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Thank you i came from a youtuber called Richard who in his video said to use your channel to get rid of social anxiety

I just need to improve my social skills a lil more again😁

I don't think number 1 applies to me, like I spend lots of time trying to read social cues, but I don't read people like a book, I just spend more time thinking about what it _could_ mean.

2 a day????? I can’t even remember the last time I talked to a stranger. We need to start with baby steps 😂 1 a month 💀

Thank you for the video, though it does seem like a challenge, I'll work through it slowly, take care.

Nice video bro, can you go more into this topic and find more ways to handle social anxiety

you have a “name 10 books” kinda accent and voice

All my life I never knew that I was doing mistake number 2 all along, hunched over with crossed arms as if I am repelling everyone and ready for a fight, thank you so much for the insight 🙏🏾

The Internet is full of sharlatans like you

lots of weird fingers in your video;)

"Ghost him, avoid him like plague." hehe problem is that this turns into social anxiety and society tells us that we will become weird if we avoid people and isolate ourselves - pathologizing our normal reactions to toxic people Great vid! I love the message number 2! I would think to do something like that but society and self help books brainwashed me to not pull something like that up - but it makes total sense to do it with hard core toxic people!

The title of this video should be: "How to stand up for yourself in middle school." Because this is childish behavior you figure out how to deal with as part of growing up. Toxic people, in the workplace, aren't textbook bullies like this. A++ for the use of AI Generated art, transitions, and animations. I enjoyed that. And I enjoyed your humor throughout, too. Keep making content! Edit - My tips to stop toxic people from bothering you: Figure out how to be physically imposing (workout a LOT and do plenty of practical MMA training at least once a week), highly gregarious and charismatic, and be instantly and and extremely violently aggressive when your physical well being is threatened. This is similar to prison but with a whole lot more social intelligence and likeability involved because you have to actually like and get along with the people around you, outside of prison. The reason these methods work well is myriad: 1. The physically imposing part subconsciously intimidates other from running their mouths at you. But some of the "little man syndrome" types will still be aggressive or even more aggressive to you despite being fit and muscular. If you're a woman, this still works! You won't be as muscular but even men can tell when a woman is clearly strong (and will think twice of messing with her). Because we are still firiggin' APES. 2. The gregariousness and charisma go extremely far to disabling or disarming toxic people and aggressors. This takes a while to develop and you may fail. But that's part of life. If a little man syndrome dude walks up on you, aggressive, etc. Instead of being aggressive back by chucking him like a sack of potatoes, raise your hands up in innocence JUST like Not Igor suggested, and say disarming things such as, "NO way I would fight you. These muscles are just for show. I'm no match for you, seriously. You're clearly built for power and speed and I'm just a pretty boy who likes looking at myself in the mirror. I ain't worth the jail time." Because, often, you both would get arrested for fighting if you're out in public, anyway. Avoiding a fight is better than hoping you can get a sucker punch in before you get stabbed or shot. And you have no idea if "little man" is part of a gang and fighting back results in retaliation. It's better to disarm and act cowardly in this scenario than getting the oh-so-satisfying clapping sound as your fist lands right on their face. 3. When all else fails and you or people you care about are at risk of bodily harm, you bring holy retribution upon them such that they will deeply regret it the rest of their lives. This is what the practical training is about. But don't ever go too far. Know when to stop. This is also what the training is for. In some countries, defending yourself is illegal. Know your situation. Know your limits. Most of these types are full of hot air and too much alcohol, anyway. So a quick choke out and roll them over on their side until they come to. Then start with #2 and get the bouncer or police. If he's drunk, he may vomit and choke so don't get manslaughter charges - take care of him until authorities arrive. I promise you, being fit, likeable, and charismatic (those last two are not the same thing) goes much further than anything else you will try. It will stop problems before they even show up. You will make friends and they will be quick to defend you when toxic people try to do toxic things. This works much better for your career and in the work place. It's incredible how much of a benefit being fit and muscular is in the work place.

it was fatte this found me

These vids are amazing, keep them coming, don't get discouraged by view count, one vid will blow up and ur channel will take over youtube.

