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I really like this video and I would like to add chatgpt voice and PI Ai voce to this list, both apps for practicing speaking!

0:01 ASMR !!!

new to your channel. subbed!

As a native Danish speaker, you did amazing! Of course some of the pronunciations are a bit rough, but we would easily be able to understand you. Can't wait to see more videos from you :]

Jessica, thanks this video from Türkiye.

please post more videos in English and German as well.

Where are you from..mam

Hey up :) Very useful video :) Yeah, it was my problem too. Well... it still is, but not so big. I think the biggest barrier is - the fear for making mistakes. The best way is - just using the language. I'v never learned English (just Russian, German, Latin, a bit of Greek and Croatian), but from 10 years I live in the UK. The beginning wasn't easy but I've never give up. Everything I've done by myself (like opening a bank account, all of "official" things etc). I work with English people only and I had no choice - I had to use English every day. My language barrier crashed quite quick. I know I make mistakes and I got moments when I'm struggling - mostly because of grammar. But I think - the most important thing is to break this fear. And use the language all the time. Watching films, listening podcasts, music etc. And a good exercise is - when you go somewhere (to work, or for shopping, whatever) - talk to yourself (loudly or just in your head) and say what you see, what you passed, comment situations or things what you meet (for example: on this bus stop is a red bus, pedestrians waits for the green light, this blue dress in the shop window looks beautiful, or your shopping list, etc etc). If you don't know some word - write it down in your language and then check it later and use it to complete your story :) The more you will use the language - the faster you wll learn it :) It works for me, you can try this way :) And even guys at work told me my English is much much better than before. We can have conversations about anything (sometimes I have to check some words, or - if I don't know some word - I try to say that "around" - by describing something, it works well too and helps to break the fear, plus - you learn more words and you shows "the intelligence of conversation"). Have a nice day :) PS. Subscribed ;)

i just got recommded your video and it is so helpful

This is Exactly my problem. I mean like i can write very well but when it comes to speaking ,i don't speak that fluently. Btw do you have a discord account where we can all connect with each other?

I am began so speech slow

One thing teacher you are looking extremely beautiful gorgeous 😍

Your English is spectacularly good, especially for someone who's never had conversations with any native English speakers. I only speak English so I'm not 100% certain if it's correct but I'm pretty sure English is "backwards" to other languages as well, so it must be really difficult for people to learn English as a second language.

I believe everyone needs to use their privileges. They can only get you so far. I think that pretty, skinny and white privilege etc. are valuable tools, and you really can’t judge people that take advantage of these. Nobody’s talking about smart privilege.. I mean this an advantage that is ok to use. Why are others are bad? This is stupid.

When I hit the like button.. It totaled 666 likes 😊.. Stay balanced. Blessings upon you 🎉

Confidence will only work in your favor if you are decently attractive. It's foolish to spread the idea that it will just work for anyone.

Meeks🤣😅🤣

I am an ugly gunt .

Nice information, Just one suggestion,add images.

This is so true the days I have felt my best and most confident is when I get more attention. I truly believe people can pick up on that energy and it draws them in. But be careful who you let in.

I love your video. Great job. New subscriber here!

I think if someone is good looking, then they should use it to their advantage. Looks have always mattered and will continue to matter. Great video!

This gave me ASMR vibes 😴. Very relaxing even when talking about serial killers and criminals. Great video!

Whoopi Goldberg is proof of this

Thank you for talking about all these aspects, it is mind opening. I only now get why people tell me after we get close that they thought I was super arrogant, just because I'm usually quiet around strangers.

I’m my opinion, confidence does help but if ur aren’t pretty honestly confidence is only gonna be looked at as delusion too some extent.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder attractiveness is in the hands of the individuals

There are two types of people privileged and not privileged there are also rich people and poor people but it’s the other people that are targeted for the benefit of spending money and arguing or disputing with each other detracting from the rich/wealthy wakey wakey

Wrong; The beauty standard in white society is afrocentric. Lip injections, brazilian buttlifts. suntans, curly hair. Yep white people admire dark skin and african features.

Jeremy meeks looks won him the luxury life. A modeling contract while still in prison. Had a baby with a billionaire. Luxury vacations all because he is good looking. And if a person is unattractive and quiet people think they are weird.

No such thing as pretty privilege. You can't prove that someone is factually attractive. Only superficial, delusional, and overprivileged people believe in "pretty privilege". As in you're so privileged that looks is the end all be all since you've clearly never had to worry about anything else in life. Also women and men who place high importance on male attention. Sorry male attention is not valuable unless you're desperate.

