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3 Steps To Find Your Purpose
Problems of confusion, depression, anxiety, frustration and lack of motivation are often byproducts of a life that feels meaningless. We don't know who we are or where we're going. Fortunately, knowing the having a direction (a vision, a mission) gives us hope in a pathway forward, we must find out how to develop that vision. There are 3 places to start:
1) Finding out what our interests are, what we intrinsically gravitate toward, will help facilitate the process of choosing. Choosing something we love or have passion for is a good start because we are drawn to it, and we are more likely to explore it deeply and persevere when times become challenging. But that's not enough, because:
2) We must be good at it, or have the desire to develop the skills necessary. Having some level of competence (or the willingness to learn) is mandatory because it is actually impossible to make any progress without conscious effort to make ourselves better, AND leverage our strengths to create the best possible life in what we choose. But of course, we will still feel empty if we only do it for ourselves, therefore:
3) It must be useful or helpful to others. Frankly, this is all in HOW we go about the process and make it accessible to others. Giving value to the world (contribution) is one of the keys to fulfillment, so starting with ourselves, then our family/friends, then the community, is a logical process that will afford additional opportunities and allow us to expand our endeavors further.
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Komentáře

  • @janycebrown4071
    @janycebrown4071 Před 2 dny

    It is already inside of YOU 🌝❣

  • @janycebrown4071
    @janycebrown4071 Před 2 dny

    You ARE precious 💖

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 2 dny

      @@janycebrown4071 Indeed you are Janyce 🙌

  • @janycebrown4071
    @janycebrown4071 Před 2 dny

    This makes a lot of sense 🤔 👏 🌝

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 2 dny

      @@janycebrown4071 🙏

    • @janycebrown4071
      @janycebrown4071 Před 2 dny

      @@constantinexo I was addicted to opioids for 15 years. I am 8 years clean 🌝 I realized, after becoming clean that I am the one who is in control of my feelings and I don't have to look outside of myself for happiness 🙃

  • @pringerx
    @pringerx Před 6 dny

    I only go on youtube to watch Constantine XO

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 6 dny

      @@pringerx 🙏 I should put that comment in my banner 😁 🤝

    • @pringerx
      @pringerx Před 5 dny

      @@constantinexo 😂❤️💪

  • @pringerx
    @pringerx Před 6 dny

    my mans looking jacked as f********

  • @MziwakheGoodman_07
    @MziwakheGoodman_07 Před 6 dny

    The information does infact reveal itself to you. Spot on

  • @joeymukando5
    @joeymukando5 Před 9 dny

    Really appreciate all the work you put into these videos, keep on going!

  • @lightshadow-yr9no
    @lightshadow-yr9no Před 9 dny

    I'm avoiding myself and my mental health n physical health

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 6 dny

      @@lightshadow-yr9no That’s it. Just take small, manageable steps to make those better

  • @diarraabdoulkarim4729

    Thank you

  • @gadzhimuradmamaev9888

    Nice vid bro , definitely some good tips in here

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 11 dny

      @@gadzhimuradmamaev9888 Thanks brother 🙏

  • @Srvbos-
    @Srvbos- Před 11 dny

    check x

  • @absolute3112
    @absolute3112 Před 13 dny

    Hmmm....I'm a horrible team player. Too self reliant. 😂😂😂😂

  • @InfluenceTheMedia
    @InfluenceTheMedia Před 15 dny

    Speaking truth g

  • @JoshuaJrTEH
    @JoshuaJrTEH Před 16 dny

    thank you!

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 16 dny

      @@JoshuaJrTEH you’re welcome brother! 🙏

  • @joeymukando5
    @joeymukando5 Před 19 dny

    This is a great framework to help put things into perspective especially with an information overload. So much simpler to conceptualise it like this.

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 19 dny

      @@joeymukando5 thanks brother, that was the exact goal of the video 🙏

  • @nancyb.9759
    @nancyb.9759 Před 20 dny

    Soooo cool.

  • @diarraabdoulkarim4729

    Thank youu

  • @Srvbos-
    @Srvbos- Před 22 dny

    great

  • @Srvbos-
    @Srvbos- Před 25 dny

    nice presentation ❤

  • @Srvbos-
    @Srvbos- Před 28 dny

  • @joeymukando5
    @joeymukando5 Před 29 dny

    Another great video brother 👏🏾

  • @YouLuc-eq5pe
    @YouLuc-eq5pe Před měsícem

    Allah who is only god, who has no son, can save you!

