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Great video! I was definitely concerned with cooking. I can cook, but not Nigerian food. I am however very open to learning and i am also taking tutoring classes to learn Igbo. Lastly i would definitely be open to moving to Nigeria with my husband, however I take care of my elderly mother currently. If that were not the case then i definitely would.

Thanksss for the video! I am now scared. My boyfriend is Nigerian, i am American and we both want children. I am older than him by 2 yrs; i am 36 and he is 34. We both have no children and desire them once married. I know i am probably considered outside of childbearing age in your culture. My Mom had my brother at 39 yrs old and me at 40yrs old with bo complications, so i am praying for the same results God willing.

Half sisters, aunties, cousins, brothers wife.. When he has no brother.. But you don't know that.

They say stuff about you cooking for them or being good home makers they're so sexist.

Yoruba man wants to marry me after 2 months. I know i am a good women but he keeps bringing up making more money and not being able to get better job because of the proper papers

Thank you 🙏

I need that one person for really

She's right, tho. She's from Delta State. That does not change. She is ndi igbo AND delta. We shouldn't make the mistake to believe that igbo are restricted to the SE. That comment "you people are not real igbos, you guys orrow from yoruba" or something along those lines. People need to understand that other igbo dialects also borrow from the people around them. It's only normal. Those groups also borrow from the igbo around them. Many Igbo dialects would share words in common with the tiv, idoma, igala etc because that's how language works On that note, i really like the delta dialect. It's cool seeing its similarities and differences with "standard igbo".

Well, that is definitely not a nigerian man. I'm sure there are some, but in majority of them always are narcissistic. Due to the impoverishment, so many nigerians think that everything should be given to them where they take it

Aaaaaah thank you lady. Even men from Ivory coast are players averagely. Barely honest.

I met a Nigerian man in the apartment complex where I lived. He never ask me for anything. He was working at the time I met him. He went home he called me I heard children in the background and I went shopping with him to get some suits for work the credit card had a ladies name on it. He ask if I would go to Nigeria and if I wanted to go to school and what kind of business would I like to open. He would mostly come at bedtime. I cooked dinner once for him. He ask me to make him a cake we had with the dinner and to decorate the walls in his apartment. We invited him to my daughter's wedding he didn't attend the reception he kept calling to see if I was home yet. I started seeing other men. I think I owe him a apology. Dallas Texas he ask for a picture of us that we had taken at the wedding Lorraine

Hello! I need advice. How can I reach you please.

My Nigerian boyfriend makes my heart melt. We have been together for 8 months. Lately he is more open snd we share many things. I have my doubts but time will tell

Did you say many women refused to marry 🤔?. Sad, they needed Kevin Samuel seriously. Otherwise, they end up with cats 🐈 and dogs 🐕 🤣

A lot of scammers in Nigeria due to bad governance.

You are very very mad.

Jamaican men love and care for their ladies too.

Scamming is not frowned up ,even by the most religious family.. long as they profit from your USD.. they will go along with it. Lol.. so religious and traditions are a scam too. They dont care about religion, marriage vows.. as long as they keep your money rolling in..

They show you off.. to family.

very good 😂💪👍women should be equal to men

My nigerian man has 2 kids with 2 different woman

They won't know, if you don't tell them. Just don't look it😅😊

My question is: as you give your money freely, is this even possible to report at all? And how?

Please finish the topic before you cancel out or log off..

Be careful ladies they even do this in person this has happened to me now recently but i think i was just too smart and witty for this guy where ge grew tired of me. I physically met him visited his house and even met his son each and every call would also be a video call. But after my visit he started complaining a lot about finances and too much responsibility that he has i already knew that something is wrong here and he's sharing too much information too soon . Long story short i played back started complaining about my debt and even shared the statement with him he assured me that we are in this together and he will help me get out of it. Few days later im being told he needs to reevaluate if this is what he really wants just because i reminded him to send money he promised we argued he sent the money but we not on speaking terms right now. I now see that he probably wanted to use me to get loans or so i don't know

Meet a Nigerian man he started off good it s three months in a honey whole hot mess. Everything you try to tell these woman are on point they work on what they feel is being desperate. Show any strength to their bs they try one final attempt to be if you don't succumb to it you remain 10 toe they move on to the next. Be no man's fool no matter where they live Africa have some of the most beautiful looking people with no soul. The rarity that be worth it you have to be bless cause the con is real. I thank u for warning woman u made me aware and super on guard. His out in the wrong doing when I said something he was like I don't understand. But say anything about money his ears perked up like pointy ear canine.

