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  • @waltgaffert2554
    @waltgaffert2554 Pƙed rokem +49

    I have moved to LA three times in the last 40 years. It has changed so much! Rents are outlandish and the homelessness is crazy!

    • @guitarmore
      @guitarmore Pƙed rokem +21

      Yeah, having lived in LA for decades and watched it devolve from a beautiful city and state to a textbook lesson in dysfunction. IMO LA's glory days are gone. The working musicians I know have all moved to Nashville.

    • @waltgaffert2554
      @waltgaffert2554 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@guitarmore I have lived in Nashville a couple of times as well.. I played several sets a day at the Turf, the Wagon Wheel and three doors down on Broadway, Kenny Chesney was doing the same thing at the time. Last time I stayed there was 2012 and it was not nearly as easy to get in the door anywhere. That kind of killed the buzz for me.

  • @terrymcintoshmusic
    @terrymcintoshmusic Pƙed rokem +45

    Mary, you are one of the few CZcamsrs that I can listen to all day. Your voice is soothing, your production is impeccable, and your delivery is eloquent. No matter where you’re located, I hope you continue this CZcams journey.

  • @michaelacostantini
    @michaelacostantini Pƙed rokem +86

    I grew up in Los Angeles. It's a very different city now. In the early 2000s I was in a band called Cynic Guru. We had the head A&R of Atlantic managing us. Our lead singer played violin and we had a mix of complicated and simple songs. It was unique to say the least. We played the old sunset strip. We had residencies at an old club called the Coconut Teaser (now gone) and the Roxy and the Viper Room and the Whiskey. In fact, I used to see Lemmy from Motorhead drinking his jack and coke in the bar at the Rainbow Room after we finished our set. We were extremely close to getting a "demo deal" which was what they were referred to as at the time. But at that same time, Napster came out and the record companies started not signing any demo deals due to the uncertain nature of what these new streaming services would bring. Also, the sunset strip was winding down and a lot of the scene moved south to Orange County. Due to fear of Napster, the record labels started to only sign indie artists that were signed on a smaller indie labels but moving 200, 000 to 300,000 units (cds at the time). These were bands including No Doubt. Our singer got frustrated and got offered second chair violin in the Icelandic Symphony which is an amazing job. So he took it and he continued the band in Iceland where, believe it or not, they did really well. They played huge venues. They never fully took off but they did a lot of touring. The 2000s were a very shifting time in music. I ended up composing music for television and video games which I had actually been doing since 1999, but I got much more work as the years moved on. I have my own studio, and the funny thing is, most of my clients are from overseas including Japan. LA is definitely great for musician gigs but it is still a very expensive place to live. Great video! Just thought I'd share my story in LA, but from the perspective of being from LA.

    • @LD10000
      @LD10000 Pƙed rokem +2

      ahhh the teaser...

    • @ckreon
      @ckreon Pƙed rokem +5

      No Doubt was signed to Interscope in 1990 by the man himself, Jimmy Iovine. They got sublicensed to Trauma Records in 1993, which caused issues in 1995 after "Tragic Kingdom" was released and blew up (and of course Interscope suddenly wanted them exclusively again).
      No Doubt was never a band coming up on an indie label, they were signed to a major from the start (similar to Paramore and other groups that got put through "the grind circuit" during their early years). The majors started to like handing off their new artists to indie-esque labels because it reduced costs and created more fan loyalty, giving the perception that the band was coming up from more "organic" roots, and helped forge the artist's skillset. It was also easier to shrug them off if they failed to meet expectations, and those who did rise above the grind and "break out" would just get pulled back into their initial deal.
      There was also a massive push for signing bands in the late 90's/early 2000's, depending on the area you were in, because a new scene of music was exploding across the US and everybody wanted a piece of it. While the labels weren't sure what to do with digital distribution, that didn't stop them from wanting to own anything that had potential for success. They had lawyers to deal with the piracy. A&R dudes were literally hanging out in specific venues throwing deals at any band playing shows. It's actually what pushed what we now call the "emo rock" scene into the commercial stronghold. MCR, The Used, Story of the Year, Senses Fail, Saosin, etc., were all a part of that weird time.

    • @CreativeMindsAudio
      @CreativeMindsAudio Pƙed rokem +2

      Cool story/journey! I’d say that LA is truly the town where people who do stuff to support film will succeed. Compose for film, sound design, post production, music to target sync placements, etc will do well. The more traditional original music is a lot harder to make ends meet here now.

    • @michaelacostantini
      @michaelacostantini Pƙed rokem +1

      @@ckreon Yeah, I used a bad example in No Doubt. My point was they recommended us to sign with a smaller label to move some units as a way to get picked up by a bigger label.

  • @kevinhoctor62
    @kevinhoctor62 Pƙed rokem +20

    My wife and I lived in San Francisco for almost 9 years and found it very eye-opening. For us, L.A. is just too spread out - and we've wasted so many hours in traffic when we've visited. Last November, we sold all we owned and now travel the world with just carry-on luggage. We're finding that every country we visit inspires us in a different way. Thanks for being the inspiration for so many of us amateur musicians, Mary. Cheers from our home (for this month) in Broughty Ferry!

