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Sexless marriage is an oxymoron, both biblically and otherwise. No sex, marriage kaputt. The marriage certificate is not the marriage.

women don't have a conscience and know the courts will Always find in their Favor

Furthermore, it enters into taking advantage of the other in a despicable manner if you deny your spouse intimacy, and yet you expect all the other full benefits of marriage.

The expectation of your spouse being faithful is good, right, and necessary. However, expecting your spouse to be faithful implies something to be faithful for. It is grossly unfair to deny your spouse intimacy without good reason. If one doesn't compromise, then it's doubtful there was actually love. Love isn't just mere feelings and words, it's what you do. Marriage does involve respecting the other's rights, but that's not what love and marriage us all about. It's about giving of yourself, and sacrifice, to and for the other. I gave up after 2 years, and am in the process of leaving. I'm lonelier now than when me and my partner first met.

She didn’t require all this work when dating. She turned it off and she’ll turn it back on with the next guy. She’s controls it.

LMFAO, what she fails to admit is that ALL those layers that lead up to intimacy were intentionally sabotaged by the woman to avoid intimacy in the first place. There are videos out there from honest women, which flat out admit, that women, kill off the playfulness, the gentle touches, the playful banter, all the stuff they CLAIM they need as daily foreplay to make them ready when the night comes, for the sole reason that they are afraid those acts will lead to physical intimacy. So, the whole premise of this video is wrong. You didn't lose intimacy from a willing wife, because you let all these foundational elements fall by the wayside, rather the WIFE, systematically destroyed those foundational elements for the sole purpose of killing intimacy.

Your videos are very helpful 💜 thank you

What a load of garbage.

New subscriber here. I just found your content. What your channel discusses deeply resonates with me and is very helpful so far. (I’ve only watched this episode thus far.) This is something I’ve struggled with my whole life. For context: I’m a man in my mid-30s.

Insightful. The advice makes sense, plus people all around me who "play the game" masterfully, as you describe, leading the ex-narc., parent, or boss to condescend from a place of superiority, have gotten fantastic results. I didn't and haven't. I don't even know how to play it, which has proven quite dangerous in a highly narcissistic culture (as you mentioned, narcissists are everywhere).

They can say or do whatever. You just be you and dont mind them. You do not have to play their games. Do not play. Just be you. Think of them like silly toddlers. Be the adult in the room. They will not want to compete with someone who wont play along. Its more aboit competition to them than power. If you do not compete there is no game. But propping up their false image makes them feel good.

Interesting video but please reconsider your choice of background music. It is jarringly aspirational canned corporate feeling 😂

Very helpful! Thank you so much! I will start practicing it immediately

Been trying for years i express my feelings to wrong pepole

Done driving down that one-way street. Too much effort for once a year sex.

I liked the explanation, thank you ❣

Thank you - good job explaining codependence.

. Most people develop trauma precisely because people don't come to help, because there is a lack of attuned and responsive relationships. This is clearly part of the self care nonsense....without realising that preaching this stuff is exactly how we fail people and indeed whole societies.

Leave, and within 24 hours of it becoming clear there is no nookie. Life is too short to put up with such nonsense from such selfish controlling women. A woman will never truly respect her man, unless on some level she knows she will lose her man. A side benefit I have found with being respected by your woman is that lack of nookie is never ever an issue, unless there is some temporary physical reason such as immediately after birth, the mom is in no fit state for nookie, but if she truly cared and respected her man, she would find ways to take care of her man's needs without normal intercourse. That's my two cents worth.

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It was my husband who divorced me last year after 11years married.he done this 7 weeks after leaving.now I'm on my own.i never wanted that at all 😢

With how men are treated these days; incompetent, worthless, invalid. Men need to stop dealing with sexless relationships. Go where you are treated best.

Thanks for this vidéo

After over ten years, and my youngest son has graduated, I'm done. I don't even WANT to have s3x with a person who has turned into a roommate. I'm 57yo; I don't want to waste any more time with my 'wife.'

"Chads" who are free thinking (they don't need babies), can get lots of "fun" without putting a ring on it. It's the Normies that must pay via marriage. The Sub-5's ... oh well, a trip to SEA for P4P.

Divorce her.

This is very helpful. Thank you! It helps me to know I’m not crazy.

Thanks, great❤

After listening to this info I feel there may be some fine lines between just being a "helpful person" & a "meddler"... 🤔

It’s probably the rescuer that needs rescuing, cuts deep!

I am so happy I got out of it😊 I thought it was love but now I know it was only my definition of love

This should have more views and likes💙

Sell off all your shit and Disappear. Leave her with nothing. And flee the state. Don't wait for her to divorce you which is her plan. Dont let her know your next move.

😢 Sounds a little familiar

Ugh. This is painfully true. I’ve always been a generous person, even as a child. Just now figuring out I have AuDHD and grew up in a covert narc household set that up for me. I’m much better now thank God!

It doesn't always work. You can't get rid of a narcissistic. Once you have been abused by them you cannot forget.

My wife and I met a woman who, during times, ended up apologizing to her husband that she was not his "dream girl". That was not the woman that he married. What if, every time a man gets in position to finally see his "dream girl", he finds out she's not really there? What if you'd married the "ideal woman" just to find she hates you. The older I get, the more it is that I believe, marry the problem, not the cure. The cure will only kill you.

When women "date up", those men are dating down

Don't marry anybody whose shenanigans will cause you to underperform.

Where can I do the assessment?

The problem with married women is they don't want sex.

I somewhat agree x

I needed to hear this...actually I'm at the beginning of a new relationship and I 've noticed that I 'm falling into that unconditional love pattern and it's someting bad for both sides odf the relationship. Your point really helped me to see it clearer, so thank You very much and I'm looking forward to more videos of a similar topic or a follow up of this one.

I believe that unconditional love is the basis of marriage. Honoring boundaries is related to respect and communication among others. But a separate topic.

No. Loving someone doesn't lead to toxic behaviour.On neither part, if it's reciprocated and mutual.True love doesn't mean that you tolerate everything, but if love has conditions, it isn't love. You should stay away from these definitions. You're setting yourself up for failure in a relationship. Wether you love somebody or not is beyond your control. What consequences you draw, isn't. Love is, by definition, without conditions.

Unconditional love is from God and doesn't negate healthy boundaries. Unconditional love is necessary. It is hard sometimes for some more than others, but it must be a mutual commitment. And it is not the lover's fault where/if their partner chooses to abuse them or their love.

Very much agree! I had an ex who's friends helped twist her mind with non transactional/unconditional views of relationships. There always has to be giving and receiving. Even the notion of having a boundary sets a condition 🤦 love me no matter what I do! And people wonder why they don't keep relationships or always want more love. I could listen and talk about this stuff for hours. Thanks for sharing because this needs to be heard and understood more. It can really hurt people not understanding love.

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Lmao imagine doing all that emotional work, while paying the bills, letting her live in your house, providing and protecting. NO WAY, ma'am. Everyone is talking about what women need, completely ignoring what men need. And we don't really need much. But we NEED sex. If a women doesn't have to want sex with her husband - that's her problem and SHE must fix it. Imagine husbands would be like "darling I don't feel like paying the bills this month". Modern western world is so female-centrist, men are just working mules, and nobody fcking even cares about giving bare minimum to us. Kings, LEAVE relationships where your needs - even so basic ones as physical intimacy - are NOT met. Trust me, been there know that. You will be much happier. If you can, just go abroad. Western civilization is dying "thanks" to feminism, depopulation is real and family as a social construct is dead