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Bless you Sweet Soul Our life is meant to be about us, not anyone else. It is very difficult to find a balance in life of staying out of judgement, setting boundaries and should we be the one to call people out on the "bad" stuff. Some people are energy vampires, when we learn to stop reacting when they try pushing our buttons, they will eventually give up. I have always said, if I have proof of a wrong doing (rape, murder, abuse etc) I will go to the authorities. We all make our life choices before we get here and if we are on the wrong side of the law, we will also have accepted the consequences to our actions. Reporting them is part of our journey and theirs. We all have the ability to be "hard", "devious", "manipulative" etc, some just make it the major part of their life, rather then when it is potentially called for. Always be true to you. 🙏Namaste

Bless you Sweet Soul Sadly it is only as we grow older that we realise how much we have missed out on by not asking questions of our elders and listening to the stories of their life and experiences - they have so much wisdom to share. It is also important for us to listen to the younger people, help them to feel listened to and heard in a way many of us didn't feel when we were younger. There is wisdom to be gained from all age groups. 🙏Namaste

Bless you Sweet Soul You are so right about common sense, it seems to be missing from so much that goes on in the world today. Sadly it isn't something that can be learned. A thought has just struck me, even if it can't be learned, maybe it is a switch that can be turned on and each individual has to find that switch in themselves and can do that us they find who they are rather than who the world has told them to be. Trust in the wise that lies in you, gained from the experiences you have had during your life. 🙏Namaste

Bless you Sweet Soul Thank you for sharing and my thoughts are, if this person isn't good for you as they are being, therefore unless they are willing to change (and they have to be true to themselves), you are better off without them. When we create boundaries to protect ourselves, it is only those who wish to be disrespectful of them that don't like them. Be true to you, take care, of you, show the Universe that you care about yourself and it will show you real care in return. What you are prepared to put up with, it will keep bringing to you. Go for it, stand up for yourself, it may feel uncomfortable to begin with but it will become easier and I believe you will be much happier. 🙏Namaste

@@SaraJane-Vocal-ReikiThank you! Yes, I know you are right, and I have thought the same, but like you said, it is hard to do. But I know I would be better off, and happier!! I appreciate your thoughts! I am going to take care of ME!! ❤️❤️

@@bettyjohnson2964 I am so pleased, you are important, don't ever doubt that. 🙏Namaste Sweet Soul

Bless you Sweet Soul As we "wake up" and start being true to ourselves, we create boundaries and the only people who get upset with them, are those that don't respect them and used us. It is about learning to say Yes to ourselves and that will put noses out of joint. We will soon learn who our real friends are. 🙏Namaste

Bless you Sweet Soul, never regret being nice to others, it shows the world who you are. How others are is up to them and people will see through the fake eventually. Always be yourself. Kindness comes in many forms, remember that No can be the biggest gift we can hear (although it may not feel it as the time. 🙏Namaste

@@SaraJane-Vocal-Reiki Thank you for the kind words. Much appreciated. It means a lot.

@@user-zx4cp6kz4b My pleasure We all require a little encouragement from time to time, especially to know that this is our life and we should live it guided by our heart and soul not other people's wants & needs. Light, Love & Peace 🙏Namaste Sweet Soul

Bless you Sweet Soul Being a people pleaser is a Trauma response, love yourself, be kind and understanding of yourself and you can grow into the amazing Being that you are. Forgive yourself for what you didn't know, we can only ever act on the information we have at the time. Now we know more and take back control of our own lives. 🙏Namaste

Bless you Sweet Soul Thank you I feel so blessed that this share has touched so many lives. 🙏Namaste

Bless you Sweet Soul Thank you 🙏Namaste

Bless you 100% Yes it is your life to live, your choices to make and your lessons to learn. Go for it 🙏Namaste Sweet Soul

Bless you When we find the courage to free ourselves, we realise that the kindest thing we can do for some people is to say No, empowering them and ourselves in the process. 🙏Namaste Sweet Soul

