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Listen to what litigation and disputes really sound like.....
Have you ever thought about just what a lawsuit, conflict or dispute between two or more people really sounds like? To most observers, it all sounds like a foreign language, just noise with little rhyme, reason or common sense. However, to a mediator, there are countless hidden messages, clues and indicators buried inside this noise which can provide a road map to resolve the situation.
Lawsuits, disputes and other conflicts almost always present opportunities for a mediator, a neutral third party professional, to intervene to help restore order and work to advance the best interests of all concerned.
Mediation and mediators help people restore communications with one another. Mediation and mediators create a safe room and environment to restore trust and avoid more protracted litigation. Mediation and mediators allow people to sit down and try to conduct a civilized and confidential settlement negotiation to resolve their disputes privately out of court. Try it.
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Mediation: Where you can communicate and negotiate better.
zhlédnutí 64KPřed 9 lety
A mediation begins with an opening statement from the mediator explaining the rules and the process and it can end with binding written agreement to resolve some or all of the matters in dispute. This opening statement is presented by Thomas F. Meyer, a Florida Supreme Court Certified Circuit Court Civil Mediator from Delray Beach, Florida. In this video, this mediator not only presents the bas...

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  • @besmart2350
    @besmart2350 Před rokem

    Other lawyers on CZcams say Mediation is non binding. They say if it’s binding then it’s called Arbitration. Are they wrong?

    • @4disputes
      @4disputes Před 7 měsíci

      If an agreement is reached during mediation, it can be just as binding as a judgment in trial; however, its entirely up the parties in mediation to decide whether or not to settle and under what terms. Arbitration, on the other hand, transfers the power and discretion to decide a case from the parties themselves to a third party, i.e. the arbitrator who rules similar to a judge based upon evidence presented during the arbitration.

  • @personalinjuryshow
    @personalinjuryshow Před rokem

    Awesome content.

    • @4disputes
      @4disputes Před 7 měsíci

      Thank you. More content on the way.

  • @TheSuperdave100
    @TheSuperdave100 Před rokem

    Great information. Outstanding!! 😊

  • @JTheTravelDude
    @JTheTravelDude Před 2 lety

    Great video! Thank you for creating this! There’s nothing like it on CZcams!

  • @kulrich10
    @kulrich10 Před 2 lety

    So the mediator can just keep you there until they want to release you....?..

    • @4disputes
      @4disputes Před rokem

      No, you are not held hostage, but you might be tempted to want to leave BEFORE all meaningly settlement talks have been discussed. Only the mediator will know when enough is enough because he hears everything from both sides not just your side. That's the power of confidentiality.

  • @kulrich10
    @kulrich10 Před 2 lety

    Small investment of your time...on average you are at $1500 minimum

    • @4disputes
      @4disputes Před rokem

      Do you think paying $1500 is too much to pay? May I ask, how much would you be willing to pay a lawyer to handle it for you in court instead? Litigation costs much more and statistics show that less than 5% of all lawsuits are ever actually tried. In other words, almost all lawsuits are settled out of court which is exactly where you can start with mediation.

  • @jenniferg6818
    @jenniferg6818 Před 2 lety

    I wish you were in Maine.

  • @shukrihassanhared9701

    This Discussion Will Be Pavethe Wayfor Solution, After Long Time Misunderstanding , peaple Should Respect This Meeting Discussion.

    • @4disputes
      @4disputes Před rokem

      Respect is compromised when a dispute arises. Then the parties lose trust in one another. Without trust, there can be no meaningful settlement discussions. Mediators serve as a medium for both parties to trust throughout the settlement process.

  • @shukrihassanhared9701

    Everything Will Be Discussed In Discussion Meeting , Not Necessary Now Because of That Is Why What We Have Talked The Discussion Promised Your Side Is Being Waiting To Plan Day , Time But PM time Is Necessary According to Us . Thanks .

  • @krsubramanian6637
    @krsubramanian6637 Před 3 lety

    Very informative, short and crisp presentation

  • @jeffmarionpersonalinjuryla2966

    I like that you simulate what the room looks like and how the start of the mediation might go.

