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Why You Haven’t Found ‘The ONE’.
In this episode host Mike Sea speaks with author, dating, and relationship coach, Angela Nicole Holton about the distinct roles men and women play in relationships and the challenges they face when dating. Angela also discusses the various challenges of dating and how to overcome those challenges to better help one find their perfect match.
★ TABLE OF CONTENTS ★
0:00 Start
3:43 High-Achieving Women And Relationships
8:07 The Importance Of Rest
19:24 The Vulnerability Of Men
25:36 God's Part In The Relationship
33:54 Having An Open Mind
40:28 Unique Date Night Ideas
48:27 Early Stages Of Dating
Show Notes:
Follow Angela on Instagram: angelanicoleholton
Angela's website: marsvenuscoachangelanicole.com
DISCLAIMER:
The Mike Sea Podcast is intended as general information for educational purposes only and should not be construed as professional advice or counseling of any kind or as a substitute for professional help. The information provided in this Podcast is not meant to replace the advice of a professional. Do not rely upon any information to replace consultations or advice received by qualified professionals regarding your own specific situation. The Mike Sea Podcast/Natural Man LLC, and its representatives and agents disclaim any liability for any negative or other or other outcomes that may occur as a result of acting on or not acting on any information contained in the Podcast.
The views and opinions expressed by the Host and all guests are their own and their appearance on this Podcast and at the website of The Mike Sea Podcast does not imply an endorsement of them or any entity they represent and does not necessarily reflect the views and opinions of The Natural Man Podcast/Natural Man LLC.
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Komentáře

  • @Swirlworld77
    @Swirlworld77 Před 2 dny

    🤴👸🏿 Statistically have the most successful unions. Women lie, men lie, numbers don't lie. Live, love and laugh people. ❤

  • @themikeseapodcast
    @themikeseapodcast Před 6 dny

    Have you had any relationship struggles and how have you gotten through them?

  • @themikeseapodcast
    @themikeseapodcast Před 6 dny

    Have you tried Ayurveda and has it worked for you if you did?

  • @themikeseapodcast
    @themikeseapodcast Před 6 dny

    Do you know anyone that has Cancer or do you have Cancer and what is your way of powering through?

  • @themikeseapodcast
    @themikeseapodcast Před 6 dny

    Do diets really work? Have you been on a diet plan and is it working? .

  • @themikeseapodcast
    @themikeseapodcast Před 6 dny

    Are you on the right track for Retirement Saving? Are you really sure that you will have enough?

  • @themikeseapodcast
    @themikeseapodcast Před 6 dny

    Have you overcome adversity and how have you powered through?

  • @themikeseapodcast
    @themikeseapodcast Před 6 dny

    Are you a First Time Home buyer? Are looking to buy a home in the near future?

  • @themikeseapodcast
    @themikeseapodcast Před 6 dny

    What do you know about Stoicism? Do you feel more at peace by practicing Stoicism?

  • @themikeseapodcast
    @themikeseapodcast Před 6 dny

    Have you been in an Interracial Relationship and how was your experience?

    • @TatumSheffield
      @TatumSheffield Před 4 dny

      Yes, and I wouldn't date inside my race because quite frankly I'm "ONLY" attracted to white males. This is something I've felt my whole life. Nothing can change that. So I'm happy just being me😁😊✨

    • @papagolf5562
      @papagolf5562 Před 3 dny

      In 1986 I was in the military and met and eventually married my first soulmate who just happened to be black and from Harlem, New York. We met and were married in the heart of Alabama in the 80s. We were together 36 years and she passed away from complications of systemic lupus. I was her caregiver for the last 15 years. Taking care of her was the hardest thing I've ever done, but she was worth every second. After a period of grieving I met and married my second soulmate who just happens to be from Nairobi Kenya. When we met, we discovered that we've lived within two blocks of each other for 15 years and have never seen each other. She was married for 26 years and spent the last 2 1/2 years taking care of her husband passed away from cancer. I never even realized I was attracted to black women until my late wife walked in the door friends, house, October 31, 1986. She was 6'1" and beautiful. Besides being tall and beautiful, she was extremely smart, which was the first thing that attracted me to her. After years as a cardiac intensive care, nurse, when her health declined, she went back to school and became an attorney. Now I'm married to a wonderful woman from Kenya who is teaching me about a completely different culture. That's why I tell people I'm living the dream.

