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Why I Am Glad I Didn't Get Married In My Early 20's
Why I Am Glad I Didn't Get Married In My Early 20's
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Psalm 83
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Psalm 83
Psalm 77 reading
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Psalm 77 reading
Resting is a birthright.
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Resting is a birthright.
Luxury and spending money aren't the only ways to elevate yourself.
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Luxury and spending money aren't the only ways to elevate yourself.
Stop trying to fit in
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Stop trying to fit in
If you struggle with comparison or jealousy, this is for you
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If you struggle with comparison or jealousy, this is for you
Get back up if you fall/fail
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Get back up if you fall/fail
God is preparing you for next! Be obedient!
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God is preparing you for next! Be obedient!
The narcissist says, "I brought out the worst in you."
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The narcissist says, "I brought out the worst in you."
Reputation matters...why you should care
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Reputation matters...why you should care
The lack of dating and marriage is a spiritual issue.
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The lack of dating and marriage is a spiritual issue.
Don't be a ride or die and here's why
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Don't be a ride or die and here's why
Short Bible Study About Witchcraft
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Short Bible Study About Witchcraft
"I Never Had An Example" Can Be An Excuse
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"I Never Had An Example" Can Be An Excuse
Desire to serve more than you desire to be served
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Desire to serve more than you desire to be served
Are you self-sabotaging your growth?
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Are you self-sabotaging your growth?
Don't be fooled by the narcissist's "glow up"
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Don't be fooled by the narcissist's "glow up"
Why Narcissists Can't Be Good Marriage Partners
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Why Narcissists Can't Be Good Marriage Partners
People are too obsessed with "glowing up"
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People are too obsessed with "glowing up"
Dear former people pleasers, it wasn't your fault
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Dear former people pleasers, it wasn't your fault
For creators, God is restoring your first love ❤️
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For creators, God is restoring your first love ❤️
We have too much sympathy for abusers
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We have too much sympathy for abusers
You can't bring chaos and expect peace!
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You can't bring chaos and expect peace!
Why I would never reach out to the new supply
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Why I would never reach out to the new supply
Get help as many times as you need it!
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Get help as many times as you need it!
I was told to send a letter to my narcissistic ex
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I was told to send a letter to my narcissistic ex
Stop being so nice
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Stop being so nice
Spiritual Warfare: How The Enemy Accuses Us and Creates Bondage
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Spiritual Warfare: How The Enemy Accuses Us and Creates Bondage
The Proper (Mature) Way to Reject Men
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The Proper (Mature) Way to Reject Men

Komentáře

  • @depy2762
    @depy2762 Před měsícem

    Wnm are narcissists and they are attracted to narcissists they should be good together.

  • @maryannnase5517
    @maryannnase5517 Před 2 měsíci

    Amen

  • @docadious6948
    @docadious6948 Před 4 měsíci

    Stay away from all narcissists. They change, not for long anyways. It's another mask on top of all their other masks.

  • @Alejandro-uk5qo
    @Alejandro-uk5qo Před 5 měsíci

    'Promosm' 😄

  • @user-by3ux5ou3y
    @user-by3ux5ou3y Před 5 měsíci

    Type shii I'm NOT the fit in type

  • @chelseakatsidzira7153
    @chelseakatsidzira7153 Před 6 měsíci

    Amen 🙌🏾

  • @DreamShadai
    @DreamShadai Před 6 měsíci

    Amen 🤍🙏🏾

  • @JamesAustinHall
    @JamesAustinHall Před 6 měsíci

    God bless you in the name of Jesus amen!

  • @nataliereyes9145
    @nataliereyes9145 Před rokem

    THIS is the best video in the world that explains the NARC

  • @nunyabeewax9894
    @nunyabeewax9894 Před rokem

    Venting about little things but never telling anyone the truth, making such an effort to hide the abuse because your embarrassed or confused. I'm only half way though your video but feels like you might as well be speaking about my life, thank you for this video.

  • @andrewhudson7092
    @andrewhudson7092 Před rokem

    Huge facts

  • @danielmulcahi6327
    @danielmulcahi6327 Před rokem

    I'm so Glad you didn't give in. I am.waiting for mine to reach out. I have 2 plans to deal with him.

