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Great video @PREPMedia of this technique of people actually having a conversation using this technique! Very helpful, please check out their video!!!

Men and women both reap the results for their good and bad actions concerning others. Just trying to get people to slow down and think about that.

Why do you say that?

At times possibly.

Thank you for the explanation. You explained it very well. I understand what you are saying. I just want men to look at it less as just something to get just because they want it (lust) and more linked to connection with another person that they would want to build a life with, not just a sxual encounter. So I would want men to think less about the responsibility being only on the woman as the gatekeeper. But, also I do agree the woman is the gatekeeper, the one that says yes. So the affect on her is greater and she needs to say yes only once a person is truly committed to her, instead of just to men that are trying to use her. As you stated her most valuable currency is being cheapened, devalued in a sense, the more it is given away. But there are plenty of guys willing to take it and not think twice, this says more about the character of these men. Women are more trusting and get used in the process, this is unfortunate for everyone. Not sure if we will ever solve the problem but I hope we can try to work towards a positive direction. Again, thank you for the comment and discussion.

Thank you for your comment. So if a man doesn't sow seed, then he is less manly? Interesting. That's the double standard I was talking about. If a woman had the same view that sleeping around a lot made her more of a woman and she did so. It's not usually looked upon the same as when men do it. Both, I would argue, are developing bad patterns in their relationships that will not lead towards building anything long term that truly lasts.

Thanks for the offer but no thanks for now.

Very good point and good explanation. I didn't cover that angle in my video but could have, I went in a different direction, but thank you for adding that point here and continuing the discussion.

Well said. Thank you so much for the comment, I hope other people read this and learn from what you have said. I agree there is a lot of brokenness in relationships today. The risk is higher for women because they are entrusting their hearts to a man, wanting and wishing they will treat them with the honor and care they deserve, but are just used in this process which leaves scars for years and taints their future relationships. That's why men and women both need to slow down and focus on getting to know the true character of someone not just how cute they look in those jeans and become physically involved quickly. That's a pattern of lust, not true love.

@@LifeCoachRich You still don't quite see the entire picture - women are not only entrusting their hearts to a man, but their body, health and their entire future and financial well-being, when they think they are in a relationship that is lasting and leading to marriage and family. Men that are playing the game and counting notches on their belt - are putting women's health and future fertility as well as their financial earning capabilities at risk. A girl or women's future that gets knocked up and ends up raising one or several children as a single parent, will never quite reach the potential she could have had, both in her professional or career life, as well as in being the feminine best version of herself - be it as a mother or as a wife. She will be struggling financially, and be emotionally + physically exhausted trying to raise her family by herself. Young women and girls don't understand that - they get caught up in the hormonal chemical soup of oxytocin, dopamine and endorphins - and their logical brain shuts down. Things get all touchy feely and common sense goes out the window. This is a problem for women in all age groups - and even after menopause, LOL - when the hormones are supposed to settle - it can still be an issue. This is why older women need to be available to teach young women as well; just as older men need to teach young men and lead by example. And both sexes need to be taught the POVs of the opposite sex by older opposite sex teachers on top of that. And the earlier in life - the better are the chances of getting through to them, before hormones are flaring :o)

@@ssiegreen5292 I totally agree, well said. Thank you for sharing this. I hope other people will read this and learn from your words of wisdom.

Thanks for letting me know. There are other videos out there stating increased testosterone as a result of taking turkesterone, so that's why I tried it. But I may what you suggest. Did you have good results with the tongkat ali??

@@LifeCoachRich I have tried Turk and I noticed increased strength maybe placebo but my lifts went up substantial when I was in a plateau I have been taking ashwhganda for 6 years constantly 500mg for me I have struggled with emotions like with uncontrollable tolerance and anger and the ashwhganda has about cured me I have time to take a deep breath and calm down were as I would normally just flip and do something I regretted. I also been trying tongkat ali and it's doing something as I feel a little different to be honest it was making me irritable and feeling annoyed but that's not there anymore I'll continue with it and see what else happens I'm also still taking the turkesterone and I'm not sure what supplement is causing it but at times I get a really good feeling about life just really enjoying feeling in the moment but may only last for 10 mins and when I lay in bed sometimes I just feel totally relaxed and super happy I wish I could get both of those feelings all the time

Thanks for the feedback and what has worked for you.

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