Bob Falconer IFS
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Learn to work with Unattached Burdens and Guides in IFS
An introduction to Bob's full course on working with UB's and Guides an on-demand course available to all. Learn more here: lifearchitect.com/unattached-burdens-the-others-within-us-bob/
Learn how to work with other energies, that Richard Schwartz calls Unattached Burdens in this 4-Part recorded course - 14 Hours in total.
As we go deeper in IFS we can encounter what I call the others within us, unattached burdens and guides. These are the focus of this course, and they lead us to replace the old myth that our minds are private citadels with the realization that mind is porous.
This workshop series includes:
All-time access to the workshop recordings - no time limits
Pre-recorded demo sessions
Q&A sessions
Certificate of Completion.
Learn more here:
lifearchitect.com/unattached-burdens-the-others-within-us-bob/
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NVC and IFS - Workshop: Steve Roof & Bob Falconer
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The Proposed Marriage of Non-Violent Communication & Internal Family Systems. Online workshop May 24, 2024. www.eventbrite.com/e/868048736137/?aff=oddtdtcreator Join us as we explore the union of these two powerful methods of self-discovery, and transformation. Tickets available now through Eventbrite: Presented by Steve Roof and Robert Falconer. We are excited about the potential for a fruitfu...
The Others Within Us - Audiobook Now Available
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Years ago, I did a session with a woman, that changed my life. IFS has a theory about unattached burdens or the others within us, but until I worked with this woman, I had no idea how significant they could be, and like most of us, I preferred to ignore the phenomenon. Once I dug into this area, it became clear that UBs are fairly common occurrences and often have profound effects on people and...
Dissolve Meditation. Mindlessness Meditations
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Dissolve Meditation. Part of my series of Mindlessness Meditations. Ideal as preparation before an Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) session either with a therapist or Self-Therapy, or as a daily meditation. Helps to calm anxious parts, and find a broader perspective. Bob Falconer has worked with, taught, and consulted on IFS for over 14 years. He recently published his latest book: The Oth...
Opening To Spirit Meditation - Mindlessness Meditations
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Opening to Spirit. Part of my series of Mindlessness Meditations. This meditation is about meeting a guide. It's an excellent practice if you wish to learn to access more of your Self-energy, and may help you to discover guides that are available to your system. Bob Falconer has worked with, taught, and consulted on IFS for over 14 years. He's recently published his latest book: The Others With...
Sealing Light Meditation
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Adapted from William Baldwin. This meditation was developed as a way for people to protect themselves from what Baldwin called Negative Energies. I believe it’s more effective than creating a boundary or a wall. Protectors tend to attract what they fear the most, and walls tend to do that, too. If you practice this meditation often, it can become a tool to quickly protect you from the energies ...
Aprende IFS, los otros dentro de nosotros, la porosidad de la mente
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Robert Falconer Advertencia desencadenante: Hablar sobre abuso sexual y suicidio. Robert Falconer ha enseñando una introducción básica al IFS para el Personal del Pojoaque Pueblo en Nuevo México. Abril de 2023. Alrededor del minuto 55:00 hay una discusión sobre los otros dentro de nosotros, las cargas desapegadas (UB en inglés): la posesión espiritual y más. Bob menciona a un espiritista Brasil...
Learn IFS, The Others Within Us, Porosity of Mind
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Trigger Warnings: Talk of sexual abuse, animal abuse, and suicidality. Robert Falconer teaching a basic introduction to IFS for the staff at the Pojoaque Pueblo in New Mexico - April 2023. At around 55:00 minutes there is a discussion about the others within us, AKA unattached burdens, spirit possession, and more. Bob mentions a Brazilian spiritist and author at 1:05:00 Chico Xavier (Francisco ...
