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Becca Lory Hector
United States
Registrace 15. 08. 2018
I am an autism and neurodiversity consultant/author/speaker/mentor. I also happen to be autistic myself. I was diagnosed at the age of 36. I have now dedicated myself to the autism community and have a passion for quality of life for autistic adults. I have designed a virtual personal development course for Autistic Adults to help them go from surviving to thriving and how to build a life they don't need a vacation from.Just me and the truth about being an autistic adult alive TODAY.
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The Info Dump Files: Episode #39 with Philip King-Lowe
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Hold onto your headphones... Welcome to Episode #39 of The Info Dump Files! Our guest is autistic advocate and podcaster, Philip King-Lowe. We chat autism advocacy, podcasting and Today's Autistic Movement. Get ready to hyperfocus... Philip's Website todaysautisticmoment.com/ Doug's website: autismpersonalcoach.com/ Becca's website: www.trulyinclusiveleadership.com/
The Info Dump Files: Episode #38 with Marie DL (R.A.R.E. Advoc8)
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Hold onto your headphones... Welcome to Episode #38 of The Info Dump Files! Our guest is autistic advocate and disabled artist, Marie DL (R.A.R.E. Advoc8) We chat reclaiming spooky art, hair color and identity, and a little Pokemon Go. Get ready to hyperfocus... Marie's LinkTree: linktr.ee/RAREbyMarieDL Doug's website: autismpersonalcoach.com/ Becca's website: www.trulyinclusiveleadership.com/
The Info Dump Files: Episode #37 with Jaime Heidel
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Hold onto your headphones... Welcome to Episode #37 of The Info Dump Files! Our guest is autistic advocate, writer, and communication translator, Jaime Heidel. We chat creepy movies, writing, and The Sims. Get ready to hyperfocus... Jaime Heidel's website: www.thearticulateautistic.com/ Doug's website: autismpersonalcoach.com/ Becca's website: www.trulyinclusiveleadership.com/
The Info Dump Files: Episode #36 with Angela Locashio
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Hold onto your headphones... Welcome to Episode #36 of The Info Dump Files! Our guest is autistic advocate, certified sexologist, and coach, Angela Locashio. We chat sex, boundaries, and BDSM. Get ready to hyperfocus... Angela's Website mamapistachio.com/ Doug's website: autismpersonalcoach.com/ Becca's website: www.trulyinclusiveleadership.com/
Sometimes we keep physical objects to remind us of our journey... #AutisticallyYoursVlog
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The Info Dump Files: Episode #35 with Dani, The Punk Rock Autistic
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Hold onto your headphones... Welcome to Episode #35 of The Info Dump Files! Our guest is autistic advocate, musician, and gamer, Dani, The Punk Rock Autistic. We chat music, living in a punk house, and retro games. Get ready to hyperfocus... Dani, The Punk Rock Autistic thepunkrockautistic.com/ Doug's website: autismpersonalcoach.com/ Becca's website: www.trulyinclusiveleadership.com/
The Info Dump Files: Episode #34 with Jeremy Andrew Davis
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Hold onto your headphones... Welcome to Episode #34 of The Info Dump Files! Our guest is autistic writer, director, producer, and disability consultant, Jeremy Andrew Davis. We chat screenwriting, disabled characters in media, and autistic joy. Get ready to hyperfocus... Jeremy Andrew Davis www.jeremyandrewdavis.com/ Doug's website: autismpersonalcoach.com/ Becca's website: beccalory.com/
Autistically Yours: Reflections on Leveling Up!!! Watch Full Playlist Today ^-^
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The Info Dump Files: Episode #33 with Bridie Schellenberg
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Hold onto your headphones... Welcome to Episode #33 of The Info Dump Files! Our guest is autistic comedian, writer, and musical artist Bridie Schellenberg. We chat Rocky dislike, existential crises, and coffee & cheese! Get ready to hyperfocus... Bridie Schellennerg BridieSComedy? Doug's website: autismpersonalcoach.com/ Becca's website: beccalory.com/
Autistically Yours: On the Road to Leveling Up (Ep.9): It's the End of the Road as I Know It
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So… did Becca level up? For this last episode, Becca shares some thoughts on this whole experience, and she talks about where she is at and what’s next. ~ A neurodivergent couple, 6 cats, 4 dogs, 2 snakes, and a tortoise, in an RV, on the road to leveling up and to show that autistic adults can live an authentic, thriving life. We’ll show the whole journey from packing and selling our home, to ...
