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Amen. Thank you for sharing. This video blessed me, very encouraging ❤

Marriage isn't worth it anymore in 2024. Especially in the west.

Also I love the dances! Did you choreograph?

Girl, your ARMSSSSS!!! 😍😍😍 #GOALS Wow! I’m impressed! 💪🏽

Paris is okay. But if you have a big budget, go to New Boston. Much more culture there.

Go girl

As a woman that stereotype that we “grow to love” men we find unattractive is lowkey wrong… i cannot fathom trying to “make it work” with someone who’s appearance, scent, personality is not what I truly want !

You have to be at least ok to me, then we can see if we have chemistry and connect mentally and spiritually. I cant be totally turned off by the way you look. I dont always know when its a yes but i know when its a no.

You have to be attracted to the person it won't work.

I wish this was in ATLANTA it sounds fun

I keep being told I should take what I could get. Sadly, I'm only approached by men I have 0 attraction to. I've watched many christian marriages fail due to a lack of attraction to each other.

God will never have you marry someone who you are not attracted to. Period.

I'm a 45-year-old virgin, many women say I'm not attractive or ugly, so I gave up.

Nope

This is a great marriage partnership/team! Those truth details she shared her husband missed out at first really mattered and another previous video he answered a viewer’s question after her that was so good and left no room for confusion. Keep it up y’all. Definitely subscribing.

Charbria thank you for this because im always in my own head, your younger than me but i love your wisdom, thanks for the reminder.🙏🏽💜

This word was a blessing!

I dated someone great, Christian, consistent, reliable and a good friend for a while. The biggest issue was that I've never been physically or sexually attracted to him, so I,'ve never developed strong feelings and wasn't very fulfilled. I prayed a lot about the situation, even had some therapy sessions to figure out what I should do. In the end, I feel like God didn't specifically told me what to do and he wanted me to make choice by myself. In the end it all comes down to what are you able to tolerate. And remember that marriage requires sex and being affectionate towards your spouse and broken & unloving Christian mariages are not will of God.

Love this!! However, music was a little distracting

Sucks to think that we were gifted with the sense of noticing beauty but condemned to only realize that’s because God wants to torture us while He’s heartily laughing at us and rubbing His palms in sadistic delight when it’ll only denied an entire lifetime. You know what?? I recommend don’t marry, if that’s God’s pranking.

Well said!

Your channel helps me so much, Charbria. Christmas was really hard for me this year because both of my younger siblings are married and I'm not, and I'm 34. I hate feeling upset about my situation but I just get overwhelemed with sadness around the holidays. I know God can do the impossible but in the meantime I just keep thinking what more can I do to position myself to meet my husband.

Omggg my sister in Christ ❤️❤️ I love you thank you 🙏 still 30 haven't been with a man yet but as you said "dont settle your worth the wait"

The short answer is no Matthew 7:9-11 also Song of Solomon the couple were attracted to each other and expressed that. Also ppl have this idea that choosing someone you aren’t attracted to that they will be better. It’s very laughable. I tried to give a guy a chance who was unattractive and he was the WORST decision of my life, he was ugly, dirty and stunk, he was ugly on the outside and inside as well. I tried to date someone else who was unattractive who was actually a nice guy but it was so hard and he was dirty also, it was hard kissing him. There were times he kissed me and I could taste what he had for lunch had to tell him to brush his teeth-I just couldn’t do it. 🤢

As singletons, we all have/had crushes that we know aren't good for us but we can't help liking them... God knows whats best for us & he has an ordained spouse for us which is a spiritual blessing that we unlock by following his laws. Surely the person's spirit man, the person who will bring you closer to God is more important than outside looks but marrying someone you don't find attractive (or even respulsed by) seems insulting & desperate as it comes off like you're settling for something you don't desire. When it comes to partners & marriage, Satan tries to cause destruction with the spirit of rejection, lust & divorce & will try to stop God's plan for your life in everyway. God must of gave us physical, sexual & romantic attraction not for lust or fornication, but so we can accept & follow his will?

I'm a 47 y.o. woman desiring marriage... I've made the wrong choices too many times that now I don't trust myself... but how do u know it's God's calling?

