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Making Sense with Dr. Stacie
United States
Registrace 16. 08. 2014
Mindful considerations with Dr. Stacie Betancourt, Ph.D., Arbitrator, Mediator, Life Coach, Divorce Coach, and Divorce Recovery Coach.
Taking Chances.
Do you spend your life wishing you could do, or be like those you see as successful? Do you find yourself thinking that those who have success are "Lucky?" Admittedly there are times when people do get lucky, but usually an individual achieves what they want because they have taken chances. If you are one who spends their time wishing, let me know I can defiantly get you started on the right path, and it starts by clicking the play button!
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Doing Hard Things.
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This seems to be the newest phrases in encouraging others and ourselves. But what does it mean? Do we know we can do hard things? I hope so, but "what if?" This gentle reminder is sometimes needed in order for us to achieve our wishes, goals, and desires. Sometimes it just takes a little more. Remember you don't have to take things on by yourself when it gets difficult, as there are people arou...
Responding to Negative People
zhlédnutí 18Před 14 dny
My last posting discussed the recovery that is needed when dealing with negative people, but how do we respond to negative people? What if we are the negative individual? Can we control our thoughts and feelings to be more positive? Take a watch and let me know your thoughts. #lifecoach #lifecoaching #livingyourpurpose #socialemotional #socialemotionaldevelopment #patience #kindness #grace #neg...
Recovering from Negative People
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I've spoken before about the importance of eliminating negative people from your life, but what do you do within yourself to recover from the drain the individuals placed on you in the process? The ability to heal yourself from negative people who exhibit actions, behaviors, and words can be hard and will require cognitive awareness within yourself in order to allow joy and happiness to return....
Cleaning Your Mind
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Did you know that when we let people crowd our thoughts with negative criticism, over time it has an adverse affect on our mental outlook? What is worse is when we do this to ourselves. Like cleaning our home, we have to make a conscience act to "clean" out our minds of the negative words and actions that have been done against us. #lifecoach #lifecoaching #livingyourpurpose #socialemotional #s...
Bandage on Unresolved Hurt
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Are you finding that it is easier to cover up unresolved hurt rather than doing what is needed to process the emotions behind the hurt? Sooner or later you will need to seek help for long-term avoidance. Please know that isn't a bad thing. Going through this action could be the best gift you give to yourself. Take a watch and let me know what your thoughts are below. #lifecoach #lifecoaching #l...
Balance Part 2.
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So what do you do when your life is out of balance? How do restore joy into your life that comes from having balance? Listen in and let me know your thoughts, and if I can help you in any way. #lifecoach #lifecoaching #livingyourpurpose #socialemotional #socialemotionaldevelopment #patience #kindness #grace #divorcecoach #divorcecoaching #arbitration #arbitrator #mediating #mediator #mediation ...
Balance Part 1
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This week is a two-part segment on Balance. There is no surprise that our lives are very busy. We have so many things coming at us through several aspects to include family, work, friends, and even technology. How can we see balance when we have so much coming at us? Let's dive in to see what can be done to acknowledge and hopefully restore balance in our daily lives. #lifecoach #lifecoaching #...
Self-Worth
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Using last weeks posting on Valuing Yourself as a backdrop. This week I further discuss the need to have self-worth, and an understanding of the importance of seeing the good you do not only for yourself, but in sharing your talents and gifts you are providing yourself the endurance to continually try new things. Don't be afraid to acknowledge yourself, it isn't vanity, it's sharing. #lifecoach...
Value You!
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Do you ever find yourself lacking the self confidence to go after what you want in life because you've suffered set backs, or "perceived failures?" We can never know what successes are waiting for us because we are caught up in failed attempts. Remember that no one is keeping score and only you have the power and energy to get back up and move forward! #lifecoach #lifecoaching #livingyourpurpos...
Processing Hurt
zhlédnutí 7Před 2 měsíci
The ability to move on from years of verbal trauma can be very difficult, as your reactions become part of your defenses. Not every action that causes a trigger is intentional however, and if you are finding yourself more reactive than having the ability to process what is said you might want to consider reaching out for help. NOTE: If you are being physically, emotionally, or verbally abused c...
Perseverance.