  • @auntiebarnes
    @auntiebarnes Před rokem

    ❤️

  • @maryharris7828
    @maryharris7828 Před rokem

    3. I use to be innocent, lovable,helpful,etc but baebae,I'm also a fast dam learner who believe in 1. Accountability and Payback. One of the two must take place. Period!!! I keep a pay back accountability tablet& I pay people back. I want to change that image they have of me& save others to teach them, you can't judge a book by its cover. When you learn your WORTH, proceed with payback& accountability,all hell breaks loose.Those same people holler saying oh that's in the past?!! I say,says who🙄!!? Well when it's YOUR TURN ,give me a call,then we can talk. Otherwise goodbye!!Monkey see,monkey do,gorilla want to do it too!!!You got to ACT Crazy,watch you get respect. Take acting classes on CZcams.

  • @maryharris7828
    @maryharris7828 Před rokem

    2.Some people misconstrue people pleaser with positive communal,good home manners& upbringing people .If she's religious,she got double problems.THERES A SPIRITUAL WAR IN THE FLESH TOO betweenpositive &negative people.These demons function off of a different frequency than us Normal people,which is Why you have no choice but2 play their game to survive .Many are caught up in the matrix.As a child I was never taught to hate,descriminate or that there were hateful people.These demons HATE positive people & they work together2 bring down kind naive, innocent people.

  • @maryharris7828
    @maryharris7828 Před rokem

    It is RARELY EVER,the women's fault unless she has tall issues.Statically,we all know men have been the problem since oxygen came into existence.I am tired of hearing when a woman is ABUSED, she's ACCUSED& is the problem?Gas lighting is a tactic that men do& mentally have herd-mentality.So they jump on dummies wagon&become s a parot,repeating what his coworker,homie,etc say. Eventhough they have seperate brains in separate bodies,they can't comprehend or utilize cognitive skills to interpret reality(shared fantasy) thinking.When women are raped,she's the DAM Problem.(?)🙄

  • @Desmondenae_
    @Desmondenae_ Před rokem

    💝

  • @JamesAustinHall
    @JamesAustinHall Před rokem

    God bless you spiritually, mentally, physically, and financially in Jesus name amen!

  • @valenciahenderson3489

    Amen ...Very Wise

  • @maryharris7828
    @maryharris7828 Před rokem

    You my new Girl!🤗 Listen I wasn't lucky enough to get counseling,etc. However,the books, experiences&CZcams helped a great deal.I have only 1 child with this vicious illness&after trying a trillion things,no contact has been the best👌🤗(20yrs).Being around a narc can very well pull you into meeting other narks.😬Narcs PRODUCES more narcs& now you have a narc cult family Environ ment with yrs of exper ience.Birds of a feather flock together.Any normal person in their right mind,would run with gasoline draws on.They' ll never volunteerly sacrafice their only life,2an EVIL,nasty DEMONIC species 👹👽 (75% of the yr?🙄)& nice 25% of the yr.I don't mean to disrespect your channel ,but hell naw. No way!! This is a sure way to burn in hell!

    • @thisgirlsworth
      @thisgirlsworth Před rokem

      They absolutely change your nature, so best to guard your heart as the Bible warns. I'm proud of you for doing what was necessary to protect yourself and your child.

  • @maryharris7828
    @maryharris7828 Před rokem

    I just founded your videos .It's such a pleasure2 watch them because your pleasantness remind me when I was younger. I'm 60yrs, starting my life all over.I wished when I was your age I had guidance2 balance my positive pleasant upbringing with today's toxic people.I was never told about them,nor discernment.All I knew is,we're all Gods children ,come on in!!!🙄. I am now comfortable with living a very simplistic life. I don't do NOTHING I don't want to do. Dealing with the toxic people was like the 1st time a white person sees a blk person.😳.I had to learn real quick how to straddle my horse,kick butts& roll with the winds.After my years ofsubliminal,emotional & physically abuse,I research ed,why am I the only one getting abused& where do ALL these people that ONLY care for themselves come from.?Today I'm 90% done with my research& you can't pay a Narcassist to come my way.🤗They are 80% animal(demonic,diabolical& 20% human.

    • @thisgirlsworth
      @thisgirlsworth Před rokem

      Absolutely! So glad you found my channel. The innocence and desire to believe in people can be a beautiful thing, but like a woman told me years ago to protect my pearls. God gave you something special to protect, something that is uniquely you. God bless!

