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And what's the second step?

And yet psychological, "diagnostic" labels are so destructive, such a fallicy, so damaging to people. They are lies from the pit of hell and so is the field of psychology made to destroy human souls. The problem lies elsewhere. And that is as far as I will go. I've seen normal people become so called experts of "diagnosing" people and think they are so intelligent and destructive to the people that came for help. They are like vipers in human garb.

How can there be a "recovery period" when nobody cares to stop the abuse?

I like to ask this question because I’m honestly curious and I like the answers I get. No judgment here. Why does it seem like just about every or at least a bunch of psychopaths and sociopaths have the blank eyes? I don’t get it.

Lot of guys I know have both cptsd and ptsd. Growing up in a shithole to blowing up a shithole. At least I learned it’s all one big garbage heap. Didn’t help tho.

I was bullied and screamed at by a coworker and when I got upset and had a panic attack I was offered a Figgit bit, then told to go home when I just needed a few minutes. Workplace don’t understand about ptsd

Im obsessed alright. I cannot let go of what happened to me. When i say the word, DEVASTATED,,... that's what happened to me. The insomnia caused my stress, anxiety 24/7. The Depression. Anhedonia..... is !!!. He sounds like it can be Easley cured, and hey,... just take medications..... ☠️⛓️😫... !!

7 months ago,.. I foolishly made a mistake and retired from my best job of 25 years. My job was everything to me.! I stressed so badly to return. The anxiety of the reality of my lifestyle, dreams, and goals were over. I got chronic insomnia and severe depression. The grief I have is horrible. I can't get my life back, and it was my fault. I have no mental energy to do anything anymore, I don't go outside. I have lost the desire to do anything. I just sit almost 24/7... ruminating on coulda shouda wouldas. My mental and physical health are declining.... but im like mentally paralyzed. Unable to stop this. I've called 988. Words are not helping.... im unable to reframe what they suggest. It's my life that was altered. I was so happy, healthy, and always laid back, worry free. Now I'm a wreck. Unable to sleep, stressed with depression. 911

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Ptsd sucks. It never goes away. Theres no end to the nightmare. Theres no help and I wish people would stop trying to convince me to keep going to make everyone else happy.

Jesus how i definitely feel worse listening to this guy saying it will never go away. Wtf

They don't have the capacity and aren't willing to find that capacity. Only 30% of abused kids turned into abusers themselves, they're having it the way they want to have it.

They have stoped me from getting a job.Im jobless and living with them

Some norms are flowing around in western society around today. To be a boss over others, to own power in different ways, to have the last word in the social conversation, to be in power to have not to listen to other people. To have the privilege to not ever say sorry to someone or feel any guilt or shame. The norms are driving the social strife and it is segregating. The dream seems to have become living as an matriarch or patriarch in a mansion and isolating oneself and ones family from social life. As a layman I have learned that in the myriad of realms of family life, there is the most crucial place for creating a decent society. Do we as western people lost our way? I know things are uglier than ever or has it always been this way?

I guess funding young adults of narcissistic parents is so essential mine was financially abusive..,I wasn’t allowed to go find a job…or have a penny in my pocket so I couldn’t leave..I would love to know if there’s any institutional support for this matter..especially if I have an evidence of physical abuse

"They own you financially they can hurt you." Yes true. and it hurts

Luke 12:52 (NLT) From now on families will be split apart, three in favor of me, and two against-or two in favor and three against.

Why aren’t we sending narcissists to jail?

Viet Nam vet, 1968-69, Agent Orange, numerous heart problems, On meds since 1995 for PTSD, ZOLOFT,200mg, Ativan 6mg, daily,

Viet Nam vet, 15 months, long history heart problems, agent orange, PTSD, survived all my friends I grew up with, recently diagnosed with a stroke, had procedure on right carotid, left is 100% occluded, just having some slight double vision in left eye, my friends who passed, didn't have nearly the problems I had, I don't understand all this !!!

Blimey there are loads of these experts on YOU TUBE telling us what we already know, they must think we are stupid

I didn't find out that my mother (my only "parent") had narcissism until I was nearly 60. Never knew about it at all, I only knew that she was obsessively brutal and unrelenting with psychological abuse..which unfortunately started when I was very young. Narcissism is a hideous pyschological "disease" that only gets worse with age (at least in my experience). My mother is so enslaved by this negative energy/spirit, that I no longer know who she is anymore...it's destroyed her completely as a normal person. My respect and empathy to EVERYONE who has had to deal with this viscious disease. Peace to you all.

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Psychopaths are born... therefore 1-2 out of 100 children, babies.. ARE IN FACT psychopaths.

Ehen its good its lovely but when its bad its an irrational bloody paranoid nightnare where you cant say or do anything right !