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The aspect of perseverance is what drives us toward a given goal. The drive and determination that sets us apart from someone else is the willingness to go for what we want. Perseverance is also about knowing when you may need to alter or change your course. Tell me what you're going after and what milestones you have made, or let go of? www.betancourtlifesolutions.com #lifecoach #lifecoaching ...
Making Your Own Magic.
zhlédnutí 24Před 2 měsíci
When we are young we are able to create such magic with our imaginations. As we get older we sometimes get the illusion that we must let this practice go, but as we get older our use of imagination changes. Remember to not stop imagining what you want in life. Channel your magic into achieving the successes you are seeking. www.betancourtlifesolutions.com #lifecoach #lifecoaching #livingyourpur...
Dreams with Risk.
zhlédnutí 22Před 3 měsíci
Is there something you want in life, but you are too afraid you'll fail, or is money an issue holding you back. Today I share my upcoming journey to risking financial comfortability with going after something I want to do with my career. After watching let me know what you think, what are your thoughts about this? Do you have that dream job you are seeking, but are a creature to comfort holding...
Showing Up When You're Not Your Best
zhlédnutí 40Před 3 měsíci
There will come a time when we are not our best, and that's okay. It is more important that we are our Authentic Self. What I mean by this is showing up every day as who you are and how you're feeling at any given time. I will say that if you are finding current Authentic Self filled with sadness or feelings of being overwhelmed, remember there are people who can help you. Myself included, so d...
Differences-A Christmas Eve Perspective
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Differences-A Christmas Eve Perspective
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Thank you!!
Enjoy the beautiful slippery slope of falling in Love!😅🤣😂🥰😘
Love can definitely be a ride to be sure.
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Dear Stacie, thank you so much! That was brilliant and, as always, it directly spoke to me! I will concentrate on looking to the other side, when i overcome everything.
Dear friend, I thank you for your kind words. I am so glad I was able to speak to your heart. (You have a grand and beautiful one at that)! You know I am ALWAYS here for you. ❤
@@makingsensewithdr.stacie Dear Friend, thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
Self acceptance more powerful than self development..
Oh, absolutely 💯! Learning to accept who we are helps to stop the negative self-talk that truly hurts us. Thank you for your comment.
Thank you very much for your work
Thank you so much for watching.
Privacy is power.. own nothing control everything... detachment is the key..
Yes, absolutely. We have a right to have privacy, sadly not everyone respects those boundaries. We are a work in progress. I appreciate your comment.
Dear Stacie, thank you so much for dedicating your time to us! I love listening to you, and your beautiful discussions give me metaphorical wings! What an important topic. Finding self-worth is the first step too. And then, working hard. I cannot put it in such beautiful words as you did. Thank you a million times! ❤❤❤
It really is in those little steps forward that can bring everyone a little happiness. Reinventing yourself is as you said a metamorphosis that can be scary at first, but so worth it!
Success are little steps forward! ❤
Yes! This is absolutely the hope.
Dear Stacie, you are amazing!! What a beautiful idea of success - doing new beautiful things in order to grow and help others! ❤ I feel that it is also the main goal of life: to be good to others❤.
I am so glad you look at life this way, but then this doesn’t surprise me. You are truly a beautiful human being, and I feel privileged to know you. ❤️
@@makingsensewithdr.stacie Dear Stacie, thank you so much! And so am I! ❤️❤️
Dear Stacie, thank you for another amazing video! I agree with everything you said! If we cannot be good to ourselves, how can we treat others well. You are so right, it feels guilty when we are taking time for ourselves, but it is absolutely necessary for our well-being. You inspired me to take a walk tomorrow! Happy new week! 😊😊🌞🌸🌸💗💗
Awe, thank you my sister friend. I am so happy this resonated with you. I do feel we have to take care of ourselves, or we can’t be good for others.
What doesn't kill you,makes you stronger! Greetings from Ireland. I just completed a marathon too. It's a great mental challenge.Thanks for the insights.
Hello from California! You are so right, as we never know what we are capable of unless we try. Congratulations on your marathon, it really is a massive achievement.
Dear Stacie, thank you so much!! That was amazing!! I also hope that you had such an amazing time doing this beautiful thing you shared with us!
Thank you, I am definitely enjoying this journey!