Why it's Important to Me to be an #OpenlyAutisticProfessional
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Come Meet Part of My Pack!
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Episode 8 of Autistically Yours: On The Road to Leveling Up is OUT NOW!!!
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Autistically Yours: On the Road to Leveling Up (Ep. 8): 2,250 miles later…
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Becca and her pack change plans… things get chaotic, but 2,250 miles later… find out what happens before the grand finale! ~ A neurodivergent couple, 6 cats, 4 dogs, 2 snakes, and a tortoise, in an RV, on the road to leveling up and to show that autistic adults can live an authentic, thriving life. We’ll show the whole journey from packing and selling our home, to living in the RV for a while a...
THE VERY LAST Being Becca LIVE (8/24): Let's Talk Autism & My Coaching Farewell...
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Being Becca is my unedited, semi-spontaneous, weekly vlog where I share my personal journey to not just survive on the autism spectrum, but to THRIVE on the autism spectrum. I share my intimate thoughts on the journey, my struggles, and my wins. I hope you find it helpful. My Course at Autism Personal Coach: Self Defined Living is now brought to you in partnership with Autism Personal Coach (AP...
yes👍 I like this thought process. Miss u Becca. hope things are going good with u🤗💜
Thank you for this video Becca. Sorry, I'm late to watch as always, but this was a great short with a message i think myself and alot of people need. (People who know why u do these videos and appreciate them) Haters gonna....well, u know, say dumb stuff that lets everyone know their level of intelligence, and apparently how much THEIR life must suck. Love to you Becca, u have helped me a lot and I wish I could do the same. thank u again💙
Marie is lovely 😊- great show! ❤ 🎨 ☠️ x
Thank you! Cheers!
Marie is a great educator - I am learning from her 😊
Thank you so much for having me on your show!
Our pleasure!
Hey Becca, wishing you blessings, health and joy for 2023! 🎉🌈
I feel that Minecraft could sponge my life. But I get a lot of joy from watching my nephew build and that is satisfying. He is so creative What a lovely lady. She has a heart of gold 💛
Love suspense thrillers! Often work out the plot but LOVE an unexpected twist 😮
What about underemployment- that’s what I am working to change. Interviewing anxiety has kept us out of jobs in which we have earned college degrees
I almost never use my phone speakers, but when I get a phone I go out of my way to get the loudest I can for the Reason Dr. Price has.
Can you please invite me? I am a passioned writer and artist
Dani is a complete moron. He excludes autistic people who have different opinion on him and have no problem with the term "Aspie" (he sees it as something demonic). A bit of a language purist. Also, like so many lefties, he continues to whine about capitalism. He doesn't represent us autists very well.
Well, this is incredibly ableist. First of all, my pronouns are CLEARLY stated in the video. Please refrain from misgendering people. I do not exclude people for having a different opinion, I do however provide education on the history of violence towards autistic people - and this includes the fascist history and the disenfranchisement of autistic people from Hans Asperger. This isn't a matter of a difference of opinion, it's empirical and objective fact, it's literal history. The vast majority of the autistic community rejects the usage of the term and label "Aspergers," not only due to the incredibly problematic history of the labeling, not only because of it's reinforcement of the use of problematic and harmful functioning labels, but also because none of the above actually exist any longer as a diagnosis or diagnostic criteria per the DSM V. I stand with the autistic community and with our preferences of language and the rejection of ableism that was placed up us without our consent. I do not, nor have I ever considered anything "demonic" because that's ridiculous and I don't believe that demons exist, haha. As far as my "whiny" stances on capitalism are, that's not on me to educate you. If you don't agree with the socioeconomic, sociological, or political positions listed on my page, then don't come to it - simple as that. I don't need to cater to everyone, my content is not for everyone and that's fine by me. Clearly you had some sort of interaction on my page that has made you reactionary, and while I have no history of interaction from you on my page, it's clear from your comment here that you weren't worth remembering in the first place.
