Kathey Batey
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The Complexity of Divorce
Divorce Support Anonymous is a gentle guide through the trauma of divorce. We deal with all aspects, financial, legal, emotional, spiritual. We offer support groups, individual divorce coaching, mediation in the state of Michigan. Don't go through the trauma of divorce alone. Join the FB page for continual support and resources. Visit our website www.DivorceSupportAnonymous.com to connect. Schedule a free 30 minute consultation with us to see how we can be of help. Request a free workbook - Preparing For Mediation to learn what you need to know to visit your attorney for the first time or going into mediation with or without attorneys.
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Seeing the big picture when you re drowning in details of divorce
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Divorce Support Anonymous is a gentle guide through the trauma of divorce. We deal with all aspects, financial, legal, emotional, spiritual. We offer support groups, individual divorce coaching, mediation in the state of Michigan. Don't go through the trauma of divorce alone. Join the FB page for continual support and resources. Visit our website www.DivorceSupportAnonymous.com to connect. Sche...
Mom Summit The Single Mom
zhlédnutí 36Před 21 dnem
Divorce Support Anonymous is a gentle guide through the trauma of divorce. We deal with all aspects, financial, legal, emotional, spiritual. We offer support groups, individual divorce coaching, mediation in the state of Michigan. Don't go through the trauma of divorce alone. Join the FB page for continual support and resources. Visit our website www.DivorceSupportAnonymous.com to connect. Sche...
I'm Just Tired of Fighting In Divorce
zhlédnutí 13Před měsícem
Divorce Support Anonymous is a gentle guide through the trauma of divorce. We deal with all aspects, financial, legal, emotional, spiritual. We offer support groups, individual divorce coaching, mediation in the state of Michigan. Don't go through the trauma of divorce alone. Join the FB page for continual support and resources. Visit our website www.DivorceSupportAnonymous.com to connect. Sche...
How To Hold Onto Your Integrity During Divorce
zhlédnutí 38Před měsícem
Divorce Support Anonymous is a gentle guide through the trauma of divorce. We deal with all aspects, financial, legal, emotional, spiritual. We offer support groups, individual divorce coaching, mediation in the state of Michigan. Don't go through the trauma of divorce alone. Join the FB page for continual support and resources. Visit our website www.DivorceSupportAnonymous.com to connect. Sche...
Daring To Dream Again After Divorce
zhlédnutí 59Před měsícem
Divorce Support Anonymous is a gentle guide through the trauma of divorce. We deal with all aspects, financial, legal, emotional, spiritual. We offer support groups, individual divorce coaching, mediation in the state of Michigan. Don't go through the trauma of divorce alone. Join the FB page for continual support and resources. Visit our website www.DivorceSupportAnonymous.com to connect. Sche...
Discouraged in divorce! copy
zhlédnutí 12Před 2 měsíci
Divorce Support Anonymous is a gentle guide through the trauma of divorce. We deal with all aspects, financial, legal, emotional, spiritual. We offer support groups, individual divorce coaching, mediation in the state of Michigan. Don't go through the trauma of divorce alone. Join the FB page for continual support and resources. Visit our website www.DivorceSupportAnonymous.com to connect. Sche...
Learning To Let Go in Divorce
zhlédnutí 18Před 2 měsíci
Divorce Support Anonymous is a gentle guide through the trauma of divorce. We deal with all aspects, financial, legal, emotional, spiritual. We offer support groups, individual divorce coaching, mediation in the state of Michigan. Don't go through the trauma of divorce alone. Join the FB page for continual support and resources. Visit our website www.DivorceSupportAnonymous.com to connect. Sche...
Gaining Perspective In Divorce
zhlédnutí 24Před 2 měsíci
Divorce Support Anonymous is a gentle guide through the trauma of divorce. We deal with all aspects, financial, legal, emotional, spiritual. We offer support groups, individual divorce coaching, mediation in the state of Michigan. Don't go through the trauma of divorce alone. Join the FB page for continual support and resources. Visit our website www.DivorceSupportAnonymous.com to connect. Sche...
Divorce Anxiety and Depression
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Divorce Anxiety and Depression
Childhood Trauma Relationships and Divorce
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Childhood Trauma Relationships and Divorce
What does my childhood trauma have to do with my divorce?
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What does my childhood trauma have to do with my divorce?
How Mediation Saves You Money In Divorce
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How Mediation Saves You Money In Divorce
Divorce is spiritual Good Friday message
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Divorce is spiritual Good Friday message
Interview Carri Goldring Certified Divorce Lending Professional on Financial Abuse
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Interview Carri Goldring Certified Divorce Lending Professional on Financial Abuse
How Can I Mimimize the Cost Of My Divorce?
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How Can I Mimimize the Cost Of My Divorce?
Your New Life After Divorce
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Your New Life After Divorce
Financial Expert Carri Goldring on managing real estate and mortgages
zhlédnutí 34Před 5 měsíci
Financial Expert Carri Goldring on managing real estate and mortgages
Church Hurt In Divorce
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Church Hurt In Divorce
Deal With Your Emotions Or Your Emotions Will Deal With You
zhlédnutí 45Před 5 měsíci
Deal With Your Emotions Or Your Emotions Will Deal With You
Divorcing An Abusive Spouse
zhlédnutí 68Před 6 měsíci
Divorcing An Abusive Spouse
The New Year is Upon Us
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The New Year is Upon Us
Interview with Tabitha Westbrook.
zhlédnutí 69Před 6 měsíci
Interview with Tabitha Westbrook.
Handling the emotions of divorce at Christmas
zhlédnutí 49Před 7 měsíci
Handling the emotions of divorce at Christmas
Divorce and The Holidays The Gift To Give Yourself this Season
zhlédnutí 42Před 7 měsíci
Divorce and The Holidays The Gift To Give Yourself this Season
Getting Through The Holidays During or After Divorce*
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Getting Through The Holidays During or After Divorce*
What Are You Doing To Have Compassion For Yourself During Divorce?
zhlédnutí 31Před 8 měsíci
What Are You Doing To Have Compassion For Yourself During Divorce?
Interview with Carri Goldring - Certified Divorce Lending Professional
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Interview with Carri Goldring - Certified Divorce Lending Professional
Holiday video 1
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Holiday video 1
Divorce Support Anonymous Holiday program video
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Divorce Support Anonymous Holiday program video

