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Amazing video! Thank you for doing this review!

Got my subscription. I’m a full time dad so this hopefully will help out

Yes please! I’d love for you to make a video on the difference between correction, punishment & boundaries! Just found your channel & truly blessed by your content. Thank you for your transparency and explaining everything so clearly!

Great video, but you keep saying authoritative when talking about authoritarian style. I know it's just a slip of the tongue (the words are so similar lol).

So well said! So helpful. Love this video

In the midst of a child hitting you and throwing books at you, how would you sit there and stay calm. I don't want to walk away but also need to keep myself safe.

why are people not honest with younger women who are in the child bearing years? I wonder if I would have listened if someone would have said how hard it was going to be. It’s almost like sink or swim!

thanks! now I finally have a girlfriend!

I love my baby, but i hate being a parent. Not the unconditional love but the relentless responsibility. Not the tender love and care for my baby but the lack of self care. I resent my boyfriend. He doesn't understand how much freedom he has until it's his turn to stay home .

Desitins great! Which variant do you preffer? Im more into the purple one. Dont know in your case but personally it was recommended to me by my own mom and Gosh its worked wonders

I agree so much with what you speak on! and I am a christian who doesn’t believe in authoritarian parenting too! I enjoy the love and logic approach. My husband and I have different views on this which has been a struggle. He is coming around. I love what you are saying here! I have thought the same thing! I try to talk to my kids how I would talk to anyone with gentleness and kindness. I don’t see why others don’t see this. ❤️‍🩹 I say to my daughter, when someone speaks to her and she doesn’t respond “what would be a kind thing to say when someone says thank you?” i prompt her. She is nervous around people. I am learning how to be a mother and bond because I didn’t get this growing up. It’s definitely as journey & I do feel like a lot of people don’t see things like we do, which makes it hard to not feel alone.

When someone is first learning these calming techniques, would you recommend practicing them every morning so they become a habit in those stressful moments?

Thanks for your information, next time that I will be buying my bra I will look out for this product

Love this ❤

How is it possible to have rage and took it on kids? What rage? And why? What overwhelmed mind? What rage? Isn’t everybody saying motherhood is this amazing sanctified thing and marriage too, like it’s the pinnacle of a woman being full filled? So what rage? I don’t get it

I love this 🥹 Just found your channel and am so looking forward to watching your videos

You have a very calming voice, so keep it up. I need to watch this again to make it work for a senior who lives alone and has health issues, but I'm sure it will work.

How do you want to start using Hygge in your home??

Jesus is the best life coach.

the hospitals and Drs are the reason why mothers have no faith in themselves, and their mommy intuition. i went through the same thing. Also the older generations who had " easy babies" and looked at us like " whats wrong with you" 😭

Thank you for your openness about your journey to true peacefulness. That's very moving and heartful

Thank you for promoting nervous system regulation! I agree with you. Most important thing.

Homebirths are great for integrating a new baby into the home. Siblings can be there minutes after the baby is born and jump in bed with my mum to snuggle with her and baby. Nothing but warm beautiful love with no interruptions or visiting hour restrictions!

Beautiful ❤❤❤❤

Hi Alexis! We sent you an email! Looking forward to hearing from you! 💜🥰

I’m just waiting for you to get chosen by the CZcams algorithm bc your content is really good and relevant!!!

If you want your video to reach a lot of people because your videos are very beautiful and perfect but your videos are not going viral and reaching people that's why your video doesn't have many views so if you want to increase views on your video then Be with me if Contacted because I have been working on these for 5 years

Punishing myself internally is something I did also. It was such an ugly cycle.

Dumbest thing I've heard.

Maybe part of why adults want to apologise is because we were made apologise as kids?

This was so helpful. Thank you!

Your soooooo goood ❤

The Holy Spirit started making me aware of this about 4 years ago when we had our twins. I noticed they started saying please and thank you without me having to prompt it at all, they learned through my modeling. It was such a fun process to witness.

Thanks for this video. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for almost 2.5 years and we havent been able too. 😢It makes us feel discouraged at times. Family and friends of ours get pregnant so easily. I just wish that the Lord would Bless me with the fruit of the womb this year. I pray every day day and night, I journal and read the bible. Me and my husband take our vitamins we try to get some exercise in even try our best to eat healthy whenever we can.

Just thinking it did become a thing in the UK maybe 15 years ago to say please and thank you to children, and it sounded very odd and novel to be hearing people in public suddenly being so polite in the way they spoke to children, as this had been unheard of before !! I remember once hearing a mother scream, GET HERE! to her child and then mildly adding, please. 🤣 It does seem to have become cultural ingrained here, which is a wonderful, wonderful thing.

Hey I love your story about how you managed the situation of your daughter feeling too shy to thank the cashier! That's so perfect. Thank you so much for raising this subject. The traditional way of teaching does feel so uncomfortable. I'll tell you my memory of being prompted by my mother that I found excruciating as a child was when we met people we knew in the street and in the midst of loud adult greetings and chat going on, she would turn to me and tell me to say hello. I would be thinking, "But I already did." it's just that I was too quiet and it got lost in the adult noise. This experience did nothing to help me feel less shy and awkward, and yes, you are so right, it does actually from the child's perspective feel that the parent is being a bit rude drawing attention to the child's supposed social faux pas. And how does an adult being rude teach a child to be polite? Nope. Teaching politeness by instruction has always grated on me. I've seen this done by parents who model extraordinary rudeness to others in front of their children, making me think, hmmm.

I totally agree, both as a mother and teacher : we often forget to say please/thanks to children. So WE must pay attention to model, so true!

Maybe if you stopped exploiting your children for your own monetary gain, you could feel like you “fit it.”

This is legit child exploitation. Your child can’t consent to this.

Do you also suggest exploiting your children on the internet for money? Because that is what you are doing. Your children can’t consent to being in videos that you post online for strangers to see. Children are not props. You seem to think it’s alright to have your children half dressed in a video that you, seemingly, are hoping to make money from.

Hello there, thank you for sharing these tips, Im a new mother of a 3 months old and I was searching for advice about this and found your video. Ive noticed that when Im happy (Ive eaten, slept well, etc) Im a better mom, so I truly believe that taking care of us is a must for our families and ourselves

The part about recognizing change in yourself and at the same time taking several steps backwards is SO HARD. When I first set out seeking self awareness and identifying my triggers, it was so frustrating that I began recognizing these things but I STILL felt out of control. I didn’t understand why i could recognize what I needed in the moment and what was about to happen but I still couldn’t keep my self under control. It is HARD WORK. I think I lose it on my 1 year old at least a couple times a day, and I’ve been doing this since he was born. Right now I’m working on repairing and speaking my needs. My husband getting frustrated is a trigger for me so I’m not only battling my kids behavior’s that trigger me but also my husband’s. (He is also working on this as well).

thank you for that video. I feel overwelmed so much. ❤️

Praying 🙏 for me conceive another baby

Absolutely you can be a minimalist with children and it benefits them tremendously too and sets a great example for them.