God is different attraction to man is different than God's attraction when you are in the spirit attraction leaves it's about the heart

Wow ...powerful message.

Girl, I have listened to so many things about waiting on a godly husband just in my frustration and discouragement and this is the first thing that has really helped me. I listened to it several times so just wanted to say thank you God bless you!

Thank you. I needed to hear this.

Your messages are so timely and encouraging. The part about perfectionism hits. It can be so debilitating especially when it comes to singleness. I feel like I'm working so hard to be in purpose and and want so badly to be noticed but when time passes and nothing seems to be changing it can be so frustrating. It's been so hard to accept that my life doesn't look anything how I thought it would at this point. And no matter what I do, I'm still single. I just keep holding onto Jeremiah 29:11 ❤

Very insightful. Love this!

This channel should be big

Amen 🙏🏽 sis there is purpose in the single season, it's just up to us to embrace it.

Yes!

I just ordered this book 📖

❤

Yes is that's who he chose for you

As a survivor of sexual assault God has made it clear to me that he will not have me marry someone I am not attracted to, he knows my heart and my heart knows that would feel like R@&3 if i settled, I thank God for knowing what and who is a perfect fit for us and our desires , we just have to trust it will be the perfect match when he’s involved and we want his will not ours

I'm just turn 42 on Aug and still hopeful best patiently and waiting l don't other want Godly man only sent for me and God reminded CZcams videos about not too sexual sin on now on right track.

One thing I'm wondering is that what are people who are deemed by society as unattractive supposed to do? I know a lot of the time it's in their control but sometimes it just isn't. I want to believe there's someone for everybody.

Thanks for the encouragement. Power Couple for the glory of God 🙏

Amen. Great advice 😃👍

Great Advice. I've experienced that sometimes our attraction is misdirected because of our lack of maturity and placing Godliness above carnal desires. Sometimes a lack of attraction for the deeper things that matter tells us we are not ready yet for God's best.

I had to end seeing somebody after two dates. I don't care about a man's height or how much money he makes as long as he has a job of some sort that is legal. This guy was a good man but I felt like there was a disconnect. I met him on a dating site and he was actually a hundred pounds heavier then he was on the profile pictures. I didn't want to look like a jerk so I went on the first date with him and although I did have a good time and he was a nice guy. It felt like hanging out with a friend and not with a potential boyfriend / husband. Having butterflies with someone is a myth and I understand that we are not always going to be happy in life. But if I don't feel that attraction towards him then imagine if we were to get married and we have to get intimate which would feel like a chore to me. So instead of going through that, I rather just let him go and let him find somebody who won't want to change him in anyway then to have all these expectations and then if they don't get mad by the time we get in a relationship I won't be heavily disappointed. Also the fact that he lied in his profile picture, I just can't get over that. I also dated my fair share of guys who were attractive but our personalities just clashed instead of complimenting each other and end up bringing the worst in each other. But I think there has to be a balance of both. I should have been honest with him after the first date but instead I tried to overlook the positive stuff about him which only worked for a small amount of time. When I went on a second date with me I realized that I still didn't feel that attraction towards him and then reality hit me and I realized that I have to let him go. It may hurt him now but it would hurt him even more if I worked again a relationship and even a marriage with him.

Free will is a TOTAL LIE GOD DOES DEFINITELY FORCE PEOPLE TO DO THINGS THEY DON'T WANT TO DO.

Amen God is giving me the desires of my heart the Lord is not going to force me or anyone to marry someone we are not attracted to. This video is right on time there is a man at church that has been following me watching me and trying to get me to go out with him. I have absolutely NO attraction to him and I want him to leave me alone. I am not a mean person but I am not settling in whom I marry and I will have a husband that I am very attracted to in every way. The Lord is bringing my Boaz and my Kingdom marriage is happening this year. 🙏♥️🙌💯‼💥☝️👑

I’m truly blessed to have found your channel. I rewatched videos when I feel my faith getting weak. You are such a gem. God bless you keep going 🙏🏾💕💕

My wife thinks I'm heaven sent.. I'm an Atheist so I laugh at that idea.

everyone giving examples how they dated tall guys who were ungodly so they decided to lower their standards Holy shit that makes me feel like a genetic failure