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I’m probably going to kill myself. I have no purpose. Absolutely none, friends stick around then leave, you can manipulated, everything is just getting worse. What’s the point? I’m 17 and I was born for no reason, there is no real happiness, just tragedies, we all will be taken eventually, and I hope there is a god, but I highly doubt he’d ever want me. I try so hard, I had my best friend leave me, for no reason. I have no one. I’m such a stupid idiot I don’t Deserve to live. I wish I never even existed. I’m so stupid I’m so dumb I’m so worthless I don’t even care anymore, I wish someone cared, I think about my family and my pets, how I’ve let them all down, but I wish I wasn’t born. Why should I even be alive? Nothing makes me happy anymore, everything is just fake, I hate it so much I hate everything, and everyone, I used to believe I have a purpose, for making music, but I don’t. I suck at everything, no one likes me, and I can see why. I’m stupid I’m dumb, I’m worthless I’m boring I’m ugly, I just wish someone cared, but I don’t care anymore. There is no purpose

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Theres no science in this video. Why does emdr work?

This is a fantastic explanation. I’ve never heard it described this way, makes it easier to understand.

Megan changed my life with EMDR about 10 years ago. I will always be grateful to you Megan! I hope you are doing well.❤

It’s like I cannot face the phantom of doing it but if I commit to doing it, I feel better off that alone. That’s really why I’m here. Trying to figure out maybe how to not feel relieved about it but at the same time I don’t bc I do have a son and he is my everything and when I say I’m his everything, I really am. He has no one else to love him like me so giving up not really a option for me unless I leave him behind and no matter how much I want to die, I cannot do that to my son like fr fr. I can’t take the next steps bc that is my baby. He just wipes my tears for me awhile ago. I just need to be the best mom for him bc he never asked to be here but it’s so fucken hard

Please know that you are wanted in this world! There are strangers out there, like me, who actively wish you the best in life. I've been at this point before, sometimes still am. The best thing we can do is keep going, and keep trying our best out here ❤️

This is very much true

Damn thought u were Jonah Hill at first

Great way to explain it!

Wow! Eye opening

The noise of the marker cap 😢

Wonderful thank you

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It’s good you guys are splitting the girls and guys up now…but when I was there 10 years ago I ended up breaking a Class A rule with another client and had to go back to Phase 1 😂

I was in New Roads about 10 years ago, graduated and stayed in Provo a while in the outpatient apartments. I’m glad to see Nicole is still there, she was awesome!

Excellent session 👍. Thank you.

Bullshit. Don’t listen to this dumbass. This is propaganda for the worst business in the history of the world

Is there any system that takes this a step further in that the community serves as a nucleus for a larger community? A system in which every individual determines how long they stay in it and in what capacity. This would allow each individual to pursue whatever life goals they develop while interacting reciprocally with the Therapeutic Community. I see addiction rehabilitation from a neuronal perspective in that neurons have three primary task they they each must complete to receive resources to stay alive and grow: receive information, process information, transmit information. Failing only one of these tasks manifests as the neuron failing to activate which means it receives no resources. This simple dynamic means neurons are driven to have a purpose or perish. To justify its existence to the community of 100 billion other neurons, an individual neuron must coordinate with neighboring neurons to define a simple idea. Then that group of neurons coordinate with other groups to define more complex ideas. This iteratively fractal process continues creating larger and larger communities until an entire brain is defined. Then it continues past that as two or more brains commune and integrate creating a group. Then that group integrates with other groups to create a larger community. This iteratively fractal process continues on indefinitely limited only by the number of individuals and the organization they employ. But back to the neuron. A neuron only knows that it must be a part of as many ideas as possible to increase its chances of survival. It has to be part of ideas that are activated regularly. Any ideas that are not activated regularly are ideas that neurons do not wish to be a part of. This means the relative usefulness of an idea may not always be related to morality in the larger context of human society. A neuron has no idea what idea it is a part of, so if it is a “bad” idea that is activated continuously, the neuron will have no clue do the morality do the idea it is a part of. The neurons that define a “racist” idea have no idea that they are part of a “racist” idea. All they know is that the idea is activated frequently. This means those neurons are driven to maintain that idea regardless of the larger context of society. “Racism” is a simple idea, but ideas like nationalized socialism are tied to many “good” ideas that the complex idea of “nationalized socialism” SEEMS like a good idea. It is not, but that’s a different discussion. So, to “cure” a person of “bad” ideas, you have to provide a negative outcome for the “bad” idea ALONG WITH a positive outcome for the better idea to replace it. A neuron has to be convince to leave the bad idea by providing it a better idea to be a part of. Otherwise, the neuron will have no reason to let go of the “bad” idea because doing so would mean death. Humans are the same. To cure the bad ideas associated with any addiction, including drugs, alcohol, anti-social behavior, and self-destructive behavior, you HAVE to provide a positive outcome for patients to work towards. Also, not just ONE positive outcome; many positive outcomes provides thousands of “good” ideas” for neurons that are a part of “bad” ideas to migrate towards. If leaving a Therapeutic Community is the ONLY “good” idea that an individual has to work towards, that patient has fewer ideas to process their neurons. Furthermore, that patient is then left to determine future goals past that WITHOUT the support they grew accustomed to. Why end it it? Why not build an full-blown community from these centers that produce economically valuable goods and services that can then feed back into the the Therapeutic community? Why not make the Therapeutic an actual living organisms composed of individuals learning to be productive members of society; individuals who continually find purpose? Why stop at being merely a service when you can continue onto becoming a society built from the bottom-up as Nature intended instead of just releasing individuals back into the flawed society built from the top-down by strangers we have empowered to sign contracts in our name? People become addicts because they latch onto a single idea that gives them purpose because that is the only purpose society has given them. The best therapy is preventative, and preventing addiction is accomplished by providing purpose to people who feel they have no purpose other than to pay taxes and conform to a manufactured society.

