This is a vent video, meaning this happened and affected me. (SH in this video was supposed to mean “sexual harassment”) It had to do with a friend who became my significant other, and then, like a switch, his demeanor changed. This happened last month, and I finally told him to back off from me for a while. And the worst part is, I knew him for a long time and cared/loved for him, platonically and more. But it's over, and I needed to get the last of it out now. Please be safe, my munchkins.☆☆☆ A bit of background: I told him that I didn't want to send photos since I didn't want to jeopardize my digital footprint (just trying to bluff it), and he during ask me until I sent a slightly suggestive edit about I don't know kissing or some junk (It was supposed to be sweet). He said, “Omg, Yes! Uhm, also, I have a question,” then asked me for pictures at 0:15 . I told him my bluff again and how we were still children, and he said he wasn't, even though we were both under 18, so we were still minors or teenagers. Then he kept begging me till I said his name and not a nickname in a stern manner. I got fed up when he asked me a few days later for a picture *again* and I texted him that we were done. He kept apologizing and saying it was a joke. But for me, you have to say the “joke” and immediately start saying, “Just kidding, jk, I would never,” and don't even bring it up again. (I've had a few male friends like that, and we were chill) I honestly don't know why I said yes to dating him; I guess I felt bad if I said no and then I said yes. I shouldn't have after everything that happened only a few months before, and right now, I want to say sorry to him. I'm stopping myself as much as it hurts. This video discusses how he manipulated my puppy-like love into making me like his puppet (hence the leash 0:24 ), where I would wish to talk to him all the time. The handprints 0:22 are portrayals of what he *in detail* wanted to do to me.☆☆☆
I actually had a experience like This But is was with two of my childhood friends and more explicit And is really sucks. Edit: Im not friends with them but they are still trying to be friends with me
Dude, you rock know that. An angel, I’m sorry that happened, how are doing now? Are you alright? (Would that be rude to ask?) Either way, I hope you’re doing well now, you did good denying, you’re allowed to have your own consent into that! I love your art style too, you’re also amazing. Never serve yourself for less, and for you, and everyone who will see this. You’re important, loved, respected. ✨🌹🌸
@@R1NS7NIt's alright, you can ask. I'm doing a lot better now. He's distant but apologizes every time he has the chance. (I just say, “It's okay I promise”) but I'm one to forgive but not forget. So I forgive him.☆☆☆
It always hurts when someone close to you breaks your boundaries. I read your comments and think you did good. Remember that you dont have to keep anyone in your life who treats you wrong.
I love the detail of the puppy/dog-like features and some blush being purple instead of pink or blue, and the hearts in the eyeballs only being visible when the blue person is visible/implied. It really gives the detail of the fact that the feeling really just isn’t yours. It’s displayed by you, but forced upon or caused by someone else’s behaviours, therefore being a mix that’s still separate from the victim. Blue+pink= purple. I hope you’re doing better. This is an AMAZINGLY well made animation and it portrays something serious you’ve gone through. I hope you’re having a safe recovery and remember it’s going to be okay. ❤
I LOVE YOU FOR THIS!!! You are the first who’s noticed this, and you’re correct! It’s an implied emotion onto her to make it “feel right.” the only parts that weren’t her feelings were the collar/leash and implied actions. The puppy features are my favorite because it shows she gets “excited” to see him, even if it was all just behavior forced on her. Thank you for noticing! ^^ ☆☆☆
it's not your fault if you were groomed, most people who ask this kind of thing are manipulative and pretend to be friends with you, I myself having experienced this, your vent reminded me of my situation a bit similar and it's horrible to know that there are many people like that, I'm really sorry for you I hope you get better, take care of yourself
Im so sorry. This happened to me, not once, but twice by the same person. He wouldn't back off and it felt like I couldn't escqpe. At one point he tried to assault me then my best friend stepped in. He's the best.
I'm so sorru that this happened you shouldn't ever have to experience this, I hope you're able to get away from him and tell an adult he shouldn't be able to get away with treating you so poorly and making you uncomfortable. I hope you're doing better 🫂
Im sorry that you have to go through that, I hope you move on and forget those horrible memories..I know it’s hard to push these type of people away especially when you’re a people pleaser. I hope you heal ml🫶
I hope you're doing well now, this video is really relatable because a lot of people get groomed like that and they just stay quiet... that kind of situation is really akward and traumatic, its not your fault!!
