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This video is really great! It always begins slowly, and people don't even realize that it's happening! It's all about control and manipulation. I left one abusive marriage and ended up in a second abusive marriage. A friend of mine pointed out what was going on. She was right and now I'm free! I got divorced! I'm finding myself again! I'm 72 years old. It's never too late.

She had no right to spend the emergency money in the first place. She also spends what scott provides for her quite happily. The car, the house, even the grooming sessions. If she was really empowered and wants to do the job to pay for her share she should be fair to do it 50-50. Not just get a job and feel happy to be out pf doing her wifely duties. If she wanted to get a job, she should have graced Scott with a clear, civilised conversation about it in the first place rather than feel like a victim and also spending his emergency money and wanting to bumbling off to the interview especially when he was not comfortable about her taking the favour of another man. I agree that when scott hit her and cancelled her card it was definitely not acceptable but how would she like it if Scott was talking to some female that she did not like??

A lot of these videos are always showing women as the victims. Men have these happen to them too by women.. plz let’s remember men can be hurt too

That brought back memories.

I've never known any different parents treated me like shit so I thought it was normal so since the age of 15 to 48 mental physical emotional rape so much that I don't trust any man or person I'm way to damaged

Its ALL your fault! You went for the guy that would beat on you while leaving the one guy who cared about you AND YOU KNEW IT! You treated the guy who loved you with contempt and proved that you arent worth anything. Its YOUR fault.

She spent their emergency fund on more new clothes for herself and then went to the hair salon. 😮

These story very disturbing, and very upsetting, this man was extremely cruel and Very violent This was absolutely terrible and Very difficult to watch I hope this Woman was okay and I glad she left to Survive this terrible situation this very violent situation Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man tough... Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man strong... Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man cool... Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man a man.... I believe in the Safety and Well-being Women, Children, and Men WOMEN Have the RIGHT to FEEL SAFE and BE SAFE This is a reply post regarding a article on Assault Against Woman: For what is statistically true, or accurate, and even what is not included statistically, and all other crime such as this is what is ( violence against women) Always unacceptable... Women have the Right to Feel SAFE and be Safe... No woman..., or person....child...should ever have to experience this kind heinous personal intrusion in their lifetime, this seems to be occurring at least according to news reports more, and all to often. Actually this activity should be in a stage, or state of Reversal, and NOT Increasing, I am continually upset as well as greatly disturbed in hearing such stories, as I have always have been... My Heart Always... goes out to any person which have experienced any such similar experience of intrusion, attacks, and, or invasion of their personal well-being... due violence, and or violent behavior, I will continue Praying for the Safety and Well-Being of Others... Keep everyone SAFE PLEASE BE SAFE Your Life is important Advocate of Humanity, Author, Writer, Poet, Safety Advocate Jason Sandifer, Michigan MESSAGE REPOSTED

@1:35, as he's frantically searching for the emergency money he stashed away, she LIES and asks, "What money?", when she knew damn well that she took the money and spent it on herself. No man should EVER hit or be abusive to a woman and no woman should EVER hit or be abusive to a man. At the very end it states that 1-in-3 women experience domestic abuse AND ALSO that 1-in-4 men experience domestic abuse. I have NEVER seen a film that involves a woman abusing a man, as this is considered taboo and frowned upon; making the man appear as a wimp.

He doesn't want her to smile at anything, be happy, because he is an unhappy person.

This is all about mental illness. Normal empathetic men dont behave like this. This is not normal and these men dont belong in a marriage or relationship with anyone. 😢

Connor energy😂, yeah we get money abused so the wheel goes around

it is her fault she's lazy and dumb

why does Hannah look like Meghan Markle?

Two weeks ago my husband shouted at me and he was angry that i am afraid he hurt me physically. He didn’t say really sorry for what happened, only hug. But now i see it is not okay

well done... unfortunately i've experienced this from the other side of the gender divide. 😑

I know that one😢

Thank you

Why do they always show the man as the abuser? There are also women who abuse men.

Show these films in schools. Teach children how to recognise abuse - teach them to be confident to stand up for themselves and not be abused.

