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Dr. Amina Aitsi-Selmi
United Kingdom
Registrace 26. 01. 2016
Are you a doer and need some help getting unstuck? I'll be your coach. Find out more at www.doctoramina.com
9 things to Stop, Start, or Maintain [Wise Wednesdays #352]
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Why You Don't Know What You Want Sometimes and 5 Steps for Desire Surfing [Wise Wednesdays #351]
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Why you don’t know what you want sometimes [Wise Wednesdays] I’ve had a few coaching conversations recently about what to do when you have a great job and life but want more and can’t put your finger on what it is you want. This situation (The Success Trap) can bring guilt, fear, and confusion, especially if you’ve always had clear goals. But what brought your current success is not the way to ...
"This is Me for the BBC" project fun.#random
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Expanding your range of roles in life and work… Life often asks us to play different roles beyond what we’re used to. In this fun video for a BBC project pitch by a media firm many moons ago, we embraced our French accents and went with the flow. I was asked to be an MTV-style show host and dialled up my energy and enthusiasm!... As a transformational career coach, I often invite you to look be...
Coaching Without Coaching: Translating Your Transformational Gifts into Your Career or Business
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Do your colleagues, team or friends regularly say that they feel better and make changes to their lives after conversations with you? Yet, they can’t quite put their finger on what you did. Perhaps you’re not sure either. Join me for a special session on coaching without coaching to debunk a few coaching myths and release any pressure to perform so you can naturally share your gift of presence,...
How to turn your dreams into reality: self-coaching with the 5 pillars of coaching [Wise Wednesdays]
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Below I want to share 5 basic pillars of coaching, so you can self-coach. Use them as a checklist to see where you might be missing something that’s stopping you from moving forward. If you were to have an exploratory coaching session with me, this is often what we would cover (depending on what you need): 1) [VISION] What’s the most inspiring and meaningful vision that lives in you? Draw this ...
Barbie, the patriarchy and the joy of creating yourself and your world [Wise Wednesdays]
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Thanks for watching. Here's the latest event to work with us live: Want to give your mind a break from the daily trains of thought, give it a deep massage, and enjoy a detox? Join us on March 3rd for 2 transformational hours in the Expand Your Impact virtual room. We’ll be waiting with organic mental essences to nurture your dreams of a kinder future. Book your ticket here: creativeswitzerland....
Reimagining time [Wise Wednesdays]
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Navigating Career Uncertainty: Ikigai Revisited [Wise Wednesdays]
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Full piece at www.doctoramina.com/wisewednesdays. Get it straight to your inbox next week when you sign up.To find your path, embrace uncertainty. Explore your Ikigai, and reconnect with a sense of purpose and possibility. Let things unfold naturally from there.
Why You Should 'Sell' Yourself and How [Wise Wednesdays] #gifteconomy #business #ethics
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Note: The video longer than planned and I keep forgetting to look into the camera but shared is better than perfect! Why You Should 'Sell' Yourself and How [Wise Wednesdays] Of course, you're always in control of your choices. But here's a question: when you die, how much of yourself do you want to keep? The word "selling", from the Old English ‘sellan’, originally meant 'giving'. In this sense...
The sweet spot between utopia and cynicism [Wise Wednesdays]
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Uncertainty is hard to be with. That’s why resilience is so elusive (it requires more uncertainty tolerance than we’re trained for). Yet, every organisation wants its employees to be more ‘resilient’ without providing the right training and support or modelling the behaviours. My journey from utopian ideals to cynicism: In my 20s, I had a clear goal. I believed the world could be saved, and my ...
4 Ways to Soothe Negative Judgments About Other People [Wise Wednesdays]
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Resilience in 2024: Create Your Unique Resilience Theme [Wise Wednesdays]
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Steadiness in all things [Wise Wednesdays] Happy New Year! There’s a lot of talk about resilience these days but what does it mean exactly? McKinsey calls it “resilience in a fragmenting world”. The Bible calls it faith in the End of Times. We could just call it living through another great transformation. What does resilience mean for you? And how do you know it’s working? [Read on or watch th...