Komentáře

  • @jillfebruary8157
    @jillfebruary8157 Před 11 dny

    Managing my finances & just daily functioning

  • @jillfebruary8157
    @jillfebruary8157 Před 11 dny

    Good day Kathy , how do I email you please. I am going through a difficult opposed divorce and made all the mistakes I am now learning from you videos.

  • @paythepiper101
    @paythepiper101 Před 19 dny

    No I won't im sorry to say that

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 18 dny

      I pray you are well. You are in my thoughts and prayers. There is so much to live for.

    • @paythepiper101
      @paythepiper101 Před 18 dny

      @@Katheybatey thanks I went out in nature today, something I've always loved to do but looking back on it I would have to drag my wife to go, im starting to reflect that basically unless something costed money to do she didn't want to have nothing with it I started dating my wife at 16 she was 17, im Italian and she is Arabian and Muslim, her parents came her from isreal/Palestine So she was first generation born here She has two older sisters that married arabiac Muslim men like tradition And one step back I got jumped by a group of Arabic kids in high-school because they didn't like the a white person was dating a Muslim girl ( this is in no way slandering a whole religion or people because of some bad seeds) Then her father found out we were dating when I was 18 and she 19 He literally tried to pay me to go away and I declined so he locked her up at home for a year Then he released her I met him and said im still in love with her and asked her permission to marry her A HARD NO so then I started studying to speak Arabic and study the Quran I ended up in a group at a local mosque as I live in Chicago there's lots Any way the group had two want to be coverts like me and and 4 young men who wanted to become basically the equivalent of a preacher for the mosque I ended up reading the new and old testament of the Bible and the Quran and studied deep into religion After a year I converted and finally her father said yes but no wedding as he felt his daughter was a disgrace Mind you her two older sister had huge weddings and got like 20 k from him to start their life Ny point being I was ride or die for her She acts as if she gas not one bit of sympathy for my broken heart She had been have an affair past few months

  • @paythepiper101
    @paythepiper101 Před 19 dny

    I think im going to end things tonight for real I can't take this after 24 years together I think im done

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 19 dny

      I pray you are OK. You have 24 yet to live.

