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As someone who started over many, many times, even in my 30s, and now being 35... Who cares what you're supposed to be doing? Your best move doesn't have to be now, it can come later. What needs to come now is just acceptance and moving on. My best job I had to throw away because of a traumatic event within my family and I had to be there to help pick up slack, throwing away not just my career, but even my lifestyle and having to move back to a place I worked so hard to move away from in the first place. It had been 10 years since I left, but I had to return. I had to be there, I could have chosen to be the shithead and continue on, but I couldn't do that. Through making the best out of a completely awful situation, I was able to buy a house where I want to be more than any place, and I am quite lucky for that, but... I don't know, I sometimes think I wish I was grinding like I was as a welder for companies forcing me to take way too much overtime, but on the other hand... I don't have rent nor a mortgage and I sell auto parts for $15 an hour and I'm quite content. And yes, I'm tootin' my own horn here, I am a damn good welder. Now I'm setting up my own, personal shop to do what I want and say "NO" to jobs with it all I want. I love welding, I traded my passion for a pittance for almost too lung, but now I can get back to it and have fun with it again. I'm never stepping foot on a factory floor again. Good luck. Work for yourself, it can be a struggle, but it's not like we weren't struggling before. Now that struggle directly correlates with your success!

Girl I needed this video right now, thank you so much for posting! I so relate to being 34 and not having your shit together even though everyone expects you to, having things seem like they're falling apart and not finding the will or the want to stress over it, being sick of working for someone else who treats you inhumanely, OH MY GOD THE BARTENDING COMMENTS I NEVER WANT TO BARTEND AGAIN PLEASE!!, and all of that threatening the progress you've made for yourself... I relate to everything so so so much. I've been thinking lately that I can't grow without people on the same level and thinking as me, so I'm really happy to have found you and subscribed right away. <3 Thank you so much for this video, very inspiring.

Interesting and instructive interview.

I feel the same and I’m turning 24 next week 😭 I came to Mexico in January and my goal is to be a travel content creator but I’ve also been applying for jobs back home in the UK and I’ve been getting rejected daily😂😂😂. I freelance as an English Teacher but it’s very boring and the money isn’t great

This story is crazy! So spot on!!! Go after your dreams! You’re already there!

It’s time to get your CZcams revenue POPPIN! It’s been over a year now, you should be full time in content creation, you got this!

Blessings to you! God only exists in the NOW. Ignore those future and past thoughts. Focus on the now and trust God. Love you!

Girl I just made a video like this on my phone yesterday😂 Just so I can have something documented for myself to show my future self how far I’ve come. I just turned 36 and I have been working on this goal of mine with traveling for the past two years. I finally said it’s time to put in the work and make my vision a reality. I’m not playing small anymore. I was able to accomplish my first goal when I was in this same headspace and went on my first solo trip. Changed my life. So that accomplishment just shows me the next step in my goal is there waiting for me to achieve it. If you want to do content creation full time then go for it! Those rejection letters are your blessing. Do what feels right in your heart. I just subscribed and excited to see your journey🫶🏾

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This is me currently! my story is very similar to yours, and I am at a real turning point in my life as well.

I say go for it. When I watch you, all I see and hear are assets. You are the epitome of a lifestyle channel. You have a unique look (beauty brands and fashion houses await), you are in great shape (I for one have been waiting for you to share your exercise tips), former bartender???(sharing a drink of the week or month...might be nice), you have fun when you travel and host (the way you hosted your Mom was so thoughtful), you successfully left your home country and started a new life (coaching calls for those who desire to do the same...seems useful). I can go on and on. Most importantly, you have a fun and positive attitude. Shine on ❤☀

You are resilient and everything will work out! I’m starting to pour into myself too!

I'm 34 and kind of started over last year. After graduating college , I worked all kinds of sad jobs from call centers to warehouses and still do freelance photography. But if I could sum up my life between age 23 and going back to school at 30 I would say UNSTABLE...financially/socially/mentally/spiritually/emotionally. All 5. All 5. Now I have a real job at an architecture firm and a normal schedule and predictable income finally. I also stopped two addictions last year that I've battled since age 16. So I feel 34 for me is like a very, very slow personal renaissance. I look back alot and wonder why I couldn't just be normal and imagine where I would be now if I would have at least stayed with with major I work in now after a 10 yr gap. I reflect alot on my role in the demise of so many relationships with others. I reflect alot on my relationship with The Lord and where I stand with Him. At this age, I reflect alot on what it means to be an adult more so than ever. My 20's was like a long extension of my teens. And yes, I heard that sound in the background. They are selling household appliances from the back of a truck there in Mexico!

I resonate with this so much…… During Covid I got laid off from a job in the army. That’s something I never thought would happen. So I went and got my CDL. When I tell you I’ve been miserable and still trying to figure it out at 32. I decided buy a trailer so that way at least I’ll always still have a house. Plus, if I wanna move out the country, I can take my house with me. God is really helped me through all these low moments. He is my security.