[Boundaries Clinic] Prioritise Your Needs Without Sacrificing Your Purpose
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Are you navigating uncertainty? These times offer an unparalleled opportunity to deepen your self-awareness, speak your truth and align with your bigger calling. But how do you honour your needs while stretching to break boundaries and create the impossible? During this Boundaries Clinic you will learn powerful coaching tools that enhance your body awareness (to rapidly identify where your boun...
[Leaders Circle] Purpose in Times of Global War
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Transformational Coaching Strategies for Leaders and Professionals in a Hyperconnected World We live in times of profound uncertainty, offering a unique opportunity for a deeper attunement to our individual callings. But how do you navigate this complexity and find your true direction? Where do you start? Join this 90-minute exploratory space to: 1) Explore Dynamic Purpose: Clarify or refine yo...
5 ways to create burnout [Wise Wednesdays]
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I can’t take it anymore, I’m burned out - I’m leaving! Burnout (or near-burnout) is one of the most common reasons people give for wanting to leave their role or change career. Surveys show that the prevalence of burnout can reach up to 88% depending on the setting It’s especially high in healthcare, with burned out staff being 3 times more likely to want to leave. But changing role without cha...
2 questions to trust your intuition [Wise Wednesdays]
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2 questions to trust your intuition [Wise Wednesdays]
The 3 Trainings [Presence Power Possibility]
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The 3 Trainings [Presence Power Possibility]
The 3 Stages of Presence [Uplevel Your Conversations]
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The 3 Stages of Presence [Uplevel Your Conversations]
3 questions to transform your future NOW [Take #2}
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3 questions to transform your future NOW [Take #2}
Ula and Amina talk about Presence, Coaching and the Leaders Circle
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Ula and Amina talk about Presence, Coaching and the Leaders Circle
Feeling overwhelmed Here are 3 life changing insights + 3 simple steps
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Feeling overwhelmed Here are 3 life changing insights 3 simple steps
[Leaders Circle] The Joy of Uncertainty - Transform the Stress of Uncertainty into Energy.
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[Leaders Circle] The Joy of Uncertainty - Transform the Stress of Uncertainty into Energy.
How far should you go (when taking risks in your career and life)? [Wise Wednesdays]
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How far should you go (when taking risks in your career and life)? [Wise Wednesdays]
Should you follow your head or your heart to make decisions?
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Should you follow your head or your heart to make decisions?
[Leaders Circle]Meetings that Deliver: Lead Your Team to Bond, Build + Breakthrough 2 Better Results
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[Leaders Circle]Meetings that Deliver: Lead Your Team to Bond, Build Breakthrough 2 Better Results
Don't move faster than you can feel [Wise Wednesdays]
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Don't move faster than you can feel [Wise Wednesdays]
[Leaders Circle] Meetings that Deliver introduction
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[Leaders Circle] Meetings that Deliver introduction
Metamorphosis: 3 strategies to transform imposter syndrome [Wise Wednesdays]
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Metamorphosis: 3 strategies to transform imposter syndrome [Wise Wednesdays]
Power, Love and Change [Wise Wednesdays]
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Power, Love and Change [Wise Wednesdays]
How to Develop an Entrepreneurial Mindset to Your Career for True Success
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How to Develop an Entrepreneurial Mindset to Your Career for True Success
Since 7th grade, I wanted to be a "biological synthesist". I just knew I wanted to do some amazing bionanotechnology, a word that I did not know at the time (1977) and that may not have existed at that time either. Fast forward to between my 3rd and 4th years in college, finishing my BChE (chemical engineering degree with a minor in Russian), and I knew I had to pursue a math PhD in order to learn what other mathematicians knew in order to solve all the differential equations in chemical engineering in order to solve these problems in bionanotechnology. I finally earned a Masters (1991) and PhD (2000) in math. I am 60 and these are STILL my goals. So, I never decided to "be a mathematician" when I was younger, and I never intended to teach math. I pursued this line of work out of physical scientific necessity. The math has to be solved.
