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Acı bir durum derken evlenmek senin için aciysa niye evleniyosun cahilmisin

Gelinim yok diyee üzülüyorumm😢😢😢

Kurdeleyi bağlayan kişi benim. Türk geleneklerinde onu hep ben korudum, şimdi sıra eşinde anlamına gelir. 😇

Finally a western respectful comment thank you. Its cultural difference, wjile i am not turk, i have the same feeling, in islam every family(blood kinship) tie is most sacred, parents then siblings, not just as materialistic or even emotional support, but as an emotional tie, add to that hierarchical sibling relation wich mean sibling love is more like filial love than that of flat love( friend ) in the west, add to that family mean more like a house, most family live together untile marriage, so we are very attached, we also believe in fate, so getting married and getting seperated from our family is very emotional and mixed feeling of being glad proud sad happy hopless yet hopfull in disbelief regret pity... extra, in my language we call this day happiness day but that does not mean happiness like westerner mean, more like spirtual happiness so mixed feeling are normal, sorry for my bad english

A lot of other replay are condescendant and ridiculizing wich is hurtfull since its clear that this event and those emotions are important for us, it does not have anything about the marriage being arranged or not

A lot of eastern non muslim cultures have this type of emotion the day of seprating from family, like india china and japan thou they show it differently

@@baradanaher7197 thank you for explaining about the culture and emotional differences and different types of love. After viewing this video, I searched reason for red veil and red sash around the waist. These traditions are just wonderful and beautiful. I can see the heartfelt emotions coming from everyone. Since we don't stay with families so long here, that bond seems to be lost among family members. It's always a rush to leave home and be on our own. I wish our families were more like these families. The ties that bind are so strong. I have total respect for your family traditions. :)

@@baradanaher7197 Interesting...I didn't even think of arranged marriage when I saw this. I just enjoy the love and respect between these family members so much. :)

Sen oyna ozaman amuda falan kalkarsın. Şöyle duygu yoksunları yorum yapmasın ya

@@gler.58👏🏻

Ben muğlalıyım aynısını bende derdim ağlamayın falan annemin çok güzel bi lafı var ergene koca boşamak kolay diye yaz sonu istemem var şuan da bile herkes çok hassas evde bu ağlama gidiyorum yada gidiyor diye değil 24 yaşındayım hala gece uyurken babam gelir üstümü örter öper koklar canından can vermek kolay değil insana

​@@gler.58❤

Gelin hem ağlar hem güler

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