Bless you Sweet Soul I am so pleased it spoke to you 🙏Namaste

Thank you Sweet Soul 🙏Namaste

Bless you Sweet Soul my pleasure I love to know that the words and support I have shared touch lives 🙏Namaste

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Bless you Sweet Soul It is so very difficult to loose someone you love, especially if they are still around. We all grow and change, it is not always at the same pace or in the same direction. That can mean we have to make very difficult decisions that can hurt others but we have to be true to ourselves. Love her enough to give her space and love yourself enough to open your life up to new experiences without her. Let yourself move on and if she ever chooses to come back, you will both have experiences and new perspectives to bring to it. We are all one but we are also unique individuals. Let her be true to her and you be true to you. Light, Love & Peace 🙏Namaste Sara

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Bless you Thank you Sweet Soul 🙏Namaste

Please see my reply to your previous comment ~ Thank you 🙏Namaste Sweet Soul

Are you saying that the Title is a quote from Dr Wayne Dyer? If so Thank you, it's brilliant and has touched many as truth, including me. 🙏Namaste Sweet Soul

Bless you Thank you Sweet Soul It is not selfish to say No to others if what they ask doesn't resonate with you, it is always important to be true to yourself without causing pain to others and it is our mind that causes us the greatest pain too many times in our lives. Respect yourself and others. 🙏Namaste

Bless you Thank you Sweet Soul We are all connected to Source (whatever you perceive that to be) and learning to Love ourselves opens us up to bringing great love, thought, care, empathy to others, hopefully empowering them to a greater connection with themself and all that is. 🙏Namaste

Bless you thank you Sweet Soul We always have a choice, even with family, to remove ourselves. I so appreciate that as younger children we don't understand what is happening and even if we did, couldn't just walk away (if necessary for good). Sadly this is where so many Traumas come from. We can heal and have a fulfilling life, it takes time and we have to be involved in the process. 🙏Namaste

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Bless you Sweet Soul Thank you for sharing from your heart and your experience and I am so pleased you came to this understanding as quickly as you did - I was 40 before I started my healing journey. You are a beautiful gift to the world and if you choose, can be a great support for those of a similar age who may not choose to listen to older people. A thought has come to me and others, it is not so much about what happened but the feelings it caused within us, feelings of being unloved, unwanted, unworthy, not good enough etc. For me it is about supporting people to know that they are Special in there own unique way, that no one is more or less special than anyone else. You are totally right about us loving ourselves first and foremost, setting boundaries and not accepting any form of disrespect or control. Enjoy the journey to you Blessings Sweet One 🙏Namaste

Thank you We are meant to play the leading role in our own life and for too many it is about learning to take back that control which we have unwittingly given to others. 🙏Namaste Sweet Soul

Yes the "flesh" can be "weak" but it is the gift we are given so that can have this life experience. It is also amazing and protective - there are always 2 sides (at least) to everything. 🙏Namaste Sweet Soul

Bless you Thank you Ian 🙏Namaste Sweet Soul

Bless you Sweet Soul, I am so pleased it has touched your life Namaste 🙏

For me, when we step back into ourselves, become the "me" the "I", we connect to our heart, which is our connection to our Soul and the all that is. We are however here to have this human experience and for us to have that we have forgotten where we come from and that connection. Many are waking up and becoming more connected to that deeper part of themselves and taking care of the "I" brings greater care and love to the all. What we do to others and this planet, we do to ourselves. Namaste Sweet Soul🙏

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@@eviltwinnancy4561 The more attuned to life you become and the energies of others, I believe it is possible to protect yourself from others by listening to our intuition, gut instinct, they don't lie. 🙏Namaste Sweet Soul

@@eviltwinnancy4561 Swindlers have many tactics.