Interview X - IFS - Be-Friending a Suicidal Part.
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Trigger Warning: Discussion of Suicide - This is the 10th part of this interview with Bob, he discusses the very effective method used in IFS of working with suicidal parts, to calm them, and help them to unburden. Bob Falconer has been working with, teaching, and consulting on IFS for more than 14 years. He's recently published his latest book: The Others Within Us: Internal Family Systems, Po...
LAMPS Panel Discussion: Psychedelics and entities. What are they and what should we do about them?
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LAMPS Panel Discussion with Luis Eduardo Luna, Chris Bache and Bob Falconer. Moderators: Brad Adams, PhD & Paul Lisy. Tech Support: Lacey White. Our thanks to Brad Adams, PhD & LAMPS, for permission to publish this on the channel. LAMPS details are below. Learn more about Bob Falconer at: robertfalconer.us About LAMPS The Los Angeles Medicinal Psychedelics Society (LAMPS) is a community of visi...
Heart Meditation for preparation sessions - Bob Falconer
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This is a meditation I find very helpful in preparation sessions before medicine work - I want to offer my thanks to a participant from a workshop that I conducted recently, who transcribed this whole meditation. It’s one I use myself often, and with a lot of people and it just gets better the more times I do it. Feel free to use it yourself and in your sessions. Bob Falconer has been working w...
Interview IX - Addictions and IFS?
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Bob Falconer has been working with, teaching, and consulting on IFS for more than 14 years. He's recently published his latest book: The Others Within Us: Internal Family Systems, Porous Mind, and Spiritual Possession - on unattached burdens and guides. Available on Amazon at: a.co/d/6c0gn2F Learn more about Bob and his book at robertfalconer.us In his last book 'Many Minds, One Self', co-autho...
Interview VIII - What if I can't visualize my Parts?
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In this, the eighth part of an interview with Bob, along with a discussion about supporting them in discovering their interior world, and how the model has been viewed in some places as colluding with a client's mental illness. Bob Falconer has been working with, teaching, and consulting on IFS for more than 14 years. He's recently published his latest book: The Others Within Us: Internal Famil...
Interview VII - How to explain the IFS model to clients
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This is the seventh part of an interview with Bob. Along with a discussion about the Self, Bob discusses his thoughts on explaining IFS to clients, and the benefits of offering support to them as they discover their interior world themselves. Bob Falconer has been working with, teaching, and consulting on IFS for more than 14 years. He's recently published his latest book: The Others Within Us:...
Interview VI - Evidence Based IFS as a spiritual path?
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This is the sixth part of an interview with Bob Falconer. Bob talks about the links and similarities between IFS and Shamanism, and how the essential concept of the model fits with so many spiritual and religious traditions around the world, as illustrated in his book Many Minds, One Self. Bob Falconer has been working with, teaching, and consulting on IFS for more than 14 years. He's recently ...
Interview V - Why is IFS so popular around the world?
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Interview V - Why is IFS so popular around the world?
Interview IV - Different types of Parts and their roles in the System.
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Interview IV - Different types of Parts and their roles in the System.
Interview III - The Role of the Therapist in IFS
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Interview III - The Role of the Therapist in IFS
Interview II - How to access the Self & Parts in IFS.
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Interview II - How to access the Self & Parts in IFS.
Interview I - The power of the IFS model in therapy
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Interview I - The power of the IFS model in therapy