  • @kenbink9423
    @kenbink9423 Pƙed rokem +80

    No matter where you are or where you go you are and always will be the source of your music. Keep on creating.

    • @jasonharrington2106
      @jasonharrington2106 Pƙed rokem +5

      and youll always be who you are

    • @mojorider8455
      @mojorider8455 Pƙed rokem +4

      I'm reminded of Paul Westerberg's refusal to move to LA or NYC but stay in his home town of Minneapolis. He said, "I always thought it was more helpful for me to stay. L.A. gobbles you up, and New York does the same. To me, anybody who has to move somewhere to become something they're not isn't the real thing. If you've gotta move to Los Angeles to make it, then you ain't got it."

    • @csnide6702
      @csnide6702 Pƙed rokem +5

      Really, Mary .... YOU DON'T NEED L.A.

  • @cropcircle5693
    @cropcircle5693 Pƙed rokem +61

    If you want to be a music employee/professional, go to LA. If you are an artist and want to be known for who you are, do not do it unless you already have real buzz going on. There is no music scene there, you still have to leave to succeed, there is no local music culture. People there only show up for the thing that's already happening, you cannot grow there. The Lyft driver story is exact. I know some players in real bands that sell big numbers and play big tours, and when they come home to LA they work security at a bar or deliver food or some bullshit. It's too expensive to ever get ahead unless you hit it really big. And for that, you need to making pop music. There is nothing else that will pay you LA living expenses. The culture has gone 100% social media influencers, douche bags, and the rich kids of oligarchs, dictators and CEO's. The dark weird cool LA that you hear stories about is gone.

    • @andrewbonica
      @andrewbonica Pƙed rokem

      Pretty sure she already has a real buzz going on
hence we’re here.

    • @cropcircle5693
      @cropcircle5693 Pƙed rokem +9

      @@andrewbonica Well for one I was giving a general advisory and two, no she doesn't. Nobody in the actual music world knows who she is. You need a label and or management working for you and something commercially going on that has nothing to do with youtube for a general audience in LA to show up at shows consistently. You need a management structure, it's like that. If you think that sounds fucked up, yes, it is! But that is the reality. There are much bigger names than her who are sitting in that city unappreciated and doing next to nothing there. I actually know two brilliant artists who spent years there totally useless. They left about a year ago and recently signed major label deals from being discovered in other cities.
      LA is lazy, it wants the work already done.
      You failed to comprehend my point , which is, it's a company town. You work for the system or you don't work. As an artist, that can actually be worse than being in a small city because art is not about the job. When you do the job you get put in the "worker" box. You do not get a shot at the "artist" box. There is no exception to the rule.
      She works for the system (CZcams,) she'll be fine. She fits into the influencer scene and that will be it's own thing for her. It will be a shocking occurrence if she gets taken seriously there as an artist.

    • @ledaswan5990
      @ledaswan5990 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@cropcircle5693 I agree. If she does anything beyond CZcams I’d be shocked

    • @andrewbonica
      @andrewbonica Pƙed rokem +1

      @@cropcircle5693 Thanks for the explanation. FYI, I'm an artist manager in LA.

    • @connorgmcmahan
      @connorgmcmahan Pƙed rokem +5

      I'm not a professional musician, so I won't comment on the experience of trying to make a living as an artist here. But as someone who lives in the city and loves music deeply, the claim that there is no local music culture is simply not true, especially on the East side of the city. There are many venues like the Zebulon, ETA, the York, 2220 Arts + Archives, (pre-pandemic, there was the bluewhale, which I loved dearly), and several others that are devoted to letting musicians explore paths that are not going to get them mainstream notoriety and yet pack out shows. It's a big reason why several of my friends and I do not want to leave this place.

  • @lonnymead8976
    @lonnymead8976 Pƙed rokem +38

    I lived in LA for 13 years and loved it
 we were close to making it, but fate change the music genre and we found ourselves lost without direction. It was such an amazing experience and at times felt like I was realizing my dream
 the stories I could share
 after I left, it took 25 years to start making music again
 I live in Texas now and have released over 60 songs and a new album. I believe no matter where we live, we make our own opportunities. Mary Spender, no matter where you live, you will continue to grow your fan base
 your extra special and a million followers adore you. I can recommend some amazing restaurants
 be safe on your journey

    • @skyko
      @skyko Pƙed rokem +6

      Most of those restaurants are probably sadly closed now. LA is not like it once was. you got out at the right time.

    • @EdwoodCA
      @EdwoodCA Pƙed rokem +3

      @@skyko What are you basing that assumption on? There's 10+ million ppl in L.A. and you think most of the amazing restaurants Lonny spoke of are all gone? What would be the alternative? That everyone is now just doing fast food or home cooking in L.A.? Not a chance.
      Poorly run, or just crappy ones fail all the time. And new ones open in their place. This is a fact of life in the restaurant business. Plus, the great ones, as long as they don't have lease issues, or too much debt, can last for quite some time. [in any city].

    • @ThomasDoubting5
      @ThomasDoubting5 Pƙed rokem

      If only you never thought you nearly made it, it's poison to dreams, because you keep looking back romanticly on that if only time.
      But glad your making music again.

    • @skyko
      @skyko Pƙed rokem +1

      @@EdwoodCA Thanks for the service industry lesson.

