4426
    @mistrjatoi4426 Před 2 lety +1

    Well explained man 🥰

  • @AliSherBandesha
    @AliSherBandesha Před 3 měsíci +1

    💗The Gem !!

  • @nosheennayyer2869
    @nosheennayyer2869 Před 2 lety +6

    Mera point of view thodha different hai Jo larkay Allah KY Deen ko follow kartay Hain , well-off Hain achay educated Hain har Haram cheez sy dur Hain un larkon ko chahiye ek normal Larki Yani Jo full Deen per nhi chal rahi choti umer ki hai un sy Shaadi karhain takay aap apna knowledge spread karhain us Larki ko bhi sikhain na KY aap phely sy hi ek almaha talash karhain phir tu aap ki dawat of Islam limited hogi ek perfect + imperfect = perfect

    • @fareehabutt1128
      @fareehabutt1128 Před 2 lety +1

      Aisa Nahi Hota sister is Tarah to hum apni sari life ko hi stake par laga de ge agar shadi k baad bhi wo ap ki tabligh se change na ho to phir !!

    • @sarah12232
      @sarah12232 Před rokem

      not your job to raise an adult, what you are describing is adoption

    • @sarah12232
      @sarah12232 Před rokem

      you should seek to raise your children instead, hence find a good fellow parent for them

  • @Maahi_khaan
    @Maahi_khaan Před 2 lety +3

    ye bat tou quran pak may b hy k paak mardon ko pak orten or pak orton ko pak mard milengy... tou sab sy pehly apna kirdar paak rakhen khud ko is qabil rakhen k Allah ap k naseeb may paak mard ya paak orat he rakhy...Allah py b bharosa karen k agr apka kirdar pak hy tou ap k hissy may b paak life partner aega..

    • @SlaveOfTheMostCompassionate
      @SlaveOfTheMostCompassionate Před 5 měsíci

      Use pak nhi use naik kehte English maiin pious kehte hain hain pak sirf ALLAH Azzawajal ki zaat hai

  • @majharulislam..111
    @majharulislam..111 Před rokem

    Sir i like ur words and hairstyle too..

  • @spiritualdairy5449
    @spiritualdairy5449 Před rokem +2

    Mashallah..... ❤

  • @Nooor.11
    @Nooor.11 Před 2 lety +4

    Bunda acha kaha say milyga ,time has passed a lot 😑

  • @zobiakanwal
    @zobiakanwal Před 3 lety +3

    Very nice 👍

  • @nosheenahmed3731
    @nosheenahmed3731 Před rokem

    I am hopeful that Allah will help me to find such a person.

  • @hassaanbutt1040
    @hassaanbutt1040 Před 2 lety +2

    sorry to say we are a society of hypocrites, rather than purifying ourselves we seek for the pure deendar partner and most of the times we fail. hamein chahye hum Apnay ap ko paak kary aur Allah par tawakal kar ky effort kary deendar partner dhondany ki. there would be two results in my opinion; either you end up finding a deendar partner or you make them deendar after marriage. Allah hum sab ko aesa banaye jesa usay pasand aye aur we always do things to satisfy Allah, Ameen. keep trying brothers and sister but consistently koshish zaya nahi jaye ghi, In shaa Allah

    • @sidraniaz6260
      @sidraniaz6260 Před rokem

      Exactly

    • @sidraniaz6260
      @sidraniaz6260 Před rokem

      @Hassan Butt I wish i could find a person with same mentality as you said,as its what i practise

  • @shehbanorafiq3620
    @shehbanorafiq3620 Před 2 lety

    Very well said brother 👏

  • @sumibegum9051
    @sumibegum9051 Před rokem +1

    Allah has better plan …😊 in sha Allah everything will be ok 😊😇

  • @tausiyakhizar9750
    @tausiyakhizar9750 Před 3 lety +2

    Fantastic 💯👍🏻👌

  • @user-yl9lu3wd8t
    @user-yl9lu3wd8t Před 5 měsíci

    Assalamualykum warehmatula wabarakathu masha Allah subanAllah jazak Allah khairan kasira Allah bless you and your parents and family ❤esy soch wali ensaan to kab ke guzar gy😢😢ab to 3rd world War ke bad hi new soch waly log peda hon gy lagta hy esa 😢😢Allah hum sab ko hidayat dy ameen

  • @jamilaashraf1726
    @jamilaashraf1726 Před 3 lety +3

    Br, H, Adeem A a,,,please I am requesting for Ref…..for Hadhees you quoted about “ Angles pulling people with chains in to Jannah “

    • @farzanatutul616
      @farzanatutul616 Před 3 lety

      “Sahih Bukhari (vol. 4, book 52, Hadith: 254) has a Hadith saying that,. “Allah wonders at those people who will enter Paradise in chains.”