  • @paythepiper101
    @paythepiper101 Před 26 dny

    My highschool sweetheart wants to divorce we been together 24 years and married 17 we are 40. She started dressing exrra sexy 4 months ago then started not coming home after work and sometines not all night Then few weeks ago on fathers day served me with divorce papers and wants the house we own together 100percent and we have a 15 and 16 year old daughters I feel like i want to die ive akready dealt with depression and anxiety and i cant even get out of bed I cant believe were not going to grow old together I was so s9 excited go live our golden years together Im ready to leave this world for real I have no support, i had 3 brothers and two have past and my mom and dad are passed and the one brother left we dont talk 😢

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 26 dny

      Dear friend, This seems like the end of life, I know I was there. It is not. I have several men in my group experiencing the same as you are. Can we set up a time to talk? You can text me at 810 730 6679 to set up a time.You can join my current group, Just please hold on, you are not alone.

    • @paythepiper101
      @paythepiper101 Před 23 dny

      @@Katheybatey i appreciate you sympathy and advice but I don't have therapy money at this time so I don't want to waste your time thinking it may lead to a paying client I respect the work you do just not in that position

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 23 dny

      @@paythepiper101 I'm not asking for money. I give my first hour free and it may be all you need. I have a free download to help you start the process, Seeing Your Attorney For The First Time. My work is ministry as well as my livelihood.

    • @paythepiper101
      @paythepiper101 Před 23 dny

      @@Katheybatey thank you

    • @paythepiper101
      @paythepiper101 Před 23 dny

      @@Katheybatey i subscriped as well

  • @user-qh4hf2zp3h
    @user-qh4hf2zp3h Před měsícem

    You showed up in my feed . What perfect timing...

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před měsícem

      God works in beautiful ways in our need.

  • @svwerner2877
    @svwerner2877 Před měsícem

    38 years if I didn’t have a relationship my protected my healer my comforter. He just told me 2 months ago he wanted a divorce. After months of silent treatment. I said ok. He hasn’t pursued anything. Still in house. He’s doing whatever he wants. He has no money that’s why he is staying. Now I have to pursue matters I want to get on with my life. Emotions all over the place.🙏🙏🙏

  • @svwerner2877
    @svwerner2877 Před měsícem

    38 years if I didn’t have a relationship my protected my healer my comforter. He just told me 2 months ago he wanted a divorce. After months of silent treatment. I said ok. He hasn’t pursued anything. Still in house. He’s doing whatever he wants. He has no money that’s why he is staying. Now I have to pursue matters I want to get on with my life. Emotions all over the place.🙏🙏🙏

  • @TalyaneCrise
    @TalyaneCrise Před 2 měsíci

    Hello 👋

  • @user-zd6qd6sb9u
    @user-zd6qd6sb9u Před 2 měsíci

    Nc ira are part of distribution , divisible

  • @donnetted
    @donnetted Před 2 měsíci

    I pray God keeps blessing you Kathey! Thank you for your work. I appreciate these weekly videos. They encourage me.

  • @donnetted
    @donnetted Před 3 měsíci

    Don't stop doing this work Kathey. Thank you.

  • @doglover19601
    @doglover19601 Před 4 měsíci

    How can I get the Seeing your attorney for the first time booklet?

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 3 měsíci

      PM me your email address. or email me at Katheybatey@aol.com

  • @doglover19601
    @doglover19601 Před 4 měsíci

    I’m 63, and doing this soon😢scared to death.

  • @doglover19601
    @doglover19601 Před 4 měsíci

    From what I understand, God says we can’t remarry after divorce.

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 4 měsíci

      There are several factors to consider on this. Don't underestimate that God can give you a wonderful life as a single person, but there are things to consider if you do find someone who you wish to marry. There are different ways of viewing abandonment and viewing death for remarriage to be considered. Bottom line, this is an individual struggle with you and God and understanding the depth of his word. There is more to "God hates divorce" then is being totted by many in the church. God loves your soul first of all. Hope that helps.