  • @kaileybergin6437
    @kaileybergin6437 Před měsícem

    I was just thinking about this the other day I hesitated when pouring hot water Causing it to spill And I thought, had I just went for it and flowed I probably would've done it flawlessly but for a quick moment I doubted myself, I hesitated And I spilled the water I see this happen often when we hesitate We cause more damage by our lack of ability to flow when we overthink

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      Exactly, we interrupt the momentum - and that momentum can't be reset from the same point. So in your words, we lose our "ability to flow". Fortunately, our awareness of this mistake can prevent it from happening again in the future. So kudos to your awareness.

  • @Srvbos-
    @Srvbos- Před měsícem

    Thanks for uploading such an informative vedio

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      You're welcome brother, glad you found it helpful

  • @Srvbos-
    @Srvbos- Před měsícem

    hi constantine I saw the videos on your channel. Your video content is excellent. To grow & increase the view of your channel you need to optimize your videos. Inspite all of your efforts videos are not being viewed. During my research of your CZcams channel and videos, I've identified some areas that may be impacting your video views and subscriber growth. If you're interested, I can show you these issues."

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      Yes, I'm open to it

    • @Srvbos-
      @Srvbos- Před 29 dny

      @@constantinexo How can I communicate with you?

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 29 dny

      @@Srvbos- I’m on Skool: www.skool.com/constantine

    • @Srvbos-
      @Srvbos- Před 28 dny

      ​@@constantinexo Can we communicate via-mail?

    • @Srvbos-
      @Srvbos- Před 28 dny

      ​@@constantinexodo you have ig or fb ?

  • @AS-fm8nx
    @AS-fm8nx Před měsícem

    Mmmmmhhhh.... interesting topic, but you wouldn't believe how many times I wanted to do something and procastinated it endlessly....If you've done that often enough you lose self-confidence.

  • @joeymukando5
    @joeymukando5 Před měsícem

    Thank you for this. It was very insightful and I’ll definitely put these steps into practice. Great content as always!

  • @Yousifhim
    @Yousifhim Před měsícem

    It will more than great if you open community in skool, it will be very helpful. Thanks !

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      Yessir! Already in progress 🫡 I’ll keep you posted

  • @joeymukando5
    @joeymukando5 Před měsícem

    How do you go about developing a vision for yourself?

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      Love this question brother! I’ll record a very thorough breakdown video about this 🙏

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      Done! Hope it's helpful and let me know if you need anything else 🙏

  • @mrodrig8611
    @mrodrig8611 Před měsícem

    I've been struggling with how to put the whole "reparenting" into a perspective that I can understand and you definitely simplified it for me.

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      Amazing! I'm grateful it helped you 🙏 Let me know if you have a question I can answer for you in a video

  • @clairevandenberg8204
    @clairevandenberg8204 Před měsícem

    This is so helpful! I have had family members and others violate my boundaries repeatedly. I am now able to hold fast to my boundaries with no second guessing or guilt. If the other person refuses to accept them, I can say, “you are not welcome in my life”. This has freed me from narcissistic relationships and given me the mental energy for the friends and activities I value.

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      Thank you sister! Yes, guilt is a tricky one to navigate. I'm happy you're free with greater energy and doing things you love 💌

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      I just recorded a video on guilt as well, inspired by your comment :)

  • @interferonboy
    @interferonboy Před měsícem

    Great video mate thank you

  • @ambermoon719
    @ambermoon719 Před měsícem

    Well done brother. ☮️ I’m going to let this roll around in my head for a bit longer. You’re spot on about many things. Much appreciated & best wishes.

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      It was my pleasure - let me know if there's anything else 🙏

  • @joeymukando5
    @joeymukando5 Před měsícem

    This is really helpful, I’ve been struggling with this lately

  • @ambermoon719
    @ambermoon719 Před měsícem

    Quality material here. Thank you. I let my boundaries be demolished by someone who doesn’t respect them, and because I err on the side of agreeableness, it was like I was fulfilling him while I got emotionally & spiritually depleated. It’s embarrassing but a great life lesson. I won’t be repeating that life experience again. I’m new to your channel but am curious if you’re familiar with the trauma bond, because it is so embarrassingly illogical, yet so powerful. Good day 💙

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      Thank you sister! Yes, absolutely I’ll record a video about it for you

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      I just recorded the video - I hope it helps you Amber

    • @ambermoon719
      @ambermoon719 Před měsícem

      @@constantinexo Oh, wow. Awesome, & that was quick. Thank you and I’ll listen to it. Btw, your channel has good stuff on it. Peace ☮️

  • @bhagavatilad3268
    @bhagavatilad3268 Před měsícem

    When I go to like it zeros out?