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před 2 dny

      Thanks for your comment. We appreciate you watching.

    • @papagolf5562
      @papagolf5562 Před 2 dny

      Yes. In 1986 I was in the US Army stationed at Fort Rucker, Alabama (yes, the heart of Dixie) where I met and eventually married my first soulmate who just happened to be black and from Harlem, New York. We were together 36 years and she passed away from complications of systemic lupus. I was her caregiver for the last 15 years. Taking care of her was the hardest most emotional thing I've ever done, but she was worth every second. After a period of grieving I met and married my second soulmate who just happens to be from Nairobi Kenya. When we met, we discovered that we've lived within two blocks of each other for 15 years and have never seen each other. She was married for 26 years and spent the last 2 1/2 years taking care of her husband who passed away from cancer. I never even realized I was attracted to black women until my late wife walked in the door of my best friend's house (now my brother-in-law) on October 31, 1986. She was 6'1" and beautiful. We got a lot of funny looks when we were walking in the mall together in Dothan AL, hand-in-hand, partly because of our racial difference but also because I'm 5'10" and she was 6'1".

  • @themikeseapodcast
    @themikeseapodcast Před 6 dny

    Have you taken Martial Arts or self defense Classes?

  • @thomaspollock-ek4vn

    My friends are all definitely all males, and when it comes to women, they are women, and that's all that's important.

  • @thomaspollock-ek4vn

    The problem is that there are people who don't like interracial relationships, and both of you have to understand this. Right? Absolutely not! The way it, unfortunately, is? Yes!!! So be courageous and go for it!!!

  • @thomaspollock-ek4vn

    African American, Indian, Asian, Ukrainian (aka) Eurasian, or blind crippled or crazy. As long as she's a woman. Love women!!!

  • @thomaspollock-ek4vn

    My brother use to say: "Once you go black, you never go back." I eventually want an African American woman for my wife.

  • @MuratGonullu-l3x
    @MuratGonullu-l3x Před 7 dny

    Miller William White Susan Williams Paul

  • @aeiou0123
    @aeiou0123 Před 11 dny

    Why r AA obsessed with IR relationship talk?

  • @Ed-b178
    @Ed-b178 Před 11 dny

    This was a great conversation. I appreciate the open mindedness and honesty of you both. It's beautiful to see people simply enjoying life with the ones they love. I apologize for the shallow people that can not see beyond their own perceptions of initial sight. It's inspiring to see people overcoming social norms to be their best selves.

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před 11 dny

      Thanks so much for your kind and encouraging words! We will be doing more content about interracial relationships and their unique dynamics so please subscribe and do come back and check it out :)

  • @cc-uj2nq
    @cc-uj2nq Před 12 dny

    The fact of the matter is American black women are racist and they do not like to date white men or any other man who is not black the rise in interracial relationships that are with black women are actually women from Africa and other countries who are far more open-minded and receptive of different races than black American women so that is actually the facts

  • @DerekChristopherNordbye-w7s

    My current girlfriend lives in Clarkston in eastern Washington! Personally, I don't care wtf anyone thinks about us, her, as a black woman and, me, as a white man being together! I'm not dating them! I'm dating her! As for what my immediate circle thought about my first black girlfriend? It bothered the snot outta me! My mom and, brother were, to my surprise, rather bigoted to her! I remember grabbing her hands, pulling her tightly to me and, planting a long, slow, deep, passionate tongue-kiss that told them, pretty much, to kiss my @$$!! Then, we walked out! I didn't return for 4 days because of that!!