Emotional abuse is painful but so is physical abuse. To those that think emotional abuse is worst of the two try telling that to victims of acid attacks or thoss that have stab wounds, bullet wounds etc. Both forms of abuse hurt. Neither is greater or lesser than the other.

I encountered a situation where the woman of the house answered the door and dealt with the tradesman (me) while her man sat on the couch stuffing his face with a takeout salad. While she was talking to me, he loudly interrupted her, without looking up from his food. If he was going to leave her to answer the door and deal with me, he should not have been interfering with what she was saying. I looked him up, and found that he was an Ivy League grad, former US Marines captain, and a big-shot financier. A few months later, I was there again, and she'd kicked him out. The pandemic was too isolating for him, and he stared drinking. He needed to be in charge of everyone all the time, and working from home meant he had nobody there to boss around....except her, and she wouldn't take it from him.

yup, if only I could be a better wife, not be so loud, don't cry, don't laugh, always it was my fault...I was too fat (size 2), i was crazy, bad cook, the list is too long to mention...then I realized, it wasn't my fault...

Years, if ever

When your brought up being abused it can take years to bellive that it's not ok, and that you deserve better. Until your in that situation it's hard to understand.

It makes me realise how vulnerable us women are. Men can be so scary, and they are way stronger then us. Not so long ago women stood behind their husbands and that was all normal. But that's the end of a era now, almost. It can be hard to leave when you don't know where to get help and support .

3 narcissists are truly fucked individuals who only glean hope I'm making other people's life truly miserable and these satanic mother fucks please switch hammock mother fox really need to burn in hell because they know exactly what they're doing and this is sad sickshit of shit they know exactly what they're doing and they make their lives miserable they make our lives miserable I work for several individuals doing home health care yes I bathed I treats I wipe their ass I make their Mills I'm a caretaker and what did they do Herve make then make our caregivers life truly miserable we're trying to do the very best we can buy them and what are they doing their shiting honest why because they're sitting on millions of dollars and they are cognizant oh yeah these motherfuking people know exactly what they are crippled they have Parkinson's disease they have all kinds of shit and because of their fucking pain and shit they take it out of this oh my God 6:14

Years ago , when I had delivered my second daughter , I had a very difficult labor. My bladder got down , I was bleeding extremely bad , a very serious hemorrhage . After a year of several doctor appointments finally they approved my surgery to fix my bladder . The attitude from my daughter’s father > “ You just like they see you down there “ and he was extremely upset and irritated . Finally one day I escaped with my mother help . I never saw him again . I waisted 17 from my best years .

20 years it took me to leave. I've been out for 12. It chokes me up to see this. I was the sole breadwinner even. My husband became disabled. At one point I was set to begin the best job of my life and career thus far. It was going to catapult our family to the next level. I was so proud. Everyone was proud, my husband was proud. I had finally made it. And I could provide for our family. Our dreams were going to come true. Everything we'd imagined for ourselves was coming to fruition. But the darkness was lurking as it always was in the stillness of the night. His jealousy raged and anger rained down upon me. The night before my first day, he grabbed my entire wardrobe and threw it all into our pool. Screaming at me. There you will have nothing to wear to your fancy new job now. Everyone will see what a fake you are. You are just a fraud and they should never have chosen you. Or I could never wear too much makeup because I might be trying to entice someone at work. If I got my hair done it was for someone at work. No, I needed to have a certain element of style of professionalism it had nothing to do with anyone else. I went to my first day with slightly damp clothes and giant smile playing it off like the Oscar winning performance that I played every single day of married my life. Until he almost killed me... AGAIN. You will know when you've had enough. May you leave sooner than later like me is all I can say.

Super difficult to watch, but you nailed this.

If part of your wholebeing been abused get out while you are still alive!😢

Let him go

My husband and I escaped abuse from both of our parents. They were alcoholics mean horrible drunks. We’re trying to figure out what to do next. I was in this situation with my ex boyfriend when I was 14 and 15. But my parents were there to support me. But they emancipated me at 15. So I guess that’s when the drinking began. Same with my husbands parents.

Narcissistic abuse, we have words now to describe what these people do.

