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"Does it matter why I'm gay?" with Dr. Sara Glass Part 1
Yenta Superfan, the eminent Dr Sara Glass, is making her Yenta debut! You know Sara from her blockbuster memoir Kissing Girls on Shabbat, writing for the NY Times, and her work as a leading therapist and speaker for LGTBQ+ Jews.
We Yenta about:
- Sara's life growing up chassidic
- Marrying a man when you're a lesbian
- Heaven and Hell. Light stuff.
- Becoming a queer mom
- Are people swinging in the 5 Towns?
- Why are people queer? Easy question.
- The messy middle. What happens after you come out?
- Yenta is saving the world. You're welcome.
- Polycules
Dr. Sara Glass: www.drsaraglass.com/
Raye Schiller: rayeschiller
Antonia Lassar: antonialastar
Uncut and bonus episodes: www.patreon.com/yenta
TIMESTAMPS
00:02:36 - Who's a Real Jew?
00:06:07 - Kissing Girls on Shabbat Book
00:07:06 - Hasidic Upbringing
00:09:07 - Concepts of Heaven and Hell in Judaism
00:12:42 - Raising Children
00:17:31 - Swinging in Orthodox Communities
00:22:28 - Polyamory
00:30:21 - Kids' Reactions to the Book
00:36:04 - Why Yenta is the best podcast
00:43:01 - Current Polycule
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"I got healed, now I'm boring" with Ellory Smith"I got healed, now I'm boring" with Ellory Smith
"I got healed, now I'm boring" with Ellory Smith
zhlédnutí 644Před 11 dny
This week we talk to Emmy nominated comedian, writer, and worm farmer: Ellory Smith!! Buckle up for the HOTTEST worm gossip. We Yenta about: 1. How hard it is to be a hot femme 2. What does it actually mean to do well in comedy? 3. Astrology. Classic. 4. When your boyfriend is a comedy manager 5. How to demand positive feedback 6. LA standup gossip 7. Jealousy. Ugh. 8. Therapy. Yay! 9. Secrets:...
"What do you think about God?" with Raye & Antonia"What do you think about God?" with Raye & Antonia
"What do you think about God?" with Raye & Antonia
zhlédnutí 811Před 18 dny
It's just Raye and Antonia this week! We needed a break from all these illustrious guests taking the glory! This is honestly one of the deepest episodes we've had in a while. RELIGION. GENDER. WEEPING. GOSSIP. We Yenta about: 1. Reviewing Hannah Gabsy's gender agenda 2. Standup comedians who film clips on a GREEN SCREEN??! ICONIC. 3. Raye was a hometown hero at JQ pride shabbat 4. Antonia perfo...
"You Need to be Disney Clean" with Mateen Stewart"You Need to be Disney Clean" with Mateen Stewart
"You Need to be Disney Clean" with Mateen Stewart
zhlédnutí 581Před 25 dny
Mateen Stewart (Jimmy Kimmel Live!, Last Week Tonight with John Oliver) is a hilarious standup-comedian and actor in the LA comedy scene and we yenta hardcore this week! - The struggle of making money in comedy: day jobs and side hustles - Officiating weddings: the craziest ceremonies and predicting doomed marriages - The trauma of losing a parent: how it shapes comedy and life - The journey fr...
"They want my nudes" with Jay Jurden (Part Two)"They want my nudes" with Jay Jurden (Part Two)
"They want my nudes" with Jay Jurden (Part Two)
zhlédnutí 471Před měsícem
Jay Jurden is back!! He had so much gossip, we had to give him two episodes. If you thought his Emmy nominated turn on The Problem with Jon Stewart was juicy, that's nothing compared to the juice on this episode! We Yenta about: - Flowcharting your audience interactions - Jay's jokes for the Tom Brady roast - Dramatic reading of extremely graphic screenplay - Everyone wants Jay's nudes - Nude b...
"Yet Another MMF Threesome" with Jay Jurden (Part 1)"Yet Another MMF Threesome" with Jay Jurden (Part 1)
"Yet Another MMF Threesome" with Jay Jurden (Part 1)
zhlédnutí 600Před měsícem
You've seen him on the Tonight Show 1000x times, he wrote for X-Men, and he's been nominated for an EMMY. Jay Jurden is on the pod!!! This certified celebrity comedian is also a certified gossip. This is part one of two, because there's just too much goss for one episode. We Yenta about: - Being hot for LA - Behing the scenes goss from After Midnight - Knowing Jerrod Carmichael was gay - How we...
"Looking for a Bisexual Third" with Charlie James"Looking for a Bisexual Third" with Charlie James
"Looking for a Bisexual Third" with Charlie James
zhlédnutí 568Před měsícem