Bless you Namaste Sweet Soul 🙏

My pleasure Sweet Soul I am pleased it has supported you Namaste 🙏

Hi Not sure what you are saying here Our story will always come from the perspective of our understanding of what happened and was said, and how it made us feel. My story doesn't change because as an adult I came to understand the circumstances that caused what happened. It is us an an adult that helps our inner child to heal, the story will never change, it is important not to live there, to grow from the healing and become the best you possible. Namaste Sweet Soul 🙏

Bless you Sweet Soul I do hear what you are saying and we all have the right to our own understandings and opinions. For me it is about remembering that that is all their stuff, their issues and while what they say and do presses our buttons and gets reactions from us, they have power over us and sadly by reacting we give them that power. Jealousy is a nasty thing and well named as "the green eyed monster". I get that it isn't easy in those circumstances, I've had it happen and was blessed that my friends new me well enough to not listen. For me the best way to deal with it is to stand our ground with love and caring, letting go of anger and fear, and that takes a lot of strength. Namaste🙏

Bless you Thank you Namaste Sweet Soul 🙏

The words I used are "Those that always got us to do what they wanted start hearing No, from us and start calling us selfish with the hope of regaining control. Remember they are the ones who are being selfish, they are just projecting on to you how they are." I am taking the words you have used above are your understanding of what I said. Namaste Sweet Soul

@@SaraJane-Vocal-Reiki Every person has a sphere of empathy, empathy for themselves and empathy for others. Some people have a bigger sphere than others. I wonder what experiences in life make for a large or smaller sphere?

@@arthurwieczorek4894 Is that not down to the choices we make from the experiences we have had? Or perhaps it goes way deeper than that to a Soul choice, after all we are here to have experiences and the Soul has chosen very many of them, it is then up to us how we "deal" with them 🙂 Namaste Sweet Soul 🙏

@@SaraJane-Vocal-Reiki 'Soul choice' is a very poetic turn of phrase.

@@arthurwieczorek4894 For me it is about what I believe and not everyone believes the same. Personally I believe that our Soul has chosen this life experience and all the experiences we have within it. Our Soul knows everything but cannot experience without taking physical form and in doing that we are made to forget all that our Soul knows. As we grow we learn, as we get older, we may choose to unlearn those things that we think we have "learnt" about ourselves and grow into the person we choose to be. We all have choices. Namaste Sweet Soul 🙏

I've heard the term. Not heard of Albert Ellis Namaste

I don't know but whoever said it was right on the button and it is an important thing for us all to learn. Namaste Sweet Soul

Bless you Thank you Sweet Soul Namaste

100% go for it. The joy of meditation is we can do anything and go anywhere, enjoy the experiences 🙂 Namaste Sweet Soul🙏

@@SaraJane-Vocal-Reiki I was just 14 when I first started, didn't know what to expect, and was such a natural I scared myself for away from it for a while! I now understand what was happening and wish I'd embraced it sooner...never too late 🌻

@@reallyrealraven Bless you Sweet Soul Absolutely, it's never too late and I am so pleased you have found your way back to it. No time between is wasted if we allow ourselves to realise the gifts our experiences bring us. Namaste🙏

This content is truly a gift. Thank you ❤

@@kyledafryck3246 Bless you Thank you 🙏Namaste Sweet Soul

Bless you Sweet Soul Thank you Namaste🙏

100% Bless you Sweet Soul You may lose friends (but were they really friends) and family may not talk to you, that is their choice. Stick to what speaks to you, your heart choices, always be true to you. Namaste🙏

Bless you Thank you I love that this has spread around the world Namaste Sweet Soul🙏

Bless you Thank you And happy to connect with you in South America Namaste Sweet Soul🙏

Bless you Thank you Namaste Sweet Soul🙏

@@SaraJane-Vocal-Reiki your welcome madam

Truthfully No idea what you are talking about. I'm English and don't watch the news I have been on a bad news diet for years and my life has improved so much for it. Namaste Sweet Soul🙏

@@SaraJane-Vocal-Reiki If you are into voice, view US senator Britt's response to Biden's State of the Union speech.

@@arthurwieczorek4894 Thank you for the thought but I choose not to lend weight to anything political. I don't here in the UK. It may or may not resonate with me but it is my choice not to get involved. Blessings Sweet Soul Namaste 🙏