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Lewis Carol Rodriguez Sandra Harris Ronald

This ruined my life… my parents treated me like a dog because I was diagnosed with ODD by THEM not a doctor and when I did go to therapy they didn’t help at all they just made it worse by giving my parents advice that hurt me… they read a book about it and made me read it three times and always made sure to remind me that that was me… at one point my dads girlfriend said I was worth less than her dog… I was not viewed as a child it that house I was instead treated like a simple roach and wasn’t treated like how I should’ve been

This is just called being a human

I just found out that Kobe and i took the same ADHD meds😂

Can ppl with ODD get along with each other? Because I can’t get along with my other family members and distance helps me. I love them but, I don’t trust them. Why do we lie so much and are so difficult? Ugh and no friends 😮

An expert once said that the distinguishing characteristic between ADHD and ODD is friends…ADHD has several and people like being around them in general. ODD don’t have friends because they piss everyone off in every situation and struggle to even function as an adult.

Thanks

Caused by C-section birth,also causes Jaundice.

Diagnose a new disorder to cover for poor parenting. Just love your children, respect your spouse and be consistent with punishments. Along with interviewing teachers before exposing your child to harmful ideologies.

While disorders and a child’s emotions do matter, I think too many parents are concerned with giving their child what they didn’t have and spoiling them instead of actually preparing their child for the real world.

Apparently, I have ODD. I tend to be more argumentative and corrective, but I don't believe that I simply reject others thoughts and opinions. I do, however, hate when people just want to "let it go" and "move on" without anything close to a conclusion or reasonable compromise. The biggest reason is because every time I have attempted to "just let them be wrong," it always gets worse later down the line. It feels like my habit of arguing for my thoughts more than others is used as an excuse to dismiss any points I try to make. I will go over the logic in my head relentlessly, constantly paranoid that maybe I am wrong. When you're told that it's not important, or that whatever you're talking about doesn't really matter, you might start aggressively checking yourself too. It feels uncomfortable to think about people being unwilling to see my points as important simply because they seem inconsequential to them. Sorry for the long comment, it has Not been a great day.

I've been diagnosed with ODD since I was a child. Always thought it was bull, since all the information I read about was always about "how to deal" with us. Especially when adults would refuse to explain why I was wrong in arguments. I, a child, would do my best to put a logical, sound argument foward, and was usually just told to "let it go" or that "it wasn't really that important." Felt like a slap in face, still does. People still tell me to let things go, but if they really had empathy, I thought maybe they'd see that the things I argue about were important to me. Because I feel the need to correct/argue more often, that suddenly nullifies any effort I put into the conversation. Sorry for the word splatter, but I found this video while not doing so great after *another* argument.

The mother of all ODDs are the parents. ODD doesn't happen overnight. Train a child as early as 0.

This country (USA) has no support for children and people with this disorder. Parents and teachers receive no support, and when they're adults the police will not care. Then this country locks then up, thats how this country deals with this.

My son has odd

My son

Adults with this literally act like children. Its exhausting!

What an absolutely terrible video. What a way of pathologising a neurological difference. Also, please stop showing children as if they were the only autistic human beings; those children become adults (children do grow up if you hadn’t noticed). Stop the stereotype. It’s just sickening to hear the language deployed in this video, repeating words and phrases such as ‘suffering from’, ‘cure’, etc. Autism is NOT a disease, stop using the language of deficiency and start using the language of difference. Stop talking how we, autistic people, are the only ones who to make changes and adapt to whatever society has decided is ‘normal’. Btw, what I’m saying here is not at all about political correctness, or policing language; this is about using language that describes reality accurately. This video is sooooo unhelpful, just spreading fear about autism, shame on you!

Wow, the first 23 seconds of this video are a complete waste of time. Just tell be a bunch of stuff I already know, which should be evident by the fact that I clicked here. Know your audience; 25% into your video and you already lost me.