  • @edmundfeingold
    @edmundfeingold Pƙed rokem +15

    May LA bring you what you need, what you want and enough of the unexpected to keep you, your music and your channel inspired. You have many songwriters rooting for you.
    And worst case scenario, you still have the rest of the world.
    I am looking forward to seeing what you do next. Break a leg!

    • @gewglesux
      @gewglesux Pƙed rokem

      she's going to need it for the rent/mortgage.

  • @jlionz
    @jlionz Pƙed rokem +65

    Mary, I grew up in LA, Laurel Canyon, and all the related places you deftly listed in your video. You are also correct that "things change" and the LA music scene is forever changed and is nothing like those heady times in 1970 LA. I have no doubt you'll figure out how to build on your brand and take advantage of the musical, education, and other creative opportunities that abound there. LA is like no other place on earth, I hope the place doesn't suck the life out of you as your journey unfolds. It'll be fascinating to chart your progress as you immerse yourself in that crazy world. If anyone can make sense out of living in LA, I suspect you're the perfect person to show how it's done.

    • @giulioluzzardi7632
      @giulioluzzardi7632 Pƙed rokem +1

      ..anything is possible.

    • @andrewsmith7543
      @andrewsmith7543 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@oceancrosby4578 too bad she went for the clickbait title

    • @trysometruth
      @trysometruth Pƙed rokem +1

      @@andrewsmith7543 The clickbait title worked on me as I pondered how I could accidentally on purpose meet cute with her. Hopes dashed..

    • @smelltheglove2038
      @smelltheglove2038 Pƙed rokem +1

      It’s horrible if you’re a business owner, or want to save money. It’s a filthy place full of lunatics.

  • @Cajundaddydave
    @Cajundaddydave Pƙed rokem +7

    Best of luck in your grand adventure Mary. The LA music scene was my playground from 1975- 1984, just when bands like VH, Toto, Aerosmith, were full steam and Black Flag and other counter culture bands were filling clubs off the Strip. We played the venues, recorded in a famous studio and took our best shot but 10 years in I had had enough. Several friends are still there doing their thing and my hat is off to them but for me it was a chapter that needed to end.

  • @jonathanmattice5525
    @jonathanmattice5525 Pƙed rokem

    Always a great watch! Thank you Mary for putting the time, effort, research, energy (among other things) into your videos!

  • @chrisshaw6451
    @chrisshaw6451 Pƙed rokem +1

    Good luck Mary, wherever you go you'll be the great and kind person you have always been, and I'll always be following your progress. Have fun, be brave, be fierce, and never stop growing! đŸ‘â€ïž

  • @blakesmith2101
    @blakesmith2101 Pƙed rokem +10

    Imagine it being 2023, and you make a conscious effort to move to California.

  • @poorspeler
    @poorspeler Pƙed rokem +5

    Mary I have always found you incredible, you have a warm heart and are dedicated to music I respect you alot keep it up. we support you! make it big!

  • @alanhirayama4592
    @alanhirayama4592 Pƙed rokem

    Very excited for you! Wishing you the best in LA!

  • @jordanclark1200
    @jordanclark1200 Pƙed rokem +1

    The collab I never expected but always wanted haha! I’ve been following Nick for nearly 10 years here on CZcams. You both are amazing musicians in your own right. Best of luck!

  • @CreativeMindsAudio
    @CreativeMindsAudio Pƙed rokem +230

    As someone who has lived in LA for 10 years and in music, LA is NOT the place for you, Nashville is the place. Most of my friends have struggled to make ends meet in LA because of how expensive it is. All of those people have moved to Nashville or portland and found a LOT more success there. I am hoping to get out myself.
    The LA music scene is mostly pop/rap music these days. Yes there are a few great contacts here and popular CZcamsrs, but not the same as other cities. Nashville is insane for singer-songwriters like you though. LA is extremely goal oriented and business too less hang focused like you mentioned in the video in the olden days.
    As far as venues, some have closed in the pandemic sadly. And many of the ones that are still around are very shady. With the amount of people who live here I’d think there would be more music venues.
    As far as the interview: From the angle of touring sure i get that because a lot of pop stars tour with musicians. Though the KEY part is that he was doing gig economy work, nearly every musician i know is doing gig economy work between gigs (which are harder to come by now). That being said more and more people are doing live streaming and LEAVING LA because they can do it anywhere. And it’s often more $ than touring or gig economy work.
    I’d say that LA has definitely priced out actual musicians. It’s a lot of people who have rich parents or are rich themselves and also do music. The full time musicians here are often older and successful elsewhere. I think because of your fame/successes elsewhere it may give you opportunities many other people couldn’t get, but i still think the power LA has is with pop music over singer-songwriter stuff. Like i said, I have many friends who moved to Nashville. I would say the shift happened 5-7 or so years ago or so where it went from a lot of singer-songwriters to an overwhelming number of pop artists. A lot of people in LA just wanna be famous tbh. Very opportunistic and goal oriented as well (not in a good way).

    • @frankd4875
      @frankd4875 Pƙed rokem +15

      Agree, Nashville is not just a place for country musicians these days, think she'd be much better off in Nashville with its diverse music scene, & a much more livable space than L. A.