It's okay, you're not alone girl. I'm terribly sorry for you. I need you to know that it's never victim faults, it's the predators. I'm great that you actually back off him, you really don't deserve any of that, you deserve better than him. I'm glad that you talk this soon as possible, I'm a victim of online s/a and I actually didn't told it until this year (I was 9 and she's possibly 16+ cuz she were told me that she's in Highschool). I'm really wish that you're doing alright, again, you're not alone and you never be. It's never your fault, so please don't blame your self, you deserve better than that :) ❤. Dunno if this made you feel better, sorry if this made you worse, my apologies...
I can believe there is something wrong with that man. I hope you’re okay now and I read your comment, try not to say sorry as much as it hurts. Not to say sorry is the right thing to do. I really do hope you’re okay now.
None of this is your fault. It’s a persons fault. They went out of their way just to make you do things you didn’t want to and that’s not okay. Shame on them. I’m glad you’re spreading more messages like this around so people can be aware of things like this happening. You’re a very strong person, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. ❤
Only around 60 people comforting you? Disappointing, but are you doing alright? (ignore the stupid hate comments, they don’t know how it feels to be the victim 😒) Edit: if this becomes a trend, I swear i’m gonna scream and report that video
Yes, I'm doing much better, thank you for asking me. I've surrounded myself with people who are caring for me, and I have a calm acquaintance with them now. (He's a friend through a friend so I can't really stop talking with him but things are distant now) ☆☆☆
This world is now.. Full of groomers,SH, and others.. I hate people.. This world is DISGUSTING.. i hope you're feeling okay.. :) !! (Sorry if i said something wrong while writing/making this comment:) )
i’m so sorry this happened to you…COCSA should never be tolerated. don’t think that it is your fault because it isn’t. hope you get to able to stay away from that person and live a better life. 🤍
@@minimainecoon23 THAT MOTHER FUCKER!! I SWEAR IF HE DOES THAT AGAIN YOU BETTER SEND ME HIS NUMBER, respectfully, I just wanna make sure you’re okay, please talk to me if you need I’m always gonna be here for you ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
@@minimainecoon23 I’m so sorry that happened if he ever does anything and I mean ANYTHING like that again please tell me, give me his number, if you don’t wanna say you don’t have to but did you? (Send any pics)
@@MissCuteCraft No, I told him that I didn't want to send photos since I didn't want to jeopardize my digital footprint (just trying to bluff it) and he during ask me until I sent a slightly suggestive edit about I don't know kissing or some junk (It was supposed to be sweet). He said, “Omg, Yes! Uhm, also, I have a question,” then asked me for pictures. I told him my bluff again and how we were still children, and he said he wasn't, even though we were both under 18, so we were still minors or teenagers. Then he kept begging me till I said his name and not a nickname in a stern manner. I got fed up when he asked me a few days later for a picture *again* and I texted him that we were done. He kept apologizing and saying it was a joke. But for me, you have to say the “joke” and immediately start saying, “Just kidding, jk, I would never,” and don't even bring it up again. (I've had a few male friends like that, and we were chill) I honestly don't know why I said yes to dating him; I guess I felt bad if I said no and then I said yes. I shouldn't have after everything that happened only a few months before, and right now, I want to say sorry to him. I'm stopping myself as much as it hurts.
@@minimainecoon23 I’m really proud of you, you did a good thing by ending it off because he was (insert some things) I hope you can find someone better because you deserve nothing but the best, always here for you gurk ❤️🩹❤️🩹
Oop- you probably should. Depending on if they make you feel like that especially… but please don't think it will happen to you, just do your best to stay safe and stay away from people who seem to give off vibes like this ☆☆☆
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This is a vent video, meaning this happened and affected me. (SH in this video was supposed to mean “sexual harassment”) It had to do with a friend who became my significant other, and then, like a switch, his demeanor changed.
This happened last month, and I finally told him to back off from me for a while. And the worst part is, I knew him for a long time and cared/loved for him, platonically and more. But it's over, and I needed to get the last of it out now. Please be safe, my munchkins.☆☆☆
A bit of background: I told him that I didn't want to send photos since I didn't want to jeopardize my digital footprint (just trying to bluff it), and he during ask me until I sent a slightly suggestive edit about I don't know kissing or some junk (It was supposed to be sweet). He said, “Omg, Yes! Uhm, also, I have a question,” then asked me for pictures at 0:15 . I told him my bluff again and how we were still children, and he said he wasn't, even though we were both under 18, so we were still minors or teenagers. Then he kept begging me till I said his name and not a nickname in a stern manner.