Komentáře

  • @peterhook2258
    @peterhook2258 Před 4 dny

    This guy is a game changer. To forgive the most horrible evil thing and separate it from their soul...is not oft found. To rehabilitate such a one is to "cast out demons" and the foundations of hell shake. Sure we must have protection from such, however we must acknowledge the origin of the soul at the same time and few there are who can redeem the value of such so that it then works for the good. He has the power to forgive because he was the victim. Many of us would not. Peace. now to bridge the gap...true spirituality is a pure heart. The knowledge we have of actual events and literal happenings is not spirituality nor is the verbiage we use nor the community we keep....at the peak of whatever you believe..is a pure heart. Now that is not to say we must throw all that out as community and experiences have their own merit but the ultimate goal is a pure heart.

  • @marcdellorusso180
    @marcdellorusso180 Před 6 dny

    Hey, Bob. Would your book be helpful for someone struggling with OCD and paranoia? Thanks

    • @bobfalconer
      @bobfalconer Před 23 hodinami

      I think It would be best to work with someone experienced in IFS therapy for someone experiencing those issues.

  • @Subrosa9
    @Subrosa9 Před 17 dny

    How refreshing a panel who cites William James.

  • @cosmicsoul7773
    @cosmicsoul7773 Před 25 dny

    New Thinking Allowed brought me here. 😊 Everything you described about the inner civil war, getting high & spiritual presence. I can relate. Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @dai19721
    @dai19721 Před 25 dny

    we are each a bunch of people.

  • @psyfiles7351
    @psyfiles7351 Před 28 dny

    Wow what an incredible talk thank you so so much I have a much better sense of IFS and your story is profound and inspiring . Thank you!!

  • @kipling1957
    @kipling1957 Před měsícem

    Hi Bob - you have just pulled together multiple threads that’s been mind spaghetti for some time. We have somewhat similar paths, although your childhood was more brutal and perverse than even mine. I somehow made it to a PhD in neuroscience and then a college teacher. To cut to the chase the demons are mostly under control but there are bizarre and unpredictable mood swings. I’m under no illusion- there is still healing to be done, and I thank God daily for my loving and understanding wife. Basically, John Vervaeke, the cognitive neuroscientist whom I’ve followed for some time, and his discussions on IFS, brought me here. Thank you for putting this out. I have some work to do.

  • @TheEontraveler
    @TheEontraveler Před měsícem

    Thank you, are you open to work directly with my client's annoying stubborn entity via video . We live in Sweden?

    • @bobfalconer
      @bobfalconer Před 23 hodinami

      Best to go to my website and contact me with a private message through there. robertfalconer.us

  • @BrendanCWilson
    @BrendanCWilson Před měsícem

    Hi Bob, thanks for your authenticity and vulnerability. Do you offer private sessions as I have tried to subscribe but the page is not working on your website?

    • @bobfalconer
      @bobfalconer Před 23 hodinami

      Best to go to my website and contact me with a private message through there. robertfalconer.us

  • @vcrhodes5819
    @vcrhodes5819 Před měsícem

    We love you Bob for all you’ve done for the world, you are a true gift to humanity.

  • @amandabartell1502
    @amandabartell1502 Před měsícem

    Hi, if possible please could you say a trigger warning about what that man did to the animals and a timestamp so people could skip past it. I wish l could have done as the rest was helpful. That's really disturbed me and l would rather not have heard it, it wasn't necessary for me to have that mental image. Maybe because lm autistic or just found it really awful. 😢

    • @bobfalconer
      @bobfalconer Před 23 hodinami

      Thank you for that suggestion, and I'm sorry to hear it so affected you. I've added animal abuse the list of trigger warnings in the description.

  • @user-oi1uw4sn4f
    @user-oi1uw4sn4f Před měsícem

    ❤ So grateful for you and your inspiring heart meditation!

  • @peterscheer445
    @peterscheer445 Před měsícem

    This is the only way to contact you, so I want to pass on something to you... I learned of you over a year ago, and have listened to many podcasts and videos with you.... When I first heard you speak about UBs, I thought. this dude is right on target...! and it continues with each time I listen to you.... I learn more and more... My passion at this point is therapy and connecting with Spirit.. With IFS I am at home of course... About 25 yrs ago I studied shamanism and the unburdening comes very naturally for me..... I am comfortable in this non ordinary reality... I now work in a psych ward for adults and I just love being there..... I learn much deeper levels of IFS and especially the spiritual core of it from you... It seems more like I remember it when I hear you speaking about IFS .... Thank you enormously for your work and please know you have enriched my life significantly and I am sure you touch others in the same way... BEST wishes to you and again sending Big Thanks to you ..!!!! Peter Scheer

  • @alice33
    @alice33 Před měsícem

    I always thought that some demons and spirits need a lawyer. For example when humans use sigils to trap them. So rude indeed.

