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Child Custody Problem Solving
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Child Custody Problem Solving - Almost all co-parents deal with conflict, disagreements, and problems. It is important to find ways to deal with these in productive ways, rather than creating further conflict. While this can be hard to do, especially if you are dealing with a narcissistic ex, it IS achievable. So today, we are going to discuss what actions WE can take to become a better problem solver, regardless of your situation. Whether you are trying to figure out how to get full child custody or simply trying to get your shared child custody modified, I hope this video helps you in your child custody situation. To find out how I can support you in achieving ongoing success in your custody matter, please SCHEDULE A FREE CALL at: divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching/
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Being Hostile In Child Custody
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) Being Hostile In Child Custody - Co-parenting is often times the cause of ALOT of fighting and tension between divorcing parties. While it is not uncommon for this to be this case, it is usually not very beneficial for your case. Especially if you are the parent being viewed as the "hostile" one. So today, we are going to discuss what causes us to ...
Being the BETTER Parent in Child Custody
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) Being the BETTER Parent in Child Custody - It is not uncommon for both parents to feel like they are the "better" parent, particularly in a divorce/child custody scenario. And, while it is good to try to be the best parent you can be, presenting yourself as the "better" parent to the judge can often time backfire. Today we are going to discuss why ...
The WORST Case Scenario in Child Custody
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) The WORST Case Scenario in Child Custody - When it comes to child custody and divorce, I find that many people have a lot of fears and anxiety around what the outcome will be. What happens if the judge rules against you? What happens if you don't get full custody? What happens if you have to pay support? All of these fears can cloud our mind and ca...
Using the "Pregnant Pause" Technique in Child Custody Court
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) Using the "Pregnant Pause" Technique in Child Custody Court - Sometime less is more, especially when it comes to child custody. One problem I often see in child custody issues is both parties feel like they to share as much information as possible. While this CAN be helpful, it is the way and timing of how you share the information that matters. Th...
Getting What's Fair In Child Custody Court
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) Getting What's Fair In Child Custody Court - It is pretty common for people to want what they feel like is "fair" when it comes to child custody and divorce. The most common request I see is for 50/50 custody. However, blindly asking your judge for what's "fair" is usually not very good plan for court. It is not uncommon for the court to become unh...
4 Tips for Speaking in Child Custody Court
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) 4 Tips for Speaking in Child Custody Court - Speaking in court is an endeavor that most people struggle with very much. Not only do you have to deal with your fear/anxiety about speaking in public, but you also have to figure out what to say. When SHOULD you speak? When SHOULDN'T you speak? What things matter? It is one of the most difficult parts ...
What Does The Judge Want From You?
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) What Does The Judge Want From You? - Child custody court can be a complicated and confusing process to be involved in. On top of fighting with your ex, now, you are apart of what can feel like a frustrating and unfair situation in trying navigate the court and your judge. So what exactly is it that the court wants from you? What do they want to see...
How to Co-Parent During Holidays
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) How to Co-Parent During Holidays - Co-parenting is generally a difficult and high-conflict situation, which I often find gets even more complicated during the holidays. During the recent holidays, after helping some clients navigate this difficult time of the year (in regards to child custody), I have come up with some useful tips and strategies th...
The Secret to Problem Solving in Child Custody
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) The Secret to Problem Solving in Child Custody - Trying to overcome disagreements/conflicts with your ex can be one of the most difficult parts of co-parenting. Often times I see clients using a very aggressive and hostile approach when dealing with their ex. Usually, the outcome is simply more fighting, which results in more stress for both partie...
If You’re Feeling Overwhelmed In Child Custody
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) If You’re Feeling Overwhelmed In Child Custody - If you feel completely drained and hopeless in your child custody case, you are not alone! This state of hopelessness and overwhelm can start to feel normal. Your high-conflict ex wants you to stay in this weakened emotional state. Your job in this situation is to fix your mindset and in this video, ...
Revealing The Narcissist’s Secret
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) Revealing The Narcissist’s Secret - Fear is a weapon I see used across the board by narcissistic and high-conflict personalities. When they can keep you in a state of fear, they keep you from becoming a formidable opponent. But if you can overcome that fear, they become bankrupt because they have nothing to use against you. So, overcoming your fear...
Infuriating Your Ex In Child Custody
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) Infuriating Your Ex In Child Custody - We often talk about communication and looking at your communication with your ex in the context of how the Court wants you to interact. But, when you’re dealing with a high-conflict person, the communication has a dual effect, what the Court sees, and how your ex reacts. So, the way you communicate and/or inte...
Why You Are LOSING In Child Custody Court
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) Why You Are Losing in Child Custody Court - When we’re not getting the outcome we want in Court, we tend to get into the weeds, especially if we are self-representing. We analyze what information we’re presenting, how we’re presenting it, what the Judge says, and every other detail. But your success in Court depends on more than just the “operation...
Judges Want You To STOP
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PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! :-) Judges Want You To STOP - Could you imagine refereeing fighting people all day long? Maybe you do! Maybe it’s your kids, which is bad enough, but imaging it being adults! Courts use all kinds of tools to try and decrease conflict between parents. The top 20% most high-conflict cases utilize 80% of the courts resources. So, they send people to indiv...
Proper Documentation in Child Custody
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Proper Documentation in Child Custody
Patience WINS in Child Custody
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Patience WINS in Child Custody
Can You Use Logic When Co-Parenting?
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Can You Use Logic When Co-Parenting?
7 Secrets to Co-parenting with a Narcissist
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7 Secrets to Co-parenting with a Narcissist
4 Tips To Negotiate With A Narcissist
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4 Tips To Negotiate With A Narcissist
A Basic Guide to Child Custody Trials
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A Basic Guide to Child Custody Trials
Top 3 Tips to Communicate With Your Ex in Child Custody
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Top 3 Tips to Communicate With Your Ex in Child Custody
3 Benefits to Your Children in Child Custody
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3 Benefits to Your Children in Child Custody
The #1 Thing Judges Hate in Child Custody
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The #1 Thing Judges Hate in Child Custody
The Secret to Overcoming Suffering in Child Custody
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The Secret to Overcoming Suffering in Child Custody
"Child Custody Is Hopeless"
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"Child Custody Is Hopeless"
How to Change Your Judge’s Opinion
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How to Change Your Judge’s Opinion
"It's Not Your Fault" (Child Custody & Divorce)
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"It's Not Your Fault" (Child Custody & Divorce)
3 Secrets to Getting More Parenting Time
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3 Secrets to Getting More Parenting Time
Parenting Time & Visitation Schedules In Child Custody
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Parenting Time & Visitation Schedules In Child Custody

