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And that is why we need proper sex Ed in schools and at home

Everyone should have to just follow the same dress code. That would be inclusive to all genders and the best of both worlds will be the dress code for everyone.

This girl and the guy that preaches Jesus is very similar in character

Okay I need more of this, just as a mom for my kids

Why are you whispering

I love this insight! I’ve judged my younger sisters for owning so much unnecessary skincare/perfumes/hair care/etc., but this helps me understand where they’re coming from a bit better. Thank you for sharing! You earned a new subscriber 🥰

read the book, listened the podcast, spread the info, really valuable perspective for me and all parents around me

One thing that has always stuck with me and helped contextualise what emotions are and how they exist and function in a really accessible way I think is how Dr Lisa Feldman Barret summarises emotions (which I find intersects with much of what Brene Brown says about Vulnerability and how it intersects with Self) and that is essentially that 'emotions are stories we tell ourselves, they're a narrative lense and a meaning making perceptual process, they're how we understand our sensations and affect within the context they're occurring based on our past experiences and the expectations set by those and by our sociocultural norms. They're constructed, predictive and bound by temporal strings to all our past experiences, and they shape our perception of reality but they're fallable, and yet they are often in the driver's seat behind our choices and actions. I see a lot of these themes in the visuals and narrative of the films, but just the very simply stated idea that emotions are a meaning-making process, that they are stories we tell ourselves to explain our feeling at the time, is still the most accessible and simple statement of what an emotion is, that I have ever heard and I'd love to see that come through in the next Inside Out film... fingers crossed - also love Lisa's suggestion in another interview of the exploration of social pressure around gender differences and the way boys are taught to police their own and other boys' vulnerable emotions - love to see somehow shame reprogramming or policing the inner world on behalf of influences from the external world... although anxiety using embarrassment to lock away the other emotions where her secrets went kind of touches on an aspect of feeling ashamed it lacks any dimension of the role of the external world's influence on self appraisal and the shame and socialisation of masculinity experienced by young boys taught about which emotions are masculine and socially expected/accepted, and which emotions are 'weak', 'vulnerable' and 'effeminate' and socially excluded from the hegemonic masculinity. "Simple feelings of pleasure and displeasure or calmness and agitation are not the same as complex emotional experiences such as joy and sadness. These basic feelings are your body's internal sensations, whereas emotions are the concepts that your brain assigns to the feelings to give them meaning."

the urge to send this to my mom 🎀

Idk if you two realize this or not but they way you both are talking and acting is really creepy

They must have been 75 per cent conservative mom's because a liberal mom will never admit they did anything wrong

Mom of five ages 48, 46, 44, 42 and 33...I love them but didn't have those desires that you are talking about. They are all fine🎉

💯 Truth. My oldest kid is extremely empathetic and helped set up a support group during his Highschool years. There came a point where I had to make him step away from the group because it started to be too much from him. At the rate he was going, he would have been committed to a mental hospital within a few weeks if I hadn't

Every human goes through that.....not all move beyond this point confidently......THATS WHY KIDS NEED BOTH PARENTS......DAD & MOM WLL GUIDE THEM ALONG GODS PATH TO BEING A FUNCTIONAL ADULT.....

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I was never in fear of being isolated. I’ve always been fine with my own company, can enjoy setting by myself just thinking about things. What I didn’t like or want was other people bothering me especially if they were bullies. I just wanted to be left the fck alone & that bothers people that are weak minded & insecure.

This makes so much sense. I'm gonna have to listen to the full episode!!

You discussion is so insightful. Thank you ladies for your time! And how come there are neither likes nor comments?!

We have research showing that research can be found to support almost any claim you want to make.

Does anybody know what year the seat belt law came into effect? 1986,sooooooo

Your voice is really nice to hear!!! Also thanks for the info ❤

Welcome Rosalie 🤗 You will be in high demand

Haven't teenagers been irritable for all of human history. But lets just pretend that this completely normal stage of development is a mental disorder so that we can pump them full of mind altering drugs for the benefit of big pharma.

