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I'm starting a new job so I am using an opportunity to have my hair out. Pinterest has helped me find people that are similar to me.

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Been there done that! Dip on that ass! Quick fast and in a hurry it ain’t worth it! LEAVE THEY ASS!

😏👑🌹 would definitely goes both ways sometimes she doesn't know how to love or even be loved herself with God even he doesn't come uninvited doesn't make anything happen especially love it's a natural feeling it has to be made

Wow! He said that 😱 bravo that u gave him the ✂️ of course it's SA. Happened to me when I met a guy, felt he had the right to grab my butt. These are Demons!! 😈 P.S. 8 years for me and even if I meet someone in the future, they can wait. It pays to weed out the Fboys!

Yes its for me.

Man behaving today women is the problem

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I’ve been thinking about this,when I wore my hair out (my mom would do me and sisters hair into ponytails just grease and gel and oils) and she had access to our scalp and hair easily,but getting braids my hair started to literally break off,I’m definitely going back old school soon,but wear my Afro and moisturize it when it needs to be🤷🏾‍♀️ but right now I’m 17 and I’ve learned to do twists (added extensions) I love doing this style it’s so easy to do and low maintenance. And I’ve been seeing black women say “wearing your hair out a lot can break off” for some can be TRUE (if you don’t know how to do your hair,I don’t see how hiding it is helping it) but black men for example most don’t have a hair care routine they shower dry their hair and let it be,my brother for example has thick and lengthy hair and it’s literally MATTED and he has so much hair if he gets it blown out or stretched,so why can’t it be the same For black women?

Hot take, I realized that embracing your natural hair (I'm a dark-skinned Black African woman with 4C hair) means that you are renouncing to the male gaze. I take dancing class and honestly men (especially the Black ones) literally feel disdain when I show up with my 4C hair either in a fro or in mini-twists. Just something I noticed. I took out my braids and have been rocking my 4c hair since March 2024. I might do braids, but it's summertime so I'll let it breathe before winter starts

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Hmm Mexican food ❤ 😊 Girl, I feel you 💯 Btw I like your intro music ❤️ This reminds me of Love and Hip Hop

She is RIGHT ladies..... leave him ALONE IMMEDIATELY.... because he won't stop

Even his Momma leave him alone

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Rookie try 7 years as a man.

Same! Been celibate since Nov 2019 and plan on staying this way forever or at leadt until married. Not missing anything and I was a Playboy Bunny who dated the Who’s Who

I recently went 6 years and wasted it on a man who I thought was high value.

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Really that’s crazy 🤪

4 years ..... Pffft ... newbie ! 😏 Kidding aside - Gods blessings, strength, and favor to you sister ! 🙏

You still had sex with somebody when you wasn't married.

Great video

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You are not lying. Rent today is more than mortgages. The differences renters a lot of times don’t have that down payment or can’t afford the upkeep of the house. The renters are paying more money than anyone. It is what it is. we’re all grateful that, it’s out of control

12:45 is on point !!!!

Yeah I’m in downtown Rahway ,NJ after 3 year now 2800 2bdr 2 bathrooms,ridiculous time to go..

can you tell us the name of the apartments?

where in south jersey is this?

Especially don't take them back if they don't apologize for their behavior. A lot of guys will do all kinds of things to you then just try to come back after a certain period of time like nothing happened, never saying anything about it. That means they haven't changed and don't think they need to change. Take it at face value and leave them alone.

This video was better than ALL the natural hair videos on CZcams combined!! This is the kind of video that needs to go viral. I’ll be sharing it here in the UK. Thanks luv x

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He talked my name with another woman he was trying to get with. She apparently is friends with one of my good friends. Anyway it got back to me. Very disrespectful, hurtful and unexpected 😡😠

Thank you Sis!

He's stole my car 2 times❤

I'm is the past no more God father and son and Holly spirit bless you 🙏

I don't trust him it all in my lord Padre Jesus crist Amen thank you thank you father lord bless as always bless you 🙏