  • @joancollins-maher4374
    @joancollins-maher4374 Před 4 měsíci

    More great information just wish you serviced state of Mass.

  • @donnetted
    @donnetted Před 5 měsíci

    This described everything I've gone through.

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 5 měsíci

      I am so very sorry you experienced this. I pray for your healing to begin or continue.

  • @Jason-hb9nu
    @Jason-hb9nu Před 5 měsíci

    It took me six years to recover from a divorce (fifteen year relationship). Drugs helped me through all six years.

  • @donnetted
    @donnetted Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you Kathey! Continue letting your light shine.😀

  • @arqaeyrima4750
    @arqaeyrima4750 Před 6 měsíci

    Yes i am interested

  • @arqaeyrima4750
    @arqaeyrima4750 Před 6 měsíci

    I and my son both have a 5 yr protective order against my spouse due to dv. Its been 3 yesrs, and the thought of the process of filing the actual divorce is paralyzingly terrifying. Do you perhaps have a network in oklahoma, that can aid me in this, aside from legal aid services

  • @DeanSchaub
    @DeanSchaub Před 6 měsíci

    I am 53 years old. I am ready to go to sleep. Love is a lie you rent from the government with compound interest.

  • @peaceandlove8218
    @peaceandlove8218 Před 6 měsíci

    After 26 years of marriage, mine just ended on Aug. 22nd of this year. It been four months and she’s already talking to someone. I believe he was waiting in the wings anyway. From a job she had about 4 years ago when they were working together. Anyway, I shouldn’t be surprised, she’s had at least 6 encounters with other men I know of, not all of them sexual in nature, but my point is, it was infidelity. She just changed her Facebook status to single yesterday, so I’m experiencing the slow pull aways. Now I’m not going to act as if I didn’t try to get her back, because I did, but it didn’t take me long to figure that wasn’t the life I wanted to live. I wanted to just forgive each and move on together, but for her (yes,the one who had been forgiven the most), she just didn’t want it anymore. “Not right now, she said”, like I know what the future holds or something. I do not have a support group, but I think I might need one.

  • @danielskyles6184
    @danielskyles6184 Před 6 měsíci

    Can i get the book please

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 6 měsíci

      Please send me your email for me to send. It is too large to add in messenger. Katheybatey@aol.com

  • @Pointerfinger_1
    @Pointerfinger_1 Před 6 měsíci

    I love you and this interview. 😊

  • @scoobydoo4087
    @scoobydoo4087 Před 7 měsíci

    Why get divorced after years of marriage? We’ve been married 51 years. We love each other.

  • @gardenroom65
    @gardenroom65 Před 7 měsíci

    Divorced 18 yrs ago. Friends got me through weekends. Lost house. Had 2 teenagers looking to me. It’s bloody tough. However, I’m over it and have a better more authentic life. I’ve taught around the world. My kids went to university. We survived. My ex husband was the loser, not us. Happy Christmas 🎄✨🧚‍♀️💫

  • @larrywilson5580
    @larrywilson5580 Před 7 měsíci

    Riding my Harley Davidson is my escape. It works for me..

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 7 měsíci

      Be careful out there, escape but find time to get the support you need.

  • @Thunder-lightning852
    @Thunder-lightning852 Před 7 měsíci

    I have been financial and mental, abused by my female spouse. I am getting ready to retire and she is basically cashing in on me due to her lack of empathy. It is very heartbreaking and it caused me to have CTPSD does that play into a settlement, which I can prove beyond any doubt

  • @user-zd6qd6sb9u
    @user-zd6qd6sb9u Před 7 měsíci

    Great consolation, is like God Himself guided me to your site thank you

  • @mommyshark1124
    @mommyshark1124 Před 7 měsíci

    Today my husband of 20yrs moved out. Today is also our wedding anniversary. Im dying inside. Our youngest is 8, hes special needs and Im a stay at home mom. Im literally freaking out.

