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Thanks so much for the appreciation man! Really glad you enjoyed the scripting and the pacing, I'm currently working hard on them so it feels great to hear some positive feedback :)

Thanks for the feedback :)

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Appreciate the positive feedback, I won't disappoint 💪

As someone who's growing up, it's actually as fun as I thought it would be. The first stages are terrible and I suffered a lot during middle school and the first half of high school, but that's just because I got left behind. The moment I started doing things right and understanding more about life, I started having more and more fun. Today, my life is more fun than what it used to be when I were a child. It's not about when, it's about how. Grown ups can live life like an adventure too.

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Happy to have made your day :) Whether you apply what I say in my videos or not, what's important is that you have your life figured out and you do your best every day to make it the happiest and the most fullfilling you can! That said, I'll do my best to help - it's just my way of showing that I care

Don't even know what to reply, stuff like this just feels too awesome to hear I will not disappoint you, mark my words 🫡

@@Pablo.calabrese Bet I'll be waiting, you better hit it big

Nah, Italian.

@@Pablo.calabrese oh okay then your accent sounds good.

You're welcome, and thanks for the appreciation! Even better videos are coming, so stick around!

Glad to have helped you :) In the future there will be even better and more helpful videos, so make sure to stick around!

@@Pablo.calabrese sure

You're welcome, and thank you too of course 🗿 I hope your life's in check, and if you want it to get even better, stick around because I'm gonna make even more valuable videos in the future!

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Thanks for the support buddy! How's your life going?

Nah, it's not unnecessary talk, the entire message of the video is that there's no specific habit that's necessarily good or bad, it all depends on how you approach them. If you wanted a list of overrated habits, this just wasn't the right video for you.

Thanks man, I won't disappoint 🫡

Damn. Loved reading this, what a ride. First, thank you for opening up so much in a comment section, stories like this one can be difficult to tell but can really change lives if read by the right people. I insanely felt you when you said you had to adapt to school and let your summer self die because you couldn't keep up with the routines. That's exactly what happened to me. I got into self improvement in august and I was so determined that in a matter of days, my habit tracker was full of whatever you can think of, especially training stuff. And when school was about to start, I had become such a workaholic that I couldn't even sleep at night sometimes. And then boom, school. I could do nothing. It was like I had a factory reset. It's in times like these that you really have to adapt and evolve, modify your script or create an entirely new one. Following a script is ok as long as you have nothing you really want at the moment and are just overall lost, but when a factory reset moment hits and you have to start over, the experience with the previous scripts helps you create your own. It's like coming up with a workout plan. At the start you have to ask someone for it, but the more months you spend training, the more you understand what your muscles need to grow, and without even realizing, you end up changing the workout plan they gave you completely to fit your needs. It took me about 3 factory resets to develop my own way of improving, and it's not even finished. As for the 80/20 rule, I believe that, broadly speaking, anything you spend energy and a considerable amount of time on should have an end goal it's supposed to take you to. If you have side quests along with your main quest, it can be alright as long as you can manage it. But whatever the case, habits have to be aligned to a quest. It's not only about actually having a reason to do them, it's also because anay habit is 10x as powerful if you know what you want to get out of them. I read part of "the way of the superior man" and it was a fun hobby, but now, I don't remember anything of what I read because I would just absorb the content and that was it. Now I'm reading a book called "like, comment, share, buy" (yeah, it's about youtube) and since I have that 1000 subscribers goal I want to get out of it, I'm elaborating the content in my head so much more, and I'm learning much better. Again, thanks for the comment man. It was a great occasion to exchange some opinions. Keep on improving man. STAY HARD!

If you want to use videogames as a tool to make a living that's a whole different story. You're creating that real life success. You're doing that by playing videogames, but it's still a career. The people I'm telling to quit videogames forever are the guys, as I was, who play video games just "for fun", with no intention to make a career out of it, who have other dreams and ambitions for life, but can't get them and cope by playing 4 hours of Persona 5 a day. Those guys need to get that real life success, but can't because videogames are stopping them for the reasons I mentioned in the video. If you want to make a career out of gaming, by all means go ahead, I wish you the best luck. But never use games to cope.

@@Pablo.calabrese Even if it's not to make a living, videos games are fine as long as it's not, as you said, a way "to cope" or is done excessively/unhealthily. You can play videos games as a hobby healthily. You just need to play the right amount with the right mindset and shouldn't let it affect the rest of your life negatively. For example, you could sometimes play games to cool off from a burnout, or play games a controlled amount of time everyday to take needed breaks. Or sometimes, games can even be a way to connect with other people. To tell everyone to quit games entirely is a bit radical. It's fine to have a bit of digital fun as long as it isn't excessive or done unhealthily. Like all else, it's about finding the right balance.

Yeah, it really hits hard when you can't get yourself to do anything and feel like you're retarded because the only thing you do is playing Persona 5 for 4 hours a day 💀 Luckily, that was the month before I became so obsessed with my training that I literally forgot to turn on the PC for 20 days, and that's how I quit videogames. That sounds a bit odd, but it's what will work for you if you feel that kind of numbness too. I'm gonna make a video on that anytime soon, so subscribe and stay tuned!

@@Pablo.calabresewill do :)

same here

Videogames can be a trap or a tool depending on whether you are a consumer or a creator, much like social media. If you earn money from it, that's a different story. But if you do it as a "hobby", then definitely quit.

@@Pablo.calabrese No playing games as a hobby is not necessarily bad. It's when that's the only thing in your life that it becomes bad. Even if it doesn't become your career, games can be perfectly healthy as long as you balance it right.

The first thing is recognizing what your problem is. What are you struggling with the most?

I think it's because stuff like youtube channels, sports and stuff like that are just other games, but with different rules. As someone who's been a gamer for 10 years, at some point you become tired of videogames always being the same and having the same mechanics, so when you find out real life is actually different, has a lot more variety and can be played as well, you just can't resist the awe. The majority of people go back to videogames even after this realization tho, because they can't get past the tutorial, while the real mfs who love challenges stay in game.

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Thanks for the appreciation man. Is there anything in particular you think can be improved?

If you find a smoother transition and mix them up it would be superb, and maybe put more videos like you have at the start grabs attention. The talking is very nice and understandable.@@Pablo.calabrese

Thanks, will work on that!

Thanks man, I have a lot to improve but I'll get there

Thanks for showing appreciation man! I have way more to say about the stuff mentioned in this video (even if I have to improve the presentation a lot) and I will make other videos about them singularly, so stay tuned if you are interested. Wish your channel success as well!

@@Pablo.calabreseApreciate it You to man