    • @ChristopherGwinn
      @ChristopherGwinn Pƙed rokem +5

      Yep, agree 100%.

    • @MaltiPoo23
      @MaltiPoo23 Pƙed rokem +2

      Might ask Robyn Hitchcock's opinion.

    • @rupertcaney
      @rupertcaney Pƙed rokem

      Interested to know if you're still in LA, and why?

    • @CreativeMindsAudio
      @CreativeMindsAudio Pƙed rokem +2

      @@rupertcaney I’m still in LA because I can’t afford to leave yet, but saving up right now to move to portland. My family is all here too so it’s a bit easier because of that. They moved here in 2011 (well my brother in like 2002?), me in 2012. Currently selling off audio gear I won’t be using anytime soon.

  • @michaelpitts6001
    @michaelpitts6001 Pƙed rokem +4

    Another great video Mary !!!

  • @kjneese
    @kjneese Pƙed rokem +1

    Such a beautiful, wonderful video Mary! Insightful and a great history lesson on LALA Land's music scene. Kudos always.

  • @padders1068
    @padders1068 Pƙed rokem

    Mary! Thanks for sharing, as ever an interesting and informative video. Keep up the good work & best of luck with any future plans. 🙂

  • @mattstruckingadventures7072
    @mattstruckingadventures7072 Pƙed rokem +10

    As a relatively unknown CZcamsr, I really look for and appreciate anyone on social media who is genuine and honest in their work. I despise click bait or anything like it. Having said that, I want to say thank you for what you do and how you do it. I feel like it takes a lot of courage to put videos of yourself on a platform like CZcams for the whole world to see. It's fascinating to me to watch others share their passions, talents and life journeys with the rest of us. I especially enjoy watching and listening to artists who have genuine talent. I used to play guitar, and many years ago I actually worked at Martin Guitar in Nazareth, PA. By the way, the D 15 is my favorite model! I love the sound from that mahogany body! Over the years though, I've discovered that driving is my true passion. So now I'm a truck driver and enjoy traveling across the USA. I look forward to seeing what your future holds! Keep up the hard work! I always believe that good, honest hard work is one of the best and most rewarding parts of life!

  • @musiccreation1198
    @musiccreation1198 Pƙed rokem +10

    I lived and worked in LA for 20+ years as a studio musician, singer songwriter...for songwriters, I would think Nashville is the best spot now. But, as someone who grew up in "southern culture"...that might be a HUGE culture shock...making LA a much better fit. I tried Nashville for 3 months, couldn't stomach it. YMMV.

  • @victorplekter613
    @victorplekter613 Pƙed rokem

    Nice video as always. Thanks for creating it!

  • @MichaelMassimino
    @MichaelMassimino Pƙed rokem +2

    I never clicked with LA, more power to you guys. I feel like Nashville is where it's at right now.

  • @do-not-reply461
    @do-not-reply461 Pƙed rokem +3

    Please, please, please come play The Belly Up Tavern in Solana Beach when you come to LA!!! Only two hours south on the 5 freeway.

  • @strykerace
    @strykerace Pƙed rokem +3

    Nashville seems much better place from what I have heard. The cost of living in LA is so crazy its not worth the stress.

  • @TG-lp9vi
    @TG-lp9vi Pƙed rokem

    Good luck . Hopefully it will be a great experience.

  • @jasonremy1627
    @jasonremy1627 Pƙed rokem

    I love this opportunity for you! Can't wait to see your next adventure...

  • @KerryLiv
    @KerryLiv Pƙed rokem +13

    Mary, you're not only an exceptional musician, you have the extraordinary gift of inspiring others on a human level. If you ever have a down day, remember how miraculous you are. And yes you're right, we all certainly are... in our own way.

  • @JohnFoxBass
    @JohnFoxBass Pƙed rokem +3

    You're the best Mary. I wish you every success, and I will be proud to say that I knew you back when. This is very exciting news and I can't wait to see what the future holds for you.

  • @darwinmaus1083
    @darwinmaus1083 Pƙed rokem

    Good Luck !! I hope all goes well for you!! 👍😘😊

  • @406brandt
    @406brandt Pƙed rokem +2

    Best of luck Mary - I grew up in Laurel Canyon and was a young teenager when the Laurel Canyon sound was at it's peak. All of those artists were young and crazy and made some wonderful music. So many of my friends are in the entertainment business. The world has changed a LOT since those heady times. I haven't lived in LA in a long time but I am there frequently to visit family. I wish you luck on your adventure. You have a gift of communication and your music is enjoyed by so many. Good luck and I'm sure you will make LA shine!

  • @baileybayer9462
    @baileybayer9462 Pƙed rokem +5

    I played my first gig in five years last night, and this was the piece of content that I chose to consume intentionally with my morning coffee following the show. As a musician wanting to make music my career via performance and production who has contemplated moving to California for most of my life, this video offered so much perspective. The realistic bent that you gave this video is essential and from one artist to another, thank you Mary. You are becoming one of the most important creators in this digital space in my eyes. Keep pushing for those dreams

  • @TroyNaumu808
    @TroyNaumu808 Pƙed rokem +3

    No matter where you go, there you are.