  • @Ishana_Intuitive
    @Ishana_Intuitive Před měsícem

    Yeah, Chico Xavier was a great medium and the movie Astral City is very enlightening.

  • @Ishana_Intuitive
    @Ishana_Intuitive Před měsícem

    Reminds me of Jung`s archetypes. (btw, I saw you on Jeffs Thinking Allowed channel and now looking for other videos of you :) ). I am an alternative practitioner for psychotherapy and medium/healer. I enjoy your videos a lot. Blessings

  • @queennihad2873
    @queennihad2873 Před 2 měsíci

    Love that gives me hope and trust in This world ❤🎉😢

  • @philipk917
    @philipk917 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much for bringing and sharing your experience and knowledge. You are extraordinary and I greatly admire your courage and wisdom. Well Wishes for you and yours and all. ❤🧡❤

  • @christinethompson6894
    @christinethompson6894 Před 2 měsíci

    “Dissociation is correlated to intelligence” is a game changer for my parts. Thank you for being 🙏🏽

    • @bobfalconer
      @bobfalconer Před měsícem

      Happy to hear it struck a chord

  • @levpsychotherapy1762
    @levpsychotherapy1762 Před 2 měsíci

    So calming and gently guided. Beautiful.

  • @TheWayofFairness
    @TheWayofFairness Před 2 měsíci

    It's not good versus evil as the universal war. Rather, it is fairness versus unfairness. We are the way of fairness. Contact me. I won everything.

  • @thecosmicjeweler
    @thecosmicjeweler Před 2 měsíci

    Bob love your discussion on the mystical aspects of living in the realm. We have been gas lit by science and history that we are alone here. We are living in the earth and surrounded by non physical beings and in constant communication as our bodies our open energy systems.

  • @Metamarky
    @Metamarky Před 2 měsíci

    Awesome, as someone who has practiced both this is very exciting. Is there a video follow up?

  • @3mrch
    @3mrch Před 3 měsíci

    What do I do if I'm triggered by throat clearing?

  • @franceslock1662
    @franceslock1662 Před 3 měsíci

    2:14:37 is the resonant energy ball that is in Focus 10 and encompasses you to protect you. Practice it and you get good at it. The Hemi Sync app has it in the library. I've encountered some people in the OBE community who use various balls or bubbles of protection, and layers of them, that encompass them. I wonder what your thoughts on this are.

  • @franceslock1662
    @franceslock1662 Před 3 měsíci

    I've never taken any psychedelics or drugs but it's interesting to listen to.

  • @Mimishummingbird
    @Mimishummingbird Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this talk, new to IFS but this talk was Brilliant & has me extremely curious. Thank you for your story & teaching 🫶🏼

  • @ginaiosef
    @ginaiosef Před 3 měsíci

    I can't believe it, psychiatrists and psychoanalysts talking about spirits and the spiritual world! Those with nde receive special attention from the medical world and their experiences are studied! It's like a dream come true! Life is but a dream! Thank you all so much for sharing this interview!

  • @soscruffy
    @soscruffy Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for the meaningful way the acknowledgement of the panel being male was made .