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      I tested it and it looks fine. If you press the thumbs up button, it should automatically disppear (since you've already liked the video) - you can also see it will show in your "likes" playlist

  • @ourdivinemouseoverlord3308

    Thank you, Constantine; I found that helpful.

  • @sandra1008
    @sandra1008 Před měsícem

    I think it is a wonderful idea to make a mission like that for myself. I am gonna make one. Thanks for your insightful talk.

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      I'm glad it was helpful! Happy to hear you're going to make your own mission statement. Let me know if you need anything else

  • @ourdivinemouseoverlord3308

    Hey Constantine, I was wondering if you have any advice for how a person can get over an entitlement mentality? I'm currently reading The Subtle Art of not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson, and his answer would be to constantly question our values and the metrics we use to measure ourselves. Ok, but doing this would be a sacrifice to my self respect. I feel that since I have a lot of issues from a shitty childhood and unfulfilling adulthood, it would mean I don't deserve anything good at all in life since I haven't really added anything of value to another person's life. What would be your advice to someone like me? How can I get over entitlement without debasing myself in my eyes?

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      This is an excellent question brother, thank you. I'm going to address it in a video for you, and combine it with some commentary on another video of mine, so we can get to the bottom of this.

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      I just recorded a new video for you - it's the latest one one "deserving" - I hope it's helpful to you 🙏

  • @unwrthy6780
    @unwrthy6780 Před měsícem

    lol 0:01 voice crack

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před měsícem

      lol puberty still hits me from time to time

    • @unwrthy6780
      @unwrthy6780 Před měsícem

      @@constantinexo Happens to the best of us

  • @dbb2347
    @dbb2347 Před měsícem

    Thanks for the reminder, and thanks for the confidence video!

  • @dbb2347
    @dbb2347 Před 2 měsíci

    Love this video. This is something i need to do at this point in my life. Btw what do you think about confidence?

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 2 měsíci

      Thanks for the support 🙏And great question - I'm assuming you mean how to develop confidence? I'll record a video about it, it's a great topic with multiple layers

    • @dbb2347
      @dbb2347 Před 2 měsíci

      @@constantinexo that and have core confidence in yourself in general before getting it from competence

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 2 měsíci

      @@dbb2347 This is a great topic - I'll cover it

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 2 měsíci

      @@dbb2347 My entire day was devoted only to this topic - I just uploaded the video...and it's FIRE. Thank you for the inspiration 🙏

  • @robertrobinson7439
    @robertrobinson7439 Před 2 měsíci

    *Promo SM*

  • @TheoneandonlyAntidote
    @TheoneandonlyAntidote Před 2 měsíci

    I'm in Africa Nigeria, I think my location has a lot to do with me getting what I want.

  • @AS-fm8nx
    @AS-fm8nx Před 2 měsíci

    The cleaner your body is, the more reactive it is to substances you give it. So if you want to intake something improving health and have a reaction, lower the dosage to get the body used to it. That's my experience.

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 2 měsíci

      Beautifully said! That was excellent 🙏

  • @AS-fm8nx
    @AS-fm8nx Před 2 měsíci

    Yes, I agree, the conditions are key. I am traveling for 3 years now and I try working on my idea, but the conditions are never stable, changing locations and always having to deal with something. Power outage, water outage, no internet. If you are traveling on a budget you don't even have to think about a comfy chair and often rooms are so tiny that rolling out a yoga mat is impossible. In addition the challenge of proper diet while traveling and all those sleepless night due to noise. Dogs, roosters, music etc. Your video made me realize that you can't have it all....

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 2 měsíci

      That's right. The root of the word "decision" is "to cut off." Which means we are always sacrificing something when we make decisions.