Great topic to discuss! Thank you for the time you took to emphasize every perspective , legal, moral, threats etc

Thats cuz you dont seen guys wearing crop tops and spaghetti's straps. We wear tank tops but thats differenct

Girls push the boundaries because it popular and "attractive" but that's because society no longer accepts modesty. You are made fun of and thought of as a prude if you don't dress like a slut.

"dress codes don't effect boys bc they follow the dress code"

If boys can wear baggy, so can the girls. The dress code should be fair and equal between the sexes.

Because boys don't come to school in really short crop tops or really low cut shirts, or see through shirts, or really Short shorts, or short skirts. But girls would and still try to even with dress codes. Because as much as girls don't like to admit it, coming from a girl, we're huge attention seekers, we love to get people to look at us in some way.

WTF did I just watch? This is satire, right?

you obviously don't know what you're talking about just look at japanese schools it's not hard people are just to damn stupid

Dress code primarily fall on the girls because no one wants to make boys have more self-control so they would tell girls, theyre distracting the boys, meanwhile, letting boys sag their pants exposing whole a$$. That's called sexism. Maybe to alleviate the struggle, just require uniforms across-the-board for everyone.

Please shut up. Butt cheeks and breasts are distracting for men and women. Theres nothing sexist about it

Shut up😂😂

And we as parents have a duty to reassure them that we have their back and respect their space to mature.

Sounds like your trying to remove the relationship from A and B. Parents will always be there for their kids. They can go without losing ties. They can live in their own and still have a relationship your not right.

Thank you for this eye opening conversation about such a great movie. I just cannot stop thinking about it and using references from it with my students. All emotions are there for a reason...❤❤

It resonates with me so much at this moment!! Thank you so much!

Well your president won’t do anything about it

I can't believe this. It is so sad

My kids went to see it in the theater so I told them that one of my favorite humans, Dr. Lisa, helped with it. They loved it, and I am cautiously optimistic that my tweens absorbed some of the messages about ALL normal healthy brains experiencing highs and lows. You should be so proud of your work!

Fascinating conversation. you are so lucky for being part of this film. I have been waiting for the release with so much anticipation since they announced it! I went and saw it with my little one, that was already familiar with the 5 characters of the first movie, and it was her first movie experience ever. The sequel was everything I was hoping for and even more! What you are saying about the conversation back at home is so true. The first movie has given us so many opportunities to speak and learn about our emotions, and with the 2nd now, we will have even more to talk about, for years to come. I hope a 3rd one eventually comes out, but there is no rush. I prefer they take their time and do it right!

Thank you so much for making this specifically on the topic of moving this has helped me so much as I am about to purchase my first home outside of the area and I was so worried about my 11-year-old daughter. Thx again 💕

Please when discussing sleep it needs to be "resorative" sleep not junk sleep. Adults and kids with undiagnosed sleep issues need diagnosis and treatment. I like that you call it good sleep but tease that out a bit more.

This also sounds exactly like my 8-9 year old daughter which we are struggling with understanding at the moment. Does this all apply to her age range too? She’s a strong willed girl.

This is such a great episode, not only to address marihuana with our kids, but any other kind of legal but unsafe substances (alcohol, smoking, vaping, etc). And I love how Reena so authentically re-asks Lisa not with her journalist hat, but with her mom hat: "Lisa, but WHY?" It feels more like two mom friends sharing their concerns than a podcast. I love you guys so much, cheers from Argentina

Thank you so much, you two for the incredibly valuable tipps and tricks on parenting. I was hoping your new book would also come out in german, but now I am already reading it in english. Will there be a german version soon? (It s still a bit easyer for me...) Kind regards from a 4 teenager mom from Switzerland

Love the episode... I have been thinking on write many letters to Dr. Lisa in regards this issue. I have cried and many times super angry to my 12 years old son for this kids of behaviors. This is a great episode. Thanks Dr. Lisa, many thanks

Yes to the episode on "repair". Thank you! :)

Very insightful. Thank you for this topic and for other teen topics.