at 6:29 is he saying it's good when people pursue a PhD to unlock more funding and progress in their career path, or is that a BAD reason to pursue the phd? I'm confused. Because the question is "What are good reasons for pursuing a PhD?" and he answers with 1. genuine curioisity, 2. people who want to unlock higher paths in their careers -- but then says there are other ways of doing that ? I'm confused
I have sometimes decided to back off of my intense ongoing efforts to make the next great meme, essay or video. I'll just drop back and be a reader of others' online observations, instead of rush every observation of my own onto the internet. This may not be the same as a job situation, but I have placed great value on success writing and having my creations read. I need to re-discover the simple pleasure of reading and receiving wisdom.
Goede cijfers halen op wiskunde maken je geen wiskundige of natuurlundige. En dat is absoluut niet falen hoor. Ken een aantal wiskundigen en natuurkundigen en die vertellen stuk voor stuk dat zij nooit een studie als 'rechtsgeleerdheid' kunnen volbrengen. Ieder mens heeft wel ergens een aanleg voor en daarbij komt nog heel veel kijken om zo aanleg te laten ontplooien, sowieso (veel) geld om een universitaire opleiding te bekostigen, sowieso een stabiele thuissituatie zodat je je volop kan concentreren, want wetenschap komt niet met slapen aanzetten, en nog veel meer factoren. Pas als je in die gelukkige situatie zit dat je je talent ten volste kan ontplooien maak je een kans in de slangenkuil die 'wetenschap' wordt genoemd.
SIMPLE..........DNA........YOU'RE FEMALE.....DUH!
Great ideas as always! I am struggling with perseverance. I am reading Deep Work to learn how to embrace boredom, sit with my ideas, and resist the urge to check my phone or email... Restoring my focus and perseverance is my main focus this year.
Wonderful! Deep Work is a great concept and way to organise your time. Boredom is the doorway to the next level of awareness. Good luck!
So woman?
Thanks :)
You're welcome!
Very insightful! Thank you for sharing! I feel that suppressing the waves will make me self-conscious of my behavior and more anxious. I feel that my willpower declines throughout the day as I try to suppress the waves, and oftentimes give up fighting them. What's your advice on overcoming the internal turbulences?
Great question! It's important to notice and breathe through the tension of desire (rather than trying to suppress it using willpower). That's where breathing, stretching, walking or other mindfulness approaches that feel the tension without giving into it help. Using willpower to resist desire tension will result in a lot of tension in the body. You can also be curious about the desire-impulse and understand what it is made of (energy and thoughts). You can try my HAPI tool to investigate thoughts or other tools like Tara Brach's RAIN approach. Here's the link to the HAPI tool www.doctoramina.com/hapi.
Not sure why one makes a video about a career they didn’t enter. It usually has something to do with a combination of lack of interest and lack of ability in that field.
First like, first comment. 😛
So math was too hard for you?
You’re pretty.
My college abstract algebra book contained a handful of biographies about mathematicians throughout history. The biographies went something like, "this person who made major contributions to (some math area) also suffered from (some disease, disability, depression, mental illness, traumatic experience, etc)." I was thinking wow this career and area of study doesn't sound to promising.
maybe u should have taken up functional analysis, people there are much happier overall.
I love maths but im a bit thick. Oh, well.
I failed to become a mathematician because I'm stupid. Hope that helps.
The main reason I stopped doing mathematics is simply that it started to feel like a bunch of puzzles after a while without any broader significance.
How are you Doing now
How are you doing Amina darling
How are you Amina
I'm a court married
Hey Amina
Thanks for this video. I am working on finishing up a chemistry degree I left, one more class to finish. After that, I am either starting a small business or an academic 180, and going to a theological seminary.
Love of logic and people is an oxymoron.
Each person has to figure out what their particular accent to the human motivation array is in order to build a behavior-space that satisfies it to the greatest extent for happiness.
You are completely right.
Not Math is racist 😉😉😉😉 5/4 are bad at Math
You are a women 😉
That settles it… I don’t love people, so maths it is! 🤓
WHAT FOR? I am unemployed 5 years after PhD in LAW - I am the author of 8 books, more than 1200 citations, 4 degrees, fluent in 4 languages, a lot of connections and I am unemployed person!