  • @dennisquinn8558
    @dennisquinn8558 Pƙed rokem +2

    Welcome, Mary.
    I've lived in the greater Los Angeles area all my life, and know that music can easily be found here.
    Sometimes in small venues, I've come across very talented musicians. What a gem!
    Wishing you the best here in LA.

  • @Blacktelecaster
    @Blacktelecaster Pƙed rokem

    Best of luck, you are bound for really great things. Don't let LA change you. Explore up the Coast. -Cant wait to see your progress. -Paul

  • @josephhughes9490
    @josephhughes9490 Pƙed rokem +11

    Love ya Mary. So much talent no matter where you live

  • @j3zz.tmf.guitarz
    @j3zz.tmf.guitarz Pƙed rokem +9

    I saw you play at the Komedia, I was blown away by your sheer passion. Yes that really was Johnny Depp at the front. Keep on keeping on and more power to you.

  • @docDeutschmann
    @docDeutschmann Pƙed rokem

    Thank you Mary for not only sharing your thoughts about LA, but also about how music scenes evolve (and disappear).
    You gave a me a "chuckle-moment" with your term "musicians bringing refreshments" (and the pause before "refreshments")...
    And as much as I understand that no such list can ever be complete, I was kind of disappointed that I never heard the names of Chicago ("Home of the Electric Blues") and even more Detroit - which seems to be ever renewing itself, constandtly changing, creative epicenter.
    Thank you for the video - keep up the good work!

  • @photronic
    @photronic Pƙed rokem +1

    I love the positivity! I moved from Epsom, Surrey to The States in 1988, working in studios, radio, TV, movies, and now music again, and have been in the L.A. County area more solidly for the past 3 months. It's great if, as you do (more than I), have a true reason for coming, and good support and resources. Yes, but maybe (depending on how the winds blow) use it as a stepping stone to Nashville, Austin, NY, even Atlanta, etc . . . the artist's drive will propel us to places others may feel reticent yet we feel called to. In the end, just knowing of you a very, very, little, you may actually find you are not "going to L.A.", but "bringing Mary to us" and that you make the opportunities wherever you go, not that they make you. Enjoy the journey!

  • @antsteep
    @antsteep Pƙed rokem +69

    I did it. Moved from Australia to LA. It's a tough city and full of other people in your industry that were too good for their home town. Everyone here has known success and failure at some point. There is support and opportunity everywhere and it is a great place to grow as a creative.

    • @yousuck6222
      @yousuck6222 Pƙed rokem

      'too good for their home town'. That will make going back after you have failed rather difficult.

    • @smelltheglove2038
      @smelltheglove2038 Pƙed rokem +6

      LA is a huge dump.

    • @MaestroJericho
      @MaestroJericho Pƙed rokem +2

      @@smelltheglove2038 that's an understatement

    • @smelltheglove2038
      @smelltheglove2038 Pƙed rokem

      @@MaestroJericho the worst part it’s that people with a socialist world view move there, find out it’s impossible to live around tens of thousands of uncontrollable drug addicts, then move to a place like Nashville. Once there they fundamentally change the new location by voting for the same exact policies that destroyed California, never realizing that them and their voting habits are the problem.

  • @gregmonahan8246
    @gregmonahan8246 Pƙed rokem +3

    It was great seeing you perform at NAMM
wonderful guitarist, beautiful voice and talented song writer!! I wish you continued success!!

  • @richardmcleod1055
    @richardmcleod1055 Pƙed rokem

    Go for it Mary. Everything is a risk when chasing passion/creativity and exploring how far it will reach. Time is your friend for now. Use it now to pursue what you love to do and see where it leads you. All the best! Loving your journey!

  • @thesongwritersdropin2565

    Great Video Mary. no one has done a video on this particular topic as far as I know. Its true that the world of music has changed but you definately give your self a better chance of undertaking it in a centre like LA or Nashville. Very best of luck to you.

  • @wastinglighters
    @wastinglighters Pƙed rokem +6

    I love LA. I’m not a musician by trade but I can’t wait to go to a local show of yours.

  • @musicguitars8473
    @musicguitars8473 Pƙed rokem +18

    Great to having you coming to California. LA is a huge area. There are places to avoid but lots of good places. I live about 50 miles south of Los Angeles near the coast. Lots of great places to chose from around Los Angeles and surrounding areas. Just learn when to avoid the traffic and where not to go. The weather can't be beat.

    • @HumbleTrader001
      @HumbleTrader001 Pƙed rokem +4

      I didn't notice the question mark at the end of the video title either.

    • @EarleMonroe
      @EarleMonroe Pƙed rokem +5

      @@HumbleTrader001 Exactly; she didn’t specifically say that she WAS moving


  • @andrewknight2495
    @andrewknight2495 Pƙed rokem

    Go Mary Go! This is awesome. I think physical place is so important for many things. I live in Austin and the music, film, art scene is all a place I love living everyday! Good luck and hope you run into Mayer.

  • @paulthebeardedonedowning6820

    really cool video mate love it excellent quality as well you looked gorgeous

  • @Stephen_Lafferty
    @Stephen_Lafferty Pƙed rokem +8

    Have you spoken to Tim Pierce about being a working LA-based musician/guitarist? That would be an interesting interview!