Komentáře

  • @JasonHunter-wl2wl
    @JasonHunter-wl2wl Před 2 hodinami

    You did amazing and the female host posed some amazing real life scenarios that even I made the mistake of before. This was amazing!! Moral of the story…GET THE TERMS OUTLINED IN A COURT ORDER!!

  • @qinwudi7744
    @qinwudi7744 Před 4 dny

    you cant confront a hactivist judge that bought his appointment

  • @JKDVIPER
    @JKDVIPER Před 7 dny

    Ya, because it’s not fair when we have to show up and be straight laced, so it’s this inner urge to engage in playing dirty we have to avoid, disregard. They steal an emotion in attempt to draw you in further. It’s a trick. 🤢💯🤨

  • @qinwudi7744
    @qinwudi7744 Před 8 dny

    hire the law firm that run his election

  • @qinwudi7744
    @qinwudi7744 Před 8 dny

    if your a man, just ask that the court enforce child access

  • @victoriav1673
    @victoriav1673 Před 8 dny

    What if you suspect there’s abuse involved or that your child is not safe? How do you address that in court?

  • @lotusmccary9365
    @lotusmccary9365 Před 12 dny

    If a child feels unsafe with one parent?

  • @saw727
    @saw727 Před 13 dny

    It took minimum 2 years for me to get past allowing "the situation" to effect me in the same way. One day, it just starts to fall away little by little. I've learned to not react, I've learned how to help my child better, I'm more in the moment.

  • @tinydoodlepieP
    @tinydoodlepieP Před 13 dny

    Thank you so much for your videos. This is such a true and helpful concept to understand in order to live a full life while addressing a high conflict custody situation in the day to day. I have so much respect for you and what you teach. Thank you!