I got fed up when he asked me a few days later for a picture *again* and I texted him that we were done. He kept apologizing and saying it was a joke. But for me, you have to say the “joke” and immediately start saying, “Just kidding, jk, I would never,” and don't even bring it up again. (I've had a few male friends like that, and we were chill)
I honestly don't know why I said yes to dating him; I guess I felt bad if I said no and then I said yes. I shouldn't have after everything that happened only a few months before, and right now, I want to say sorry to him. I'm stopping myself as much as it hurts.
This video discusses how he manipulated my puppy-like love into making me like his puppet (hence the leash 0:24 ), where I would wish to talk to him all the time. The handprints 0:22 are portrayals of what he *in detail* wanted to do to me.☆☆☆
it sucks to know that people you think you trust can hurt you like this, I almost don’t wanna believe it. I hope you recover ❤
In my language, people usually say "There are gaps in the teeth for such jokes" which means "joke so hurtful that I want to punch you in face"
I actually had a experience like This
But is was with two of my childhood friends and more explicit
And is really sucks.
Edit: Im not friends with them but they are still trying to be friends with me
Dude, you rock know that. An angel, I’m sorry that happened, how are doing now? Are you alright? (Would that be rude to ask?) Either way, I hope you’re doing well now, you did good denying, you’re allowed to have your own consent into that! I love your art style too, you’re also amazing. Never serve yourself for less, and for you, and everyone who will see this. You’re important, loved, respected. ✨🌹🌸
@@R1NS7NIt's alright, you can ask. I'm doing a lot better now. He's distant but apologizes every time he has the chance. (I just say, “It's okay I promise”) but I'm one to forgive but not forget. So I forgive him.☆☆☆
It always hurts when someone close to you breaks your boundaries. I read your comments and think you did good. Remember that you dont have to keep anyone in your life who treats you wrong.
I love the detail of the puppy/dog-like features and some blush being purple instead of pink or blue, and the hearts in the eyeballs only being visible when the blue person is visible/implied.
It really gives the detail of the fact that the feeling really just isn’t yours. It’s displayed by you, but forced upon or caused by someone else’s behaviours, therefore being a mix that’s still separate from the victim.
Blue+pink= purple.
I hope you’re doing better. This is an AMAZINGLY well made animation and it portrays something serious you’ve gone through.
I hope you’re having a safe recovery and remember it’s going to be okay.
❤
I LOVE YOU FOR THIS!!! You are the first who’s noticed this, and you’re correct! It’s an implied emotion onto her to make it “feel right.” the only parts that weren’t her feelings were the collar/leash and implied actions. The puppy features are my favorite because it shows she gets “excited” to see him, even if it was all just behavior forced on her. Thank you for noticing! ^^ ☆☆☆
it's not your fault if you were groomed, most people who ask this kind of thing are manipulative and pretend to be friends with you, I myself having experienced this, your vent reminded me of my situation a bit similar and it's horrible to know that there are many people like that, I'm really sorry for you I hope you get better, take care of yourself
(Sorry if my English is too literary, I use a translator :])
thanks a lot for mentioning that it’s not the victim’s fault. victims are often brainwashed into thinking that they are the problem.
Im so sorry. This happened to me, not once, but twice by the same person. He wouldn't back off and it felt like I couldn't escqpe. At one point he tried to assault me then my best friend stepped in. He's the best.
I'm so sorru that this happened you shouldn't ever have to experience this, I hope you're able to get away from him and tell an adult he shouldn't be able to get away with treating you so poorly and making you uncomfortable. I hope you're doing better 🫂
Im sorry that you have to go through that, I hope you move on and forget those horrible memories..I know it’s hard to push these type of people away especially when you’re a people pleaser. I hope you heal ml🫶
I hope you're doing well now, this video is really relatable because a lot of people get groomed like that and they just stay quiet... that kind of situation is really akward and traumatic, its not your fault!!
i hope ur okay now! people who r close to u r either moldy bread or good bread as i like to call it. pls b safe as well >
Omg i hope you are feeling better. im so sorry for what happened to you there's the good people and the bad people you didn't deserve that❤
It's okay, you're not alone girl. I'm terribly sorry for you. I need you to know that it's never victim faults, it's the predators. I'm great that you actually back off him, you really don't deserve any of that, you deserve better than him. I'm glad that you talk this soon as possible, I'm a victim of online s/a and I actually didn't told it until this year (I was 9 and she's possibly 16+ cuz she were told me that she's in Highschool).
I'm really wish that you're doing alright, again, you're not alone and you never be. It's never your fault, so please don't blame your self, you deserve better than that :) ❤.
Dunno if this made you feel better, sorry if this made you worse, my apologies...
Tv girl moment?
