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Brilliant! Thank you. The truth is actionable. The light bulb went on for me, I needed to hear that and I feel unstuck now!

Thank you so much!!!!! ❤❤❤

I know someone is in my personal space my business too much worrying about my money or you don't need another pair of sneakers I'm always walking on eggshells with this person she can be quite insulting putting me down

I just left an alcoholic narcissist relationship that I was in and out of for 2 years. Trauma bonded I’m sure. When sober it was great but when drunk it was like jekyl and hide. I don’t know why but I still want to go back to her when I know it’s really a bad idea. I blocked her on Instagram but I sometimes look and she posts things to make me upset. I really have to stop falling for that narcissist.

“It’s better in the Bahamas.”

I've experienced most of these during the early stages of learning about narcissism, unbeknownst to the ex narc LOL...I never answer unfamiliar numbers and my email address was changed shortly thereafter. I check my social media privacy settings regularly and always watch my surroundings. Its been over 5 yrs since i left that ex. The google calls, unsolicited messages is few and far now...🙌🙌

My friend was just like this the generic text msgs and when you don’t respond they panic and think something is wrong because you didn’t respond. Start calling because of it, when they don’t want anything. They just want to keep reminding us their still around.

Once I walked away the jig was up and I got my life back immediately ( finances, mental health, physically, emotional health, spirituality). I removed chaos and a ball of confusion out my life. I wish them well without me.🔥🔥🔥🔥⚒️⚒️⚒️⚒️🦅🦅🦅🦅🌎🌎🌎💯💯💯get the f outta here.

Happy birthday to me. He showed up early told me he lost his phone took off and left me sitting there waiting for him all day. Not once in five years has he even given me a card! I needed this. I thought he was a narcissist now this proves it. His excuse was he loaned all his money out yesterday and he’s too broke yet again. I think if he cared he would plan ahead. I got abused so badly by him via txt message yesterday too

I never ever introduced my narc friend to my other friends. The first thing she said when we were first friends was how she couldn’t wait to meet my friends. My gut at that point told me not to do it.

Fabulously refreshing reflections Lesley, thank you so much for sharing, have experienced this it is nauseating and down right creepy.

9:39 Imo a gift is something you already know isn't yours before you release it to someone you want to have it.

not a narrcissist, just soccially in_appropriate, and big eggo. big eggo is not a sociopath!

your freind is just very socially akward and lonely, not a narrcissist

My mother talks about her funeral almost every time we talk. Its so bloody creepy. I got so tired of it that I told her I'm not going to her funeral.

I noticed the ex narc posted funerals on social media too. Pics with different families, getting t shirts made of the deceased, pics holding the obituary while posing, videos of balloon send offs & candle light vigils. It was a good number of funerals over the years. Hes very deceptive & causes alot of trouble & confusion all while secretly living with an incurable disease himself. I didnt understand any of this stuff until after leaving him.

I was ghosted a month prior to my ex birthday. He reappeared 2 weeks before his planned party & asked can i go to the mall with him to pick out a bday outfit? I went & put money down on it. He pretended to be so grateful. Later, I saw the party pics on someone else FB page. He didnt even invite me. I felt so Stupid & Betrayed again. It was almost like he would think time means forget about it. He reappeared 2 months later acting hopeless...as if it didnt even happened! When his world start caving in, he wants help, sympathy, understanding. After I fell for it & got treated worse & decided to not deal with him anymore, one of his associates asked me why wasnt i at the party? I told her that he didnt give me any details...almost like he didnt want me to come. After, i broke it off with him, not even 3 wks later he posted a new relationship on social media. The associate told me that "new" person was at the party.

I had the worst Bowles with my EX. I’ve always been very aware of my bowel movements my whole life. My Bowles were very liquidity and stinky. 4 months without a firm bowel. I left 1.5 weeks ago and my poops are firm and come with almost zero effort or push. So eye opening.

This presentation is very poignant! I recently discovered my wife is a covert narcissist. Everything you mentioned I’ve experienced and worse. She’s become worse as she ages! The lying and manipulation is beyond anything I’ve ever encountered in relationships in my entire life! It’s demonic!

Thanks for sharing this! I have family members who love to just pop up at a funeral and make all about them...

Birthday celebrations in general are often self honoring. Children raised with far too much emphasis on Birthday and Holiday celebrations can be ruined by such events. I’m glad I rejected such things when I became aware of the negative effect back when I was a teen.

My narc sis often finds a (spurious) reason to fall out with me just before my birthday so doesn't have to send a card and present.

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My husband played meet and greet reunion smiles celebration snd wanted to be honored by my family for helping out, welcoming all the friends and family, while my siblings were all grief stucken over my sisters death bc her husband signed a dnr and dni on my sister at 53 yrs old. My husband said, what can i say, he was her next of kin.

All of what u mentioned happened to me omg 😢

Narcissists and fake accounts 😂

Spot on!