  • @NewLife20249
    @NewLife20249 Před 13 dny

    Thank you so much for this information! Could you please recommend some free legal services to start the divorce?🙏🙏🙏 I’m mentally and physically exhausted, being separated for almost a year, got rejected the restraining order because my lawyer wasn’t prepared at all!!! I have a lot of facts and evidence but second guessing free legal help but I can’t wait anymore… Any suggestions or recommendations would be greatly appreciated🙏

  • @emmafarfalla7611
    @emmafarfalla7611 Před 15 dny

    I'm in court for custody and visitation my ex boyfriend lives in different states. My chill be 3 in few months and his asking for taking her with him 😢. I need a parenting plan. Someone can help and he stop paying child support 3 months ago

  • @deadbeatboy
    @deadbeatboy Před 15 dny

    Oh boy... Those are some extremely sexist generalizations

  • @jensouza3857
    @jensouza3857 Před 16 dny

    Hay Tammy how have you been?

  • @NoCoincidencetv
    @NoCoincidencetv Před 17 dny

    So many excuses are made for women.. When we are all human smh 👑

  • @LadyChaos1992
    @LadyChaos1992 Před 19 dny

    I don't respond when he attacks me. I deny him the satisfaction of having that control.

  • @kate4biglittlevoices
    @kate4biglittlevoices Před 19 dny

    In my situation, this has never worked- this has however allowed my ex and his attorney be more convincing when lying about me, in front of me in court, bc if it was a lie, would I not dispute it? Why do I not protest? Also, they are aggressive about going to the judge and third parties behind my back, to present atrocities, which I can’t defend bc I never know they took place

  • @jessicaschoonover7937

    Thank you for doing these. We have our evidentiary hearing this morning. Have our recommendation from the CFI. I have only spent 1 hour a week with our sweet girl for the last year and praying the magistrate adopts the CFI’s recommendation of reunification and then revisit 50/50. Praying our daughter wins today in the courtroom.

  • @jasonzacharias2150
    @jasonzacharias2150 Před 21 dnem

    May God have mercy on your soulls.. ⚖️

  • @JackJewsareevil-gq7by
    @JackJewsareevil-gq7by Před 21 dnem

    It's literally a scam

  • @nadernaser8267
    @nadernaser8267 Před 22 dny

    how they have a right to take your children and find you guilty with out any court paper work I don’t received any

  • @malstewart5050
    @malstewart5050 Před 26 dny

    This has been so helpful. I am currently going through this with an toxic narcissistic alcoholic violent mother trying to gain legal access to my child. Thankyou...

  • @KickItAgainShoes
    @KickItAgainShoes Před 26 dny

    Thank you so much for providing this invaluable content! Your candor and clearway of breaking down situations, scenarios and the Courts point of view makes it so digestible. When I watch your videos I feel like I've already made headway. I think your late husband would be proud of what you're continuing to do. You exude a lot of strength, inner strength as well as strength of character. With Gratitude 🤝

  • @deepwaters7242
    @deepwaters7242 Před 28 dny

    Thank you.

  • @fondasnow
    @fondasnow Před 29 dny

    My N ex wants me to have zero custody. She is alienating me from our daughter. Unbelievable.

  • @Lidu12004
    @Lidu12004 Před měsícem

    In today’s day and age were mental health seems to be an “excuse“ for bad behavior, how are the courts, lawyers and family services mediators taking that into consideration and educating themselves against parent who are narcissistic, traumatizing their children and or the other parent, and mental illness, such as Paranoid schizophrenia, for example?

  • @Lidu12004
    @Lidu12004 Před měsícem

    What kind of results and things can you do in divorce and/or custody cases between a judge and a commissioner assigned to your case?

  • @OaklynnGenevieve
    @OaklynnGenevieve Před měsícem

    Big thanks to *Digitsaltruthseekers* for their incredible support during my divorce. It's not easy navigating such a tough time, but they made it a lot less stressful. Their expertise not only gave me confidence but also revealed evidence of my spouse's infidelity, which was instrumental in winning the case. Truly grateful for their help!

  • @OaklynnGenevieve
    @OaklynnGenevieve Před měsícem

    Big thanks to *Digitsaltruthseekers* for their incredible support during my divorce. It's not easy navigating such a tough time, but they made it a lot less stressful. Their expertise not only gave me confidence but also revealed evidence of my spouse's infidelity, which was instrumental in winning the case. Truly grateful for their help!