This week we're talking to Charlie James aka Nonbinary Cowboy (Funny or Die, Field Museum tweet writer), who is the most charming biology nerd/comedy writer on the planet! We Yenta about: - Looking for a third who has dated trans people - Writing a book about being a little frog - Their solo show about their cute little biologist Dad - Huge revelation: Antonia's biologist parents know Charlie's...
"A face that people feel sorry for" with Eric Schwartz"A face that people feel sorry for" with Eric Schwartz
"A face that people feel sorry for" with Eric Schwartz
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This week we schmooze with the most grounded guy in LA comedy, Eric Schwartz (Tonight Show, opens for Jo Koy, Helluva Boss). Obviously we're all obsessed with The Artist's Way. We Yenta about: 1. Fave Jewish songs 2. How to talk about trauma onstage 3. Being in a relationship for 17 years 4. Tips on posting content 5. Working with Jason Mraz 6. Touring with Jo Koy & the Golden Globes 7. Eric on...
"Saving butt stuff for marriage" with Ahmed Al-kadri"Saving butt stuff for marriage" with Ahmed Al-kadri
"Saving butt stuff for marriage" with Ahmed Al-kadri
zhlédnutí 410Před 2 měsíci
Ahmed Al-kadri is blowing up in the standup world, and he took an afternoon out of his insane touring schedule to gossip with us!! You've seen his sketches all over the internet (Arab Roomate, F-Boi Rehab), and now you can listen to him get unbelievably graphic about his sex life. We Yenta about - Ahmed's dazzling career: TikTok, new CZcams special, touring like crazy - Hooking up with audience...
"Stop Telling People About the Threesome!" with Lucas Zelnick | Yenta Podcast"Stop Telling People About the Threesome!" with Lucas Zelnick | Yenta Podcast
"Stop Telling People About the Threesome!" with Lucas Zelnick | Yenta Podcast
zhlédnutí 662Před 2 měsíci
I don’t know why Lucas Zelnick (Comedy Central, Netflix) agreed to do our silly podcast but we are so happy he did! We have major yenta this episode: Why is NY better than LA (or is it?) How to do political comedy Lucas’ new girlfriend!! The most surprising thing about growing up with $200 million Ashley Gavin getting canceled Shitting yourself before going on stage THREE THREESOME STORIES (2 f...
"Daddy for Women, Bottom for Men" with Bri Giger"Daddy for Women, Bottom for Men" with Bri Giger
"Daddy for Women, Bottom for Men" with Bri Giger
zhlédnutí 896Před 2 měsíci
When we told folks that Bri Giger (Netflix Is A Joke, UCB, professional DJ) was coming on the pod, everyone had the exact same reaction: I LOVE HER!! We’re so honored that Bri agreed to come on the pod and ruin her reputation. Total mensch. We Yenta about: -Nonmonagamy in LA: Your GF making out with your ex-GF -Bri’s SNL audition! What a legend! -Bri is the hottest DJ in LA. Like seriously. She...
"I Steal Spoons" with Lily Richards"I Steal Spoons" with Lily Richards
"I Steal Spoons" with Lily Richards
zhlédnutí 457Před 2 měsíci
Lily Richards is a filmmaker who is currently slaying the film festival circuit. Also, she steals spoons. This episode is for everyone who loves marriage goss, corporate world goss, and obviously spoon goss. (See her spoon collection on our instagram.) We Yenta about: - Lily met her wife in college!! Lesbian college sweethearts! - How to crush the corporate world when you have a theater degree ...
IS SQUIRTING REAL??! with Mason SmajstrlaIS SQUIRTING REAL??! with Mason Smajstrla
IS SQUIRTING REAL??! with Mason Smajstrla
zhlédnutí 893Před 2 měsíci
Mason Smajstrla (standup comedian, Jamie Lynn Spears impersonator) is here to bless the Yenta’s with a deep dive into squirting. Mason is a reality tv nerd, brilliant teacher, and most importantly… the nepo-baby of Fredericksburg, Texas. We Yenta about -SQUIRTING. VISCOSITY? VOLUME? DO YOU NEED A TARP? -Murder documentaries -Tips for content creators -Growing up Christian… also butt stuff -Do y...
"Banned From Lesbian Hollywood?" with Mari Taren"Banned From Lesbian Hollywood?" with Mari Taren
"Banned From Lesbian Hollywood?" with Mari Taren
zhlédnutí 528Před 3 měsíci
Mari Taren (lesbian comedy legend/casting producer on Queer Ultimatum) spilled more gossip than any other Yenta guest has before: reality TV goss, relationship goss, Judaism goss! This episode has GOSS. We Yenta About: -Mari is in love with (former Yenta guest) Catherine Mcafferty!! -Mari and Catherine are the hot versions of Raye and Antonia -Gossip from the Ashely Gavin podcast -Should queer ...