  • @maryharris7828
    @maryharris7828 Před rokem

    Say it Sanaa lathan!!!👍💯

  • @Desmondenae_
    @Desmondenae_ Před rokem

    I agree, it's annoying when people are like "yeah, they did this but they had a bad childhood or experience", but thats not an excuse to be a bad person , Also blaming the victim who "chose" that person is what people who don't have compassion or understanding do, this is psychological things that people don't know. Victims would chose someone as a result of how they grew up, not knowing they are doing that, would also be too forgiving because they don't know better in that area. 🤍

  • @DannyGarrigan
    @DannyGarrigan Před rokem

    Me Thanks 👍🏼

  • @Desmondenae_
    @Desmondenae_ Před rokem

    Great message, 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 also I like your face.

  • @layni9368
    @layni9368 Před rokem

    I don't feel "crazy" after watching this. Thank you for breaking this down.

  • @DannyGarrigan
    @DannyGarrigan Před rokem

    What makes you think he's on a "healing journey" ? Sounds like a scum bag to me. I'll pray for his down fall. Please stay away from users n their flying 🐒 s

    • @thisgirlsworth
      @thisgirlsworth Před rokem

      I absolutely agree about staying away. The Bible tells us to pray for people so I try and follow that. I have a follow up but I recently made the decision to remove anyone connected to the narcissist so he doesn't think he has access. I am too gracious at times and I'm working on setting stronger boundaries. Thank you for the encouragement. 🙂

  • @snjezanakristo7693
    @snjezanakristo7693 Před 2 lety

    That's exactly what I've got from my narcissist on this year's Valentine's day - absolutely nothing but a silent treatment. And most of the time he does less than a bare minimum. He is a school example of a narcissist.

  • @invalidgirl
    @invalidgirl Před 2 lety

    Things ended very badly. He left me for another girl . Pretty sure he's a narcissist messing with me . He has a gf . Send me an apology after 3 months and then unblocked me and added me on fb. .... blocked boi bye. He gets the same cruel cold shoulder

  • @sinikkartistry
    @sinikkartistry Před 2 lety

    this applies to friendships too…

  • @christinam81
    @christinam81 Před 2 lety

    I say the exact same thing lol “Your guess is as good as mine. You’re gonna have to ask God about that one!” He’s running this thing because I’ve tried without Him and I’ve always screwed it up, so I retired from it.

  • @mbaleah
    @mbaleah Před 2 lety

    So true. I ended up being the worst person. Believing that to operate in the world you have to be cutthroat and cold. Thank you for this video

    • @thisgirlsworth
      @thisgirlsworth Před 2 lety

      Yes! It really changes you for the worst, even if you don't want to change. I'm glad you were able to recognize this and become your true self again!

  • @ShellzC63
    @ShellzC63 Před 2 lety

    Greetings from South Florida, it’s just as hot 🥵. Great video!

  • @sweatshedtx
    @sweatshedtx Před 2 lety

    Hey, keep up the work. You will enjoy this channel 👉 #drjohnaking. I find him instructional and practical.

  • @miapudding281
    @miapudding281 Před 2 lety

    Hey!, keep at the work. You might enjoy this channel 👉 #drjohnaking. I find him informative, yet down to earth.

  • @Oderick801
    @Oderick801 Před 2 lety

    The anxiety attacks and starting to feel like you may mentally breakdown…I definitely experienced that. I would sit and shake and be so unable to think straight. And he witnessed this and absolutely showed zero concern. If anything, he seemed to relish in it. So I had zero peace of mind 24/7. I escaped the narc in 2019 (I was with him for 3 years and he did not start treating me really terrible until I moved in with him, 2 years into dating, (though about a year into the relationshit is when I really started sensing the shadiness/lying/being secretive/never communicating) … after I moved in, it took me about a year to get a plan together and have something in place to go to after I left (that year was pure hell mentally)) and I still (3 years later) struggle with isolating and have issues with getting completely drained when I try to be social in any capacity. Somehow while I was with the narc I did very well in my job and still took good care of my tween son, because I learned to compartmentalize at a very young age due to some things that happened to me as a child. Had I not had that coping mechanism honed, and a good job and options, as well as support from a loving aunt and close girlfriend, I am not sure how things would have turned out, but I am guessing not good at all. I feel bad for anyone that doesn’t have the resources and support to escape these soulless robots.