  • @AdalynnAdalynn
    @AdalynnAdalynn Před měsícem

    Just wanted to give a quick shoutout to *Digitsaltruthseekers* for their amazing work during my divorce. They not only helped me gather evidence but also uncovered proof of my spouse's infidelity, which was a game-changer in the case. Their compassion and professionalism made all the difference. Couldn't have done it without them!!!

  • @SavannahBella-io8lm
    @SavannahBella-io8lm Před měsícem

    Massive appreciation for *Digitsaltruthseekers!* Your expertise in gathering evidence was invaluable in my divorce case. With your help, I was able to present a strong case and achieve a favorable outcome. Thank you for your dedication and hard work!!

  • @user-mm8rx9pn8w
    @user-mm8rx9pn8w Před měsícem

    The narcissist only cares about themselves.

  • @tiffanyolson4565
    @tiffanyolson4565 Před měsícem

    So sorry about Thomas passing :(

  • @JeepCherokeeful
    @JeepCherokeeful Před měsícem

    A police action timeline is very precise and documented…but it’s defrauding the taxpayers and a risk to public safety imo

  • @cicibaby47
    @cicibaby47 Před měsícem

    This was enjoyable

  • @saw727
    @saw727 Před měsícem

    I'm in such a different place than a year ago. I was emotional, now I don't even respond to the hate filled messages. However, our child is still in the midst of the hate coming from the other side, which does make things difficult

  • @CraigoryAbbit
    @CraigoryAbbit Před měsícem

    Nice information 👌🏾 ...

  • @jefferyf7359
    @jefferyf7359 Před měsícem

    These two dated? Were married? I could swear there are built in innuendos and sub communications from them as if he used to smash but ended things. Am I alone here?

  • @user-ov1hk3bj6g
    @user-ov1hk3bj6g Před měsícem

    日本も共同親権になったが、、、共同養育計画書の提出義務化は見送られ、実子誘拐の刑事罰もない、面会権もない、子どもの意見表明権もない。 ゴミみたいな法律ができただけ。警告しておく。日本人とは結婚はやめておけ。 日本人母親が異常者だと、子供と永久に引き離されるぞ。

  • @edvinvaldes1919
    @edvinvaldes1919 Před měsícem

    Best interest means acting out in the best interest of corporations, and law firms. I’m the better parent beyond a questionable doubt. And I always get a short filthy straw. I’m to the point of boycotting for what’s right for my child

  • @Inkstervamp
    @Inkstervamp Před měsícem

    I have been paying for 2 apartments because my psycho narcissistic ex moved far and we have 50 50

  • @biscotti_8820
    @biscotti_8820 Před měsícem

    Thank you for this video 🙏🏻thank you guys for being real an good energy

  • @abboy72
    @abboy72 Před měsícem

    How about not treat the incidents as insignificant? Judges couldn’t be bothered. Judges are not equipped to respond to family conflict. They care about law and not the welfare of children.

  • @jonathnjdm714
    @jonathnjdm714 Před měsícem

    But gotta take the childs consideration if the child wants to reunify with the parent yes or No. Forcing them to is not the answer.

  • @Clint328
    @Clint328 Před měsícem

    Stoic philosophy. Love it

  • @bethbethanny6425
    @bethbethanny6425 Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤

  • @winter4953
    @winter4953 Před měsícem

    HMMM!

  • @kikezurek34
    @kikezurek34 Před měsícem

    I'm fighting in San diego for child custody. 50/50 joint custody is approve. Just the parenting schedule we been fighting. She moved 1 hour away fallbrook and what to move to borrego springs. And the schedule is based on her old job she got fired. We can follow the same schedule. Any tips for me I go to court again next month

  • @ArtAbsurdist
    @ArtAbsurdist Před měsícem

    I love the advice y’all give but… can you keep the digs directed at your hubby or “his” kid to a minimum? It’s taking value away from the advice and therefore we will lose trust in the advice given. Just saying.

  • @dlt5241
    @dlt5241 Před měsícem

    FUCK THE SYSTEM. I HAVE A GOD GIVING FUCKING RIGHT TO BE IN MY CHILDS LIFE ......FUCK THE COURTS....I HATE THIS BULLSHIT

  • @user-bm2uc5ci2i
    @user-bm2uc5ci2i Před měsícem

    What I meant was if I'm the one with custody and he takes him and threatens not to give him back to me