Komentáře

  • @efeld613
    @efeld613 Před 16 hodinami

    As a lesbian who was raised in a gur family its very sad because Saras family sounds very dysfunctional and doesn't reflect your typical healthy chasidisha family. Really not nice of her.

    • @efeld613
      @efeld613 Před 16 hodinami

      Also where do bais yaakov schools teach you get to gan eden by marriage only?

  • @puffypuff5914
    @puffypuff5914 Před dnem

    Good jobs guys As usual

  • @harper5378
    @harper5378 Před 3 dny

    Just from that opening segment - currently going through this exact process but with gender stuff. I guess the difference being that medical transition adds another level of wanting to be sure. I know it'd make me happy, but can't help but think, "am I doing this for the right reasons?" If anyone reads this and knows of a video, podcast, book, anything of a trans person exploring the topic from this specific angle, I'd love to hear your recommendations 🙏

  • @bioluminescentlyunfolding5716

    I love your podcast! I'm not Jewish, but as someone going through a late coming-out process in a bunch of challenging circumstances, who also grew up in a conservative religious context, I'm really relating to the complexity being honoured here. I especially appreciate hearing from someone with PTSD that there's an "after" to the messy middle part, because that's where I'm personally stuck right now and it helped hearing that message of "it's not like this because you left; it's like this because the circumstanbces that prompted you to leave excluded being able to fully prepare to." I think movies and our culture in general love the idea that you leave a very intense religious situation, or an abusive partner, and it's just this immediate upward trajectory; there is something very capitalist about that idea that you have to be immediately in a recognisable state of Perfect Growth and Healing for your story to be valid, but I suspect for a lot of us, just getting to the point of stability that would let us to the healing is really tough due to the very circumstances that led us to leave...

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před 7 dny

    loved this

  • @voosha93
    @voosha93 Před 8 dny

    100% would listen to y’all on your own - great content ❤

  • @sreejaaabalan2000
    @sreejaaabalan2000 Před 11 dny

    i like both of them in crossed leg ❤️🥰🥰

  • @The_Professor26
    @The_Professor26 Před 11 dny

    💤💤💤💤💤💤💤💤💤💤💤💤💤💤💤💤

  • @puffypuff5914
    @puffypuff5914 Před 18 dny

    Continue being the best you !!❤

  • @puffypuff5914
    @puffypuff5914 Před 18 dny

    You guys are amazing

  • @Tohfool
    @Tohfool Před 26 dny

    I knew it

  • @AmethystWoman
    @AmethystWoman Před měsícem

    How about "you gaias"

  • @samk2857
    @samk2857 Před měsícem

    Thanks for leaving the community.We don't need you.We don't want you

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před měsícem

    Interesting!

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před měsícem

    😅

  • @ronprewoznik3566
    @ronprewoznik3566 Před měsícem

    10 out of 10

  • @puffypuff5914
    @puffypuff5914 Před měsícem

    You guys are the best ❤

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před měsícem

    Lol loved this

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBoox Před měsícem

    You guys have a great podcast!