My toxic narcissists usually attack me when I'm alone, so these appeals to friends won't work. I devised some other means of shutting them up, by turning their provocations back on them. She'll say something stupid, to try to get a response she can use against me. But no matter what it is, I just ask, "Is that what you think? Imagine that." Then look at my bare wrist and exclaim, "Oh, look at the time!" And get up and leave. Another good way to shut up toxic rants is to ask, "Does anybody care what you think?" (Putting them on the defensive) then INTERRUPT their answer with, "NO, I meant SANE, INTELLIGENT people." This will embarrass them into silence, because they have no support for their toxic trash, except the voices in their head.

Want to be friends on discord bro ? :). Btw I love this kind of content man. Keep up the good work 🎉.

hi, I'm subscriber number 91. remember me when you get famous😁

Bro did you cook those paintings? They are very good!

Why did my brain read the thumbnail equation as P(E)N/S

I didn’t consider having gratitude for this stage in my life. Ive been dealing with anxiety lately and it’s isolated me in a lot of ways but, you’re exactly right. One day I’ll look back at this time and i’ll be proud of the progress that I have made. Thank you for this incredibly motivating message. 🤍

That's not fair I dont have "inner imaging" I have an "Inner Dialogue" meaning I can't even imagine what my own moms face looks like and you want me to remember a strangers face? I can remember people, names, actions, ect. damn near perfectly AND ACTIONS EFFECT PEOPLE... "you could say the most vile thing and they probably wouldn't recognize your face" but why does that matter? im not anxious because im afraid someone will remember my face and call me out for the last time I was weird 😂 im anxious because of the CONSEQUENCES of being "weird" in the moment... People say/do violent/rude things, some people are openly racist/sexist/ableist... im not gonna just stop being anxious because they wont remember my face, because that doesn't stop THEIR ACTIONS in the moment nor does it stop how much their actions hurt, and you do know anxiety can come from the fear of an action right? Like just because I cant pull their face from my memory bank doesn't mean I wont have an instant flooding of every bad memory involving them and every rude ACTION they've done once I see their face again, and it sure as hell doesnt mean that the action just didnt effect me because I couldnt remember their face. The only way you (permanently) forget the face of someone saying the most vile things to you is if you A.) have Alzheimer's or B.) just so happen to NEVER SEE THEM AGAIN because the second you see their face in real life you remember them and the things they did cause THATS HOW MEMORY WORKS. Like literally what does having the ability to see their face in your head have to do with anything at all tbh, like the real world exists and those people exist in the real world and so do their actions??? edit: I also live in a village of like 900 people spread across like 7 miles^2 and don't be leaving the house due to my social anxiety so I interact with like 5 strangers a month, while I do love the sentiment of this video it seems EXTREMELY individual and self-centered... This may be YOUR answer, it may even be the answer for many people in the comments but it sure as hell isnt THE answer, let alone MY answer.... this sucks😞😞

i thought it said meth for a second 💀

I didn't remember any face, so 0% for that, and I got a 0.00011% on the second one lol

Thanks Igor! This video will prove a great resource for many im sure! Also, the background images are ai? No?

I just hope you listen to your advice at the beginning of step three don't get discouraged by low views your content is great keep making more and more people will come

Mine is 0.0019178022% What was yours?

you are my best friend

Bro this video was fire! I started cold approaching 1 or 2 months ago, and I think I'd recognise some people if I were to meet them again. But this video made me realise that I would never remember what they did or said to me.

You don't see much content like this on CZcams. Very underrated channel. Keep it up bro

This actually makes sense.. Bro has it!

very very good thumbnail

bro

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very helpful!

keep up the good work! amazing video, i can see your channel making it very far

Did the script while sleep deprived, so I accidentaly said 5 conversation starters instead of 3 at 0:09 (oopsie)

This guy is definitely not Igor

Your editing is insane bro. Massive potential here

Guys, if you feel like this video doesn't provide practical advice, check out this man's other videos. He provides insane value that can seriously change your life. Great video, bro, but as I said, I felt like it was more generic than the others. You went from social anxiety to cold approaching too fast imo.

The amount of value in this video is insane! It's clear that you delved so deep into cold approaching that you basically figured it all out.

Subscribed, wish to see more videos like these.

good vid