    • @ayk6922
      @ayk6922 Před 3 lety

      Mujhe sahi se samjhyn yeh kya bat hai???

  • @mehbobhassan2649
    @mehbobhassan2649 Před 2 lety

    Assalamualaikum aj k dor m jis ka hisa ma b hu jahn larki ne .M.A islamiat kia but trjuma NAHI prha Quran ka . R rishty waly pochty han M.A islamiat kia to trjuma sunao Quran ka and jb usko NAHI ata to usy reject kr dia jta bcoz .M.A kia islamiat m trjuma q NAHI kia .

  • @comingsoon1412
    @comingsoon1412 Před 2 lety

    Thanks sir.

  • @rizkamalikhan1435
    @rizkamalikhan1435 Před 2 lety

    Sahil Allah sy doa ha k aap jaysa koi mil jaye dunya ma b or aakhrat ma b doa krein. Plz

  • @ahmadarif5666
    @ahmadarif5666 Před 2 lety

    please share the link to the complete video, thanks.

  • @muhammadadilkhan640
    @muhammadadilkhan640 Před 3 lety +7

    I would like to share this video with my friends but I cannot find any hadith in which it is mentioned that angels will take people to Jannah by chains. Can anyone please give me the details. Jazak Allah

    • @areejshahid7182
      @areejshahid7182 Před 3 lety +4

      Sahih Bukhari (vol. 4, book 52, Hadith: 254) has a Hadith saying that,
      “Allah wonders at those people who will enter Paradise in chains.”
      - Abu Dawud’s version (Kitab al Jihad, Hadith: 2672) says:
      Our Lord Most High is charmed with people who will be led to Paradise in chains.

    • @np3247
      @np3247 Před 3 lety

      @@areejshahid7182 asslamualaikum sir..can you plz answer my question in light of islam n hadith..?
      1)life partener for marriage is predestined??
      Plz do rply..jazakallah

    • @areejshahid7182
      @areejshahid7182 Před 3 lety +2

      @@np3247 life partner comes under rizq and yes that is written but still one should take measures to become a better person as in Surah Nur Allah promised that good men/women are for good men/women. So trust that and work on becoming a better person and try to approach people through halal means.

    • @np3247
      @np3247 Před 3 lety

      @@areejshahid7182 ok..then why there is delay in marriage ? And in most of cases parents are not willing to let their son or daughter marry at right age..
      ""How one can identify that this person is the one which is predestined""????

    • @muhammadadilkhan640
      @muhammadadilkhan640 Před 3 lety

      @@areejshahid7182 Thank you.

  • @131maryumabid4
    @131maryumabid4 Před 5 měsíci

    The last word and sentence got me .... Aurat ko bhi zibah karny k liye hi dekhty hain , yeh auqat ha aurat ki MUSALMAN NUMA GHER MUSLIM K SAMNAY ! ....
    This is true like hell , a guy recently rejected me just because I started wearing hijab. His family and parents were agreed for us , but the guy refused only because of the reason that I wear hijab and I must be some conservative girl 🤦 I mean what kind of guys this world is manufacturing ???? Lol

  • @najmohammad6106
    @najmohammad6106 Před 4 měsíci

    The journey has begun.

  • @maliksaadi6671
    @maliksaadi6671 Před 2 lety +1

    i m already married.....i wish i listen this before...

  • @safirkhan5411
    @safirkhan5411 Před 2 lety

    good message

  • @imtiazhussain5875
    @imtiazhussain5875 Před 2 lety

    لڑکا اور لڑکی کو دیکھیں کہ وہ کس مقصد کے تحت زندگی کو جی رہا ہے۔
    جو مقاصد ہوں گے وہی عمل سے ظاہر ہو رہا ہوگا۔
    مسلم لڑکا لڑکی کا مقصد دین کی اقامت کے سوا کچھ بھی نہیں ہو سکتا ۔
    اب جو اس مقصد کے ساتھ مخلص ہو، متحرک ہو، بس ان سے شادیاں کریں۔

  • @teachingenglish7810
    @teachingenglish7810 Před 2 lety

    Love Allah and Allah will love u and give the best.

  • @user-wp5tc3dq4i
    @user-wp5tc3dq4i Před 4 měsíci

    Well said sir ❤

  • @rukaiyamahmood9550
    @rukaiyamahmood9550 Před 3 lety +2

    Is there any narration that highlights this issue of not marrying outside sect or should we consider this in todays world??

    • @shaziaishtiaq3117
      @shaziaishtiaq3117 Před 2 lety

      No, nothing like that ..at least as far as I have studied...
      But
      Just check his/her aqeedah , it can never be compromised

  • @mirzasabatbaig2047
    @mirzasabatbaig2047 Před 2 lety

    sir g u r right saying