Hi Diana. This is Annie Shay an old client from years ago! Thank you so much for this video. I love seeing your face again! Having some issues with interpersonal effectiveness now that I'm out in the real world and not in treatment or hospitals. What is the best thing to remember for someone who is institutionalized to use for social skills? How do I not overshare set boundaries etc?

What is DBT?

Love this thank you

Thank you for this

You let your boundaries collapse

That explained me perfectly.

Very helpful, thank you.

excellent presentation

Fruitful video

Valuable information

Thank you for the excellent presentation . Roll no 80

Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD) is stigmatized because it calls into question the very nature of what it means to be human. Those who function normally have successfully managed to overcome the idealization (unconditional love) hurdle of early childhood. Those with BPD haven't. We are stuck searching for a world that is perfect. And to accept that it isn't is to accept that everything is a compromise and that life itself only offers a meaningless quest for survival instead of the possibility of a transcendent connection with another, which is why relationship difficulties is at the core of this 'disorder'. The “depressive” symptoms can include feelings of extreme sadness or hopelessness, fatigue/lethargy, changes in appetite, inability to concentrate, and suicidal/morbid thoughts. There are several types of the disorder, usually defined by the severity or intensity of the symptoms. The most severe type can even include psychotic symptoms such as auditory or visual hallucinations. It is important to be wise when dealing with a narcissist and I’m glad that cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone. I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share his phone number with Cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone through a programmed link. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m finally going through divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his deleted and recent chats on Whatsapp, Facebook and Instagram. You can contact this great hacker “Gavin” through his email Cyberhackinggenius@gmail. com and WhatsApp: +19256795146 and thank me later for sharing this vital information with you..

Recent studies show the biggest influences to develop disorders like borderline personality disorder are caused by external factors. Genetics have a minor influence about this. In general people with BPD feel emotionally neglected and their destructive behaviour pattern refer to that. It could be the neglection is hardly visible for outsiders. It doesn't have to be caused by parents or other close relatives and it doesn't have to be anyone's fault. It can be anything, but something must have happened to develop the feeling "I am inferior and people won't like as I am now". In the example shown in the video it is assumed the boy behaves like that because he has not learned to behave in a problem solving and constructive way. If such behaviour really refers to borderline in development than the behaviour is caused by a feeling of powerlessness. The boy already knows how to behave correctly, however he experiences people are not responding to him. He also notices when other children behave the same, they however get the attention he doesn't get. So he develops the thought: "When I do exactly the same like any other I will be ignored. So that means there's something wrong with me. I don't know exactly what it is, because people don't tell me what I am doing wrong. That probably means I am too dumb or too unlikable." The dramatic and destructive behaviour is the result. Because someone with BPD learns that probably is the only way to get the attention he needs so badly. He also learns people react in a negative way to the behaviour, which confirms the belief he is an inferior person. However negative attention is always better than no attention at all. The majority of people with BPD have thought countless of times why it always goes wrong and what they should do to change their life for the better. In majority people with BPD are creative, intelligent and know very well how to think in a problem solving way. The reason they don't manage to solve their own problems is because they are too affraid to be confronted by their emotions. Their destructive behaviour is mainly meant to avoid the confrontation of the pain which is so extremely hurtful.

I can relate with him

this was so helpful

Dange sanjay SPM Lonand good morning to all participant and organizer

You got mad bc she reacted to you scaring her bc you were driving crazy? Makes no sense. Regardless if you didn’t think you were driving crazy, she thought you were driving crazy and she reacted to a crazy turn. That’s like saying If you were in the wrong lane and a car is coming and someone yells “watch out” and you get mad bc they yelled it when they thought they were going to die. Who really is in the wrong here? Nobody’s going to react to accidentally turning the car over in a calm manner. That’s like saying you can’t be human.

But we all know this basic stuff but when u have bpd and ur emotions literally ruin every once of reasoning and diplomatic fluff how do u stop yourself from going into meltdown - anger anxiety rage etc thats what I need to know. I know how to behave obviously but if ur emotions are so erratic and unpredictable how do I manage that?

If this is who they have as the head of primary care for us, then the mental health system needs a complete uproot. This woman has no true understanding and this isn’t a passion for her, this is simply a job, she’s under qualified and doesn’t truly care. Her whole presentation shows this, her tone of voice, and her body language, and her condescending explanations really gives me zero hope. For shame

Thank you! This is so great and presented in a very non judgemental manner :)

everyone who’s talking shit about this in the comments shut the fuck up new roads is a great treatment center

I love the “easy manner” and “no apologies” parts. Great tips.

Does she actually need help moving? Just curious...💜🤔

More R&B groups need to experience soft rock songs and viceversa

This is so true

Little Johnny sounds like a little bitch.

So you made this entire fucking video with absolutely no information just to advertise your shitty clinic. Sorry there is some very miss-leading information in there.

OMG I accidently clicked on this as I'm sitting in treatment at new roads. Wtf

Um no