@@thepunkrockautistic3902 I am an Autistic fella, I however refuse to be offended easily over small matters🙄 my faith is in ✝️ I confess my commandment has been aggressive, but what makes my blood oil is this snowflake culture run by feminized men that merely love to judge condemn those who disagree. Wicked!
@@thepunkrockautistic3902 misgendering also is nonsense😎 If you were born male, you are male no matter what. Period.
@@thepunkrockautistic3902 also whether or not you believe demons exist changes nothing 🤣🤣🤣now, I disagree with Locke that Autism was a demon. No, this man is a maniac - just like you lefties are. Nevertheless, I would prefer being around folks like Greg Locke over folks like you. The evangelicals didn’t point fingers at me over my music, my drawings on DeviantArt etc. I had many unhealthy addictions, I had to stop gaming, because it took away my time. A descision that was painful, but maybe saved my life. In fact, I fell in love with an evangelical girl, she loves the LORD. Whether I am good Christian, I don’t know, for I view myself as a bad one. I wish to stop sinning. But I wish people to questioner system. Back in the old days, even liberals like George Carlin began to see what’s goin on. A society, in where Gen Z is trying to draw kids towards them and make them question their gender. Only on Monday I was in the park, I saw innocent kids playing - and I thought in the words of that old Pink Floyd song „hey teacher - leave those kids alone!“ Dani, if I was you, I‘d get on my knees and cry out to the LORD. If you have questions, He will answer you. I used to be a worse sinner than you are now prior to my repentance. I know you laugh at me. But remember that Johnny Cash song? You can run on for a long time, but sooner or later God‘s gonna cut you down!
@@lw97nilslinuswhitewaterweb24 Bahahahahaha, okay dude. Whatever.
Love these conversations with Devon. :) so appreciate his thoughts
Yes!!!
Just found your channel, love it!
So very glad to have you ❤️
This is great, Becca.
Thank you 😊
I am excited to see where you're going. I love the new direction and you have helped me so much through this journey!
That coin spinning is driving me nuts!!!
Hi Becca, I wanted to take a second to let you know how this video has helped me. I am 53, just diagnosed autistic last year after a lifetime of confusion and a few incorrect mental health diagnoses. I want you to know how important it was to me for you to show your meltdown. For a long time, I've been having what I thought we're just crying jags, because what I saw in videos of autistic meltdowns wasn't the true state of what happened to me. Watching this video, I saw for the first time somebody else experiencing what I experience every so often, sometimes daily. It shows me that these are indeed meltdowns. All the emotions get backed up. Everything gets too much, and I end up feeling, like you said during the meltdown when you just need a hug from your mom, like a child. Every time I have these I feel like I can't cope, like there is something wrong with me because I simply can't handle...life. Although I've spent the past year reframing my life and researching absolutely everything there is to know about ASD, as that quest itself has become a SPIN for me, I feel like I'm just scratching the surface. I could never be an advocate like you are, spending so much wonderful outward energy to make us seen and known. My energy is very precious and I need a lot of downtime after an experience, as we all do. So thank you for this. If you were at all rethinking whether you should've posted it, you made the right decision, because you greatly helped me understand a huge aspect of my life.
Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ Let's me know I am reaching the right peeps 😉
You are. ❤
❤️
:)
Well, I’m so excited to see what comes next!
Woot!
I love the message at the end, very motivational! Good luck in your next adventure. 😊
Thank you!! 😊
Wow what a beautiful looking house! 🤩🫶🏼 All that green is so gorgeous and the water area is stunning. What a pleasure to have followed you on this journey. I’m excited to see the next chapter! Next level up career vlog!? I’ve been encouraged and have designed my own colouring book for Amazon… you are so inspiring! Mwah xx 😚
Omg I cannot wait to see it!
I wanna start again #life
You know it's never to late
Schenectady always makes me think of Fountains of Wayne. "Someone to Love" is now on repeat in my brain. Lol. PS - Please consider doing another vlog at some point. We are now all invested! :)
Lol! I hope my life stays interesting enough to require a vlog :)
I'm not often one to comment on CZcams videos, but I have to say how much I love Antonio's Dual Spires Cinnamon Festival tee - one of the best Twin Peaks homages I've ever seen! Excellent choice, my dude. 😎👍
I'll pass it on lol
Loving these vlogs and updates- great idea about the windows and cats. We’ve done that with a hotel and luggage before 😜👍🏼 I can imagine it being utterly exhausting doing all the driving let alone with animals! Well done you 🫶🏼⭐️
Thank you. You support means a ton <3
What an epic journey! I'm so glad to know your next video will be from Maine - yay!!!