  • @narcissistinfo7970
    @narcissistinfo7970 Před 2 lety

    Hi sis praying with faith is the way Amen I believe God in all things…

  • @narcissistinfo7970
    @narcissistinfo7970 Před 2 lety

    All that your saying resonates with me wow your Beautiful inside and out praise God I understand because I’m a entrepreneur myself in a Christian first and there’s some things that God has promised me and now I’m in a season one focusing nine him in my business however I still Desire a wife god says he will give me the desires of my heart but I love what you say it’s god way first seek he first the kingdom of god and all these other things will be added unto you that the word your on it then the wife will come and everything else and it feels so good to be free and single dating myself is amazing going on trips along dating myself shopping in la eating along going to the gym number one praying and fasting powerful message my sister,,,

    • @thisgirlsworth
      @thisgirlsworth Před 2 lety

      I am glad it resonated! Continue to focus on God and the purpose He placed in you and in the best timing, you will see God's promises for your life unfold. God bless! 🙏🏾

  • @narcissistinfo7970
    @narcissistinfo7970 Před 2 lety

    Great video….

    • @thisgirlsworth
      @thisgirlsworth Před 2 lety

      Thank you!

    • @narcissistinfo7970
      @narcissistinfo7970 Před 2 lety

      @@thisgirlsworth your welcome 🤗 I think that hod has really blessed you to this generation to minister to us in a way that will make a mark in many lives that want be erased!! You are very anointed my spirit confirms with yours a lot I really love how the lord uses you on your channel blessings to you my sister my the lord keep using you Amen…

  • @narcissistinfo7970
    @narcissistinfo7970 Před 2 lety

    This was an amazing video and I’m a man that’s been through this and your on point 💯 and my sister your a beautiful woman of god I’m believing god for a kingdom woman of hood with this type of spirit this is encouraging may the lord keep blessing you and give you every desire of your heart !!! 🙏🏿💯

  • @Desmondenae_
    @Desmondenae_ Před 2 lety

    Great video, people do feel pressured to have a relationship the older they get, It's a society problem. It's good you made this video around this time. Some people do think being single is bad and it's not, working on yourself is important as well. But I noticed too many Christian's do idolize being married.❤

  • @TheWrightGroupSEO
    @TheWrightGroupSEO Před 2 lety

    Good to see you sis...👊👊👊💯💯💯🙏

  • @dayslikethis82
    @dayslikethis82 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for this. Confirms what I already knew. My ex tried to make me get rid of our baby even at 20 weeks.. the 2nd I said no he got nasty, blocked me and said talk to his lawyers… it all makes sense to me now sadly.

  • @Desmondenae_
    @Desmondenae_ Před 2 lety

    I know this was a while ago but I would say although it has these roots that are pagan, I dont see it that way. There are a lot of Christian's who think December 25th is inherently evil just because pagans did something on that day. But most Christian's arent doing pagan rituals for Christmas we are genuinely making it about Jesus & celebrating his birth. If it still involves satanic things I wouldn't do that, but decorating a tree and watching Christmas movies isn't satanic. Something bad or meant for evil can be turned into something good, regardless of if that's not his real birthdate. We can still celebrate it and make it about him, That's how I see it. It's not the same in comparison to yoga that is connected to false gods, chants/witchcraft. Yoga still has those roots its watered down here but it's still demomic worship until this day, so yoga never changed. I've seen people say "why give up yoga not Christmas " so that's just my perspective.

    • @thisgirlsworth
      @thisgirlsworth Před 2 lety

      That's true! No day is inherently evil. Christmas decorating has pagan roots. The way I see it is I don't celebrate or buy Santa related things and I listen to Christimas music that acknowledges Christ. I make Christmas about Christ but the root is pagan so at times I question myself. I don't practice yoga or horoscopes anymore for those reasons so is Christmas in the same boat? I wonder...

    • @Desmondenae_
      @Desmondenae_ Před 2 lety

      @@thisgirlsworth The reason why I dont think its in the same boat is because yoga is still about worshipping false gods, the names of movements, the transitions,, the chants etc are all still about false gods and awakenings. Because we personally, or most Christian's don't do idol worship for christmas or even Easter. Even horoscopes would be considered similar to mediums or divination, so I get why that's still basically new age and not good. But, I don't think it's the same exact thing with christmas, Pagans actually had a celebration during winter solstice & from December 17-25, but I think if you aren't doing pagan things and actually make it about christ then it's fine. Some people act like pagans actually own the day December 25th. To me it's not a comparison because there is no way around yoga, there's no way you can make yoga/horoscopes about God when movement, and the names of the things you are doing is all dedicated to demons. Pagans didn't even celebrate something named christmas, they celebrated yule and false gods..Choosing a day that pagans used to do something for a day to celebrate Christ isn't the same to me, so I guess it depends on perspective.