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před 11 dny

      Thank you for sharing your experience! Sorry to hear that you had to deal with some resistance from others close to you. That's never easy. We appreciate your comment and for watching!

    • @DerekChristopherNordbye-w7s
      @DerekChristopherNordbye-w7s Před 11 dny

      @themikeseapodcast Thanks, sir. I appreciate you. God bless you and, your family.

  • @naturalhairdiscovery
    @naturalhairdiscovery Před 13 dny

    I strongly believe that BW should get the best man for the job, no matter what he looks like…. Go with the guy who will celebrate you👏🙏🤷🏽‍♀️💯

  • @DLaughing-man
    @DLaughing-man Před 13 dny

    Thank goodness. Hopefully the black men hate from black women will subside. 😂

  • @morris9878
    @morris9878 Před 14 dny

    Please come get all of them so is brothers can have all of your beautiful white women I approve this video

  • @MutedSins26
    @MutedSins26 Před 14 dny

    I love, love, loved this interview! Thank you both for seeing us as just women. Not a statistic or stereotype. It’s pressure all around to just fit in! It can feel very lonely. I appreciate the advocacy. It’s hard being strong all the time. We need a soft place to land.

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před 14 dny

      Thank you so much for watching! We sincerely hope that our channel can always be a soft place for you to land at any time! We post new interviews weekly so please subscribe and come back and visit us :)

  • @AmandaAwakens
    @AmandaAwakens Před 14 dny

    This was such a fun conversation! Thank you so much for having me on the channel Mike. You do good things. Looking forward to a future collaboration. ❤

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před 14 dny

      Thank YOU Amanda! Really enjoyed it and you already KNOW we’ll be having you back on! I look forward to it!

    • @bluetheory2
      @bluetheory2 Před 12 dny

      This white worshipper

    • @DerekChristopherNordbye-w7s
      @DerekChristopherNordbye-w7s Před 12 dny

      You both brought up something that I didn't fully realize until now!! The bar at the checkout counter being placed between her groceries and mine! Like holy crap, Batman!! It dawned on me, just as you two mentioned it!! We, my girlfriend, a DROP-DEAD GORGEOUS, most intensely beautiful black girl. Who was the twin sister of the guy on the opposing track team.my high school just beat, weeks before! In a huge part due to my intense desire to show "Stretch Armstrong" that I can whuup his @$$ on the track!! (When I crossed the finish line IN FIRST PLACE, I put 3 meters between us!! HA-HA!! LOL) Her name was Shanya Jackson. Well, I looked at her in total disbelief! So, I removed it. ONLY FOR THE WOMAN, A MIDDLE-AGED WHITE LADY, TO PUT IT BACK! So, I go: "Ahhh, miss. We're together, here! Okay? So, would you mind removing it, please." Now, mind you, I said it as tactfully as I can. Well, apparently, she was still caught back in the STUPID-@$$, "Jim Crow" South, over here!! Because she gave me such a condescending look that made my damn blood boil!! That's when I lost it!! Here's what I said. " Lookie-here, 'MADAM!' This is 1987, not 1867, okay? The damn Civil War has ended a century plus, ago! And, obviously, we're not in the South where the dumb-@$$ Jim Crow laws were highly prevalent, okay!?? Now, since you're a racist bit**! We're not ever going to spend a damn penny here, because of your bigoted bs! Plus, I will spread the word about this racist establishment, far and, wide! I'll go to the media, if necessary! But, I will make damn sure nobody spends anything in this rathole! Got it, moron!??" I grabbed her hand and STORMED OUT THE DOOR!! I was followed by several dozen people, including some employees!! I don't remember what happened to that store. But, it was the fact that some bimbo just had the gall to humiliate my girlfriend in front of dozens of people, me, included!!! Thank you for bringing that up. Yes. I blew my top. But, to me, you insult my girlfriend; you insult me! Irregardless of race, color, etc.! I will not put up with it, ever!