Me too! Lol
So much has happened ⭐️
Soooooooooo much lol
Here for this upgrade!!
Thank you 😊
Wow 🤩 offer is in! Amazing! I can understand your hunting for food… tiresome 😞😢 So have you had people look round the old house yet… not sure if it works differently there? Do you need to sell to buy? My goodness, the thought of an escape room utterly terrifies me! Lol! I guess it’s in line with you real crime thrill seeking side? You can always do it another time. Happy anniversary xx 💋
House buying and selling is all happening. Details coming! Thank you for your good wishes ❤️
Totally understand the hyper focus painting! Although these days it can create flare ups with EDS so I’ve been told to pace myself! Which I hate doing! And off they go! Woohoo 🎉 Will you be doing any driving? Chasing freedom god-damn it! 🤣
In hot pursuit of it!
What's this even supposed to mean?
That our current world is built on a desire for sameness.
Hi future self!
Future self waves back ;)
Great reflections- loving the video editing btw! 🤩 Lovely to see Antonio in the video too 👋🏼- I preferred your blue bedroom too- calming 😌 Great videos for you to keep forever too.
You so get me! The memories are what inspired the blog lol. I am so glad to have Izabelle to help me make it pretty 😍
I wish the decision to disclose or not disclose was not so difficult in today’s workplace. I have not yet chosen to disclose when applying, but have chosen to only apply for positions where my accommodations can be guaranteed by working from home. I am currently autistically out at work now. It works because of my industry type and has felt pretty good.
Something has to shift. We cannot continue to live in the shadows
I’m happy to see you looking so relaxed and happy this week. I love your passion! I’m routing for you.
Thanks for being on my team!
😢 promosm
i needed to be reminded dis thank you
Glad it found you ❤️
I actually liked the green bathroom. I had significant feels at the beginning and just as significant when you showed your empty office. Walter expresses it, too. Bittersweet and finding sweetness to spare, I feel lucky to tag along via your blog. Always: thanks for all you do!
Thanks for watching, Bill. As always, Walter is the best compass I've got!
You are amazing and brave!
Thank you <3
We're here for you Becca! Thank you for reminding us that vulnerability is courageous.
Thanks for your support, Doug ❤️
Keepin’ in real 😘 You are not alone with your adult meltdowns! I totally felt that solidarity with you. It’s very emotional moving and Everything that comes along with it. X
Hugs ❤️
I actually had a discussion with my Engineering VP a few weeks ago, where I told him that I almost quit because behaviours in the workplace on how people communicated, and shared knowledge left me feeling like it was inaccessible to me, and a pattern emerged that once I saw it my mind couldn't let me stay in the situation unchanged. I said in that moment I had a choice between leaving, and being loud about what was wrong (and risking having to leave), because I could not work unless something changed. I chose to stay, but it only worked if I felt I had the scope to push and change things.
Good for you!
Becca - please try to not be so hard on yourself. All those emotions at the beginning of the show are totally expected based on the pressure and upheaval you are experiencing. Don’t fight the feelings. Live them and let them go when ready. ❤
Thank you 😊
What is this even about it’s way to vague.
It's a clip from a livestream :)
This subject is so important!!! Def the interview we can mask, but then we get the job and masking long term is not sustainable at all! And shout out to me lol
Agreed. And super shout out to you!
A standard corporate open layout office environment is my biggest disabler. There are no opportunities to not mask. It’s ridiculously exhausting. My biggest win has been securing a permanent work from home position.
I am the same. I could never do "the office" again
We definitely need a hand signal. Mid video I started googling "gold" in sign language. Lol.
That's an awesome idea. Oooh or the sign for infinity maybe!
Gosh, major transitions there!! I can totally understand the safe food comfort thang! I too understand the empath thing with animals and people, along with sleep deprivation… that’s super difficult 😥 Hang in there Becca, good times are a-comin’ soon 🧡💛💚
Man, I hope so! I am beat.
Love that you saged the RV! Take all the good karma you can get!
Exactly!