  • @joeltomaneng231
    @joeltomaneng231 Pƙed rokem +67

    Honestly, Nashville is a better place to start. The problem with LA is living here when waiting for work.

    • @SpitfireOCE
      @SpitfireOCE Pƙed rokem +2

      commented 16 mins ago hmmmm

    • @ParanormalResponse
      @ParanormalResponse Pƙed rokem +8

      My buddy moved there. he plays rock music. He said it is next to impossible to start a band or do anything that isn't country. He has been there for 5 years and he is now moving out of there.

    • @mikejones-vd3fg
      @mikejones-vd3fg Pƙed rokem

      @@ParanormalResponse True, its the gay money funding it all, they just want cute cowboys up there on stage. jk , but there always that market you could pander too, and thers no shame whatsoever in that, we all try to hussel in our own way, lol jk i just wote that because mary was saying it at the same time i was typing

    • @pianoatthirty
      @pianoatthirty Pƙed rokem +11

      LA is dead. All there is now is homelessness.

    • @ParanormalResponse
      @ParanormalResponse Pƙed rokem +3

      @@pianoatthirty Same with Seattle. and NY. We are screwed!

  • @estarling8766
    @estarling8766 Pƙed rokem

    Good luck and succes !

  • @sandywinfield9406
    @sandywinfield9406 Pƙed rokem

    Look forward to seeing you at your future gigs in L.A. !

  • @SeanAllocca
    @SeanAllocca Pƙed rokem +3

    Mary, your home is here on CZcams. We always know where to find you.

  • @ubirajaramosqueiradeolivei5414

    Mary, sou seu fĂŁ incondicional. Fico muito louco com o seu trabalho. ParabĂ©ns para vocĂȘ.

  • @GuillaumeLortie
    @GuillaumeLortie Pƙed rokem

    love your stuff Mary
    Keep on creating

  • @Mandragorn
    @Mandragorn Pƙed rokem

    Good luck to you! Southern Cali can be a bit pricy but is amazing for biking, hiking, and music, and theres some beautiful nature near by for your videos! Hope you find what you are looking for!

  • @DrumWild
    @DrumWild Pƙed rokem +3

    I moved to LA in 1986 and stayed there for 33 years, making music. Back then in the mid-80s, it was essential to be in a key location. I got to open for some BIG acts, some names of which might not even be recognized by most today [i.e. Bullet Boys], and other names that are more commercial [The Go-Gos]. Met a TON of classic musicians, some of whom were horrible, some were cool, and a few even became dear friends. I got to have some of the wildest studio experiences and the most memorable of gigs and adventures.
    But today, it is not really necessary to be in any city. In fact, not only is it also not necessary to get signed, but getting signed might be THE worst thing to happen. If anything, it is more important to be in a place where you can find musicians who have similar music interests.
    I think the future of music is in a few places. One of those is right here, on the internet. The other place is local and tribal, wherever you are right now.
    I don't know if it's true now, but back when I was in LA, I had developed my own algorithm of sorts. The foundation of this is the idea that, the further away from LA you go to make music, the more money you will make, AND the more people will actually care about what you are doing. It was fun playing the Sunset Strip and seeing rock stars and actors, including some of my heroes, in the audience or hanging out near the bar. But there is something to be said for making music in a bar where there are no other entertainment option as a distraction. People show up and are more dedicated to making a memorable evening for all. It's less disposable.
    The traditional career, as the traditional ways, are long gone and mostly irrelevant. I went to the Sunset Strip before I left, and it might just be me, but it felt like all of the magic had gone. A good number of the people who used to hang out there are gone now, so there was a changing of the guard. It's more than likely a combo of the two.
    And that mini-one bedroom in Santa Monica that I had for $250 per month in the late 80s? It's now over $2,300 per month. Even worse, the job I had to pay for that in the late 80s still pays the same as what it did back then, never keeping up with inflation. It's not right.
    It's worth visiting and seeing, at the very least, and there is still some history to be visited and experienced. At least go and check it out.

  • @tomas5376
    @tomas5376 Pƙed rokem +6

    LA is just about the last place in the world I would want to live. However, all this information you gave is
very valuable! Gracias

  • @thinman8621
    @thinman8621 Pƙed rokem

    Best of good fortune, Ms. Spender.

  • @keithskelton5596
    @keithskelton5596 Pƙed rokem

    Great challenge for you & your development musically
    Good luck âœŒđŸŒđŸŽó §ó ąó „ó źó §ó ż

  • @johnnorth9355
    @johnnorth9355 Pƙed rokem +4

    If it does not work out don't be crushed by it. Your talent is big enough to survive and thrive wherever you are .

  • @screamat333am7
    @screamat333am7 Pƙed rokem +4

    I live in LA, its cool but traffic is crazy and rent is expensive. But theres a lot to do especially for a musician.

  • @gregmccoy5948
    @gregmccoy5948 Pƙed rokem

    Hello Mary, Thanks for all you do

  • @brucenh9076
    @brucenh9076 Pƙed rokem

    Good luck on your move! LA can be a great place - I went to UCLA and lived in the Valley for a bit after graduating. So many great places, both within the city and relatively close by (e.g. Yosemite, diving up PCH, out to the desert, etc). I hope this means more collaborations with Reina del Cid, as I've really enjoyed your previous team-ups.

