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Just be gangsta and say: "You be washing up? Cuz ni🅱️🅱️as be saying you stinkin'. Get it sorted" 👍 Works 11/10 times, caution they may end up cursing you and your entire lineage.

if a family member smells is easy peezy. ' you smell bad' usually does it. its other people where its tough.

If you cant help it then that's another story but if you dont shower and thats the reason then you stink like fish sticks and you need to shower

I have a friend and I cherish our friendship but she is the type of person that would take great offense no matter how I put it their will be no easy way. She has several cats and I think one of them is peeing in her home. Her home smells just like cat pee. I have never said anything but now she is reeking of it too. I think of her as my sister but don’t know how to discuss this with her. Any ideas?

F** with this nonsense..If you boss comes from world where ethics are not taught and thinks he/she is the only smart person who can abuse the power and steal credit.. A law should be in place and employee should be allowed to sue irrespective of up in command buys it.

You are hilarious and I love your style. Plus, I'm pretty sure I'm in love with you.

sorry for calling you 'fake tramp', deleted that comment because it was rude and i was going through narcissistic abuse at the time so of course i was an ass because i had people making me miserable

Nice sharing

What if they don't take the hint when you actively avoid them? In this case it's a coworker. Thankfully he's not always in my unit (I work at a post office processing plant) but when he is it's hard not smelling him whenever he walks by. It's vile! He was trying to engage me in small talk and because I'm too nice I just said "oh, ok, cool" and walked away. Suggestions?

Great insight and keeping it real!

I was once homeless because of life circumstances that I never imagined I could go through, I ended up living in my car for about 6 months till I found a place. It wasn’t easy having access to showers, but I'd shower in hotels whenever I could. I’ve always been meticulous with taking daily showers and, there I was facing such a situation. My boss at the moment took me to an office with a lady from HR who had been there waiting for us, and there it goes one of the most uncomfortable conversations in my life. I felt humiliated but, of course I apologized for making people around me feel offended by my odor. Just for advice and, pure kindness, tell people directly in private, don’t spread it around because that way you won’t solve anything, and the person will feel horrible.

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Is there a longer version of this video? I just found your channel and doing a project for my HR class.. I would EXTREMELY appreciate your feedback, thank you.. What do you think? LOL

My job believes in surveys and they dont understand how much it mentally affects people’s lives who honestly try their best to make that one person happy on the phone. Yet surveys are offered and it is then taken as a reflection of the person behind the phone actually doing the work.

In addition to my previous comment; If you really do care then you will take the risk and go to such trouble to speak to someone, if not you will hope they just leave. I have to confront this issue, I have a classroom full of students that i am trying to help find a job and i do care. I am totally dedicated in setting up the best possible chance for everyone of my students to end up employed. For my situation my opening comments will be to the whole class. "For me to help you set you up for the best possible chance in finding a job and gaining employment I need to be direct with some of you on an individual level regarding some personal traits that I have observed". A. Does everyone understand what I am saying? B. Does anyone need me to be more clear with what I am saying? C. Does anyone have a problem with what I am saying?

Sage advice, thank you.

This conversation = over specializing and harassment

This conversation = over specializing and harassment

thankyoyu very much my friend needed to hear this

My employee works with me in my office. When I call them over to show them something, they smell so bad it makes me sick like I need to throw up. One time it actually made my nose start tingling and put me in a sneezing fit. He weighs about 350 lbs. I imagine it's a washing thing. But I like the guy, he's a good kid and its a very hard subject to broach.

Self appraisal are bad. It caused more problems with organisation because people dont take feedback esp companies. It should just be from employer end not left to individual employees. It didnt work for me and eventually I was dismissed few months later.

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great tips

Yeah they want you out! This is silly and not realistic.

That was great

Thank you 🙏 Shari.

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I have a hard time keeping it polite because of the very fact you mention: Stinky people know they stink! I find it insulting someone would knowingly come to work or into a public space knowing and not caring or considering others about their stench. I just want to berate them on their obvious apathy and ask them how TF they deal with their stink and how TF they think it's ok to subject others to that. I get a lot of people are depressed, but so am i. If I'm not up for showering, I'm not up for leaving the house. Simple

I told my sister and she went nuts. She did nothing about it. She doesn't see dentists or wash her clothes. Her apt. Is sickening. She's filthy and she's a hairdresser...😣😣😣

Just say hey buddy you wanna borrow some deodorant

This is great in theory. Unfortunately, the company I work for is very concerned about GlassDoor reviews so they want to sugarcoat all reviews so everyone is happy. As a manager, it’s frustrating.

Seems it’s sensible to bin this stupid process and just deal with someone if there is a problem with their work.

I have a new roommate today. He smells too bad😷.

Great video. I had a middle eastern classmate that was a personal friend that I considered having this conversation with. I never did because I did not want to hurt her feelings and its kind of shocking that you say that most people know. That's crazy knowing would be enough motivation to take action. But everyone is different. I watched this video for nursing school and I am glad I did. I wont keep my feedback to myself around this topic if it happens in the future. Thanks

Thank you, this was very helpful. i had to tell my boyfriend he reeks, like literally reeks to the point where i gag. so i finally told him but he did dump me after so a bit miffed tbh so you will be hearing from my lawyer

Please don't follow this advice. It is way too condescending and if you say this to almost anyone, the way she recommends, it's going to be too embarrassing for them, and they will likely quit their job rather than come back and face you and everyone else, because, at that point, "the secret is out," and their embarrassment will be too strong for many to overcome. Why put people in this situation when there are much better and easier ways to tell some they stink, and they need to use some deodorant? This should be done by a man talking to a man or a woman talking to a woman. "Hey buddy, who's it going? I just read about this study that women have a way better sense of smell than men. Which, is okay I gues but it also gives them a better sense of taste which, of course, might be true but I'm good with a burger and fries anyway. I don't need the truffles or nothing like that. Anyway, just to keep things in house, if you know what I mean, I keep a little extra deodorant in my desk drawer. just in case the man scent, starts to get a little too strong, you know what I mean. So, yeah, that's what I do. You know what, I've got an extra one right here, you can have this one. I haven't used it and I've got the other one in my desk. Cool. Did you see the game Saturday?"

Best advice "When I know exactly what I did well, I can replicate it. When I know exactly what didn't go well, I can change it. But when I am not sure what you are talking about, I don't know what to do"

1:19 how tall are you?

Interesting. Thank you.

i love her sarcastic smile after talking to* "the boss." 😂

Hello professor You have written your title like this: Why is feedback important? I think you should write like this: Why feedback is important? What do you think , am i right? All the best.

this was actually very helpful and good actionable info. also a confirmation about what i'm already doing right (pat pat) 😁😁 thanks!

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You have great way of showing your ideas on examples. Love that. Clear and to the point

Starts at 1:25, excellent example of how to have this conversation!

Love to duo.

You could be better at this. Just sayin

I guess I want my admissions fee back

Very well said, very well done!!! Now, do I have the courage to put this into practice? Probably not.