1. It is very unlikely that 2 parents are narcisiSSts... as narcisiSSt always looks to entangle a codependent = (a victim of his previous family of origin) .... into the web of her/ his manipulations = "*family"= obligations . NarcisiSSts run a long life list of narcisiSStic sex partners for quick self grattification, BUT not for marriage. 2. Typical narcisiSStic combination in the modern western world is Evelyn Harper a natcisiSStic )( " empovered") mother... and her son(s) Charlie Harper. ... and invisible ...in the background - in fact,.... socially Surgically REMOVED father. = A destroyed man ... That - instead of bringing his Strong growen sons into the tribe of his men - and * protecting their culture and * their teritory... ... He feed up, A cooks egg .... ... schooled, and sustained a son of a Bit** .... man that think, behaves and operates like a promiscuous narcissistic women = his mother. * Bonus: Not surprise that the Old man died in apolong circumstances, 1. st exploited, then rejected and humiliated, and finaly wrongly accused of narcisissam, (*Once he was in need ) WHILE Charlie was tending his modern Barbies on the EXCLUSIVE Malibu hotel terace. Charlie will definitely like to present this video , to his new girlfriend , as a suporting proof... that He is ok... son ... 😮 ..and his father is a narcisiSSt! 🤥🧐🤔🙃😂😶🤭

A stranger that cares is much much preferable than living with one or both narcissistic parents.. Being with them under one roof is like a living hell.. You are constantly on alert or vigilant.. Tiptoeing on or around eggshells.. But despite of this drama and abuse still happens.. As they find even the littlest mistakes or they'll invent one if there were none.. They will bait you, accuse you and gaslight you..

I'd rather be expelled. Than allowing them to hurt me

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Reason why we have all this crippled poor kids jumping around

Thank you for explaining this.. I’ve felt like I was going crazy at times.

i went an joined the marines to get away got out an was surprised me that my dad was the same just older

Because my trauma included the Healthcare field even though I worked in it, I was unable to really ever talk about it in a meaningful manner to any counselor. We will heal, if we're allowed to heal.

Its always about money, who has the damned bag can suck the life out of you

A severe case of grandiose narcissist is worse. That's the Voldemort. Psychopaths lie but they can be easily overpowered by just not believing anything they say. Some psychopaths are mainly logical. The severe cases of grandiose narcissist is more evil and more sadistic.

Fun Fact: The psychologist narrating this is a psychopath. Oh, the irony!

75% of this video was talking about the symptoms rather than the cure smh

Re-traumatization is the worst thing that can happen to a survivor, and a most fearsome experience. It occurs when a traumatized person encounters a situation in his or her life that replicates the original trauma in a real and symbolic manner. A rape victim is menaced by a man at a club and is overwhelmed by the feelings of helplessness and terror that caused the original trauma. A survivor of medical malpractice is re-traumatized when a clinic refuses to refill anxiety meds because the doctor is gone for the weekend. A combat veteran is traumatized in a mortar attack and someone sets off a M-80 next to him. The reactions are completely involuntary and there is no way to ward off these random replications. The victim of re-traumatization is frequently ridiculed and misunderstood. This doctor is clueless, serious trauma lasts a lifetime and there is no cure, only ways to cope. The best help for the survivor is Jesus Christ, who was, and remains, a traumatized person who accepted trauma to show His love for afflicted persons by suffering injustice, torture, humiliation and death to be in solidarity with all traumatized persons. This doctor is a lightweight, and ignorant.

15 different foster homes. No father mother with mental illness back when they had insane asylums. Mom made me swear I would never sign the release forms so that the psychiatrist could administer electric shock. I was 11 years old when she asked me not to sign the papers I was the oldest son I was the father of the house at 12 war stories aren’t just from war war stories start as soon as you make memories if that’s your life, I have so many war stories complex PTSD is very real more than you know unless you lived it you really can’t speak on it most your people read it out of a book I like this guy he’s come the closest so far but you really can’t speak on it if you didn’t live it, and if you don’t know how to be honest and express your feelings, and tell your war stories I could go on and on I should’ve been a psychiatrist instead of a foster child just saying

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Very good video

My npd dad was also a massive cheapskate, he purposely sent me to inner city schools in metro Atlanta when he had a 6 figure job at NASA

I made the mistake of caretaking for my mom. She evicts me or calls police simply if I leave the house politely to avoid argument. When she looses control or whatever. Anyway I can’t anymore I’m 49 and treated like a child? Put down all day every day. So I’m leaving before I lose my mind.

Pillow case over there face and a big whack with a frying pan.

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Sorry For several years, I carried deep heavy painful feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for several years. Until I learned that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I have done to myself. And the intention to apologize is all. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my heavy guilt. And then I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry deep feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away the suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it is my free choice. And I use these two methods ways. By apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is already enough.

This oddly is something I woke up to after living with my npd parents until my 30s. So I had been dependent on them while on disability for years. Once I realized I had been depending on undependable people who actually were toxic for so long I decided to get as independent as I can. I just wish I had decided to detach from them at an earlier age, as now I’m shaking off the rust when I’d rather be taking complete care of myself.

I've literally lost every single one of my closest girl friends/breast cancer survivor sisters that we all were diagnosed with identical stories (MISdiagnosed at first for doctors who didn't test us or ignored us or refused to order mammogram/ultrasound or an MRI) in our early 20's!!! We met at a conference randomly and all became so empowered and decided we wanted to advocate and do whatever we could do to help make sure NO other person ever would have to go through what we did and get diagnosed so late in the staging of breast cancer. Losing them each, one by one, trying to help and be there for them and then their families at their funerals, doctors would check our bodies but shoo us out the door so for me, the mind was the difficult part on top of the rest ..... I have many friends I have met and instantly bonded with over the years now who are Military and they recognize and see right away that we all have this in common, and it is invisible to most. I miss my friends so much, and now have even punished myself tremendously and catastrophically. To me the term survivors guilt does Not adequately convey surfacely to others what this condition is actually like. I send so much love and light to anyone out there trying to face or run from this. And I know there are many of us sadly. Please know that you are not alone.

"It's a brain injury & there is a recovery period post trauma" ~ yes, nailed it 💯

Thank you so much for this video. It may have been posted 11 years ago, but it it was something I needed to hear today. I was able to get a prescription for it and look forward to getting sleep.