  • @samanthasamantha1830
    @samanthasamantha1830 Před 15 dny

    This interview was absolutely brilliant!🥰 I watched it in its entirety today!

  • @tinab8466
    @tinab8466 Před 15 dny

    I love Amanda Awakens and I am a subscriber. She is awesome.

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před 15 dny

      We agree! We love Amanda! It was so great to have her on as our guest!

  • @markelraya10
    @markelraya10 Před 15 dny

    According to dating stats BW reply to WM the least out of everyone. You think that every racial group is attracted to WM which is false. The yt population is declini ng and you’re more worried about dating? Crazy.

    • @TatumSheffield
      @TatumSheffield Před 15 dny

      @@markelraya10 on dating platforms wm rarely reach out to good looking black women. That is a fact. Even Amanda knows this because she herself found a way to switch up the algorithms to meet her current financee Michael. Still on dating apps wm reach out more to wf than bw because they feel they will be rejected. That is not always the case. You can never succeed @ any thing if @ first you don't try. There are tons of bw out in this world willing to meet, date & have a genuine relationship with a wm. But I think men need to make the first move 75% of the time because they never know if something great is about to happen in there lives...

    • @Eastnewyork2106
      @Eastnewyork2106 Před 10 dny

      Plus aint no white man wifing her black ass up sounds cute

  • @TatumSheffield
    @TatumSheffield Před 15 dny

    I personally would love for hollywood to remake the show "THAT GIRL" & this time star a beautiful slim black woman and a gorgeous looking "brad pitt" type of white guy and set the story in San Francisco this time or L.A. he works for leading newspaper there and she's a interior decorator(that's why San Francisco would be a perfect setting)or even use Seattle. Throw in some best friends and neighbors to banter with & that show would quickly pick up viewers & top nielsen ratings I really would love to see that, it could be called: "This Girl"????????

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před 15 dny

      Love that! Great idea! :) Thanks for watching and for your comment!

    • @thomaspollock-ek4vn
      @thomaspollock-ek4vn Před 7 dny

      My advice is that when in public, just pretend they don't even exist, because for you'all they don't. Then proceed to enjoy the both of your lives.

  • @phyllisferguson3889
    @phyllisferguson3889 Před 25 dny

    Great content 🇬🇩

  • @DENISEINONE
    @DENISEINONE Před 26 dny

    Yes sir, Blessings.

  • @ShineS-kx4jq
    @ShineS-kx4jq Před 28 dny

    These White men are NOT RARE but honestly a SINGLE ONE is hard to find when you have higher standards for a mate. I want someone that is an equal, similar interest and I hope you notice most of these couples meet in school and I wascway to busy struggling to pay and attending college so my openess to a long term relationship came later. It is not as easy to connect later in life because fewer are single. It truly seems that that Men with this open minded attitude, intelligence and humor only really exist in the younger than 45 group. IMy life experiences are broader than a small circle, education focused, influenced by various cultures and more European vs rigid American.

  • @kimberly22__
    @kimberly22__ Před měsícem

    Yes, great interview! Great content!

  • @Captain_Taylor_Morgan
    @Captain_Taylor_Morgan Před měsícem

    Thanks for having me on! Great interview! 🫡

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před měsícem

      Our pleasure! Really enjoyed the conversation and we appreciate you hanging out with us!

  • @FayolaOnline
    @FayolaOnline Před měsícem

    Thanks for shaing your perspectives on this!

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před měsícem

      Our pleasure! We appreciate you watching, and thanks for your comment!

  • @dedebrown1028
    @dedebrown1028 Před měsícem

    Try not to blame your white husband who loves you for everything a white person does to you.

  • @vasanthakrishnan3347
    @vasanthakrishnan3347 Před měsícem

    You guys give us all hope

  • @JHixon-bi8ok
    @JHixon-bi8ok Před měsícem

    Too little cortisol overnight leads to overnight adrenaline surges. This causes overnight wakefulness.