I was laid off 18 months ago. My unemployment ran out a few months ago. I have a part time, soul-sucking, deadend job. Thank you for posting. We will keep eachother in prayer.

"I don't have time to mingle and 'kiki' and 'Haha' with y'all" <<<I feel this on a deep level 😭 I'm 37 and soooooo much of this resonates...if you're interested, would love to send you a copy of my book on entrepreneurship for Black women. *100% NOT a scam, really want to be a source of support*

I just watched your video. First, let me speak as an auntie (as of Friday, I will be 51) and say that your life is truly just beginning. I felt a shift at age 27 and it was very stressful, but my life didn’t start to become settled until I turned 34. At age 50, my life took another turn and was laid off from my employer after 18 years last August, and I am coming up on my one year anniversary. Like you, I was a recruiter for a large tech company. I worked my way up from a recruiting coordinator to a senior tech recruiter. I also had a premonition but I refused to get startled. I knew the severance package would be good, so I was not about to leave until they paid me. I went on a 3 week vacation - came back and was laid off within a month. We hadn’t been hiring for more than a year (they still aren’t hiring), and my team already took a hard hit in the first round of layoffs. When I received the notice via my weekly call with my manager, I took it in stride. I STILL haven’t cried to this day. And when I got the notice. I decided to take the rest of the year off. During my brief sabbatical, I traveled and went to France, Beyoncé’s Renaissance, Napa to celebrate a friend’s birthday… lived my best life! I decided to begin looking for a job in January and I’ve been looking ever since. It is not just you - this market is tough and unfortunately it is flooded with talent acquisition professionals like ourselves. My resume is incredible - I’ve had 3 interviews - making the final round for 2 but wasn’t selected. The rest are rejection emails or no response at all. I admit, I misread the market but I don’t think I would have found a job even last August! So, I like have worried or enjoy a much needed sabbatical - I EARNED IT! Now, I want to get back to work but I don’t want to accept just anything and going into an office is off the table as I’ve been remote for 15 years. I know there is a role for me but it’s going to take time, and I’m not used to that because I’ve always worked and always managed to get a gig but times are different for sure. Your next job is out there - trust me but you have the time to invest in yourself. I think you have the juice to be a content creator so go forth! I’m of the same mindset, what will be for you will be for you. And I hate LinkedIn - it’s turned into Facebook and there are so many scams. I just get on to search and get off - don’t engage.

I felt the same way at your age. Ten, twenty years from now you'll 😄. Life can throw you curve balls at any age, just when you think you have it all together. All we can do is roll with it, take action then hand it to God.

Keep Shining

God is your answer

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Just do something else in the meantime work on a cruise ship. or airlines as flight attendant or cruise director you are beautiful and you speak well!!

OMG, I just realized the video was cut off in the end somehow. I'm sorry. My ending statement was that I know someone out there can relate to this rant. If so, drop a comment below.

I’m 50 married with two adult kids who both now live on their own. I got laid off 1/2022 I didn’t find another job until 9/2022. I was there for 6 months to find out they are outsourcing our positions and same day was our last day that was 3/2023. I haven’t found a new job and I have no idea what my future looks like. Financially I need to work but the market is slow right now. The worst thing is to have too much time to think about what if. But I surrendered to the Universe and trust as always it will all work out in my favor. All the best to you.

Another 30-something here 👋🏽 standing in solidarity with you. I lived in Mazatlan for 1.5 years and returned to America in January. The soul sucking hustle culture and cann1balizing capitalism is so heavy. Stay there and protect your peace!

This is so transparent. I am a 30 something who is trying to figure out what’s next. I resonate so much with what you’re saying. You have the perfect name for your channel. Own your light and let it make room for you. Wishing you the best! 🫶🏾🫶🏾

The dog and ur outfit is so cute!!! Love ur videos ❤️

This is the best swimsuit haul I ever seen on CZcams! You showed some very unique swimsuits that U have never seen before and you showed off the entire suit not just parts of it! Congrats on the work you put in on makinf this swim haul happen. I hope can do another one before the summer is over. Peace and blessings!

I'm cheering the loudest!

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Gorgeous!!! Girl you could be a model ✨💋❤️

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Gorgeous

I love your honesty. This is so good. Thank you so much. ❤❤‍🩹

This color 😍😍😍

They all fit you well cause you are beautiful.

Love ❤

You fine as hell 😊

Chocolate sexy, intelligent, OMG didn't think they built them like that anymore number 3 with the choker is a super model look. Nice classy vid

Love love love

That color is beautiful on u 😍

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My dog ate my homework😂

Cute! Love it! ❤

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door locks and door stoppers? girl, you are getting scammed by these products. Unless you are staying in shady places in shady neighbourhoods, nobody's gonna try to enter your room while you sleep. Most hotels in Europe, even like 3 star ones have surveillance cameras and no, they don't have secret rooms with double mirrors either... I feel like Americans are pretty paranoid and the manufacturers build on this paranoia and sell you all that useless stuff.....

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All of them

The Asiatic black woman lol he woke up ready this morning