Translation: Girls think math is “Icky.”
I failed to become a mathematician because I always thought maths just about numbers and variables to play around floating on a textbook. Once I first attended university it got harder and challenging into my third year, endlessly staring one problem at the time. I never enjoyed it, as a skill it challenges your capable thinking and problem-solving skills. In the end I kept grinding self-taught through problems through khan academy or additional readings to keep with the curriculum, ended up finishing my stats degree doing less pure mathematics such as complex analysis reminded me why I hated real analysis and mathematics overall. Just an iterative process of gathering more logic and information. Hoping to add some value later in life (in analytics, data science, commerce, finance etc..,). P.S. I am finishing my Masters degree hoping to land a role that does involve mathematics (many jobs only use partially/portion of it).
Thanks for sharing... the answer will come when we are not looking and not from information overload
His oversaturated background is so irritating. It's like she is talking to god.
😂😂😂😂
Thank you for expounding this. It has helped me see myself more clearly. I failed to become a mathematician or a physicist mainly because I only really enjoyed those parts of physics and mathematics that could be mastered by intuition. As it turned out, only a few parts of the early curriculum in college could be done that way. I did not have the determination to get into the parts that were not intuitive, that required study, memorization and drill. I did, however, become a computer hardware and software developer. All of that could be done by intuition in my frame of reference.
I thought your segments are bad, honestly.
Thanks, great video
If you're doing it too late, then it is a hobby.
Science is all about interacting with people.
I never get caught up with black and white thinking. I’m too stupid for that nonsense
I failed be a mathematician as the thought of doing a PhD was too daunting and I wanted to make lots of $$$. I did stick out a mathematics degree at a top university and then did MSc financial mathematics and made first $10 million before 35.
Suuuurrree bro
Being a gormless git when I was young, I did not enjoy my undergraduate studies. I graduated from Marquette in the mid-90s with a C+ average and swore that was it for me. Since then I kept having this recurring dream every now and then where I had to face my final exam the next day realizing I hadn't studied all semester - the feeling of utter helplessness always woke me up panicking in bed. But as fate would have it, I ended up marrying a PhD graduate in my 40s which finally gave me the courage to face my demons by attending graduate school armed with over 20 years of industry experience. It was hard work doing my master's part-time while working full-time, but surprisingly I loved that entire journey from enrollment to publishing my research. Comparing it to my undergraduate journey, I was more mature, more emotionally stable, more financially capable, I was able to compartmentalize my life, work and study and due to my long career I was able to relate to all the materials and findings in the literature. That recurring dream never came back. I love my job as dept director but the pursuit of knowledge that benefitted from my work experience and contributed to the way I work in the office was incredibly rewarding, fulfilling and thrilling all at the same time. So in late 2022 I decided to pursue my doctorate degree.... and I'm still enjoying it now at age 50!
Great Interview! I'm pursuing my second masters (in Computational Social Science) alongside my career of 12 years as a Software Engineer. I'm mulling going "all in" for the PhD and perhaps setting up a small consultancy service just to make sure I don't lose touch with the industry alongside. I really liked the idea of being an "active contributor" as opposed to just a consumer.
Если из А следует Б и Б приятно, то А верно. Лев Ландау о женской логике.
I'm new to your channel, and this was most interesting. Production and use not based on exploitation. Sounds like a "give what you can, take what you need" concept. That hasn't always worked out well when it is used within the greater extractive capitalism, because the wider system of a society still imposes abject inequality on participants. As a personal value system, that has promise, though it could become just a platitude that capitalism coopts and turns into a watchword, like "sustainably sourced." and so forth.
at 1:17, was another CZcamsr going in the other direction?
Well this didn't explain anything.
fake PhD BULL and failed mathematician due to low IQ..
Or perhaps MATHEMATICS was too difficult for you "DOCTOR" AMINA AITSI-SELMI!.
Soooooooooooooooo Sweeety!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!