  • @staremmitor7946
    @staremmitor7946 Před 7 měsíci

    Good tide's, for All 🎄🧸👱🏾‍♀️ Amen Measures&merriest of measures ⚖️ Due to a lack of, "English language", Inflationary words on deaf eyes, did not work○ added to the Yukon, enforced, and fully paid for● the bread came documentation 10% allowance○ the bread factory opened, EMS fully paid by that Territory ●●●or the enforcement fully paid sevennpoint blank, the voices that day too○

  • @pouruppaapii108
    @pouruppaapii108 Před 7 měsíci

    This lady is a quack

  • @joancollins-maher4374
    @joancollins-maher4374 Před 7 měsíci

    Is this mediation process the same across all the US? Do all courts use this process? My first court date says pre-trial. There has been no mediation prior to this.. just trying to determine what's going to happen at this pre-trial?

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 7 měsíci

      The laws and procedures will differ between states and even counties. A pretrial hearing in Michigan is an opportunity for early resolution of the case or to get clarity or to narrow the issues of the divorce. It may be used to to establish time lines for discovery, witness and exhibit lists, and for motions and other hearing dates.

  • @joancollins-maher4374
    @joancollins-maher4374 Před 7 měsíci

    Great ideas & advice.. I'll be reaching out!

  • @kathygoodwin2970
    @kathygoodwin2970 Před 8 měsíci

    How/where do you begin to find/develop a reputable network of experts you can trust when starting over in a new city? Especially a financial expert…they don’t seem interested in talking with a 62 year old starting over from scratch😔Also, is there a link for your book?

  • @ThisisMe-jy1ci
    @ThisisMe-jy1ci Před 8 měsíci

    The worst part is that im totally alone. I dont wanna end up as one of those invisible old ladies. Leaving by itself in a small apartment with only the company of dogs

  • @donnetted
    @donnetted Před 8 měsíci

    Thanks Kathey. I will rewatch this. You have good content!

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 8 měsíci

      Thank you I pray they help you.

  • @sharycohn3624
    @sharycohn3624 Před 8 měsíci

    Very important information .

  • @Hashie19
    @Hashie19 Před 8 měsíci

    You're amazing. I needed to hear that and it's especially nice from your gentle voice

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 8 měsíci

      Thank you Hashie. So kind of you to say. I'm glad it helped.

    • @doglover19601
      @doglover19601 Před 4 měsíci

      Thank you, this has helped me calm down some.

  • @donnetted
    @donnetted Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you for doing this and for sharing this.

  • @yasmeennaz9184
    @yasmeennaz9184 Před 9 měsíci

    It's very hard for women 😢 I am getting though this situation 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @NicolaCotton
    @NicolaCotton Před 9 měsíci

    I am not based in the USA, how do i go about joining your group please

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 8 měsíci

      I am beginning a group on zoom Nov. 30th 8:30 am EST. PM me your email address and I will send the registration form.

  • @Gespense
    @Gespense Před 9 měsíci

    After 10 years being married to that onery bag of bones, I am struggling keeping up with these college girls now.

  • @nahndibush1942
    @nahndibush1942 Před 10 měsíci

    Very helpful, thank you! Would love to get a copy of your booklet!

    • @Katheybatey
      @Katheybatey Před 9 měsíci

      I will need your email address to send, it is too large a file to send via messenger. I do not keep emails for further use.

  • @robertamarcantoni9524
    @robertamarcantoni9524 Před 10 měsíci

    I m in this path, 20 yrs of marriage, and i m on my own.

  • @jennihj
    @jennihj Před 11 měsíci

    No one reached out or wanted to help they all left me to deal alone apart from my parents and brother in law

    • @ThisisMe-jy1ci
      @ThisisMe-jy1ci Před 8 měsíci

      Exactly,at the end you find out that you are alone

    • @funkysawmanwright5077
      @funkysawmanwright5077 Před 8 měsíci

      We come into this world alone with God, and we leave this earth alone with God. BUILD his trust and stuff will happen

  • @dapdne4916
    @dapdne4916 Před 11 měsíci

    I have an off the cuff idea. Can you compare it to death and say "this for now is instead of death?"

  • @EyeOfScrutiny
    @EyeOfScrutiny Před rokem

    Is alimony and its amount typically settled during mediation?

  • @debbiesday8270
    @debbiesday8270 Před rokem

    46 years and he just walked away from the marriage. I'm in shock and so traumatized I can barely keep going. He's also left me broke at 64.