    • @LC_H
      @LC_H Před rokem

      ❤️It's a tradition of man (Mark 7:7-8). From the music, to the trees (Jeremiah 10:2-4) to the decorations, it's all tradition, and that tradition is rooted in paganism and sun worship (2 Corithians 6:16). Dec 25th represents the "birth of Christ" for many believers, but if God says for us to worship Him in spirit and truth (John 4:24), then how does acknowledge anything associated with paganism, or acknowledging a day that was never said to be His actual birthday worshipping Him in spirit and truth. Think about it this way... If pagans didn't celebrate Dec 25 at all (winter solstice), then would we as believers even associate this date with Jesus still? No... because it's not a date who's orgins are truly associated with Christ. We could also view it this way... Where in the bible do we see Believers celebrating Dec 25? We don't. We cant take darkness and associate with light for the sake of keeping an unbiblical tradition. Many churches do this SAME thing with Halloween by calling it, "Trunk or Treat." We take a day (Halloween) that glorifies devils, witches (Exodus 22:18), warlocks and demons, and turn it into something comfortable enough for believers to celebrate. Christian shouldn't celebrate Christian; simply because the orgins of these dates are contrary to God's Word.

  • @Desmondenae_
    @Desmondenae_ Před 2 lety

    Very good points made sis ❤ very analytical thinking on this. You're correct, majority of the time the focus is on women and how to be Godly wives one day and lessons on submission but fail to tell men what the bible says, also yes, a lot of men abuse the word submission and because not enough Christian's study the bible these women believe submission means something it doesn't actually in the original language the Bible is in submission technically translates to "order, to put in order" as you said align. It doesn't mean Men are above Women. But...you can have class and sass lol being like christ doesn't mean never standing up for yourself or speaking up. Also, no. Similar does NOT mean same. It's hard for people to understand saying men and women are equal isn't saying they are the exact same.

  • @muluhcasius6950
    @muluhcasius6950 Před 2 lety

    You will go back to being a feminist if you had the chance to be a 18 year old girl in 2022. Women just turn to gradually drop their bias as they hit the wall. Once they eventually get out of the sexual market, they spit out the truth especially if they are mothers to some boys or if they have a sonn

    • @thisgirlsworth
      @thisgirlsworth Před 2 lety

      I stopped identifying as feminist at age 19. I guess 19 was my wall and I guess my 20's, which I am still in, is my wall. I will make sure to let the men who flirt with me or try to date me know that you have informed me I've hit my wall. Thank you! Just for reference, it was studying feminism in college that showed me I wasn't a feminist. I'm a Christian and Christianity and feminism doesn't align. God bless you.

  • @remnant1018
    @remnant1018 Před 2 lety

    This is exactly what happened 😧

  • @kaverious
    @kaverious Před 2 lety

    that was articulate

  • @danielinokoba5655
    @danielinokoba5655 Před 2 lety

    Wonderful video I enjoyed it watched the video one hour straight , it will be wonderful to have more video on topics like this to better understand the biblical part way to a successful relationship but I disagree with some of the points you made, you said around 18:00 that the Bible didn’t talk about a man is supposed to provide that’s not correct cause In 1 Timothy 5:8 it said a man that dose not provide for his household has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever, also you said it’s men that beat them self up about how much they bring, that’s not men but society that’s tells men, that’s why majority of the time the society elevate men with money than the regular guy without money that’s why a CEO of a company is more attractive to a woman than a guy that works in a fast food and the CEO is more likely to get a girl than the other guy just because of his status in society I can say more on that but don’t want to type too long and also something you said around 1:05:00 but overall I enjoyed the video and learned a few things

    • @thisgirlsworth
      @thisgirlsworth Před 2 lety

      Thank you for watching! I am glad you brought this up. I made that statement to combat this very argument, I can certainly give more context but I tried not to make the video too long. My point is that the Bible teaches men are worth far more than just what he provides. Men are the spiritual leaders of the household. To represent Christ is a huge task. Christ was about honoring God, stewarding the church, and sacrificing His life. Society has placed man's value to the family as mainly financial and therefore, man spends his entire life building for financial gain to gain access to "life". This is antichrist thinking. To provide and be wealthy are too different things. Men marry everyday who do not make a lot of money. There are more working class families than families with CEO's as the father/husband. Even if women say they want successful or rich husbands (because the expectation is that they should and money=security), majority of women do not marry for money or all poor men would be single. We have to remember the world pushes a very different idea versus reality and social media will fool us if we're not careful.

  • @rodneycrawford5904
    @rodneycrawford5904 Před 2 lety

    I enjoyed the whole hour long video ,,uncle Rodney