  • @nialcc
    @nialcc Před měsícem

    Please don't delete these "bad" comments. Address them head on. While you may not change that mind you might change others who read your reply. In addition, we all need to see you defend yourself against ignorance.

  • @cayennesinivassinel6977
    @cayennesinivassinel6977 Před měsícem

    I love this podcast...or better yet...I love you guys. But...I grew up in the islands with a loving dad and never knew people were different or even black and white. Moving to the states.... especially the South....first time I heard the word racism.... My paler tone friend tried to explain it to me and I laughed because I thought she was joking. Well...I ended up with fibromyalgia later on....Wow......😮 .some.human behavior is really Ignorant compared to what I was taught. But when I learned about Emit Till and history I know to be safe ...it is best to be a Ninja Warrior....😊....dating anyone can be scary ...

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před měsícem

      Thanks so much for your comment and for watching! We appreciate you sharing! :)

  • @remyfrancoisduvalier7719
    @remyfrancoisduvalier7719 Před měsícem

    How broken does one have to be to date an ethnic white man or woman? Honestly, just spit your African descent parents’ face?

  • @LilithSpeaks.88
    @LilithSpeaks.88 Před měsícem

    I appreciate this interview. I am a Black woman who was married to a White man. We got married in 2000 and we have two adult sons together. Our marriage did not last, but we transitioned into becoming really good friends, who share children together. But when we were married, there were a fair amount of race related issues that we faced and it was still not normalized to talk about openly... particularly with regards to Black women/White man relationships. Our interracial dynamic is vastly different from Black man/White woman relationships. Most people were just so happy to see us together, they just assumed that us being together solved all the racial issues in our country and we just became a token of progression. But no one knew the unique struggles we had and we didn't know how to articulate them and admit them to ourselves, let alone each other or others (like our elders) to get support. We eventually learned how to speak up and share what our struggles were, but that was after our marriage ended. We became good friends together though, and we talk openly with our sons about our relationship, so they can feel free to share their personal experiences as bi-racial men. We ended up creating quite an eclectic and loving non-conventional family together. But I am so happy there are more Black female/White Male couples talking openly about their relationship now so they can offer support to others 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před měsícem

      Thank you for your comment and for sharing your personal story! We appreciate you!

  • @iknewyouweremypet
    @iknewyouweremypet Před měsícem

    This is dope and hella helpful, thanks man!

  • @Clockwork.Lemon854
    @Clockwork.Lemon854 Před měsícem

    Great conversation that is needed, this should have way more views. Great questions from the host and insightful answers from Dr. Weiss. I recognize myself as one of the guys that is afraid of women, I have been aware of being afraid of women since I was 12.

    • @themikeseapodcast
      @themikeseapodcast Před měsícem

      Thanks for your kind words and for watching. We also appreciate you sharing!

  • @melaniedugas7617
    @melaniedugas7617 Před měsícem

    These are two really cool people. No reference to gender or ethnicity. They are just really good people. They are proof that being "woke" is a choice of high quality people. Very good, guys. This is fabulous. Thanks for sharing this talk. 💗

  • @lynnhettrick7588
    @lynnhettrick7588 Před měsícem

    48:20 What a beautiful couple you two are!

  • @lynnhettrick7588
    @lynnhettrick7588 Před měsícem

    40:08 I'm still learning how to meet people where they are. I want them to change now. I want them to be anti-racist now. I want them to unlearn their bigotry now. I get impatient.

  • @lynnhettrick7588
    @lynnhettrick7588 Před měsícem

    34:36 That's eye-opening to me! I would've never thought that would happen. I would think the wait-staff would just say, "Can I get you anything else? Or just the check?" and THEN wait for the people to say whether they want one check or two. As a whyte person, I am trying to see the micro-agressions against the people of color around me. (And call them out when I can.)

  • @lynnhettrick7588
    @lynnhettrick7588 Před měsícem

    Thank you for normalizing therapy!!