This is so true 😅

I've wondered about whether or not I have this. I'm not the type to be openly hostile to people, but anytime someone tells me to do something, or even implies that they EXPECT me to do a particular thing, I get an _overwhelming_ urge to do the opposite; even when it makes my life harder. It's not ever meant to be malicious; I just have a strong instinct towards subverting people's expectations of me. I loathe the idea of being 'predictable'; I don't even know why, I just do. I don't want anyone to make any _assumptions_ about what I'm thinking, what I'm going to do, etc. So I keep'em guessing. Not saying it's a good thing at all; Ive definitely missed out on a lot of opportunities to get ahead, establish friendships, and maybe even romantic relationships because I just refuse to do the things people want me to do.

Communication and getting help would be helpful but those with ODD will not do anything you want. Communication will not work because they will always try to argue, that's the nature of this disorder. I think you might want to refine these two points.

I know someone like this. This gave me some insight...thank you!

When I take my adhd meds foclan I get really scared of bugs and when the medicine wears off I ain’t scared of bugs so yea I’m scared every day because of my medicine

I was married to someone with symptoms or either narcissisism or ODD and some of these steps and advice are not safe. Especially if the person is escalating and refuses to listen to reason. I tried couples counseling and it went south fast. I tried empathy, he only got more defiant and argumentative.

Yes

Kinda true 😢

Very informative video

I think my 11yr old son has ODD he’s refused to go to school now

A family member has this. It’s hard for them and us both.

Superb explanation

Monkey see monkey do..... Doctor House

I have hyperactivity

Well, this obviously isn't a video done by an autistic person. Maybe it's not a disorder. Maybe it's a different personality type, and a different way of processing information and the brain works differently. This was NEVER an issue before modern times. The world is a bit insane now, and too fast and noise everywhere, and you have to know the social game to get a job. And everybody lies, it's socially acceptable now. Autistic people don't understand deception, so things don't go well for them in a society like ours. Autistic people have always been around, it was never an issue before modern times. And I don't know of any autistic person who thinks they need to be "cured".

i got diagnosed with this as a child. i call it, simply always knowing that the structure of society was bullshit

Actually before 1970 it WAS on the diagnostic criteria but they took it out of the DSM.

I was diagnosed when I was 8 was supposed to get help but never did, now 28 and only being re diagnosed last year I will have to suffer with it for the rest of my life. I have it due to childhood trauma.

I had ODD as a child and now as an adult my psychologist says he doesn't even recognize odd in adults and just calls it anti-social and doesn't prescribe medication for it like i think i might of used to get as a kid.

Cock and ball torture

6:44, nobody should respect the "teachers authority". Just saying, those fuck-heads are worth their weight in garbage.

My child has this and its horrfic

I didn't know being a lil asshole was a disorder

Can ODD be selective? For example, exhibited at home but not at school or out anywhere else ?

Excellent, comprehensive presentation of how to handle a very challenging child-parent relationship!

I can’t even focus on this video

If I wasn't highly suspicious of my wife's ODD, I'd say she simply hates me outright. The idea of seeking professional therapy is laughable, and would be catastrophic to the marriage.

jesus, assimilation much?

If a person has cancer, do we blame the doctor, or do we support, listen, ask questions and work together with the doctor for the solution or do we blame the doctor for his or her focused and skilled determination to help? This video would seem to say that the child is the victim of the doctor, that the unfortunate circumstances and defiant and assulting and damaging behavior is almost diserved and no responsibility is ever to be placed with the person providing it. Lets start addressing the situation, calling the behaviors what they are, and start helping not hurting the doctor. - a survivor of childhood trauma.

Wow, great job blaming the teacher!!! Wait, isn't that what the student is doing? Wait, maybe the author of this video has ODD!!!

adhd was never real it was created by the government aka yt man who are they to tell us anything man leave America move back to ya home country america is evil and their doing experiments with us