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před měsícem

    Loved this episode

  • @tinky8888
    @tinky8888 Před měsícem

    CZcams comment section moment. People for real do not understand what things are and then make grandiose assumptions. Poly people are epic.

  • @puffypuff5914
    @puffypuff5914 Před 2 měsíci

    Keep up The great work

  • @1BestCookie
    @1BestCookie Před 2 měsíci

    You should come to any yiddish tzadukah party and try to talk in front of people who just came there to eat and shmuz with their freinds. It is almost impossible to make them engaged enough with you to make them listen and shut up

  • @puffypuff5914
    @puffypuff5914 Před 3 měsíci

    You guys are amazing continue doing you

  • @puffypuff5914
    @puffypuff5914 Před 3 měsíci

    ❤❤

  • @danihusom8668
    @danihusom8668 Před 3 měsíci

    Minnesotan here and HECK YEAH to Twin Cities pride! REPRESENT! Am also a Soprano in a lesbian choir and we totes can't be trusted 😆😉😘😝😜

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před 3 měsíci

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před 3 měsíci

    😂😂😂

  • @samk2857
    @samk2857 Před 3 měsíci

    That's not true because it's not sex.You can't have sex a woman with a woman.And that's why you can't get the death penalty Only Men with men

  • @samk2857
    @samk2857 Před 3 měsíci

    Hello you can't have Sex

  • @samk2857
    @samk2857 Před 3 měsíci

    She's basically fucked in the head

  • @TS-xw3zr
    @TS-xw3zr Před 4 měsíci

    Melissa, i think ur well thought out and dont just bash everyone, mature perspective

  • @Michael-ip5fy
    @Michael-ip5fy Před 4 měsíci

    You should put a foot cam to pull views lol

  • @eliav207
    @eliav207 Před 4 měsíci

    Would love a view where I can see all 3 people at once!

    • @rayeschiller
      @rayeschiller Před 3 měsíci

      please support us on patreon so we can afford more cameras and better equipment! <3 patreon.com/yenta

  • @Jumpingonpaws
    @Jumpingonpaws Před 4 měsíci

    They were so amazing and I felt them when they said ‘they/I’m terrified of confrontation’. I absolutely loved this video!! That security guard was so nice!! And chill and awesome!! NORMALIZE ASKING PRONOUNS 👏

  • @shanaakafosho
    @shanaakafosho Před 4 měsíci

    Hi Raye! I had to come back and find this video to tell you that Yuval Dayan, an incredible Israeli artist, just put out a new album called ניגונים. One of the tracks is Ka echsof and it's so so beautiful. You should check it out. Also, I love this podcast and this trio! Shabbat shalom!✌️💙

  • @elkegoldberg3876
    @elkegoldberg3876 Před 4 měsíci

    Prost is vulgar

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před 5 měsíci

    Loved this episode 😂

  • @dinobot642
    @dinobot642 Před 5 měsíci

    When the Bible states something like, "Man should not lie" Its not refering to men, but to mankind

  • @temimah649
    @temimah649 Před 5 měsíci

    Loved this!! Waiting for part 3 and 4.. you guys should totally start a podcast together I would be your no 1 listener :)

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před 5 měsíci

    amazing

  • @roserenee1212
    @roserenee1212 Před 5 měsíci

    is this chicago

  • @SarahSnows
    @SarahSnows Před 5 měsíci

    So much fun filming with you <3 love you!!!

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před 6 měsíci

    Love this!

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před 6 měsíci

    amazing

  • @eliav207
    @eliav207 Před 6 měsíci

    Rae eating during the intro is so good. Very Rusty Ryan

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před 6 měsíci

    😂😂😂

  • @jacobkessler1438
    @jacobkessler1438 Před 6 měsíci

    This is funny

  • @Asher713
    @Asher713 Před 7 měsíci

    😂 Idk y’all are leaving emojis so I’m leaving one too

  • @ghosty2452
    @ghosty2452 Před 7 měsíci

    Unfunny as f#ck