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Better Marriage
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Registrace 8. 12. 2021
"I help men save their marriages, overcome addictions and personal challenges, beat depression, anxiety, and stress, and create a bigger, stronger, and more powerful Version 2.0 of themselves."
The 4 Steps To Saving A Marriage
For more information on how we can help you, visit www.bettermarriage.com.au (www.bettermarriage.com.au/)
The Keys To Saving Your Marriage
Struggling to keep your marriage intact? Discover the essential strategies for saving your relationship in this eye-opening episode. We delve into practical steps you can take to reignite the love and commitment in your marriage. Our expert guests share their wisdom on communication, trust-building, and overcoming common marital challenges. Whether you're facing a potential divorce or just want to strengthen your bond, this episode provides invaluable insights to help you navigate the path to a happier, healthier marriage.
In "The Keys To Saving Your Marriage," you'll learn about the critical importance of effective communication. We'll explore how open and honest conversations can break down barriers and rebuild the trust that is often eroded in troubled marriages. Our guests will share their experiences and proven techniques for fostering better understanding and empathy between partners.
Trust is the foundation of any strong relationship, and this episode will delve into the ways you can rebuild trust after it has been broken. We'll discuss the significance of forgiveness and the steps you can take to move past resentment and hurt. Our experts will provide practical advice on how to demonstrate your commitment and reliability, which are essential for regaining your partner's trust.
Overcoming common marital challenges is another key focus of this episode. From financial stress to parenting disagreements, we'll address the everyday issues that can strain a marriage. You'll gain insights into how to tackle these problems together, creating a united front that can withstand the pressures of life. Our guests will offer solutions that have worked for countless couples, giving you a roadmap to navigate these obstacles successfully.
Whether you're facing a potential divorce or simply want to strengthen your bond, "The Keys To Saving Your Marriage" offers invaluable guidance. This episode is packed with actionable tips and heartfelt advice that can transform your relationship and bring you closer to your spouse. Tune in now to unlock the secrets to a lasting, fulfilling marriage.
**Hashtags:** #MarriageHelp #SaveYourMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageTips #HealthyMarriage
The Keys To Saving Your Marriage
Struggling to keep your marriage intact? Discover the essential strategies for saving your relationship in this eye-opening episode. We delve into practical steps you can take to reignite the love and commitment in your marriage. Our expert guests share their wisdom on communication, trust-building, and overcoming common marital challenges. Whether you're facing a potential divorce or just want to strengthen your bond, this episode provides invaluable insights to help you navigate the path to a happier, healthier marriage.
In "The Keys To Saving Your Marriage," you'll learn about the critical importance of effective communication. We'll explore how open and honest conversations can break down barriers and rebuild the trust that is often eroded in troubled marriages. Our guests will share their experiences and proven techniques for fostering better understanding and empathy between partners.
Trust is the foundation of any strong relationship, and this episode will delve into the ways you can rebuild trust after it has been broken. We'll discuss the significance of forgiveness and the steps you can take to move past resentment and hurt. Our experts will provide practical advice on how to demonstrate your commitment and reliability, which are essential for regaining your partner's trust.
Overcoming common marital challenges is another key focus of this episode. From financial stress to parenting disagreements, we'll address the everyday issues that can strain a marriage. You'll gain insights into how to tackle these problems together, creating a united front that can withstand the pressures of life. Our guests will offer solutions that have worked for countless couples, giving you a roadmap to navigate these obstacles successfully.
Whether you're facing a potential divorce or simply want to strengthen your bond, "The Keys To Saving Your Marriage" offers invaluable guidance. This episode is packed with actionable tips and heartfelt advice that can transform your relationship and bring you closer to your spouse. Tune in now to unlock the secrets to a lasting, fulfilling marriage.
**Hashtags:** #MarriageHelp #SaveYourMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageTips #HealthyMarriage
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Elevate Your Marriage by Focusing on Yourself
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Reviving a Marriage: Will Smith's Journey of Transformation and Reconciliation
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Shame its so expensive for the course, I would love to make it work for my 3 year old daughter.
Marriage may go through toxic. That is why. I am watching your youtube.
I hope it turns out well for you Bruce, my prayers are with you brother.
Thanks Cody, 11mths into your programme and I have learnt so much about myself and where I was going wrong, keep the content up
Thanks Matt, much appreciated :)
I watched your youtube a lot. It is very helpful. My wife left home. It has been for a while. And she refuse to come back home. She wanted me to pay her parent`s debt for her. It made our problem started. It is not a small amout. What should I do to make my wife to come back for me?
Hi Bruce, the probably overly simple answer would be "what do you want more, your money or your wife?".
@@BetterMarriageByCodyButlerOf course, I want my wife more. There is no questions about it. But her parent`s debt is more than I thought. I can`t afford to pay all right away. I just need some time to help them. I will find out. Thanks for your help.
There is obviously more to the story but we’re limited as to what can be said in the comment :)
Brad’s awesome - appreciate the insight
Thank you
I see it!! Come on over, let’s hang out. 👍🏽🤣
So let me get this straight according to you it’s the man’s fault that the woman’s deciding to act like a child and not regulate her emotions. That’s just great advice.
