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DAHLIA
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Hi, I'm Dahlia! I just re-launched my channel after years of never really launching in the first place.
I help make good things happen. This fun and meaningful podcast looks for the helpers and ways to help you through your day. Like this 2-part conversation with Dr. Gabor Maté on The Myth of Normal:
🎧: www.dahliakurtz.com
In the days to come, you'll also get exclusive footage from that chat.
You may get conversations with everyday people doing extraordinary things, Oscar winners who have overcome the odds, or the man who jumped off The Golden Gate Bridge to take his life, yet miraculously lived to save so many lives. And more...
You won't get inundated with information here. You already get too much of that. You need wonder and reflection. So expect lots of that.
I have been a talk show host for a decade - with a mission to spread kindness. So, let's make good things happen. Why live and let live when you can live and HELP live?
I help make good things happen. This fun and meaningful podcast looks for the helpers and ways to help you through your day. Like this 2-part conversation with Dr. Gabor Maté on The Myth of Normal:
🎧: www.dahliakurtz.com
In the days to come, you'll also get exclusive footage from that chat.
You may get conversations with everyday people doing extraordinary things, Oscar winners who have overcome the odds, or the man who jumped off The Golden Gate Bridge to take his life, yet miraculously lived to save so many lives. And more...
You won't get inundated with information here. You already get too much of that. You need wonder and reflection. So expect lots of that.
I have been a talk show host for a decade - with a mission to spread kindness. So, let's make good things happen. Why live and let live when you can live and HELP live?
Dr. Gabor Maté with Dahlia: How can siblings be raised the same but turn out differently?
How could your sibling be raised the same but turn out so differently? Maybe even a narcissist? Dr. Gabor Maté has the fascinating answer.
Dr. Maté sat down with Dahlia for a 90-minute conversation on his new bestselling book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, & Healing in a Toxic Culture.
You can find more enlightening pieces of this conversation with Dahlia and Gabor on CZcams and TikTok.
For the full conversation: www.DahliaKurtz.com
TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@dahliakurtz
Instagram: dahliakurtz
Dr. Maté sat down with Dahlia for a 90-minute conversation on his new bestselling book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, & Healing in a Toxic Culture.
You can find more enlightening pieces of this conversation with Dahlia and Gabor on CZcams and TikTok.
For the full conversation: www.DahliaKurtz.com
TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@dahliakurtz
Instagram: dahliakurtz
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YOU ARE NOT DISORDERED: A LIFE-CHANGING CONVERSATION WITH DR. JESSICA TAYLOR ON DAHLIA'S PODCAST
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YOU ARE NOT DISORDERED: A LIFE-CHANGING CONVERSATION WITH DR. JESSICA TAYLOR Trauma needs to be validated and seen for what it is - without having a mental illness diagnosis attached to it. FULL PODCAST EPISODE AVAILABLE HERE dahliakurtz.substack.com/p/drjesstaylor#details You are not disordered. According to Dr. Jessica Taylor, you are likely one of the millions of people who have been abused ...
The Recipe That Makes A Narcissist: Dahlia With World's Leading Narcissism Expert
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How could your sibling be raised the same but turn out so differently? Maybe even a narcissist. Here is one of the world's leading experts on narcissism, as he responds to my viral video with Dr. Gabor Maté. And he gives you the recipe that creates a narcissist. Gabor shares a fascinating answer with Dahlia - which you can see here czcams.com/video/d5A0hLFYLWY/video.html. But so does Dr. W. Kei...
NARCISSISM: Dr. Gabor Maté has a conversation with Dahlia about how we feed into narcissism
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Dr. Gabor Maté explains what you need to know about narcissism - especially in the age of social media. Is narcissism being manufactured? Why does it seem like there are more and more narcissists? And why does society keep rewarding narcissism? Dr. Maté sat down with Dahlia for a 90-minute conversation on his new bestselling book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, & Healing in a Toxic Cultur...
Dr. Gabor Maté tells Dahlia social media rewards people for being fake: A Genocide of Authenticity
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Dr. Gabor Maté explains to Dahlia how social media kills authenticity and rewards people for being fake. And as Jamie Lee Curtis told him, there’s a Genocide of Authenticity - and it is destroying your mental health. This is just a snippet of Dahlia's podcast episode with Dr. Gabor Maté. In the episode, Gabor also goes on to talk about how society rewards narcissism. Gabor sat down with Dahlia ...
CHILDHOOD TRAUMA: Dr. Gabor Maté Tells Dahlia Why Everything Goes Back To Your Childhood
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Childhood trauma has a much deeper impact on you than most people realize. This video has already been viewed millions of times on other platforms because it is resonating with that many people. You are not alone. This is just a snippet of Dahlia's podcast episode with Dr. Gabor Maté. Gabor sat down with Dahlia for a 90-minute conversation on his new bestselling book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma...
Dr. Gabor Maté with Dahlia: How can siblings be raised the same but turn out differently?