  • @AS-fm8nx
    @AS-fm8nx Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks for this video! It's hard to keep up with all the videos you put out..😅 I got quite some helpful hints out of it, but I have to disagree with that one point you made, that the person who caused the heartache (in my case) will not be the one who solves it. If I miss someone dearly and hold this person in my arms finally, it sure would make me happy. Nothing else. There is no replacement for a lost child. I am not sitting at home and cry all day. I bought myself a motorbike and travel Latinamerica, I have fun, adventure, new experiences every single day and have more interests than time. BUT, I am doing all this with a bleeding heart.... You are doing a good job. I like your insights! Thanks.

    • @constantinexo
      @constantinexo Před 2 měsíci

      I like the point you made about no replacement. I have some thoughts there so I’ll make a video about it :) And thank you for your support! 🙏

  • @thedanyopang
    @thedanyopang Před 2 měsíci

    My boy is blowinggggg upppp 🔥 🔥

  • @spinin1251
    @spinin1251 Před 2 měsíci

    "Some guy came up with... and verified by eggheads." That's all you need to know about your mindset about this. Also "You have to sit with yourself and figure things out." Yes, but that is actually what those tests are for. You don't seem to understand how the tests work. Yes, you are kind of right in your critical stance in regards to them, but you are just a step away from saying things like, "The earth is flat! Don't tell me what to believe! We didn't land on the moon! Don't listen to mainstream thinking!" Experiencing life, trying things out, working on yourself for all kinds of issues or problems has very little to do with personality tests and their purpose. The tests are a heuristic, a model, like many other things we use and go by in everyday life. There's 8 billion people on earth, of course no categorization into 16 personalities is ever going to do all the people justice, and no two INFJs will be exactly alike. Taking the tests is part of the exploring and learning about yourself and a starting point to many things. If you have an IQ score below an 84, you will not be let into the military, probably for the best of everyone around you. Similarly, if you are an introvert that is low in openness and high in agreeableness, a sales job would be an absolute nightmare for you. That is worth considering and worth knowing so that you don't even bother wasting your time with some things. Similarly, traits like low conscientiousness, low neuroticism, low agreeableness, and high extroversion might be found in highly sensation seeking people, perhaps even criminals. These tests help guide or help understand why someone might end up in prison, why someone might be an engineer for NASA, and why someone might be a failing CEO. But obviously they do not explain everything and they are not the beginning and end of the conversation. They are just one piece in the puzzle and one way you can get to know yourself or someone. Briefly, for the tests to mean something, you are supposed to take them in a neutral or relaxed state of mind. Of course they can be affected by many things, just like your work performance or a test you take in math class can be affected by your mood or other things. To explain what being an ENFP means for example, it doesn't mean that you are some static personality in only one mode of operation. It means that you primarily interact with your environment through extroverted intuition and introverted feeling, in that order. Your next two functions are thinking and sensing. Each of these functions you use more (like extroverted intuition) or a lot less (introverted sensing) when you interact with someone or something. If all of a sudden you need to use your sensing and thinking functions a lot more, for example to fill out a complicated accounting form, you will be very uncomfortable as an ENFP. You may struggle to use those functions more, become stressed and if you were to take the test at that point, you might come up higher in those functions and suddenly not be an ENFP, but some other type. But that will not mean that you have changed or that the tests are bad, but rather that you are temporarily in a state that will skew the results because you are not using your primary or secondary functions. All types/people use the same functions, just in different orders of preference, which is what separates them. If your primary function is introverted thinking, you will spend maybe 50% of your time just in that one function thinking up different ideas. If it is extroverted sensing, you will spend most of your time looking to external stimuli to drive you in life. If this is obvious to you already, then what the tests tell you may not be much, but if you are trying to figure yourself out, they may tell you a lot. And you may be able to stretch your personality in some ways, but you will not be able to completely change some things and make a square peg fit into a round hole. You could also look up socionics, which expands on MBTI much more, associates personalities with visual appearance, and explains how types interact with one another and which types will interact with one another most optimally. There are classes taught in socionics, it has been used to build AI, and Russian astronaut teams have been built based on socionics to have optimal teams. A lot of these things are connected to our biology and our evolution as people over time and are not just a set of standalone tests that don't connect in some way to a lot of other things in life, maybe even in ways that you may have not considered before.

  • @thedanyopang
    @thedanyopang Před 2 měsíci

    McDonalds crew!!