  • @soscruffy
    @soscruffy Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this fascinating talk. Bob, your work on UB's has helped me enormously

  • @ginaiosef
    @ginaiosef Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for all the work you've done so far, for humanity in general. I came across your videos and afterwards your channel through Dick Swhartz's work and IFS in general. I've just watched your great interview with Sara Avant Stover, and every time I hear your personal life experience, I am amazed at least. I am getting closer to 60, I am far from having had those harsh and unbelievable experiences as yours, but I had my part of some, ndes and that anger also ( and I am on the other side of the globe ). I don't know if you ever take questions or read comments, but if I am allowed, could you please tell me if you still feel broken and if this feeling is part of the picture? Anyways, thank you gratefully for your great part in the world! ❤️

  • @ludwigrief4263
    @ludwigrief4263 Před 3 měsíci

    What a wonderful meditation! "The longest journey every human ever makes is the.18 inches between their brain and their heart." - I love it. Truly the journey of a lifetime. Thank you very much.

  • @dianaentrekin3444
    @dianaentrekin3444 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you

  • @davidt1168
    @davidt1168 Před 3 měsíci

    Moving and wonderfull. Thank you so much.

  • @kingofdubb2133
    @kingofdubb2133 Před 4 měsíci

    Many thanks for this, an incredibly fascinating and engaging 2 and a half hours with 3 very fascinating people. Very thought provoking.

  • @synphet
    @synphet Před 4 měsíci

    🤍

  • @mysticmoth1111
    @mysticmoth1111 Před 4 měsíci

    40:04 Woah

  • @mysticmoth1111
    @mysticmoth1111 Před 4 měsíci

    This video is amazing and I'm only 1/5 in! I have had several experiences with several types of psychedelics. I have been in contact with entities. It has been SO healing. Especially when I started doing it alongside DIY IFS.

  • @mariavarelas8041
    @mariavarelas8041 Před 4 měsíci

    DEAR BOB...when spiritualists, whom I watch on-line so convinsingly refer to "everything being inside" after listening to you talk today, I now understand....Thank you for your brilliant light and language and all those cloves of garlic...

  • @ashbrandohd7334
    @ashbrandohd7334 Před 4 měsíci

    I just have to say how inspiring your story is. The level of deep compassion and empathy you've been able to develop through your traumatic experiences is admirable and brings me hope 😊 this is my first video of yours and I look forward to the rest and also hopefully being able to read your book. Thank you again for being such a special human being and bringing light to those still stuck in darkness. May God Bless you with love and warmth.

  • @CoCo-os2sl
    @CoCo-os2sl Před 4 měsíci

    You have a brave soul. To overcome all the difficulties that are out of imagination and become a loving person who helps many other people, you are amazing!

  • @synphet
    @synphet Před 4 měsíci

    Blessed are the meek for they will inherit the earth..I love you Bob 🤍😽

  • @AARCANUM
    @AARCANUM Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks Bob, really phenomenal work. It's helping me and inspiring me to help others!

  • @marieloparco8376
    @marieloparco8376 Před 4 měsíci

    A beautiful guided meditation. Am so grateful for these videos.

    • @bobfalconer
      @bobfalconer Před 4 měsíci

      Happy to hear that they're helpful.

  • @norashine1141
    @norashine1141 Před 4 měsíci

    I appreciate you sharing our knowledge and thoughts. In future, I hope you would include women in this discussion.

  • @levpsychotherapy1762
    @levpsychotherapy1762 Před 4 měsíci

    IFS in a nutshell in 4 minutes. Wow, that is awesome. Clarity!

  • @levpsychotherapy1762
    @levpsychotherapy1762 Před 4 měsíci

    Such gentleness, depth and experience..What a gift it is to be led by you, Bob.

  • @alanem8523
    @alanem8523 Před 5 měsíci

    Definitely would check out Sarah Peyton’s Resonance summit currently live. I’m an IF S Practitioner and love Sarah’s similar work that deeply incorporates NVC

  • @martianmatters
    @martianmatters Před 5 měsíci

    All is very impresive, just abouth 1st terapy I would trust work. Great person, great talk! And an interesting idea at the end 1:23:30 about Trojan horse

  • @marieloparco8376
    @marieloparco8376 Před 5 měsíci

    A beautiful meditation. I met both a beautiful and an insect like being. I just concentrated on the former.