  • @johncrowe9562
    @johncrowe9562 Pƙed rokem +6

    As a teenager growing up in the LA area in the 60' and 70's there was so much music happening that it was hard to earn enough money to see it all. Wonderful place to be at the time. Keep working on your songwriting.

    • @shanejur
      @shanejur Pƙed rokem +1

      that had to be so cool at that "Laurel Canyon" time.

  • @Lexy-O
    @Lexy-O Pƙed rokem +3

    LA is crazy expensive. I would look at the San Antonio music scene. I’m a firm believer in being a bigger fish in a smaller pond. But you may be in the best place already

  • @GuerreroGamez
    @GuerreroGamez Pƙed rokem +2

    California is lucky to have you! Hope you continue to enjoy our beautiful state. You definitely inspire me!

  • @jonathanorenstein4400
    @jonathanorenstein4400 Pƙed rokem

    I love your use of the word "refreshments."

  • @adambrown8867
    @adambrown8867 Pƙed rokem +4

    Insane idea.

  • @TheDsy1
    @TheDsy1 Pƙed rokem +10

    Dear Mary,
    California Dreaming is something we have all done. I am not a musician, but I went to University four 4 yrs in Nashville. It is a great town for music and I know you would fit in well there. After graduation, I had a military career that took me around the world and dropped me off in Cali, where I had long dreamed of living since childhood. I have resided here ever since.
    I love the SoCal weather and outdoorsy surfing/boarding/biking vibe, but living in LA can be disheartening and even dangerous. After a couple years in LA myself, I settled 90 miles South closer to San Diego, which is much less troublesome. However, if I am completely honest, I often miss Nashville. I know you have developed some great friendships with Rick B and Marty S. Their opinions would probably hold more water than some random guy like me, but I thought I would offer my “two cents” worth anyway since I have lived in both places.

    • @deviationblue
      @deviationblue Pƙed rokem

      San Diego has an insular, small-town music scene. I spent eight years beating my face against that brick wall.
      LA is the best city in CA to get off the ground. Mary may have done better in NYC, or Nashville if she eschewed bodily autonomy, but this isn’t a terrible decision.

    • @TheDsy1
      @TheDsy1 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@deviationblue
      Good discussion. I can’t argue that LA has more opportunities for recording artists and others, but it also has more pitfalls as well. There are dozens of cities north and south of LA that are commuting distance without the same notoriously bad things. North SD and OC could be good stepping off points for someone like Mary. I know we all want what’s best for Mary and I just hope she takes it to heart that she can reach her goals in other places like Nashville, San Diego, or Atlanta, perhaps as a precursor to moving to LA. Nicolas made the point that there is no rush to get to LA immediately.

  • @schctrg
    @schctrg Pƙed rokem

    Congrats, welcome to LA! As a fellow musician I'm sure we'll cross path at some point!

  • @matthewdcarver
    @matthewdcarver Pƙed rokem

    Best of luck!

  • @styepen602
    @styepen602 Pƙed rokem +6

    I have to be honest, I don’t think this is a good idea Mary, LA’s not a bad place to live but I don’t think it’s liveable for someone like you, who clearly has a lot of intelligence and understanding of the music industry, If I was going to move or work anywhere creatively from my home town it would be the closest to home with your interests, for both the location and the people, I’m currently studying music production in a city 9 miles from my home with a very good music scene and good folk to socialise with in both interests and personal lives, and although I plan to go back to my home town to continue studying I think I’m gonna keep one foot in the city I’m in now, but that’s my advice, do what you think is right for you and if it doesn’t work, you can always come back home.

  • @ricksamericana749
    @ricksamericana749 Pƙed rokem +3

    Long time Angeleno, here... A big reason for the thriving music environment of the past couple of decades was the plethora of medium and small live music venues. These venues enabled independent artists to cultivate followings. Now that we're in the stages of the late COVID era I am curious to see what the long term effects will be on live performances. There remains a feeling of uncertainty about performing live still lingering. Hopefully we'll regain that vibrant independent live music scene, soon. Just curious, have you read Ronald Brownstein's book "Rock Me On The Water" on 1974 Los Angeles?

  • @jr.grajeda3730
    @jr.grajeda3730 Pƙed rokem

    Buen viaje !

  • @D.Guitar
    @D.Guitar Pƙed rokem

    Thank You for making this video Mary... Quite entertaining and enlightening .

  • @ELEVATETHESKY
    @ELEVATETHESKY Pƙed rokem +12

    I've lived in LA since 2015 and I love it. I wouldn't say being here is going to make anyone a bigger star. But there is a great aura here that can inspire and motivate your creative side. The weather is also a plus and one of my favorite things about living here. Another great thing about LA is how diverse it is culturally and artistically. Tons of great paces to eat and there are always a lot of great music shows and events to go to. I also love the fact that there are mountains, forests, beaches, suburbs, and the city life all in one place. I don't necessarily think LA is an easier place for an artist to make it. But I do think LA has a lot of connections and a lot of jobs for any type of musician, engineer, or artist. All it takes is for the right person to hear your music and that can make a huge impact on your career.

    • @Movieman1965
      @Movieman1965 Pƙed rokem +3

      Thaty last sentence says it all.
      "All it takes is for the right person to hear your music and that can make a huge impact on your career."