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How could your sibling be raised the same but turn out so differently? Maybe even a narcissist? Dr. Gabor Maté has the fascinating answer. Dr. Maté sat down with Dahlia for a 90-minute conversation on his new bestselling book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, & Healing in a Toxic Culture. You can find more enlightening pieces of this conversation with Dahlia and Gabor on CZcams and TikTok. ...
Dr. Gabor Maté With Dahlia: Best Advice If You Feel Lonely, Depressed, And Think All Hope Is Lost
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Dr. Gabor Maté joined me on my podcast to talk about The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness, & Healing in a Toxic Culture. So I asked the world's leading trauma and addictions expert: If you feel so depressed, so lonely, so helpless ... And you don't believe there is any hope, help is too expensive, and you're all alone ... What can you do? Gabor gave the best advice I've heard yet. To listen to o...
DAHLIA: Live And Help Live - EPISODE 12: Dear Dove
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If Dove is so big on its Real Beauty Campaign - and I’m so big on real beauty, why do I think it’s time to wash Dove’s mouth out with soap? Great Question. I’d love to tell you! I mean, is Dove about “real beauty” - or - real B.S.? On one hand, you have this campaign that has such a positive message: Let’s change women’s attitudes toward their harmful perception of beauty. On the other hand, th...
DAHLIA - Live And Help Live: EPISODE 1 - Why live and help live?
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DAHLIA - Live And Help Live: EPISODE 1 - Why live and help live?
How to mess up a simple video a million times: Dahlia's Behind-the-Scenes Bloopers on Spark
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How to mess up a simple video a million times: Dahlia's Behind-the-Scenes Bloopers on Spark
Dan Soder From Inside Amy Schumer Makes Dahlia Kurtz Squirm
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Dan Soder From Inside Amy Schumer Makes Dahlia Kurtz Squirm
The statistics he quote is wrong! Take that away the argument goes away!
Don't idolize Gabor. He has good ideas but he's just a man and he's not perfect.
Intelligence gets in the way of joy
that is what my hair looks like daily. hahhaha
Yes and I'm taking therapy now and I am 40
That makes total sense to me. I was in an abusive relationship and the reason he could hurt me so much was because of old wounds getting triggered. Seems only natural that it developed into ptsd after the relationship. The relationship in itself was damaging but oh boy it was the old wound that he was stabbing in.
I think it’s much higher than 20%. I’m not sure how they’re testing soldiers for that. Soldiers are notorious about lying about their mental health so they don’t get kicked out, seen as a coward, or lose benefits… and the “professionals“ that are testing them I have heard nothing but horror stories about their credentials and capabilities. And as far as the general public goes… Much more than 20% had traumatic childhoods. I’m gonna say at least half of us.
Then why do some turn from a good childhood? And later in their 20s 30s have allot of issues with drugs or bad behavior?
Stay far away from anyone who brings you down in any way. When you see them coming, avoid them if you can. They'll get the message. I want to.say one more thing. Many women, including myself, have hormonal imbalances. Ive noticed that Health Professionals never asked me about my hormones. Depression and anxiety for women can be addressed with the proper bloodwork. Accupuncture helped me immensely as well.
No true at all.
I think childhood trauma is super important, and there are other things too, like what happened in the womb, who your grandparents were, and what kind of people our ancestors were, not to mention what we had for lunch, or if we're hungry.
True.
Yesterday was my 21st birthday and for the 3rd year in a row I sat in my apartment alone with nobody remembering me. I feel like I could disappear and no one would realize
How important are those formative childhood years
This man just glusses over this condition with such glib suggestions. The truth is its hard to find good company out there cause society xnd the people in it are cold hearted self centred idiots, just like this man
True that childhood trauma can affect how we function as adults, but we need to avoid blaming our past for everything that we fail at.
I wish I had someone like Maté in my family, he seems like such a fountain of warmth and empathy - a safe place where one might retreat when feeling overwhelmed. As a Muslim revert I was so touched when he spoke of leaving Zionism; he evidently desired a homeland but purged this yearning for the sake of the Palestinian people when he realised it was at their expense - there will always be a special place in my heart for him because of that. May Allah guide him. ♥️
Love this man he so gets it! Definitely trauma starts in childhood, no question!!❤️🙏🇮🇪
I think I was prone to trauma as a shy sensitive introvert. I was bullied at school and at home got told off too much. I think now this was too traumatising for me. I think many children born in the 70s actually had trauma in their childhood due to attitudes then
Great interviewer
Society and expectations is what blocks joy
I feel the same as Gabor. Joy was never something I was acquainted with 😢
Thank you, Gabor
He nailed it.
When is humanity going to take responsibility for continuing to create circumstances that perpetuate trauma...be it in childhood or adulthood??? I can't believe the interviewer's question?! PTSD used to be called "Shell Shock" when young men came out of the WW's... Then, similar reactions were noticed in response to other situations (motor vehicle accidents, illness, divorce, job loss, and nnot just experiencing a traumatic event but witnessing it) 911, Palestine, Gaza, Ukraine, Bosnia, Libya, Irak... So many more children & adults being exposed to & experiencing tragic & atrocious events And humanity continues to watch it on media...which also can traumatize people at any age ...causing nightmares & more As for the stats, it's dependant upon how many report their symptoms. Most people do their best to override inner turmoil. Hence, the numbers are much higher. PTSD is basically a normal response to abnormal events.