  • @bobchristopher6928
    @bobchristopher6928 Před 3 lety

    Great video. Thanks for your insight.

  • @kirkcavanaugh1493
    @kirkcavanaugh1493 Před 5 lety

    I love it.

  • @mouse879
    @mouse879 Před 5 lety

    The at fault party should just pay out to avoid all this that should be a law

    • @jeffmarionpersonalinjuryla2966
      @jeffmarionpersonalinjuryla2966 Před 3 lety

      As long as insurance carriers can turn a buck delaying and denying claims, we're stuck with the situation we have. There are insurance carriers who have a strategy of delaying and dragging their feet.

    • @justplay0621
      @justplay0621 Před rokem

      Well, generally speaking, that is the way laws are supposed to work, but you can't always expect people to follow the rules and do the right thing. When they don't, that's when you need mediators, lawyers and judges to figure it all out and encourage or, if needed, force people to get back in line.

    • @mouse879
      @mouse879 Před rokem

      @@justplay0621 your absolutely right

    • @justplay0621
      @justplay0621 Před rokem

      @@jeffmarionpersonalinjuryla2966 Unfortunately, both avoidance and attrition are widely used legal strategies. As long as the perceived benefits outweigh the perceived costs, such tactics will continue. Change the laws, change the cost/benefit calculations or convince people to get more of a conscience.

    • @4disputes
      @4disputes Před rokem

      Generally, that is how laws work. Unfortunately, people do not always follow the laws. Then what...There is no self-help, so we must rely on lawyers and judges to set them straight or we can try to persuade people to work things out on their own. That's what mediators try to do.

  • @Jay-hr3rh
    @Jay-hr3rh Před 5 lety

    Thank you for saying "something has to give". As a family conflict mediator, I have witness alot of parents coming to mediation with the sole purpose of winning and manipulation.

    • @4disputes
      @4disputes Před rokem

      A lot of mediation involves taking a fresh and more objective look at the strength (weakness) of both sides of a lawsuit. What has to give is unfounded unrealistic expectations.

  • @brendamartz2685
    @brendamartz2685 Před 5 lety

    Thank you for sharing your sound advise on mediation. I have my hearing this week and your video has helped me understand what to expect.

    • @jeffmarionpersonalinjuryla2966
      @jeffmarionpersonalinjuryla2966 Před 3 lety

      Hope you did well.

    • @brendamartz2685
      @brendamartz2685 Před 3 lety

      @@jeffmarionpersonalinjuryla2966 No, my case ended with no restitution. I should have changed attorneys when I felt they lost interest in my case. It was a horse accident and it has changed my life forever. An accident that should have never happened if the trail guide had done his job. Thanks for asking.

  • @lovingatlanta
    @lovingatlanta Před 6 lety

    👍Wow. Terrific. Thank you.

  • @medinasadri
    @medinasadri Před 6 lety

    Excellent! As a Florida Supreme Ct. certified mediator myself I applaud you for sharing this information. Especially the part of self determination.

    • @fortunechuka1939
      @fortunechuka1939 Před 4 lety

      Hi. Please would you rather use mediation or allow the parties to negotiate themselves for a business dispute.

    • @4disputes
      @4disputes Před rokem

      Self-determination is almost ALWAYS how disputes and lawsuits are resolved. In the end, almost no one goes the distance to wait for lawyers and judges to actually try and decide cases.

    • @4disputes
      @4disputes Před rokem

      @@fortunechuka1939 Depends. To make settlement negotiations meaningful, you need confidentiality and a commitment or obligation from everyone to participate. Adding a mediator adds a safe harbor which might make one or more parties more comfortable to talk.

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      @sulero-zp3rd Před rokem

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  • @TheXboxeraser
    @TheXboxeraser Před 7 lety

    Outstanding. Very informative....

  • @sl4983
    @sl4983 Před 7 lety

    Lawyer and warrior rhyme.

  • @LuxxSana
    @LuxxSana Před 8 lety

    Very helpful