Yes you have it correct.
Why don't you let her go? Who doesn't want you, you don't want him Let the one who does not love you and does not want you go to hell
Because some people think their family is fighting for.
@@BetterMarriageByCodyButler That is, just to enlarge the ego and feel that everything is under control The world does not need us. Everything will continue according to the cosmic plan, with or without our presence
@@samirmutaschar5926 ok
revolting little man
Good advice!
Thank you Sir
This video made me constipated
Your wife is a lucky woman.
Jesus loves u all repent and turn to god believe in the gospel
I don’t understand when tf she takes accountability and responsibility for her negative and toxic ways in the relationship. Why do these videos only to make the woman feel better? When tf do the issues the man has in the relationship get addressed? So the man has to struggle and silence with none of his needs being met or addressed until…she feels better?
This video is titled what to do if your your wife wants a divorce. If you believe telling her she’s toxic and needs to change and that she needs to address your needs is a strategy to get her to change her mind, by all means, go for it.
What if she should feel bad about herself for her actions
What about it?
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Yes
Sounds like you want men to take the abuse? I have done this change of mindset, and her behavior continues. What about our emotional safety and security?
You missed the entire point of the video. Search "Kruger Dunning effect".
Man I need to hear stuff like this from time to time to keep my self looking at the positive aspects. Thanks for all you do.
thank you
You stated the result, bud, not the solution.
I 100% stated the solution. You didn't understand it.
There’s a reason there are only 13 comments to this video being up one year. This is bullshit. Why is it always on us men to change the situation? Her actual realization of what contributions she makes to the situation is non existent. Often times her unhappiness is rooted within HERSELF and there is NOTHING YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE. This is the same advice I’ve been hearing my entire long life and could not figure out WHY IT NEVER WORKS. Of course, she will tell you where you fall short, but rectifying that will only lead to the next thing she doesn’t like. These are NOT THE ROOT PROBLEM. You will continue trying to hit a moving target, and if you do get close, that’s when the goalposts move. Most women are unable to be satisfied with a normal predictable good life, and are unhappy. Find one who isn’t like this, gents, or just be satisfied with letting the unhappy one go and learn the fulfilling aspect of going it alone. There are plenty out there you can have short term flings with to keep your hormones satisfied!
You haven’t understood not the first point in the video. I said none of the things you’ve taken from it, but hey, doesn’t stop you become rude, aggressive and obnoxious. But you’re entitled to your opinion. Can’t imagine why your wife wants nothing to do with you.
I gave it look just to get a perspective from a different person. The moment when you said logic attacks emotions I lost all respect and interest and you lost all credibility. When a person steals something which is not necessary for their life-saving situation, takes an item/money that’s not theirs, without asking, without permission: THE FACT is they are in the wrong. EMOTIONS of the thief don’t matter here. Steer clear, useless “advice”
Awesome, thanks for sharing your view.
i just find another girl
So why are you watching this video?
Why is it always the man's fault? This video is like every other one on YT. It assumes the man is doing everything wrong and the woman is the poor innocent victim trying to save the marriage and its us men who are not letting them. Women are just as capable at stuffing things up. What if she is the one doing things wrong and the us men are trying to tell her what the problems in the relationship are and she meets it with hostility, defensiveness or not taking it on board?
I wish you the best of luck with your approach, sounds like it’s working out great for you.
Damn you’re saying the exact same thing in other ways for 7 minutes. Not talking about solutions. Moreover, it’s not always the fault of the man. Getting sick of these one sided sell pitches
Then my suggestion is don’t watch anymore videos from me. All the best.
It's always the man's fault with these types of videos. It's always what us men are doing wrong and how women are the poor innocent victim who's trying to save things and we are hostile to them and we need to change. My gf f'in cheated on my with a lesbian from work and somehow that's MY FAULT! Sexual discrimination is illegal and this channel should be reported and shut down.
@@gsf5882 exactly man. That sucks big time though..
You are right and I've done everything what ever you said to do but there is no winning situation
No bro, the number 1 rule we have in our program is never grade your own homework. In your mind you’ve done everything, that’s your evaluation. You’re simply not qualified to evaluate your own performance.
Subscribed. You made total sense to me. I have just married a Filipina lady, it has its challenges.😊
Thank you
I’m committed
Excellent
Emotional safety and emotional validation goes both ways. If your wife never validates your perspective, you're not going to want to validate hers. It's just how it goes. Men don't just invalidate women for no reason. Men are charged with always having to be sensitive to women's emotions and views, but women are never held accountable to the same standards. Until this changes, marriages will always fail unless the man is willing to be a simp 100% of the time
Couldn’t agree with you less, and I’m sure that’s validated by your lack of relationship success. No doubt you have a series of failed relationships behind you, all the fault of someone else no doubt.
He has failed relationships because he’s dealing with American western women. You don’t know any of the men here, but you’re automatically pointing the finger at the men as if women are not notorious for stonewalling.