I think sometimes people really do feel lonely, or sad, or depressed because of those things. Usually when things changes, then the depression should lift. But if it doesn't lift, something else may be wrong, or, if you normally aren't depressed and suddenly you are extremely depressed and sad, what just recently happened that caused that? Sometimes I believe that it's actual stressors of life. But, sometimes it is spiritual attack I believe it now. I didn't believe it yesterday but I do believe it now, that there is such a thing as spiritual attack. But it's important to know that loneliness is fixable. You go to a nice place with nice people and make friends, or do something kind for someone else. It really does help. Also work on a hobby like get a idea for a novel, or a new plant, or spend time with your dogs. It's hard when we are depressed but whatever you do, don't go back to bed. If anyone does want to talk they can. I am no expert but I know what it's like to feel unheard. And truly remember your blessings ❣️
This is exactly what I’ve always thought.
100% agree. I experienced PTSD from a horrendous medical experience. In therapy, I discovered I was more susceptible to PTSD because of early childhood trauma.
OM MANI PADME HUM
Anybody else a fan of how he just cuts her off as she's actively trying to speak right at the begining? Nobody?
I love him. What ages does he consider “childhood”?
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.sporees I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
Anxiety happens when you think you have to figure out everything all at once. Breathe. You're strong. You got this Take it day by day.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is. dr.sporees
Reality is! People need people and not having a spouse,kids, thinking that you will grow old alone for decades is not someone talking, it is reality for lot's of people!
EXACTLY what I have been saying.
I am tired of advice. Genuinely. I've tried all this stuff for 15+ years and I'm still in a hole.
What an enlightened man , bless this fellow
What’s with her playing with her hair ? That struck me as so - off - for this video. Weird.
Just yesterday I asked God to remove the person I’m talking to in my life if he’s not for me, and God delivered immediately. I thank God for that, but somehow, I just couldn’t avoid to think if I’m gonna be alone for the rest of my life. Is anyone out there who would care for me. And this mindset makes me depressed and hopeless.
Don´t you just love him?
Mate is saying there is a lot of stuff out there to assist you .. changing the habits, thinking , taking a walk , getting to the bottom within needs the change without.. "cold shower" .. the physical does change the mental . Asking yourself where is it coming from.? . loneliness? A break up . ,? A lack of self worth? You tube does have good stuff .. there is stuff out there that does not cost an arm and a leg rather than getting a crutch or addiction .. friends, family , gyms , yes books .. the tree , the sky .. the sea . A walk. A smile .. etc etc... there is so much the social media is in control of. Understanding is about change ..
I totally agree with this. Triggers will always be with you
@@chelsie116 yes, but less so with the passage of time.
@@robynhope219The old adage says that Time Heals All Wounds.
Can you read a book Can you watch you tube videos Can you take a walk Join a chat and share your life
Insightful video. I despise my sibling and we hardly have anything in common.
I spend so much time alone that it hurts, but my friends disrespected me, i forgave them, then forgave again, they kept acting the same way, i didn't want to ditch them because id be alone, well, now i did, and they'll never have the balls i have, i have spent countless days and years basically alone, even when i was friends with them i wasn't invited out anywhere with them. My own family never meet up, its always a mention of a possible bbq, never happens. When i was a kid, we always got together, cousins, aunts, unlces, out for dinner, party at my uncles house, constantly meeting up. And my dads family are huge, 10 of them. My mothers family are the same, no communication. Isn't that pathetic??. It just annoys me so much, and then when you do meet up with them, you realise why it rarely happens, because people don't really like each other. So what do we do?, we just sit in our little boxes. My dads family text on watsapp, when my aunt and uncle are only an hour away and we haven't met up since 2018!, like what is going on?? In my opinion, any family, should meet at least twice per year. Some families gather at their grandparents every sunday!, not mine. i like my own time, but i wish i had people to chat with and have fun with, horrible when you're 33 and its felt like my lifes been over since i reached 20.
The world isa much better place with you in it Gabor 🤗
All those pieces of advice are useless for me, unfortunately. Have tried almost anything, looks like not every case is subject to healing.
The problem is these are all just coping mechanisms. They don’t actually cure the problem with these processes. It could take many years to finally identify what is really the core of the issue and then do the mental work to change your perspective or state of mind based on whatever it was, that is the original cause. Most people check out before they ever get to this point. They really need face-to-face interaction and support from people they can deeply connect with.
My goodness, Dr Gabor is smug and self-righteous. He's clearly never had major depression.
I wish I had hair like yours. Mine is the boring straight variety.
When you're depressed you can't read, all the talk os bullshit!