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Wow. Yes. Had never dealt with anyone like this lady. A co worker. She was 11 years older than me. She knew I had a soft heart for older people and she sucked me in and it was a horrible experience. She was very aggressive and a bully. I tried to respect her even tho she was wearing me out with her narcissist behavior and very moody ways. Then when I took a stand she got mad at me, stopped talking to me and blocked me on fb and blocked my number like I was some sort of animal after all I did for her. I was so hurt. It was horrible. Horrible. They suck the life out of you then discard you like trash. Later I started hearing stories from other co workers about what they experience with her too. She is a trip. Smh...but God delivered me from it all

we go to the same church. he has plenty of friends, even the pastor, who seem to have no idea how vile he can be. change churches ? i would miss some genuine, long-time friends, and transportation would be a problem. i often stay home on sunday. my 1st husband, another one, was even harder to get rid of.

I fired one too.

They’re crazier than three June bugs

It’s like they’re ever plucking where….they rage very easily a “no” a perceived slight anbbb there off

I’ve discarded all three that I half married or half dated … one nearly unalived me … one spent months trying to build me up to discard me …only to get hooked on me and collapse when it happened again… my last … my roommate that “poached while I was still healing from number two … i recognize that I’d been attracting narcissists…..number two stalked …. And threatened to bang bang and the mask came off I didn’t get why he lost his ish until I started researching narcissists…..it’s been a learning lesson and a blessing on the way to avoiding these suckers… once you see them you see them everywhere….its like you’d been living in a world full of demons and once you actively slay one… you alert them all….it’s dreadfully awful

👉❤When it comes to narcissists- they are one of the big reasons Jesus is coming back to pick up his people and children any moment now!🥰As He speaks through the prophets He is sickened by the world: lies, manipulations, spill of innocent blood. We are just waiting for Damascus to fall and Alaska to experience back to back earthquakes 7.6 and 7.3! We will see Germany and Russia exchanging missiles. Jesus spoke of it all through his prophets! 🙌❤😊 Events spoken of in the Bible are converging. Make sure you make Jesus your Lord and Saviour🙌❤He loves you like crazy!😍Trust in what He did on the cross for us! He died for our sins and then defeated the death by rising 3 days later! In the days of darkness make sure to stay inside!🙌❤🥹

I had a long time friend of 20 years who I thought I was close with do a silent discard on me. Which was very weird, because I hadn't changed at all. I was still the same person I always was, but he got laid off at a job and the company kept me (we were working in the same place) and after that he became very bitter and sour on me. It seems he thought we were in a secret competition or something, which I wasn't aware of at all. It helps to view this as their problem, not yours. Narcissists aren't human. Yes, they inhabit human bodies - but they are the furthest thing from a human being. They are machine-like programs inhabiting a human body.

This was very strong, even imformative for me. I'v dealt with this type of enetgy all of my adolesence teenage and for a period of time some of my early twenties and thirties. I had to get away go non contact greyrock to the point of God isolating me. I know the patterns ghost lighting tactics mirrioring to the One Up and then turn your reality around to make it seem as if you dont know who you are . Please it was the best move i ever made in my life . Talk about liars they are pathological sick minded LIARS. This is not even the half. I am the Lost Cinderella Story. ( Really to sum everything up if you've ever seen the Carlina White Story . That my life with some other exceptions . Would love a conversation someday. i could tell you somethings you would be in tears. But God My My My.. It was Gods Grace and Mercy.

Growing through this now ❤

Right on time

Once I had a family member give me a half eaten birthday cake😂for my birthday 😂

They always act depressed when you're happy,and happy when your sad.

I had a narc friend who even warned me that they were shallow and don’t do deep friendships.

Hmmmm.. could they be introverted? Or its an extrover specific trait?

Thank you for sharing this. I walked away from a superficial "friendship" earlier and i was able to tell her word for word in the end that she didn't deserve my friendship. "I'm busy" was her motto and I was not willing to be around anyone who made me feel less than who I am or that their time was more valuable than mine. She's a famous CZcamsr and a few weeks ago I noticed she had nothing to say to me when I asked her for her support and her feedback on a tv appearance I did. She was too busy to pour into me and reciprocate my kindness and my support of her.. It was always about her and her "brand". She often didn't reply to my messages and when she did, she kept it short. She comes across as though her fame of 700,000 is more important than actually nurturing a real friendship with me. I said my goodbyes today

They infiltrated into my personal friendship circle and the so called “friends” sided with her smh Thank God I’m healing now🙌🏾

On one side they do helpful/nice things, but on the other side something feels off. I ended up going no contact💯

I caught him on the dating app and discarded.bim. I told.him not to.return my things to my house as it was replaceble. I changed my number on him. I woke up the next morning to find my things in a bag on my car. Then he made posts on fb and smeared me..twisting the story making ME look like the bad guy. Wven though HE cheated I'm feeling like I'm at fault now. Help!