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Dear Stacie, that's a beautiful account, and your brave example is such a light and offers so much hope! You are right that usually, when we let go, much better things will come for us!😊❤️
staring into the abyss can be like staring into a bundle of yarn and I appreciate the metaphor you present here. I am inspired to unravel the many threads of negative that my said abyss is made up of. Btw Aleksandra recommended that I watch your videos to help deal with some trauma. She is amazing, so are you I find.
I am so pleased that you are beginning to unravel the negative threads of life. We are a society where it seems that negativity reigns over positive belief systems, not just in your life, but the life of others. I truly believe in you. Keep me posted on your journey and know I am here if you need me. P.S. Aleksandra is BEAUTIFUL human. Adore her completely. ❤
Ps. You are right, it always comes slowly in steps, but always comes! ❤
So true. Working through the things that are complicated is difficult. I believe it has to do with how long things can take.
Dear Stacie, what a great comparison! As always, I love your video! It gives me so much strength and reassurance. Thank you so much! ❤
Always my Sister Friend.
@@makingsensewithdr.stacie ❤️❤️❤️
I just got a pair of Stand-up paddle boards for myself and would love to spend a couple hours on our lake together with you sometime this summer 🤗
That's awesome! I am glad you are getting out there.
Another amazing video! Thank you so much, Dear Stacie! ❤
Thank you so much for your response. I am doing my best to try and make postings inspirational.
@@makingsensewithdr.stacie Dear Stacie, thank you so much! Your channel is simply amazing!
For me, my happy place is Bunky! And spending time with Mum and Yogi! The best day of my life: sitting next to the sea, drinking a cup of tea.❤🌸
Best feeling ever! I myself gain so much from being near the ocean. Living up here in the mountains has its beauty, but nothing for me compares to the energy of the ocean!
Such great points! Thank you so much!❤
I am so glad you liked this posting. It is my hope to bring awareness and to encourage others to follow what is best for their lives.
I needed this like air.❤Some reassurance, and I got all of it from you.❤
My friend, thank you. I am so glad you were able to draw the reassurance you needed. Always here for you.
Dear Stacie, I'm so grateful for this! ❤It is so difficult to heal from toxic relationship, especially when one has to stay in this environment for a while more. You are just a wonderful person doing all this here and explaining this like no one ever could do! I mean it.❤
My dear friend, This subject is such a hard reality for so many people. Getting out of these relationships is not always easy based on the need for basic living. Everyone deserves to be respected and loved in a positive way. It is my sincere hope that you will always know positive, loving relationships.
I love listening to you. Getting out of a toxic relationship is extremely difficult and exhausting. It took me watching my ex play with a gun while asking me if I was really leaving to leave. You have a way to explain things that really resonate with me. ❤
My goodness. I hope you have been able to heal and understand that the problem isn’t yours. I am happy you are safe. Wishing you everything good. Dr. Stacie
Dear Stacie, thank you so much! You are amazing. I love listening to you!
Thank you my dear sister friend. I truly appreciate your support. ❤️
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Thank you, Dear Friend! I cannot agree more!!
Thank you my friend. I firmly believe it’s part of the learning process.
Good advice Dr. Stacie!
Thank you my friend. I am happy I made a connection with you.
I am so glad you found reason in this posting. If we don’t take breaks we risk not being our best self when it matters! ❤
A very true thought, Stacie! I catch myself finding taking breaks inappropriate, which is absolutely absurd, but our hectic life led to this point. Thank you so much for highlighting the importance of taking a break! I have read somewhere that taking a break and resting is an act of resistance.
Ahh, you’re the best Dr. Stacie 💕💓💗
Thank you!! 💖💖
Congratulations, Stacie! Absolutely, we keep learning the entire life, and it is such a beautiful gift to ourselves!
YES!!! I am so glad you see this and are able to apply this gift to yourself. Super proud of your accomplishments and cannot wait to see what more you are doing for yourself. Take care!
Dear Stacie, thank you so much! I needed it so badly, so badly, so badly. I came to the same conclusion in my life, but I was so happy to hear you pointing out the same things. Forgivness is for us. We forgive for ourselves. We will never be victims. <3 PS. The hurt makes us eventually better individuals: more loving, kinder, more observant - we won't make the same mistakes.
Thank you for your words my friend. Forgiving ourselves can be the hardest thing to do, but so healing when we are able to let go of our hurts. Keep moving forward in life, reset when you need to, and know you are loved.
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