If the woman wants to be understood on an emotional level, and she wants to avoid fights and pain, then why do women do nothing but create fights by blaming the men for their feelings? All women have to say is "i want you to understand me" and I will seek to understand. But instead I'm met with unfair judgements and I'm condemned as an evil or bad person for not reading her mind and not wanting to put up with baseless hostile accusations every day of my life.
I think you might be misreading the situation a bit here.
You say the cause of the stonewalling is the man's behavior, but what if the man was unfairly judged by a neurotic, controlling and emasculating wife who cannot accept responsibility for her own actions, and the man got sick of it, and now the wife is stonewalling? Does the mechanics of cause and effect apply to the woman or just solely to the man?
You're not going to want to hear anything I have to say to you.
There is no excuse for stonewalling. Stonewalling is abusive, manipulative, and childish. If a woman is stonewalling you, it's because she's holding onto resentment. She thinks she is entitled to resent you, but you can't resent her. Double standards. And even if you apologize and try to communicate with her to resolve things, she will still stonewall you. So you're constantly being crucified, and you're on a neverending hampster wheel of trying to appease her emotions (even if they're not justified at all) to get her to stop withdrawing. It's all a game plated by a woman who is emotionally immature and can't handle conflict.
Interesting view point.
Perfectly said
She is going to start looking elsewhere, she is going to start an affair.
No, it doesn’t mean that at all. It means communication with you is painful, pointless or both.
Have you thought of running relationship courses? I mean before the crisis point occurs? I think they would be successful. To be good at anything requires study and practice. The same is true of relationships. I wish I had known the information before my family fell apart.
Yes, I do have a program.
How do you deal with a wife that is checked out and when you even try to make small talk with her she says to you to not even bother…. She has also been angry at me and tries to pick out everything she thinks I do wrong in her eyes which are the most random things to start a fight. I have stopped giving in and arguing about them but don’t know how to regain trust and rebuild when she is so shut down…
Best thing is to schedule a call with us, there’s no quick answer.
Love this mindset!
Thank you :)
Could anyone explain me it in simple way
Sure
verygood
Thank you :)
very good advice. Thank you
Thank you
Is this working ?
Yes
I was emotionally abusive to my wife, I had an abusive dad growing up and it had a big effect on me as a child. We were married 7 years and she just walked out after one argument with no warning, we’ve been separated for 5 months and she’s just been cold and doesn’t reach out or try’s to communicate. When we do talk she talks to me like a stranger and doesn’t look at me in the eyes, always looks away. I’m always polite and nice when she’s around. In the beginning I was needy and pushy, I bought her flowers and fixed her car and brought her coffee to work I did everything. after a month I corrected myself and stopped reaching out. She said she wanted a divorce after 3 months, I cried and became needy again and begged her to reconsider. These last 4 months I’ve been going to counseling for myself and also talked to a coach. As a Christian I also recommitted my life to Christ after the she left, I’ve reflected on myself and began to see everything that I did wrong in our marriage, I’ve taken full accountability and held myself responsible for my actions. I told her this and she told me that it doesn’t matter because she doesn’t love me anymore and has no feelings, she feels broken. And she also said she noticed I’m changing and she said that’s good. But then couple days later she mentioned wanting to talk about the divorce subject. She’s also pulling away from the family as well.
I asked her which way she was leaning for fixing our marriage or not, and she said she’s leaning towards divorce. At this point if she tells me again if she wants a divorce I’m just going to tell her I respect her decision if that’s what she wants, but also let her know that I love her, and I personally don’t want the divorce. At this point it seems impossible. She also went to counseling for 3 months during this time.
Absolutely true!
Thank you
This is the most unhelpful video I’ve ever seen
Awesome
15 years out of 22 is not a drought, it's a lifestyle choice.
Yes
Do you tell her you're doing the program
Depends on your situation
Haven’t done your program yet or anything but you saved my marriage. I like others feel you truly understand what most are missing in their marriage. I was feeling like my wife was a Rubik’s cube. Thanks for shifting my consciousness to understand I was the issue.
Fantastic Jorel!
We’ll done :)
I wish I had found this info a week ago hopefully it’s not too late for us now.
It wasn’t too late we’re back together because of this
Awesome
There’s always hope
Must be nice to be a woman, since nothing in a relationship is ever your fault.
All the best
Literally. If the woman doesn't want sex, the man has to change what's he doing. If it's the man who doesn't want sex, he still has to change what he's doing. Never ever heard any advice telling a woman what to do or not to do. It's literally, of there are issues, it's the man's fault. 😂😂
@@carpentryfirst3048 No, that's not what I meant at all. If a man doesn't want to have sex with his wife, it's crucial for the woman to consider making some changes. You may not have heard any advice on what a woman should do in this situation for two reasons: 1. You’ve Never Searched for It: You likely haven't actively sought out this type of advice. 2. It's Not a Common Issue: Generally, men tend to have a strong desire for sex, and it's rare for them to refuse it.
2 years of separation and my wife mentioned divorce.I will grant her wish
All the best
All the best
Just wow, everything you pointed out in the video is me to a T. Thank you
Thank you
overly simplistic!!! why don’t i just wish upon a star too!!!
Awesome, good opportunity for you to make some videos on the real solution then. Can’t wait to watch it.