These abusers are controlling, they will control you financially, mentally and emotionally, some men can't except that you don't want them back in your life because of how they have treated you, years of mental abuse and also physical, purposely making you struggle, while they sleep around with many women, taking drugs and when you confront them they get physical, and when you think your eventually free from them, they will use whoever they can to mentally abuse you, trash you as a person so no other man may want you, because they just can't bare to see you with someone who will treat you the way a woman should be treated, show you what love and protection is, the scars that are left behind are not just physical, its easier for physical scars to heal, its the mental scars which may never heal and the impact it has on the children is painful, but these abusers are so selfish they do not care about how they effect their children, because they are more interested in sleeping around and taking drugs, i can forgive but never forget and i'm sure its the same for many other women.

Are abusive managers more likely to be donestic abusers ?

Are these actors from Australia?

Although less common, Men get trapped in abusive situations as well. I know of two right now. My mom was trapped, my dad got out his gun when she told him she was leaving w/ the kids. I think most often learning to take abuse is learned. On some level We feel as if that’s all we deserve. There are many many types of abuse, it can come from a boy or girlfriend, our parents, a friend or family, our adult kids, coworkers, or bosses. It’s all about another person’s efforts to control you. And people get very creative doing it. Ghosting, or ignoring you is also a form of abuse. It is not love at all. So if it’s happening to u, know that the person DoES NOT love you, but does want to control you. Save money, plan your escape, explain nothing, tell no one who may tell the abuser, just be gone, hide if necessary to stay safe.

This is the life am living right now,I feel like exhausted I don't know what to do and I have 2kids no job ..

It's Narcissistic mind games! Then he goes and cheats with other supplies so he picks a fight! Then he hoes around with another supply that he's grooming! It's a con game!

Hate me all you want some they can be horrible people as well

I am staying single

Thanks for bringing awareness to toxic relationships, really well done

Isn't she the Meghan Markle look alike?

Heavy accent. It was hard to comprehend at times. Which country?

WOMEN ARE NO VICTIMS, THE MADE CHOICES

WOMEN LOVE ABUSIVE MEN. DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR THEM. ITS A CHOICE

5:08 "Do i nOt giv yuo enohah honah?!"

😐 "The film highlights the different levels/types of abuse women or men may experience in an abusive relationship." Men? What men? When? Where? But we have to say that, don't we? It's like making clear that all ethnicities, faiths, pets and visitors from Venus are welcome in your Morris Dancing band. This is a worthy and laudable effort, truly, well above the polemic norm; even if to be blunt a little shallow or facile (for either "men or women"). What would have made it twice as courageous would have been to have it portray the male victims of female domestic violence, whose psychological traumas and physical scars persist for life - if, in fact, the victims have not been dumped six feet under. How should I know? Because I made a study of one of our society's most virulent taboos, growing in potency with every passing month, following what had been done to me and to other men I know. My own destruction started at the age of three or four, coming from what would later be diagnosed as "a typical low-grade sociopath". If only it had ended there... Am I saying that two wrongs make a right? Of course I'm not. But what chance would a film about brutality against men have of getting past the story-board, even if this accounts for forty percent of the domestic violence total? Let alone, of being automatically nominated for Goody Two Shoes awards where Good Two Shoes can squat smugly on their cosy cushions and see their Goody Two Shoes smugness affirmed. (You've not been nominated yet? Astonishing - just give it time!) Next time I come onto CZcams without signing in, I shall see my comment demoted quietly to where it deserves to stand: at the absolute bottom of the list. That's how we deal with people nowadays who say naughty or nasty things, and fill the room with the moral equivalent of a bad smell. Let's pretend they don't exist, and with luck they'll go away. "Lift going down, ladies and gents." What both women and men who suffer gaslighting, social isolation, brutalisation and the myriad other manifestations of emotional control need, is something a lot beefier than Middle Class Twee. Instead of dawdling with squeaky worthy quickies on your laptop, why not go out and talk to the survivors of Domestic Violence, yourself? Even if they happen to be ("Block your ears, Charmaine; now there's a good girl") m-e-n?

What may be worse is when parents treat children - young or grown - like this. That, too, is abuse and even more confusing and insidious.