Lol, I suppose. Since the colors are blue and pink
I've literally been through grooming..
i hope u okay rn!!
hay im sorry this happened/is happening. you did a good job telling him you both are under 18'n stuff.
I’ll pray for u ❤
I’m sorry for you I hope you’re feeling better :((
Im not the best at comforting people but i hope you're doing well! 💖
I hope your okay
I can believe there is something wrong with that man. I hope you’re okay now and I read your comment, try not to say sorry as much as it hurts. Not to say sorry is the right thing to do. I really do hope you’re okay now.
None of this is your fault. It’s a persons fault. They went out of their way just to make you do things you didn’t want to and that’s not okay. Shame on them. I’m glad you’re spreading more messages like this around so people can be aware of things like this happening. You’re a very strong person, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. ❤
somthing similar like this happned to me when i was 14 . . :[ im so sorry u had to go through that
hope ur doing ok now 🩷
How sad that someone you trust comes out to be gross person you will find someone better for sure
You did the rigth thing dumping his @$$ you should also tell you're other friends and family members and warn them about him
Hope you’re doing okay now :(
Your friend is a horrible person, I’m so sorry this happened to you!
Only around 60 people comforting you? Disappointing, but are you doing alright? (ignore the stupid hate comments, they don’t know how it feels to be the victim 😒)
Edit: if this becomes a trend, I swear i’m gonna scream and report that video
Yes, I'm doing much better, thank you for asking me. I've surrounded myself with people who are caring for me, and I have a calm acquaintance with them now. (He's a friend through a friend so I can't really stop talking with him but things are distant now) ☆☆☆
@@minimainecoon23 glad your doing alright! 👍
No matter what your feeling with the other person is, sexting is always back. I hope you are feeling better.
This world is now.. Full of groomers,SH, and others.. I hate people.. This world is DISGUSTING.. i hope you're feeling okay.. :) !! (Sorry if i said something wrong while writing/making this comment:) )
i’m so sorry this happened to you…COCSA should never be tolerated. don’t think that it is your fault because it isn’t. hope you get to able to stay away from that person and live a better life. 🤍
Are you ok?
Yes, I am. Do not worry ☆☆☆
thought this was sh as in self harm be careful with the way u trigger
My apologies, I was going for “Sexual Harassment” that's why. I had a feeling someone would bring it up for being wrong so my apologies ^^ ☆☆☆
Wait did somethin like this actually happen? (If you feel comfortable sharing ofc)
Yes, it did. I'll explain a bit on it rn. ☆☆☆
@@minimainecoon23 THAT MOTHER FUCKER!! I SWEAR IF HE DOES THAT AGAIN YOU BETTER SEND ME HIS NUMBER, respectfully, I just wanna make sure you’re okay, please talk to me if you need I’m always gonna be here for you ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
@@minimainecoon23 I’m so sorry that happened if he ever does anything and I mean ANYTHING like that again please tell me, give me his number, if you don’t wanna say you don’t have to but did you? (Send any pics)
@@MissCuteCraft No, I told him that I didn't want to send photos since I didn't want to jeopardize my digital footprint (just trying to bluff it) and he during ask me until I sent a slightly suggestive edit about I don't know kissing or some junk (It was supposed to be sweet). He said, “Omg, Yes! Uhm, also, I have a question,” then asked me for pictures. I told him my bluff again and how we were still children, and he said he wasn't, even though we were both under 18, so we were still minors or teenagers. Then he kept begging me till I said his name and not a nickname in a stern manner.
I got fed up when he asked me a few days later for a picture *again* and I texted him that we were done. He kept apologizing and saying it was a joke. But for me, you have to say the “joke” and immediately start saying, “Just kidding, jk, I would never,” and don't even bring it up again. (I've had a few male friends like that, and we were chill)
I honestly don't know why I said yes to dating him; I guess I felt bad if I said no and then I said yes. I shouldn't have after everything that happened only a few months before, and right now, I want to say sorry to him. I'm stopping myself as much as it hurts.
@@minimainecoon23 I’m really proud of you, you did a good thing by ending it off because he was (insert some things) I hope you can find someone better because you deserve nothing but the best, always here for you gurk ❤️🩹❤️🩹
I should probs stop watching these vids 😭, they are destroying and trust I have and making me think everyones out to hurt/get me.
Oop- you probably should. Depending on if they make you feel like that especially… but please don't think it will happen to you, just do your best to stay safe and stay away from people who seem to give off vibes like this ☆☆☆
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Shut up
Shut up?? Imagine if you went through that
You shut up 🫵
This person has no right to be quiet
@@catzzsI did went through something like that.
@@gurogerowhen why tell them to shut up ?