Dearest Queen Sam,. I ALREADY KNOW ALL this And YES YOU are RIGHT and CORRECT..NO ONE should Ever be MADE TO FEEL like this way Or to be HUMILIATED in PUBLIC just because Your so called SUPPOSEDLY PARTNER need ATTENTION SEEKING, and have TO EMPRESS and PEOPLE PLEASING their Many many many SIDELINE CHICKS, THIRD PARTY FEMALES EVERYWHERE ANYWHERE they Can Get them and also who Just want to KEEP EVERYONE kept from EACHOTHER and STILL doing a lot of FAKE PRETENTIOUS APOLOGIES in order to Just GET WHAT THEY NEED and PLAYING MIND GAMES BACK and FORTH and trying to make out that they CARE ABOUT YOU. When it is NOTHING that Way it is All ABOUT what you OFFERING and it is ONLY SEX with an OLD MAN who IS NOT what they Appear!! Sincerely MARY JEAN from NORTH GOSFORD NSW CENTRAL COAST AUSTRALIA. 3 April 2024. And SOME People Just DON'T WANT to SEE TRUTH. Can't COMPLAIN when THINGS HAPPEN due to NOT wanting to KNOW what is HAPPENING that is All PROBLEMS and ILLUSIONS. And That IS NOT GOOD on ANYONE!! Sincerely MARY JEAN from NORTH GOSFORD NSW CENTRAL COAST AUSTRALIA.

I felt every single thing you said! I mean every bit of it 💯 I hope this video goes viral. I have binge watched hundreds of hair videos. I noticed this pattern of “you HAVE TO protective style in order to grow your hair.” But as time went on, I started to realize.. WHY do I have to hide my hair 24/7, WHY would I want to keep it away in braids/ twists/ buns for MY ENTIRE LIFE just to keep it growing when that is simply false. I want to actually enjoy my natural hair. Obviously you have to take care of it and be very mindful of what you’re doing with it on a day to day basis, but hair is always growing (unless you have a medical condition that prevents it) I’ve been natural for 7 years and had to do another big chop last month due to extreme heat damage and postpartum hair loss. Two traumatic experiences for me. I went from mid back length to now barely collarbone length. Which is fine because I just wanted my healthy curls again. I personally prefer my longer, full curls. So I was driving myself crazy these past few weeks trying to install wigs. Forcing myself to keep it in braids longer than a week. Until I finally woke back up and was like, you know what, this is more of a self love + physical/ mental healthy journey MORE THAN ANYTHING. Chopping off my hair this time around made me realize to never take my hair for granted again. When it was mid back length I complained ALL THE TIME how “unmanageable” it was when in reality, I was neglecting it which was causing it to become unmanageable. Then I’d get frustrated, handle it so roughly which caused unnecessary breakage, and to top it off I’d straighten it every chance I could. I’m 28 and stay at home mom of 3 (2 under 2) and who would have ever thought something as simple as HAIR would give me this sort of like a spiritual awakening overall lol Thank you for this video! 💕

I walked away baby, took time but I did and he played her too and slept with her so called friend in the process so guess they learned the hard way

I literally just decided today to put my hair in a slick ponytail with no added pieces crazy this popped up on my feed. I haven’t used much chemicals on my hair since 2014. My hair grew pretty long then my mom passed and my hair stayed at that length from stress and depression I think. then I tried to switch it up and developer dye my hair and it broke off and I got frustrated with it then started just cutting it and cutting it. Now my hair is gaining health back. I’m at a state where I want to be super consistent and do less manipulation and use less braiding and wigs because it destroyed my scalp. I thought I was protecting my hair but I do believe my scalp needs air and I think certain synthetic hair I’m very allergic to. So it destroyed my scalp and my hair wouldn’t grow after that. Now I’m at medium length almost short and I’m working on healing my scalp. For the past few months it’s really worked. Each month I have less and less infection, scars and dandruff. I’ve decided to get in a routine and this year I’m gonna really grow my hair long. For real this time!

Chile, you're MIXED yet used to relax your hair??? You don't even need it! 🤦‍♀that alone will damage your hair cuz of the texture. A relaxer would never touch my hair if I was mixed, nope! You're lucky it didn't leave you bald, for real.

Great advice!

Great advice I’m around your age and I certainly agree with you! I wish I wouldn’t have cut mines as much some stylists can prevent growth! I love your energy I hope some young ppl can hear this.

This is good advice. When I was in college at 18, I went natural because I didn’t know how to relax my hair when I went away… when I left school.. I worked in a salon, went to cos school and became a braider… but I didn’t understand the essence of caring for my hair until I left the industry to be a sahm, couldn’t always buy weave and started taking care of my own hair. I’m 28 now and enjoying my natural hair. I wish I embarked on this journey sooner. I’ve tried a crochet and a wig on recently and I ended up taking the styles down a few days later just because I felt my best and most beautiful natural. I never thought I would be in this place where I preferred my hair over anything else.

Very good advice. No hairstyle is good for too long. Always switch it up so your scalp and hair can breathe freely at times.