Yes that is very true, my fiancé has talked to me about that.

No one will be submissive to a man that they got to bring half

So their Mother's or Father's don't teach them about what it means to be a husband? What do they share then? Because there's much more to marriage than having children and being someone's maid. I've been married for 20 years.

Lots of Nigerian are in America 🇺🇸 making connections for the scammers to meet with American women to bring them to USA, lots of them are in San Antonio, TX, Indiana, New York, Chicago etc, beware of the wolf 🐺 in the church, work place, school etc

Lots of Nigerian are in America 🇺🇸 making connections for the scammers to meet with American women to bring them to USA, lots of them are in San Antonio, TX, Indiana, New York, Chicago etc, beware of the wolf 🐺 in the church, work place, school etc

A bunch of con artists in church, he wanted to come to USA 🇺🇸 after I gave him some money as a gift 🎁, he asked to give him money, he will come to US not by me

They are not in online dating only. I just got back from Nigeria to visit a pastor wolf 🐺 in a sheep 🐑 clothing. I was introduced to him by another wolf 🐺 pastor in a sheep 🐑 clothing in San Antonio, TX

My dog died😊

May the Lord bless u

Sooo my Igbo husband maybe married after all and I need your help. I’ve been here in Nigeria living with him 9 months. He has 2 children which he accepted responsibility for with a Yoruba woman. Recently his sister blurted out I told him not to marry her… drop the mike what!! Then back peddling… so baby momma wife I don’t know what she is apparently has his last name on a bank account. How does that happen what documents are needed for a bank account at uab? Can u just put a surname because you married traditionally? He stills tells me he never married her. I met his mother and father in fact while family in their village and he introduced me as his wife after we married. He didn’t pay my dowry which is not my American culture. Wait back up. When we went to court house he was labeled widowed. Which was news. He claims he just did an introduction to his parents and her family accepting responsibility. My question is does that constitute marriage in African culture? Is my marriage even legal? He wants to come to America of course. Maybe he’s desperate to do come to USA. Then why would sister leak the information. Now. I met this woman and their children came to stay with us for 3 weeks while out of school. U r the expert what are your thoughts? Would an African woman stoop so low to have her children live with her husband and his American wife? Oh and he wants to send his kids to live with the sister to learn his culture and she’s posting on her tictok you can’t take my children. What in the world?? Ok I’ll wait

Thanks for sharing with Us a wholesome Vlog with your beautiful family 😊

Well actually if the two of them are supposed to do the chores, then "helping" the wife IS not the correct Word. They are just doing their part, not helping nobody.

Oh, well not all white men help around the house

I now know I am lucky because my husband helps with house chores. I do thank him

Hey dear I’m just new to your Chanel and I’m loving everything about it. So I have a quick question, I’m Kenyan and I’ve been dating this igbo Nigerian man here. It’s has been 6months already and this man his always telling me that he got children to take care of that are not his children and his sisters is taking care of them. Again he first wanted to get me pregnant & little he didn’t know told him I’ve got FP. He has been telling me he has pressure at home they want him to settle and marry… Hmmm this man. He again mentioned I should acompany him to nigeria for his vacation and I refused. He doesn’t like to go out and we haven’t gone for a date for this 6month we have been together. Though he claims he loves me. So I’m giving him the energy that his giving me it the way I’m treating him he gets man. One time I slept out at my friends came home the following day he made drama,he went through my phone and checked my messages… But my instinct it’s telling me that his not the one I just feel off and confused.

10/ 10 nigerian men, i knew from work or through common friends have the same history. Using western woman for visa or any kind of benefits, once they are done with the woman. Goodbye without empathy.. the worst is they will have a child with these women. . the kids suffers.

I think my naija husband is trying to bring his babymom to our condo in Canada I’m back in America I heard him asking her if she got her passport from the travel agency

My ex husband yuroba nigerian man was a covert narcissist. Horrible person...

My daughter hates visiting her dad she says she’s treated like a slave and has no say in anything she is only 7

They won’t like you for this😂 you deserve more subscribers sis ❤

What is AA & AS tradition ?

😂😂😂

Why do they do this? my ex was planning a baby with another woman after I gave him two little girls I left and now he wants me back and says he’s bored of her after I found out he had a little boy to her who is not much older than my daughter.i always tell him to deal with his retirement plan 😂

I heard this before 😢.. i didn't fall for it