  • @ckm-mkc
    @ckm-mkc Pƙed rokem +8

    I've lived in 7 countries, but I have been in San Francisco for 20+ years. My work is actually in Long Beach, and I quite like LA, but it's extremely neighborhood dependent and very diverse - it's really it's own planet. I'd probably live in LA if the weather was cooler. One thing to keep in mind is that, because you drive everywhere, people from different areas really don't mingle. A friend more a 20 minutes drive away is someone you are not likely to see often. And during rush hour, it can take an insane amount of time to get anywhere - it once took me 7 hours to go from Riverside to Santa Monica - about 70 miles. Point is, if you move to LA, pick your neighborhood carefully. All that said, I don't know a thing about the current music industry.

  • @leonardallen7380
    @leonardallen7380 Pƙed rokem

    Thank you for sharing interesting content, enjoyed it very much

  • @eupositivando
    @eupositivando Pƙed rokem

    You are gifted! Success!!

  • @senorbe
    @senorbe Pƙed rokem +3

    I would argue that a lot of the motivation for LA's centrality in the music world was the Wrecking Crew and that the Laurel Canyon folks came here because of them.

  • @effbee56
    @effbee56 Pƙed rokem +8

    Cities rise and fall. The glitter is fading off Tinseltown.

  • @randylilko
    @randylilko Pƙed rokem

    Welcome to the Machine, its siren call is truly difficult to ignore. I do wish you the best experience as your past music is you and reflects your lovely nature. It will be interesting to see what the Machine wishes your future sound to be. Take care and stay safe.

  • @StephenOshea
    @StephenOshea Pƙed rokem

    thanks for posting and living your dream that's very grand indeed bravo Mary

  • @lto3e
    @lto3e Pƙed rokem +4

    I am not a musician. However, I love watching and learning from your videos. Thank you! 😊

  • @gnmatsu
    @gnmatsu Pƙed rokem +3

    When I lived in LA, I remember the rat race atmosphere. But there was a lot of positives. In a lot of places there were a lot of little niches. I did miss the conveniences when I moved away and to Hawaii. I cannot imagine even with all of the conveniences you'd be part of that rat race of the music scene. I bet you can do all the collaborations remotely.

  • @eldergeektromeo9868
    @eldergeektromeo9868 Pƙed rokem +1

    As usual Mary: Thank You!!❀

  • @bobdenk6944
    @bobdenk6944 Pƙed rokem

    All the best Mary. Follow your dream. FYI preordered your album. 😎

  • @aaronbenson2767
    @aaronbenson2767 Pƙed rokem +3

    I kind of want to hear Mary’s version of Frank Black’s “Los Angeles” now. It’d be pretty badass.

  • @photogazer
    @photogazer Pƙed rokem

    Good on you to follow your heart. Best to you on your musical and life path.

  • @ecam6687
    @ecam6687 Pƙed rokem

    Good luck Mary.

  • @RobertTheNag
    @RobertTheNag Pƙed rokem +7

    The city of shallowness, greed and superficiality!

  • @alanclayton9277
    @alanclayton9277 Pƙed rokem +4

    I'm English and the fact that you're English too makes me feel kind of proud: don't mean to offend or flag wave. Love the way you use the language, how you sound. There are roots there too.

  • @patrickflanagan8008
    @patrickflanagan8008 Pƙed rokem

    A very interesting piece of journalism with a personal twist. Excellent work.

  • @jsos9434
    @jsos9434 Pƙed rokem

    Guitars and “Refreshments” 😉 - love it haha
    I loved watching the Laurel Canyon documentary as well as the story about how Our House was written

  • @rkirschner7175
    @rkirschner7175 Pƙed rokem +6

    Good luck. LA is in decline. Big time. Stay SAFE. â€đŸ™đŸ˜ż
    LOVE THE CHANNEL.

  • @503dude8
    @503dude8 Pƙed rokem +4

    L.A. is not a good place to move to. The taxes, and rent are outrageous, crime is through the roof, homelessness is around every corner, and people are using drugs out in the open. There is literally human poop đŸ’© and syringes on the sidewalks. If you move to L.A. I hope it works out for you. Best of luck Ms. Spender.

  • @TheDarkness1
    @TheDarkness1 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +1

    Been in LA for about 8 months now and love it. We put together an in house studio and been recording all different genres.

  • @johnnursall408
    @johnnursall408 Pƙed rokem

    When you get here be sure to come down to Palos Verdes where I live. It's a beautiful place and a vibrant community for the arts!

  • @mojorider8455
    @mojorider8455 Pƙed rokem +4

    I'm also reminded of something that Paul Westerberg said of his former band mate Tommy Stinson moving to LA to join Guns n Roses. He said something like, "You don't go to LA to be an artist. You go to LA to be a star."

    • @jacquescousteau217
      @jacquescousteau217 Pƙed 7 dny

      Good call. L.A. sucks the honesty, and soul out of people. I was a staff writer, and session player there in 67-69. I live in San Francisco, but the company I worked for was in Woodland Hills - early 1990s - I would commute once a week for a day. L.A. / Hollywood- Bev Hill is as superficial as it gets. My only suggestion would be Nashville.