Hey mate, just stumbled onto your channel through recommended. You seem really genuine, and the topics you cover are both thematically fitting, and engaging. Your thumbnails and titles are also really high quality. If you are in the business for improvement, I would also advice you to consider setting up a more professional looking, or at least cleanly lit recording area, and also consider writing scripts for your videos. The latter giving you the added benefit of being able to display lots of relevant images/sources/clips to your talking points as you need them, instead of more or less just 'doing it live' Anyway take care, its nice to see a new channel making a name for itself. Good luck

Nothing bothers the beauty industry more than a confident ugly girl. Cheers everyone! ;D

But I also think for someone who is not attractive..if they display confidence it's seen as arrogant. I've heard people say behind unattractive classmates that-" what is she so confident for? When she looks like that." Confidence increases your attractiveness only if you are like atleast a 6 on the scale.

I think accepting yourself is what makes you attractive. I don't know , I just won a genetic lotto but i always used to get insecure about my nose. Its not as thin as the we see on the internet. So at some point, I started to feel maybe I am not good enough. And fun fact no one ever proposed me in school or college and that made me believe that I am not beautiful. But just recently I started getting so much attention .....And when I asked my old boy friends from school why they never ask me out... They were like you are out of our league...And I was like WTF. I never realise that I always carried myself with so much confidence and high standards that they were afraid of being rejected. So all my LADIES out there... Carry yourself with confidence and class. Trust me, it is way more attractive than you think. MY LOVE TO ALL OF YOU.

You’re not saying anything new in the most boring way

If you're ugly, then confidence is seen as cringy. But if you're pretty, then confidence becomes a booster.

On the point of attractive serial killers, a good piece of fiction that displays this is the web comic "killing stalking"

i enjoyed your video ♡ but i think adding "just for an example" between sententes while making your point hindered the smoothness of your delivery, i think just stating the example is clear enough for the listener. good research as well!

Beauty and being attracted to it is not a choice for us humans. It’s called the “halo effect”. It’s why advertisers use attractive people to represent their products. You can also Google “golden ratio” to find out more about how beautiful faces require this to be considered beautiful.

A good example of the horn effect is eczema and acne. People assume that you’re unhealthy because you look less healthy than people with clear skin. There’s biological reasons behind this, so it makes sense. I had warts on my hands as a kid and the kids in my class treated me like a leper. The confidence dip from that effected me for years.

very nicely well put video!

I think ultimately for as far as we have come on many issues, pretty privilege will always exist. Classifying it as "societal standards of beauty/conventionally attractive" is tip toeing around the harsh reality. Attractive people from all races benefit from being attractive. You either have it or you don't. Yes, people can have varying degrees of PREFERENCE, but beauty is a baseline. We are an animal like any other. Looks are part of the mating strategy for humans. Good looks=good genes. Beauty is captivating to us as it is biologically hardwired into us. Nothing is new under the sun. This doesn't mean treat people poorly that aren't attractive, care and acceptance are always important for everyone. Desirability and all it's perks, unfortunately is not.

being a good rounded human with good heart and soul, being is more important 💌

Very thorough discussion 👏 well done.

Confidence is useless, if a woman does not find you facially attractive. Confidence is the most overused catchphrase that dating coaches regurgitate to give you false hope. Women are highly aware that physical attractiveness is the niche that sparks their interest, but instead of being honest: they'll use the confidence/ self-improvement myth as a crutch to make you think otherwise. Dating Coaches online only care about marketing themselves, looking good for the cameras, regurgitating eachothers content, sponsoring bull$hit products, recycling the same bull$hit content, views ,and a subscription to their channel. And that's f*cking reality!

Is it confidence that makes you more attractive, or being attractive that makes you more confident?

New sub! 😊

What about your personal experience? Sorry but this video is boring! If I want that kind of information I'll check Wikipedia...

I've been studying loads of psychology of whatever weird people, even serial killers and other psychopaths. It can be tiring, and even scary, especially when I function completely differently, which means empathetic and compassionate. Sometimes I needed like six months gap for mental recovery to be able to study another case. Psycho-hygiene is extremely important for one's mental health. The biggest case that blew my mind was the study of Jodi Arias, who killed her boyfriend. It was scary how much she was similar to my narcissistic ex-gf in the face. Psychology can take you to whatever scary paths. I am trying to be very careful about what I am looking into and how often, but on the other hand, I've learned shit loads about human behaviour over a long period of time.