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ilselientje
Registrace 14. 04. 2009
Ilse | Netherlands | 1995 | 9th of November
Hockey | Sailing | Surfing | Family | Friends | Editing
Always up for a chat!
Hockey | Sailing | Surfing | Family | Friends | Editing
Always up for a chat!
Sad Multicouples - break ups | Denial
Watch it with the original song: vimeo.com/646880051
First two phases of a break-up:
1 - Desperate for answers.
The drive to know why the break up has happened is consuming and can come at the expense of rational thoughts and behaviors. You must understand why this happened, maybe beyond anyone’s ability to explain it.
The pain, disorganisation, and confusion can become all you think about, or talk about. But initially, you remain driven to understand what happened, at any cost. The desperation to make sense of something so jarring compels you to debate friends, family, coworkers, even strangers, about why the relationship ended, while you justify to them the reasons it shouldn’t have as if convincing them it is equal to convincing your ex.
2 - Denial.
It feels like you’ve put everything you are into this relationship. It’s been your world, your life. You cannot accept that it’s over.
You funnel every last hope into saving it, even at the expense of your well-being. You postpone your need to grieve its end because it’s just too painful to face. In so doing, you temporarily derail the grieving process by replacing it with unrealistically inflated hope that the relationship can still be salvaged.
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Multifandom/multicouples
Edited by: ilselientje
Program: Sony Vegas Pro 13.0
Colouring: BlueLand
Song: At the end of the video
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Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.
First two phases of a break-up:
1 - Desperate for answers.
The drive to know why the break up has happened is consuming and can come at the expense of rational thoughts and behaviors. You must understand why this happened, maybe beyond anyone’s ability to explain it.
The pain, disorganisation, and confusion can become all you think about, or talk about. But initially, you remain driven to understand what happened, at any cost. The desperation to make sense of something so jarring compels you to debate friends, family, coworkers, even strangers, about why the relationship ended, while you justify to them the reasons it shouldn’t have as if convincing them it is equal to convincing your ex.
2 - Denial.
It feels like you’ve put everything you are into this relationship. It’s been your world, your life. You cannot accept that it’s over.
You funnel every last hope into saving it, even at the expense of your well-being. You postpone your need to grieve its end because it’s just too painful to face. In so doing, you temporarily derail the grieving process by replacing it with unrealistically inflated hope that the relationship can still be salvaged.
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Multifandom/multicouples
Edited by: ilselientje
Program: Sony Vegas Pro 13.0
Colouring: BlueLand
Song: At the end of the video
-
Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.
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If only we could see the future this was to prepare us for what was coming 😭 2024 I'm crying anyone else with me
God bless you, you beautiful bastard. Thanks for uploading this. I am grateful for CZcamsrs like this!
Sonja Webb Cassie Webb are good sisters From one direction
Watching this in 2024… it brings back memories 🥹🥹
2024😢
still here after 10 years, this was one of my favorite edits when I was younger
E accontentato a te avranno la loro cura entrambi e solo questo che volevano
Se ho capito bene vuole dare a una mano a z e Anna e si fanno la vita loro poi
Love e solo con una persona che amo oscar
Tre love no
Non è tru love
What season and the beginning episode?
Accidental shitpost
Fucking Greenberg
Sonja Webb Cassie Webb are good sisters from Austin and Ally
De okay Sonia Webb your okay girl De okay Cassie Webb your okay sister
De okay Ross Lynch your okay boy De okay Louis Tomlinson your okay babe De okay Sonia Webb your okay girl De okay Cassie Webb your okay sister
The year is 2024 and I still can't get over the fact that they're not endgame
the way i still obsess over them
God you have no idea how much I LOVE this video thank you so so so so so so much for this video
Yes I am Gay.
Kinda messed up how she kept saying she loved him while dying in his arms yet was seeing another member of his pack lol
Mysweetd
Myß
🔏
Still the best video
Tou Beoke.my Heart always Vesper Like Tracy out of OHMMS..
Sweet amazing
They are everything. 😭
this whole song is merthur itself
REVIVE THIS
2024 and i come back every once in a while. this is my absolute favorite edit 😪❤️
DUCOUVBMUCOUCOMUCOUCOEHDUCORAUCOUCORAUCOUCORAUCMOYUVDTSRAUCOUEHDTSRAOUCOAQUCOMUCOARUVCORAUCVBMOEULUVCAENUPRTREVSZMVBGRDFRUTRSDRRTRAUCOUYTRTRACVB
NOW ....I UNDERESTAND !!!!
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So cute, listen y'all I need some cute fic recommendations Arthur/Merlin+modern setting? Do you guys have some ideas?
Very funny and amazing together
This is a lie idiots,,,, Teresa Bond was his first love ❤️ fools
I love them sm. They were absolutely perfect, and they had sm potential. I refuse to believe shes dead. Her death was just so unnecessary. Shes still my favorite character even though shes gone long ago. It hurts my heart. And her and Alaric had the best chemistry too, they were my otp and still are. i wont forgive tvd makers for killing her off
Marvelous work, thanks!!
De okay Ross Lynch Calm down your okay babe De okay Louis Tomlinson Calm down your okay babe De okay Sonia Webb Calm down your okay girl De okay Cassie Webb Calm down your okay sister
De okay Ross Lynch your okay boy De okay Louis Tomlinson Calm down your okay babe De okay Sonia Webb your okay girl De okay kira Webb your okay sister De okay Cassie Webb your okay sister
This is othe best Scallison edit I've seen on this app. You are seriously talented 🤩😍
Thank you for making this video. It illustrates Blair's relationships and how they affected her, so well. I love how her and Dan aren't fragile, petty or easily disposable. They are very soft but not easily disposable.Once they become friends, they didnt inflict any harm into each other.They just wanted each other to be happy with or without the other. They truly respect and love each other. A great depiction of best friends, team and a couple.
😢😢😢😢
Such a good video it so good and swet
Thw best couples
watching this at midnight thinking 'awe' but also 'how funny would it be if my mum catches me and i'm crying over this'